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Filashade:
So true my sister. I just pray to God that my 3 brothers will not fall under the same category as most of this men that are misbehaving in society.

Even my own dad that I looked up to since I was born, I never knew he could turn out to be like them, yes he doesnt beat my mum still the things he has done as a man and is still doing just coz he is wealthy, ahhhhh God I forgive him but I can never look at my dad the same again. Because of him, I dont want anything to do with men, I just want kids, I sincerely don't a man. I find it so hard to trust men, like if they told me good morning I would go outside to double check it is actually morning.

Yes there are good relationships our there but those ones are rare to find and sometimes we have to be careful about those ones we see as good or perfect relationships as in fact they really are worse, trust me, I have a friend who did everything for her man and whenever you see these two together you would really envy them from afar and this girl anywhere she goes, she turns head as in this girl was what you call an African Goddess and this girl is so pretty as in she is gorgeous(no homo) and she would tell us all the different positions she gives her men and even when they are both in public they would literally start kissing and rubbing each other in different places that if you didn't know they were married you would think she is a prostitute and everything and she even goes to the gym, and this girl is slim but curvy. This girl has several businesses (way before she even met her husband and she is is a very strong Black woman as in, she is smart) and her husband is also a wealthy man too. She takes good care of herself and her home and this girl can coook and they have a son together and when we found out her husband sleeps with different women left right and centre, that day did it for me. If you see how this girl looks now, I really cry each time, as in she is no longer the same and she literally moved out of their home to her duplex with her son and this girl is one of my good friend. Before I used to have hope, not anymore.

I have lost faith in humanity.

Seriously God help us all.

ya..God will really help us all.

SmartchoicesNG:
Terrible.... Looks Photoshopped though

Abi? i thought so too.

SeyiKings:
Hmm! What a loving and an understanding wife. This is what I call maturity. God, I need a wife like this.

why wont you like a wife like that so that when you poo, she will be there to clear the mess up..but if na she do am now..she will see fire..yeye Nigerian men.

Filashade:
Some naija men here saying she is a hoe for getting a divorce and she will be jumping from one man to another.

Wooow look at the world we are in.

Every time they always blame the woman, they don't even know what she has been through but obviously Women are the evil ones abi? Men are so innocent.

Sometimes I wish women wouldn't need men especially to make babies etc coz I tire for them.

Only real men would listen and take note not judge every woman or generalize.

Seriously all i see now with marriage is hell. Even watching my own parents, its a disgrace and people are really miserable in it. I will just adopt kids.

Mtchhhhewwwwwwwwwwww!!

Exactly as you have written..its a mans world after all. sometimes i feel adoption is the way to go for matured single women without children or those that are too scared to get married..at least nobody will come and shame you for not even having any kids.This option sometimes crosses my mind whenever i see the various marital issues in Nigeria; how women are made to endure all form of inhuman treatment in in the name of marriages and they are expected to be silence and persevere through it all. Then when they leave, they will be called all kind of negative names.so many of them have lost their lives to violence from their husbands some have died of high blood pressure from their cheating and irresponsible husbands.Some marriages are good though but i believe many Nigerians are pretending about having a perfect marriage when its actually a terrible one. This woman is the only one that know why her divorce is worth celebrating..she is the one that wears the shoe and no body should judge.

ThatCEO:
I admit, I had my fair share of rough experience. Any reasonable guy must never vouch for how a girl would behave, expect anything.

ya..human beings generally, both male and female are dynamic and full of surprises.It applies both ways. while you have trouble trusting ladies other ladies are having the problem trusting guys..it vise versa

Aboks:
the guy na spartacus

ThatCEO:
She's doing all this to impress her husband, but she is probably fkking another dk right now. Believe a girl at your own peril, she's acting this movie cos dude's not loaded.

you must have had a very bad date with TRUST..hmmmm!!

SweetBoyFriend:
How much is the highest you've given her ??

Abeg shift..

36xtr36r:
https://www.nairaland.com/2854834/how-suddenly-started-loving-igbos
Dennixe001 post:

THE MYTHS:

As a boy growing up on the street of Port
Harcourt, I was told so many horrible things
about Igbos:I was told that Igbos were planning to push Rivers people to Abia State for the people of Abia to inhabit Rivers State because of our resources.

I was told that Igbo people enslaved and ruled
over my people in Bori the traditional
headquarters of Ogoni Kingdom.

I was told that Odumegwu Ojukwu, Onyeka
Onwenu and other prominent Igbos brazenly
rejoiced over the execution of my uncle Ken Saro Wiwa because of the role he played during the Civil War.
I was told that it is better to be slaves to Hausas than to be brothers to Igbos because, Igbos are worse than Hausas.

THE EFFECTS:

These things made me to terribly detest Igbos
beyond what you can imagine, I was always
skeptical, cynical and suspicious while dealing
with Igbos. It also affected my friendship with
Igbo guys, I was always careful not to be a victim, no matter how they value the friendship, as long as they are Igbos, they were bad eggs to me.

