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yemre:I don't think we can take advantage of it I do a bit of research and are in STEM education and there's parts of my brain that works when I'm looking up stuff, that when I used to rely on ChatGPT to give answers, never worked. Because in reading up one thing, I would divert to another topic and my knowledge base would expand. I also happen to know bits and pieces about the most expensive education the global elite are giving their kids and they're avoiding their own products like the plague: no TV screens, no AI, even the subjects and topics they do will shock most Nigerians. They encourage their kids to think creatively and problem solve and learn mental skills AI can't touch and maintain brain plasticity. These folks pay premium ($70,000 for primary school alone per year) to avoid what they're shovelling down our throats. They avoid smart fridges that have screens, they won't be using the latest phones because they know they built ways to bypass their own security protocols (but sold that to you). If you asked Bill Gates to buy a Tesla cyber truck, he will laugh you out of his garage. |
yemre:I will disagree with some of your point and brain54's points, too (Good morning, btw) Firstly, Commercial Airplanes can literally fly themselves. Everything has been done for them in the cockpit excepts checks with ATC towers, infact almost every plane mishap nowadays is due to Pilot Error rather than mechanical failures. But we need pilots still. Telemedicine has moved further ahead in China and USA. It's not doing so well in the USA, a dental student in a rural clinic just died. China seems to be doing AI better. Thirdly, Machine Learning is great (even Lego is now pushing Machine Learning ahead of Engineering and Robotics, at kids). Chatbots are crap (Claude, ChatGPT etc). Why? In education purposes, they're slowly eroding human ability to reason and logic properly. Teachers and professors are now seeing serious degradation in students' ability to memorize and learn and keep any new information. Human beings are losing brain plasticity very quickly. Medically, that's really bad (lots of diseases coming up pretty quickly, your elderly parents were healthier than us). Let me put it this way: your reliance on AI to do basic things doesn't free you up to do complex things because we evolved by doing basic things and made it complex. AI is devolving us. To understand how bad human devolution may end up, there was a weird Sci-Fi show called "Raised By Wolves". Also, books like Aldous Huxley "Brave New World", where everyone is assigned roles from birth. We will also need population control since "hey, we don't need so many humans, AI will do most of it!". Guess which race will be on the chopping block first, due to the fact that politicians globally and even the billionaires with AI companies keep saying openly "some cultures don't contribute much, ya know". I mean, just look at how once anti-inmigration sentiment has been pushed for the last decade quietly on social media and has exploded to the point people don't care if migrant boats full of people who look like you and I get shot and drowned at sea. Turkeys and Chickens shouldn't vote for Christmas. We are being forced AI done our throats whether we want it or not (I was writing a personal email and AI kept asking if I needed help to draft it or "let's fine tune it", nope no need, this needs to feel human). Ask yourself why? |
MsFaith:Pele Please hang in there What do you like doing for fun? |
One looks at Africa, its people and leaders and then compare them to Asia, Oceania, Europe and the Americas... |
This procedure is so dangerous, they suffer from side effects of over stimulation to their ovaries, the clinic harvests as much as possible, these girls have to pay their agent and even the friend that took them to the clinic and at the end of the day, they're left with N150,000 or less or and severe stomach and chest pains and taking antibiotics in the hopes that nothing else goes wrong. And they'll still spend out of that money to treat themselves because all the fertility clinics will give them is antibiotics and Panadol. And the predatory friend and agent will be encouraging them to come and do another round. I've had to talk a lady out of going for a 2nd roundo |
