₦airaland Forum

kennygee:
Dear woman, I can imagine the emotional and psychological pain you're going thru, however, making a decision right now might not be wise cause it will be an emotional one.

Just keep praying for him and ask God for strength to overcome. It is only when there's a crack in the wall that a lizard can enter.

Start working out the little way you can, start dressing really nice, so nice you'll get compliments outside. It will improve your self esteem, wear make up, smell nice. It might not stop him from cheating but it will build up your self esteem and confidence so much that you'll see you're not the problem.

You'll be in a better place to decide if you want to stay with him or leave.

All the best.

I hope you have a job or a business sha?

Cause the best security a woman can have is her own money.

I disagree with this.
And what will be the prayer point?
That God should help him have control over his 3rd leg, or that God should send the mistress away in his life?
She married a foolish man, who is not just a cheat but arrogant.
He needs to be sober first and seek his wife forgiveness.
What nonsense.

AngelaZ:
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I met my husband Sept, 1991. I was very young then, I had always told my mum and every one around that I was going to get married at 18, I thought i was kidding but the power of the tongue caught up with me. I had heard alot of good about Matthew (My husband) but thought he was much older and could not think of marrying me, but he did and to my shock he said " ... I am NOT looking for a girlfriend, I want a wife and I see those qualities in you". I had a good laugh first, cos it looked like he was acting a movie. That was in the hospital where my mum was lying ill.

Oct 10th was his birthday, so he took us out to dinner at Durbar Hotel in Kaduna. There he proposed in front of everyone, I was highly touched, moved by his thoughtfulness and romantic taste (He was my kind of dream man, tall, dark, intelligent and handsome gentle military man), I could not help but say Yes! He swept me off my feet, gave a big hug and kissed me passionately. He was irresistable.

... And because he was looking for a wife, we started planning our wedding, by December 22nd, we were married, there was no opposition, he had good records and was lovable. He loved me I MUST CONFESS. He helped with every thing, he had a horrible voice but loved singing to me, his favourite song goes like this

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My Darlin, how are you doin
My darlin come near min
you are the only one which God has given you to min
My darlin come and kissy your husband.

My honey moon was at my Village, a place called wedi mission (meaning missionaries quaters). It was a beautiful quite peaceful area over looking the river Gongola. If every egg were to be ferterlized, I would have had 1000000000000000000000000000000
kids then, but God said No until six months later. I started getting worried about not concieving immediately but he was there all the way, he had so much faith and kept saying, "It is you I love and want to live the rest of my life with, children are secondary, besides they will come at God's time". Thank God she come on the 7th of May 1993. We wanted a boy but SHE CAME and he named her Eremo (God's Will).

Second week of Sept 1993, he was involved in a fatal motor accident, was hospitalized at the National Hospital Gwagwalada. Four days later (Will brief you another day) I lost my love, my life on the 15th of Sept. He was a perfect Husband and a wonderful father (Wished he lived longer to love her more and the other unborn kids), I had no regrets falling in love with him, if I had to live ten more lives, I will marry him over and over again. I do not think I would have been unfaithful and if he had not gone to be with the Lord, We would have lived forever... LOVE COVERS MULTITUDE OF SINS and LOVE VANISES WHEN GROWTH STOPS. The mind makes or breaks a home. He told me, there was a day in US he walked into a restaurant to have lunch, while he was sitting alone, he noticed a couple in their (About Eighties) walking in, the old man opened the door for his old wife to come in, pulled a chair for her to sit down, went over to sit, then picked up her hand and kissed, while he was ordering for the food, he was busy robbing her hand.That moved him to get married and promised to love his wife till old age (A promise he broke). but man proposes and God ...

It is well with you and Eremo. The Lord himself will comfort you

egopersonified:
Erhhh, OK so didn't last forever as expected, lost him to death exactly five months after this post. But I have never had the 'why me' thoughts, life is so full of so many sweet surprises. I had actually forgotten about the rings part Of this story, all I can say is, God has never failed.

Oh noooooo.
So sorry about your loss. May God comfort you.

Congrats
@Princeade86. You can not even allow somebody to occupy first position for the first time

optm:
what's d nature of problem ? u can send me a pm

Dont know how to PM, though I've tried that but dont know if you got it.
Olusammy278@gmail.com

Optm. I also stay in the North. How can I reach you.
Want to discuss a test result with you privately?

600k for hall is not friendly o. Please cut that coat properly

Please add me

Halleumini:
my account details
0072808222
Diamond Bank
Ayodamola Olaosebikan Emmanuel

Why don't you open your own thread, rather than derailing another person thread? It is an act of disrespect and you need to stop.

Princedapace:
Nice one Google. Funny how Google helped us to do what we should have done..

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Thank you so much for your help.