It also severely affected my relationship with Igbo girls, 70% of the girls I have seen are Igbos girls but I have never treated any of my Igbo girlfriends fairly because, I programmed my mind not to be interested in anything beyond the fun
attached to the chemistry of boys and girls stuff while dealing with an Igbo girl, I didn’t want to make the mistake of dating an Igbo girl to the extent of marrying her.

THE DISCOVERY:

I was posted to Akwa Ibom State for my national
youth service in November 2013, there I made so
many Igbo friends, almost 60% of Akwa Ibom
corps members are from Igbo extraction, mainly from IMSU, FUTO, ABSU, UMUDIKE, ESUT and IMT.

There I saw how determined a typical Igbo youth is, there I saw the natural tendency for economic success in a typical Igbo guy, there I saw the reason why Igbos are entrepreneurs allover the globe, there I saw that God specially gave them the metaphysical eyes to see money in things and
where you don’t even think of smelling money, there I saw that even though the Igbos have had severe political travails and marginalization, they will forever remain the economic salt of Nigeria.

While we were serving, those of us who are Port Harcourt breed UNIPORT/RSUST corps members were always complaining that Akwa Ibom is beautiful but not groovy like Port Harcourt, we were always complaining that the town is dry with no night life like Port Harcourt. But our friends from the Igbo extraction were seeing things
differently, they saw Akwa Ibom as a beautiful
virgin land highly in need of economic
exploration, they saw huge business
opportunities in where we saw boredom.

We were complaining of the insufficient N19,800 ‘alawi’ (allowance) while they were seeing it as
potential small scale business capital. We used our alawi to club in one night because, we didn’t see it as good enough to help us, while our Igbo friends inject it into their small scale businesses.

We were always going to Tropicana to see movies while our Igbo friends are busy going to Lagos to bring wears and jewelries for us to buy. We were always calling home for money but our Igbo friends were sending money home instead.

At the end of my service year, I said I was going back to Port Harcourt because I believed Uyo was too dry for me to hustle, but my Igbo friends stayed back because they saw Uyo as a land lacking business and as such, it’s good for them to
make money through the introduction of
different businesses.

THE REVERSAL:

I came back to Port Harcourt then pondered on my experience with these Igbo brains, I then realised why people hate them, I felt bad
seriously for wrongly hating them all these while, I decided to love them because, they have the kind of zeal I’d love to emulate.


THE CONVICTION:

When I was fully convinced that the Igbos are not only my role models but my blood was when they went against all odds to make Goodluck Jonathan
their own, they loved him even more than some us from the South South, they gave him their full support at the poll not minding the consequences. Ever since, I couldn’t stop loving Igbos but to love them even more.

THE RECOMMENDATION:

Igbos drive the economy of every towns and cities in Nigeria, nobody can change that, so instead of hating them for doing business in your place, I’d advise you compete with them even if you know you can’t beat them because, it is your land that is benefiting economically and otherwise with such
healthy competition, it is a win win situation.

IN CONCLUSION:

Igbos are subject of hate in this country,
apparently due to wrong perception, but I
personally think Igbos are cool like any other
tribe, and bad like any other tribe too. Though my main problem with them is that, they never admit their flaws no matter how glaring but they are always quick to lampoon the slightest folly of other tribes.

If you want to be successful economically, think like Igbos!
—–By Dennis, Rivers State.

Nice one Dennis.

SweetBoyFriend:
What have you done for your mother ??

at least I know i used to send her allowance monthly back then..assisted in celebrating her birthday and other few requirement that she might need before she passed on..our parent should be taken good care off no matter what.

SweetBoyFriend:


His mother works for him and he pays her salaries

Tell me one thing you have successfully achieved in your life, I'm waiting

Are you kidding me with that achievement? that guy is one ungrateful lot to allow his mum to be working for him..nor be ee age dey give thier mama allowance? shocked

How come Pine garden only the same pictures of a partial construction on going on .the same pix used by other agent too.how come there are no other construction going on there ?but just this one which happens to be the same pictures use by others.are you saying that is the only partial structure standing in the whole property?

BestySam:
They should leave jare. Stingy network.

They are very generous oo! MTN is more of the stingy network to me.

malware:
Guy Yorubas are cowards and hypocrites, it is an established fact that they wear two faces. I once lived in Lagos and times without numbers I saw your people laying flat on the ground begging after picking a fight with a powerful. Yoy guys are COWARDS.