O Love800:Geologically, Lagos is a swamp, Ogun state has granite, the SE has clay-like soil which absorbs water and is prone to erosion without vegetation and the North is mostly arid. Roads built in Kano are cheaper, will require less maintenance and will last longer than roads built in Lagos. Same with buildings: Lagos house walls will be absorbing sea water causing it to erode and weather much faster than Kano. So an experienced Artisan can get away with constructing a 3 bedroom residential one-story building in Kano. If he tries that in Lagos, the house may literally sink depending on where he's building (Festac and Lekki are swampier than Ikeja. OPIC estate just outside Lagos sank completely, buildings are partially submerged). Civil Engineers are trained to request for soil assessment and design the appropriate foundation for the soil and building usage. They work with Building Contractors (who are tradesmen) and those ones will understand what is required of them. Even the way they lay cement abroad uses machinery that spreads the concrete evenly to cure without cracks (we do it manually here in Nigeria and only for high-rise buildings do we have those machines and they're operated by the Lebanese and Chinese building contractors). There's a clear distinction in job roles. But in Naija, one man can do 3 jobs. |
Love800:Soil property and geology which affects the type of foundation the building will require. If you want me to explain more, you can go "please share more" 🙂 |
Love800:A bricklayer abroad is a tradesman, he went through a licensed apprenticeship (comprising of classes at a school with exam, may take up to 3 years and learn masonry, stonework and brick work). They even have a Union in Nigeria, apparently. Same with Plumbing and Electrical work. Even Truck Driving is a special license. But what we call "bricklayer" in Nigeria is some unskilled artisan who doesn't know what they're doing and produces the kind of shoddy work we normally see. |
GloriousGbola:This one is our "Undercutting, Penny-wise, Pound-foolish, Manage-Am-Like-Dat" culture that we need to stamp out. Pay for excellence and peace of mind. It won't be cheap but you won't suffer. I learned it the hard way, several times. I tell people: an experienced Artisan can build a small residential house in Ogun state or Kano state for you. But if you try yourself in Lagos, the SE or Rivers you go hear wiun. |
One last thing: The Nigerians that will japa to get work as Tradesmen, especially in Construction and Supply Chains and then come back to Nigeria, will make 💵💰 Why? Because everyone is building gated estates and flats and communities, in Lagos and the South (I don't know about the Middle Belt and the North). They require interconnected plumbing and wiring and maintenance. We don't have good facility management skills here (1004, I'm looking at ya😑). Speedaf is struggling with their Nigerian logistics partners, someone can step into the gap with them. Even running warehousing, take the skills from Amazon and bring am here. Something big is coming up with Ethopian Airlines and Chinese companies (they have warehouses here, more will come). See work that is plentiful and can be skilled to other African countries even. Don't let foreigners come here and take those jobs too whilst you're hustling in their country collecting insult and begging for passport. Abeg mods, take this topic to the frontpage, our youth need to see what we're discussing here |
GloriousGbola:This is true. I've experienced it working on site in Nigeria. However, foreigners saw the gap for skilled tradesmen companies and stepped in. A lot of Lebanese and Chinese guys running construction in Nigeria are actually tradesmen (why you hear Nigerians complaining that their Asian bosses don't even have degrees). The Civil Engineering and Architecture companies do their designs and calculations and the clients hand it over to these guys. There was even a British guy doing construction work in Abuja for all your politicians. He was finishing all their interiors (he used to be very vocal on X). There's a market for skilled tradesmen in Nigeria. Instead of asking Engineers to fill in the gap, let's go get those jobs back from the foreigners who have taken over When my uncles came to visit here, they went to inspect their friend's house construction. One uncle took a spirit level and started showing the Nigerian artisans how their work wasn't straight and they were all looking at him. That lack of excellence made him want to open a Technical school here (he has over 40 years of construction experience). The same thing happens in other industries: I see Indians getting hired for basic jobs because Nigerians don't have those skills and they're not university degrees (Hospitality, Management, Supermarket management, Supply Chain etc). We Nigerians are leaving jobs on the table chasing bigger dreams that may not materialize. |
