₦airaland Forum

Madam,
You clearly stated that your husband is a man with conscience, a good man, why are you bothered with peoples opinion of him if you personally don't have issues with his believes,
You see at times we Christians take the whole religious thing over the board,
HOW in Gods name did those relatives not think of taking the man to hospital rather resorted to praying while the man suffers there, why will your hubby not react by that silly exhibition of theirs, At times people go to their church with their brains at home,no common sense again. If you talk they go quoting "judge not my anointed" but the anointed will commit all atrocities hiding under umbrella of anointed.
My dear, you should be worried if your hubby doesn't have a soul,so far he does,don't go forcing your believes down His throat,
Always remember that saying "live and let's live" that is even what a true Christian should do,not hating a person simply because he/she doesn't agree with you or your idea.

He actually lives there,likewise couple other celebrities... Very cool estate too.

Hmmmm shit just got real, in this harsh economy, these boys mean business. God help us all.

Happy birthday Joe, may God grant your heart desires,remain blessed, do have a lovely day.

12inches1:
I'm not lazy mind you. Im just factual. Women dont want to share their finances with their husband. But they see nothing wrong in marrying a husband that pays all the bills. So it's not out of place if he expects are to perform her wifely roles of cooking for him. Women of this generation have a warped mentality as well. No matter how busy you are or how career driven you are, if your family is important to you, you must always put it first. Why is it that once woman become more successful than their husbands, 90 percent of the time, problems begin to show up. But the reverse is hardly the case. Which still goes back to what i've said initially that 95 percent of nigerian women cannot handle being more successful than their husband well. She cant boldly beat her chest that she cooks for him. She just left a paid maid in the house. Is that how marriage works?

Oga people get helps,cook and all, I don't get the problem here? If that is what will help the both party with the running of the home and they can afford it, I don't see why not, the problem is that we tend to create this imaginary one way process for marriage down here, what works for Mr A maynot work for B, stop seeing running a home in one ancient pattern, which guy shares his earnings 50/50 , it is just crazy and to think is to a guy that has already shown her not to trust him with her money, she steals her money as a manager and of course she wouldn't have done anything then cs he was her husband, there are many other ways to make marriage work, if you keep trying to force yours into the one you feel society will like not like it works for you both then trust me you will keep having issues.

This guy is a freaking clown, fasting ko dry fasting ni, this governor is annoying me ah swear.

Trust me what cocaine does to people, that was how one guy we know is a crack head was driving down just about Chevron roundabout he blocked one lady moving on her own for over taking him,he packed and came out of his vehicle to harrass the lady asking her if she knows who constructed the road, that why should she over take him that who is she and all that, the poor lady just looked at him felt sorry for his soul, reversed and left, people are crazy and is worse when they are on Highness.

lacreamieboie:
Abeg to shave your hair twice a week no be N400? No be N200per shave again? Abi my fellow nairalanders... How much una dey barb?

But sincerely, I believe Tiwa... The problem started when she sacked him! Simple...
Have u gone through Tiwa's IG page? The only pix of teebillz was that of him feeding their son like a nanny o!

Why wasn't he faithful with the 40% he gets... Why does he cheat? Why would u ignore ur bleeding wife Not even a call? All for a slut... Too bad! Why run into debts... Worst of all! And u expect her to be faithful and loyal?? Impossicant!

LaCreamie has finally spoken!

Shave hair in lekki for #400 ?you wish, show me where and I will shave my hair too, for her to complain about it just know that it cost enough for one to keep it in check.

12inches1:
The TJ guy is certainly an endtime. But Tiwa is also a lot to blame. We all know that 95 percent of Nigerian women cannot handle being richer or more successful than their husband. They all act the same way. Tiwa no dey cook for her husband. She is more interested in shows than family life or taking care of her husband.And her husband is more interested in forming big boy all over Lagos without job.if her husband was rich like dangote's son. Trust me it will be easy for them to be together. What is wrong with her and her husband sharing the proceeds of her talent 50-50. See where she found herself after listening to foolish friends. Where are all the friends now? They are busy laffing at her at her back. Nigerian women are really not ready to be emancipated. We will see more of this if that happen. For a Nigerian woman, your priority is first your husband, family then after your career.Tiwa youre not oyinbo. And I blame u for almost everything. You can't even say confidently you cook for ur husband. Men have to be careful abeg.

