deturla: I am in my late twenties and yes, sister is 30 and she is being abused, YES! Verbally, emotionally and to make it worse, PHYSICALLY.
That was not the way it started, really. We all knew him to be caring, sensitive and loving. But everything turned out terrible.
She is a beautiful and soulful person but obviously found herself in a bad marriage. He appears normal and respectable but truly he is just not IT!
To make matters worse, Bisi (my sister) never really told us anything until we noticed ourselves. Anytime they come to our house with their two kids, I noticed that my sister was always overdoing things, always trying to please the man. Laughing unnecessarily and making everything seem out of place. Like she was keeping up appearances.
We never thought anything was wrong because they seemed very happy together!
Not until I went to her place to help her drive her car to the mechanic workshop. I was surprised as to why she could not drive herself only to discover that she has been bruised in the face all over. On further interactions with her, she told me she was slapped by her husband!
I was shocked, slap will make someone's face look like McGregor's face when he was battered my MayWeather? I had to report to my parents and they took it up. Had a family meeting and resolved everything amicably or so we thought but the abuse never stopped.
I have told her repeatedly to leave his house, but the shame of leaving a man's house with two kids will not leave her be. My sister always try to make excuses for him, saying he is a good man but will we wait till she is beaten beyond fixing by the GUY?
This 5th time however, when she was pushed to the wall and she fell, I was fortunate to get into their house when this happened, and this time I am going to take up the issue myself. First of all to report to the nearest police station, but before I do that, I want to arrange with some boys in my area to give him the beating of his life.
Am I validated for this? I just want him to have a pound of his own flesh, and to know what it means to physically abuse a woman; MY SISTER.
Abdulazeez99: A Facebook user and well known slay-queen on the platform, Anulika Nahnah Obiefuna, has in a post she shared to an infamous Facebook group, hinted why married men cheat on their wives with beautiful girls like her.
Not shying to air her thoughts, Nahnah shared a raunchy selfie of herself to the group and gave hints to married women on how they can keep their men.
In Nahnah’s words, wives should “be their husband’s sluts”
JellyBean190: I love this kind of topic. A HIV diagnosis is not a death sentence with the current advances in the medical field. HIV is with us, and knowing about it will go a long way in reducing the stigma, which could be more damaging than the virus itself. STOP THE STIGMATISATION OF PLWHA TODAY!!!
A dozen monkeys have been found dead in a forest in India - with veterinary experts claiming they suffered simultaneous heart attacks after they were scared by a tiger.
Locals discovered the monkeys in a forest clearing and were initially baffled by the apparent mass death.
Suspecting the mammals had been poisoned, postmortems were carried out which reportedly revealed they all had heart attacks at the same time.
Vets in the Kotwali Mohammadi area of the northern Indian state of Uttar Pradesh carried out investigations.
Vet Dr Sanjeev Kumar said: 'It was confirmed in the post-mortem report that the monkeys died due to cardiac arrest.
The monkeys could have died due to tiger's roar as tigers often traverse that area.'
Forest department workers found the monkeys on Monday and an upsetting video shows them stuffing the bodies in polythene bags.
Villagers reported tigers are often in the area and were heard roaring at the time of the deaths.
The claim of a mass heart attack has been criticised by wildlife experts, however, who suggest the animals were more likely to have died from an infection.
Dr Brijendra Singh, a veterinarian, told the Times of India: 'Monkeys are a wild animal and they don't die in this manner. All the monkeys might have been suffering from some infection that claimed their lives.'
Amarabae: He looks so hot with a big cucumber! Her shape is tempting with a hot watermelon! The urge is stepping in and sexual feeling is building up in you! You want him or her inside of you, you want it sloppy and harder, you want a pounding,so that you can mourn,scream, and shed tears of joy, #I deeply understand, yes premarital Sex can be sweet and fun-filled! BUT have you thought about the negative impact premarital sex can have in your life? Lets start with STDs! Yes condom will be used but have you heard about condom break during the pounding? With many fake condoms in markets now,Do you know that if condom break happens,you are now exposed to STDs both curable and incurable? Dear sister, before you start sucking that his long hard pipe, have you heard about precums? Though the rate of infection happening through precum is low,yet the possibility can not be written off, mr headgiver, be careful,vaginal fluid can harbour microorganisms that can cause infection, some STD carriers are on revenge mission,looking for who to infect, why do you want to risk your future just for 10mins fun, why not wait till you are married?