Yorubas are not coward; Kudos to the Yoruba people for standing up to the Hausa Fulani's..now to the Igbo's, how many time una stand up to this guys on several occasion when they went about their killing spree even in your own back yard?..alot of your kinsmen have been maimed and killed even in your own state but nothing happened..no legislation was even put in place to stop this menance..but i know sey one Yoruba state have been able to pass a law to stop their atrocities...the only thing you guys know how to do is to fast and pray for God to send a messiah from heaven to deliver you all..so who is the coward between the two tribes now?.I am not Yoruba , Hausa nor Igbo But this time i say kudos to the Yoruba's for telling this Hausa/Fulani blood suckers that no ethnic group have monopoly of violence. Now they are angry now but their men have are killing at will every time while they keep mute.So stop calling the Yorubas..coward

nice

killer Airline..i avoid it like the plague..not only because of the crash but the way the victims were treated

SamuelSNR:
Don't sell it now. It will end up a waste of good money, if you do. Buy more units at 0.80 or below to average down equal to its current price. You are advised to average down before a dividend is declared.

Reasons
1. Fidelity Bank's Q3 result is OK.
2. Fidelity Bank is undervalued, and from Q3 result calculation, its real worth is more than N4.
3. Fidelity Bank has been paying uninterrupted dividends for more than nine years, and this year won't be an exception. You might earn fine money especially if your units are huge.
4. There is possibility the price might hit N1 and above days after a dividend is declared for the 2016 accounting year. At this stage, you can decide whether to sell or hold. This is a speculative suggestion, please. You're advised to use your discretion to make your decision.

thank you

BullBearMkt:
I am not competent to talk about fundamental becos, I don't know it. Since you said you bought at 1.00, I assume you had the stock since August last (minimum) and looking for long term investment. My own long term implies minimum of 5 years. In that case, I will advise not to sell any of your Fidelity stocks. Even if the price never get to 1.00 in the next 5 yrs, with dividend you can recoup part of your money. The company have paid 16kobo last year as dividend & 18kobo 2 years ago. At worst let say a dividend of 15kobo for the next 5 years... That will be 75kobo on each share.

Let me know if you need further clarifications

no questions. Thank you.

BullBearMkt:
Firstly, erase from your brain that "my money is in a secured bank with good fundamentals..". While you are trying to make money from the stock, everyone else is also jostling to grab your money & make sure you loose. Companies may have good fundamentals & their stock prices continue to dip down.

Everything depends on your strategy. Are you investing for long term or short/medium term. If long term, yes, you might be able to recoup your money through dividend & price growth over time. For short term, it's better you cut your lose very fast before you regret.

Personally, I will reduce my exposure on Fidelity, but as soon as it breaks below 0.79, then I sell all my holdings...

long term investment.

Guys, i still have shares with Fidelity which i bought at 1.00 naira ..but right now its about 81kg . Should I sell and count my loses or I should still a bit with the hope that it will bounce back again? i just want to know if my money is in a secured bank with good fundamentals..

Divay22:
No sister I'll never do that.....just don't take it to heart

lol..ok ooo!

Hmmm! this is just to bash your own women folk and nothing more. Na wa for you oo! you have now provided an opportunity for some jobless and frustrated Nairaland guys something to masturbate over to make them feel good.

RealityShot:
am speaking with the topic..
dont know about ladies spending a lot.

hai..i wish ladies follow that one to one..
Naija ladies all have plenty "spare tyres".

That is stereotyping oga.

RealityShot:
u girls with all that spending..
una still they CHEAT!

one girls four guys is the minimum abi?

which spending?..do you guys spend before..these days na Nigerian women dey spend for una..abeg leave story oga..no..one man one woman..

ZirdoRoray:
Its very true but our women are not appreciating us instead they call us cheats and liars. Go to other African countries and even the Whites, their men hardly spend on their women. I'm talking from experience.

ya..because u guys know you cannot cheat on your foreign wives without repercussion...but with Nigerian women's it's a free for all.

I think sey as South Africa hate Nigeria well well..na their na go be list on the list..why dem not include Nigeria na..African banning other African countries becos they are well off today..no one know tomorrow.

jidewin:
This is a big lesson for you ungrateful Nigerians who went about bad mouthing Hon. Abike Dabiri.
She sounded the alarm and warning not to proceed to US for now, even despite a valid US Visa, but you castigated her as "ordinary Special Assistant , a nobody".

Between Abike and Onyeama, who would you listen to now as a reliable authority on diasporan issues?

Hope you've learned your lessons.

My brother..she really said this and alot of Nigerians were lambasting her that she should resign for misleading people.Now they have to learn their lesson the hard way.Experience they say is the best teacher.

Men please appreciate your wives that have had children without complications ooo! just imagine what women go through just to have your children..losing thier lives in the process.Meanwhile some men will be lambasting their wives just few month after child-birth to go and loose weight..infact na God go judge such men..RIP beautiful lady.

drakeli:
Go to Europe and see how syrian refugees full their streets dey begi begi. That has made Europe to be tougher against migrants now. Europe no be Europe of yesterday again o.

Oga is not that bad..they are in refugee camps..i was there last year december.