This kinda comment is the problem some create for themselves, 1st of all he married a celeb and he wouldn't say he doesn't know about their schedule and all, getting a cook is not a bad thing if the time to always cook isn't there, normal people get cook and other kinda help their money can afford them and they stay in peace and it works for them , why in the world should she share her money 50/50 with the guy just because he is the husband? What is wrong with men of this generation? And even if she wants to do that it will be from a guy that clearly lacks financial management, and when he is done wasting the 50% he comes for more. My dear if you go around with this kinda mentality I wonder what you will pass down to the younger generation, some people are just plain lazy, share her earnings 50/50 who does that? God help us all.

Mobile guest house toward 1004 kinda has that central system , looks like it works okay.

Really some central air conditioning system you say, so that when someone brings in them Zika /ebola virus or some nerve virus or so then everybody in the building dies yeah? Nah thank you I kinda don't buy into that. Pls everyone cannot need AC at the same time.

pls how and where can I get those icons for business card, like icon for location, message, Facebook, Instagram ,phone no etc . thank you

How can i save my work on coreldraw for printing. what is the difference between saving it as "jpg" and as CDR? Thank you.

the building is under construction, the unfortunate dead people are the site workers.

Sometimes when I read people opinion about some family matters I convince myself that it is just an online thing.
Really how can an adult disrespect a grown adult too and they are supposed to be couples. God help women really.

I am currently in my brothers house and not too long ago a distant relation called asking he accommodates his fiancee for a while because she got a job in town, my brother told him that I am the person occupying the room he would have giving her that except when he talks to me and I accept then no problem, This is my brother ooo and this is his house but he was able to recognize that my consent needed to be sought, and you people are arguing if someone's husband should notify or seek opinion of the wife over such matters when she will basically take care of the supposed visitor and all. Ekenekwaa mu unu.
when you tell or show people how less you think of your wife I just wonder what will be of such home. God help every good woman out there, God won't let such people see you at all. chai

sometimes when I read people opinion about some family matters I convince myself that it is just an online thing. really how can an adult disrespect a grown adult too and they are supposed to be couples. God help women really. I am currently in my brothers house and not too long ago a distant relation called asking he accommodates his fiancee for a while because she got a job in town, my brother told him that I am the person occupying the room he would have giving her that except when he talks to me and I accept then no problem, This is my brother ooo and this is his house but he was able to recognize that my consent needed to be sought, and you people are arguing if someone's husband should notify or seek opinion of the wife over such matters when she will basically take care of the supposed visitor and all. Ekenekwa mu unu. when you tell or show people how less you think of your wife I just wonder what will be of such home. God help every good woman out there, God won't let such people see you at all. chai

Traditionally in Igbo land you have to perform the proper marriage rites for their daughter and of course those things are negotiable depending on the girls family or community, you must pay her pride price else the kids are automatically her families,and if by mistake you feel you are smart to keep someone's daughter in your house and be breeding,keep praying nothing happens to her cos that pride price refused to pay while she was alive you must in death,and they will get more mean on you cos of the girls death. some culture are kept to keep young people responsible. in this case the man just have to keep pleading with them and at least pay bride price alone or wit little more stuff.

so he can't carry the child so that the umbrella can cover them both or better still wait somewhere for the rain to stop must they walk under the rain. common sense isn't common after all

B and C. A if he had a really sad or bad day and prolly needs TLC.

if I say I get the direction this country is heading I must be lying. how can one explain how citizens will work their asses off,pay their taxes and all yet we don't seem to see where the tax money is been used,when you go to hospital for treatment of course you pay,pay school fees,pay for electricity,ensure your community security,pay toll gate fees too and the small entrepreneurs pay their required bills too and now when you also put your hard earned money in the bank they collect #50 for every #1000,what in the world is wrong with these people. what do they want to turn the country into?? this is really crazy.

if I say I get the direction this country is heading I must be lying. how can one explain how citizens will work their asses off,pay their taxes and all yet we don't seem to see where the tax money is been used,when you go to hospital for treatment of course you pay,pay school fees,pay toll gate fees too and the small entrepreneurs pay their required bills too and now when you also put your hard earned money in the bank they collect #50 for every #1000,what in the world is wrong with these people. what do they want to turn the country into?? this is really crazy.

knuckle01:
Apple pie

pls can you share your recipe and method of preparation please. thank you.

she really desevered it,so proud of her. we really had wonderful teachers back then,teachers like Mrs Ifezulike, Mrs Ogugua, all our teachers really groomed up into the ladies we are today. PRO UNITATE.