- The spiritual negative side of premarital sex! Have you heard about spirit husband and wife? Oh yes, they are REAL! Many frusration,setback,limitation,hinderances etc that many unmarried folks are having came as a result of negative effect of sleeping around with multiple sex partners, looking at it from a spiritual angle, premaritial sex is a sin before God and Man! - What about the psychological trauma and stigmatisation you will go through if you contact an infection through premaritial sex, or how disappointed your family will be if they find out, I know that legally,if you are above 18yrs,you can have sex! But dont let that deceive you, - premarital sex is not worth the negative risk, infact masturbation is a bit less risky than premarital sex, thought both of them are bad though! - save your future! Be wise! Zip up till marriage! Thank you my sweethearts!
PapiNigga: Sheila and her husband of 25 years are set to renew their wedding vows in few weeks time, and the lovely couple are so grateful for the journey so far.
The mother of 3, took to her page to share beautiful 'then and now' photos as they mark the silver jubilee of their union.
She wrote: "As I'm counting down to my Wedding Vow Renewal, here's my pre-wedding photo in 1992 and pre-Anniversary photo in 2017. #KingsSheila1992" Happy anniversary!! Btw...the man looks like Wike
Coolbreeze8898: She's my baby Sister, just wish the Nigeria Army will release me to see my Lil sister before she's buried . Didn't know you will be this popular. It Shoulda been for something good. Adieu my Lil Sis Jenyo Ojo
Ganjababe: Dear All, please am asking this question on behalf of my younger sister. Does anyone know the cutoff Mark for Accounting? Thanks as you respond
My name is Martins-leye, Favour Ayomide, a 400 level biochemistry student of University of Ilorin and I travelled from Ilorin to Lagos yesterday Saturday 26th of August, 2017 with four bags. I took the blue BRT bus from Ojota to Ikorodu and I alighted at Majidun Ogolonto, only for me to realise I forgot one of my bags that contains majorly my Samsung laptop, My folder containing my Original waec result, My university results, My birth certificate, my School I. D card and some valid documents. A good Samaritan most likely picked it up and needs to call me. The bag is ash in color and the make is OMAYA. Thank you so much as you help a fellow Nigerian, You can reach me on 08145851194, 08066786398 God bless Nigeria and God bless you... Please rebroadcast and help me locate my bag and let's make Nigeria a better place, you don't know who can be of help!. Thank you
newsynews: Wife of the Vice President of Nigeria, Dolapo Osinbajo appears to be very religious.
Few weeks ago, she was at the Wailing Wall and Garden of Gethsemane in Israel.
This time around, she chills with Paul Adefarasin of house on the rock and Bishop T.D Jakes from America. Also in the picture his Paul Adefarasin’s wife, Ifeanyi.
Essentials1: So after promising myself that I will marry a virgin, I begin to wonder how it would be for our ladies... I have seen some girl who date at least five guys (and slept with all of them all in the name of love) before getting married... Although most of them are not still married. I have met ladies who slept with guys all in the name of school boyfriends, love and plays... The one that happens during NYSC is another issue.
Some ladies will rant that men should be virgins too, but remember that they are not the ones wearing the engagement ring...
So ladies! does keeping your virginity till marriage make you a better person?
Does zipping up till the right man puts a ring on it make you more committed and strong...
Please don't start saying that there are some girls who are virgins and once they were married and deflowered, they started sleeping around.. Just answer the question according to yourself.
Ama go straight to the point- Men should be virgins too!!!
nazanwannem: A Nigerian lady and Facebook user, Okibe Olivia who seem to have learnt a life's lesson through the hard way after her marriage to her Malayasia-based ex-husband crashed, has taken to the platform to advise ladies on dating men before choosing them as their life partners.
Olivia who shared photos from her introduction ceremony with a man she never dated, wrote;
"And this was my Introduction on the 7th of January 2017. Yes you read right, it was only my Introduction
(knocking on my head and fixing date) and nothing more .
It was a blast, fun but guess what? I was still a bitter woman down my heart , with all those smiles you saw me wearing on the face , I was still very weary and bitter because I knew I entered the wrong hand but I found out abit late. But to God be the glory , it ended in praise.
Experience is the best teacher .
My advice to girls is to please date him atleast for 2days or three days , a week preferably before you say yes to his marriage proposal .
I never dated him oooooo and I said yes !! Pity me but eventually , I learnt my bitter lesson. Case closed"