Dikastan:He's absolutely right. In the US, an Electrical Engineer has many career opportunities from Oil&Gas to Aeronautics to Power to Medical Sciences and more. It is one of the most versatile Engineering degrees. What concerns him with a Technical Electrician's work, which is a tradesman certificate and not a university degree? Mind you, Technical Electricians in the US are decently paid (unlike in Nigeria where it is 3 steps above baseline poverty), you'll be able to afford a home and the basics of life reasonably. Example: my Bro and SiL paid a handyman $50/hour to come and drill 4 holes in their wall and hang up a Murphy bed (we had assembled almost all of it ourselves, 2 of us are Engineers). Now, if an Engineer knows a Technician's job, it's because the Engineer is into DIY (which is common in the USA, not in Nigeria). OP, it's only in Nigeria that a Civil Engineer is correcting bricklaying work. That's a Tradesman's job and he will own a Construction firm and hire bricklayers to do it. And he will make plenty of money (my relatives have their own firms so I know this). It's because Nigeria is not a real place, with no real jobs, that we expect Engineers to do Tradesman's work. |
Somehow Femi Hamzat and Sanwoolu, whose mothers were Lagosians but father's from elsewhere, are more Lagosian than Gbadebo Rhodes-Vivour, whose father is Lagosian, Grandfather was a prominent Lagosian but his mother is Igbo and Jimi Agbaje, who was completely Lagosian was also Igbo via association. I wonder what APC will use to fight Funsho Doherty. Anyhoo, it's nice to see that the cane that was used on other wives is now being used on the current wife. |
IbnB:They'll be so petty and destructive. I pray that someone very high up from the Presidency steps in as her unofficial sponsor and makes it clear (quietly) to every Nigerian official that anyone who sabotages her at any international event where she represents Nigeria will come home to find EFCC waiting to search their accounts. This would be a cheap win for Tinubu if Seyi Tinubu personally steps in for her and every other athlete. |
OP, Your sister isn't safe in the state she's living in. That place is familiar ground to her husband, he knows how to find her. If she's a nurse, then there's some luck. Let her get her certificate and apply to some jobs in another state, Edo or Delta for example. None of you should tell anyone, not even a friend where she is. Leave the kids with your parents for now, until she gets back on her feet. There should be no talk of shared custody for the next full year (because a man who paid N5k to bring back his victim will kidnap his children to force her back to his house). Don't bother asking him for money for upkeep for the kids until that full year has passed. He won't pay or he will demand to take his kids back (not out of love for them, but a need to control your sister). With all the evidence you've gathered, you'd be better off going to your State Govt (police will only do their job once there's someone with clout or public opinion on the matter). A Commissioner or even the Governor's wife will have enough power to protect your sister. However, they may crazily decide to attempt to reconcile them (if the man is convincing enough). Whatever is wrong with that man, your sister's love and his children's love cannot fix it. He has to face his demons himself and only God can help him. Right now, he's losing that battle so let your sister and the kids be protected. |
God1000:I really wish I was still on X, because when this man was first elected and I said he was closer to the Antichrist than the saviour of the USA, American and Nigerian evangelicals were screaming abuse at anyone. They've been reaaaalll quiet since he started this tenure. |
dettolgel:Because of this comment, I just randomly shouted at my kids "Wo, I'm not your friend o! "Now they're confused, because they weren't misbehaving ![]() I agree with some points. I think some of the strict parents of the past were borderline abusive (I know Pastors' kids who have said their parents were awful because that kind of position on society tends to attract megalomaniacs). But I also feel my generation has gotten it wrong, in that we are trying to make up for the strictness of the previous generation and have gone too far in the opposite direction and are lax parents. We're too busy trying to "protect and love" our little darlings, that we've spoilt them. |
GloriousGbola:I saw this prayer recently: May we not leave battles for our kids to fight. I'm trying to do this for my children: please learn from my mistakes and from your father's mistakes. I'm constantly worried if we've screwed them up because of our foolishness |