Done

geo4c:
There is joy in football especially wen retiring.. U will b congratulated by different clubs dat u played for and trophies u won with dem

Buh i can't really say dat about messi

My hand no dey oo

Planning to start soon

Krucifax:
You kids should really take it easy with telling of lies online.
Less than 1% of Nigerians in the whole of Nigeria earn over N800K. Unless of course you meant N800K per annum/year.

If what you are saying is true it means you are earning more than all the following people using their official salaries only.
1.All directors of ministries
2.All permanent secretaries of all ministries.
3. All ministers of all ministries.
4. All senators of the Senate.
5 . All house of Representatives members.
6. All police commissioners.
7. All generals.
8. The vice president of Nigeria.
9. Finally if you are earning N808k per month salary as you'd have us believe it means you are officially earning more than Muhammadu Buhari the president of Nigeria whose official salary is N291K per month and N3.5 Million per annum.

Are you saying People dont earn up to that amount in Nigeria or those who earn it are not on Nairaland.

Bros, wake up

Your location?

Raydos:
Lol, I guess you just started watching football , Barça has faced man city 4 times and they won 3 times even with guardiola, so what's your point??

Bros, can you compare Mancity under PEP 2/3 years ago to this present Mancity. Let's not argue over this. I just pray they meet each other, so we can enjoy some good football

Raydos:
Man city will be a tough but easy win for Barça,,


We still fear Liverpool than Man city

With Guadiola still in charge of Man city, I disagree. He knows Barca in and out, and will easily trash them. Man city is not smiling bro. I feel it is their fellow EPL teams (Tottenham or Liverpool) that can knock then out

R2bees:
I want Tottenham to knock Man city out.. So that Barca would knock them out.. Fuxking English teams.. #COYG

Is your Barca afraid of playing Man city?

Please confess

Good work

Thanks

1NXBR32E86Z672006
Help please

That girl should not be impregnated while staying with you. It is a failing on your part. Do whatever you have to do now.

Kirk Franklin -
I know that I can make it
I know that I can stand
No matter what may come my way
My life is in your hand.

Please involve your spiritual leaders to join you in prayer. Your mum is up to something.
May God be with you

X2ksed:
I really do not like responding to messages like this but let me correct your thinking . You do not have to engage in fraud to make money bro. What have I really achieved that is so special that cannot be achieved with hard work ? Bro tell me.

Look man, I have worked my ass out bro . When I dropped out of school , my dad warned me about a particular cousin and their family and tried to pain them in a bad light . That cousin linked me up with someone in Lagos and I hussled in a ship day and night bro. Cold hammer my life . My whole life be life refrigerator and I was asthmatic and I had to do it. Ventolin inhaler and aminophylline injection go school for my body . You do not sit in the comfort of your home and pass judgement , people go throw a lot . My plan was to work in the ship for one year and make enough to go back to school as the pay was good. I worked with Arabs bro and during my one year, things started changing . A new set of Arabs where brought in and they where homo sexuals . Bros , I had to run as I was almost raped and they threatened to throw in the middle of the sea . The hussle to Bleep ass was real. I left there and went to work with Indians bro. They where better off but don’t pay much as they complain of government and no
Money but I had to manage. Some Nigerian guys had to present their ass to the Arabs to remain onboard. I worked with the Indians and I was able to save some cash bro . Whenever I am off, I had friend who sells wrist watches and necklaces and I told him the Indians I work with love wristwatches . I introduced him and he made his first supply which was about 370k . The Indians later discovered the watches where fake and I was used as the sacrificial lamb . I lost the job . I tried looking for a better job on board but I couldn’t get any . I then met a guy who was into oil theft for naval officers . He introduced me and asked me to start work in two weeks . I later got a news from his brother that he died and was killed by propeller . The little I gathered I wanted to cross into Europe throw Morocco and desert movement and I was about making the move when my pastor called and asked me to stop every movement that he had a vision and saw me dead. I then met a friend I knew in school and he told me about Georgia and that Georgia is a good country . I told him I had some money and wanted to do business . He convinced me to go to Georgia and buy clothes and sell and he also said he can link me up to Ankara turkey . I started that business bro and I was almost duped but I held my ground bro . Na Beijing person never enter buy goods. Bros , men dey wey hussle legit . The only problem I have is family , they do not see my effort to help . I work my ass out just to help but they fucking don’t care .

You have not answered his question, rather, you covered everything up with the story of your failed hustles and businesses. If your money is legitimate, may continue to bless and increase you. If you are I to fraud, just to provide for your family, you need to stop. It is not your responsibility to carry the family burden on your shoulder, at this stage. Face your studies and make yourself proud.

We know their type - social media wife. She was probably chatting on phone and was absent minded.

raptex:
Jesus Christ said, "call no one your father upon the earth" yet people call this man "daddy" and he encourages them to. It's so obvious that these people don't read their bibles, they just rely on whatever their "daddy" says. Little wonder they are easily swindled and can easily be controlled by these men.

Including your biological father?