I weep for the comments am reading here, that you decided to accept that kinda intimacy doesn't mean it is right, see the way they are talking like they never found the idea of it awkward, like y'all were born with penis in your mouth WTH. Give Op a break please,she is not comfortable with it, it is the duty of the husband to figure out how to relax her on that.

I think the plenty church thingy made you have some kinda expectation from him, it prevented you people from having even discussions on the intimacy matter that is why u people didn't at least agree if it will go down well with both of you or not. And d way everyone is shouting about it like B.J is a must do thing,not everyone like that so is a matter of choice and how much u want to compromise. The thought of it is awkward but I believe it will ease with time. My dear try and reach him half way since you are married to him,maybe he should show you how by doing the B.J to u first maybe it will be able to change your mind. Good luck

I don't seem to understand why a person created by God with brain intact will start going to church and totally lose their sense of reasoning, common sense isn't common after all. Your pastor or Rev is not God they are human they can make mistakes,even mislead you without knowing. So be careful WHO you are going to church to seek GOD or your PASTOR.

chiefdoctor:
Read your own post:



Did anyone tell you he is forming celebrity?
Guy was probably at the gym putting in work and someone decided to take some pics and he obliged them.
Yet your tone is foul, like a very typical minded african when other people besides themselves are being hailed or is being complimented.

Bitterness.

YOUR comment was uncalled for. I have not insulted you yet.

This will be my last responds to you, nobody is bothered about what he is doing or how he makes his money bt must all d crap be a topic for discussion. And for your information no one is hating on him too& who even cares, your responds to people rather than show your so called NON AFRICAN dat u are dreaming to be, it instead shows how immature you are, they have said their opinion about the pics without hauling insults on people but what have u done so far? Insult people just to get cheap attention,it seems push ups are d only thing you do cos really u seem particularly bothered about how people perceive the hunk guy. Please grow up.

chiefdoctor:
Some Nigerians are daft man. Snobbery wey no get sense.
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shammahyaro, gofyourself, Olivialight....Low self-esteem people all of una.

The guy dey do ein thing una dey here dey form judge ... as if his purpose in life is to meet your pointless and stupid expectations
Meanwhile 90% of you are currently jobless and absolutely unimpressive in every way shape or form...and no ladies, fake hair and fake everything is not what makes you impressive...with your fawked up life.

Go and hussle and make money and stop looking for how to pull down other people with negative stupid words.
Out of the mouth flows the abundance of the heart. If it's only negative you have to say about someone you don't even know, then you deeply hate yourself and think hating others will hide the fact that your life is a steaming pile of shit.

Work on yourselves!

Young man, you don't v to mention me in your comment to shine, who is debating if he is doing good @his Job or not, the point is how irrelevant topics are brought up for discussion. So I wonder where u saw me judging the fellow.and u had to show your "HIGH SELF ESTEEM"#sarcasm btw by abusing people you don't know so dat u appear like you have a point. You can comment your mind bt don't mention me in d kiddy talk. Thanks.

Oh wahala, this one too is forming celebrity...there is nothing that won't be a topic for discussion. waiting for them to show us Davido's gate man and his chef inclusive. #misplaced priority.

Mother in law trying to bath with you whenever you are taking your bath and you prolly let it be without telling d son or so,And people are saying to inspect you,WHAT in the world is she inspecting? How do people invade someone else's privacy and call it inspection. and you haven't carried your bag back to your fathers house till they are ready to complete the necessary rites, only God knows maybe by the time you marry the son she will come and watch you people make love to be sure you guys are doing the right things. CRAZY WORLD. Is not like they are rushing anywhere and people are in all the bathrooms but for crying out loud,if it were to be d guys younger sis or so and on a condition that people are all the bathrooms and everyone is rushing for an event or so,it could v been a different thing. There is nothing people won't deal with cos of marriage.

Most times it looks like a lot of people carry a lot of HATE in them or they are just simply bitter. The fact that each and everytime someone mentions this beautiful lady's success or something which is very obvious some bitter fellow will leave the point at hand and start asking for her marital status, dat line is getting old I guess u people should figure out something else since u are so bent on her matter...that is why some people don't progress because you can't just be genuinely happy for some other person's success without looking for a fault or so.. "And where is it written in the bible that each human must get married". Is it your concern she isn't married, is marriage now a measure of one's success. Marriage isn't everyone forte by the way. The plenty where is your husband thing is becoming a cliché, BITTER PEOPLE... #PEACE