GloriousGbola:When you talk to foreigners about dating Nigerian women, you'll be ashamed. They'll be quoting Bible passages, posting loving families and milking these men dry. The men will be so confused, because they aren't perfect themselves but they're not coming from a materialistic society. Same with Nigerian men when you come to Nigeria to work with them as a foreigner: you'll be dazed at the sheer amount of fraud, adultery and deceit. Someone said during her Ghana posting in the military, the Ghanaian officers were so uncomfortable with the Nigerian ones, because how can you be bringing side chics to the office to meet Oga and then carry all of them the next day to have lunch with your wife and kids, shamelessly? But everyone in these situations all came from "good homes". Na wetin your papa and mama teach you, you dey practice. My eldest sister used to harp on us: do not repeat the mistakes of our parents. |
I kind of have to disagree with this statement: Sometimes you can be good parents, yet have bad kids who don't listen to you I actually think it's rare in real life. And if it happens, then you're looking at Serial killer or mass murderer or someone who was born with a different wired brain. Everyone I know has so far, followed the path that their parents set out for them. They are products of their upbringing to the core, down to their mistakes. Myself included. I've never seen truly good parents bring out a truly bad child. I have, however, seen parents who think they're good, bring out kids who are "na wa". I'm seeing someone who was a very "good" child misbehave as a man in his 30s. His parents will swear they were good parents but I know for a fact he was spoiled and grew up with a prideful, cruel father and a deceitful mother (they're pillars of society publicly). Now everyone is shocked at his actions. Almost every "runz" babe I know, their parents profile pic is wearing CWO/CMO uniform beaming with pride at the camera. Yes, they absolutely think they're excellent parents. But your child won't have a passion for selfishness, covetiousness and greed if they didn't learn it from home. Almost everyone I know working in govt inflating contracts, their parents' churches celebrated them as "pillars of society" Even us as parents, we're very lax but we all think we're "good" parents. Myself included. Nigeria is truly not a country of morals. We're a country of eye-service. We need to stop acting shocked that the next generation is tired of pretending and is showing it openly. |
So the woman who helped him destroy his first marriage ended up hurting his son and damaging his second marriage. The wages of sexual immorality ehhh. Always comes with compounding interest. I'm sure he would have been warned during his Pastoral days to avoid that married woman, he would have laughed it off or said confidently that he knew what he was doing. Now see The first thing the devil always makes you believe is that you're in charge of whatever sinful situation you've just walked into. |
laivwire:Please how do I go about this? Thanks |
GloriousGbola:Please take him for a full check annually or 6 monthly if he plays even semi-professionally. This issue is not rare amongst footballers. |
nairalanda1:I sincerely hate, HATE (and I rarely use that word) when Nigerians Schools start covering up with lies. Chrisland did it when their student was electrocuted and died: they immediately said she came sick from home. Autopsy and eyewitness reports proved the truth and the school threw one of their staff and the vendor who was using the power lines in that area, under the bus. I will never recommend Chrisland to any parent. Food poisoning doesn't kill this fast or cause shortness of breath. Not unless he ingested an actual poison. This is supposed to be a school based on religious morals: at least put out a statement commiserating with the parents and consoling the students and say "we are investigating, will conduct an autopsy and until further notice, no other Information will be shared. Kindly desist from further hurting his grieving family with speculation". Do photo Op of Oyedepo meeting with his parents, shut down the gist. In some days it will pass and you can then deal with several people who should have made sure the clinic has all they need and there was a medical team on standby. If the family wish to sue for negligence, go to court. Louisville Secondary school was sued for wrongful death, they're just settling the matter 10 years later. |
nairalanda1:Football is great but if your father or Uncle died of a Cardiac Arrest and you had childhood asthma, don't do any sport that will push your heart too much. Most people don't realize how important medical history is. Some secondary schools are now demanding full medical checkup (x-ray, urine analysis etc) to avoid stories that touch. I feel and pray for this young man's family. When we were in this situation, it was horrific. We still grieve, years later. I don't know why Nigerian schools can't do medical teams for sports days. That should be a given by now, with all the annual stories of one calamity after another. A person complains of shortness of breathe whilst playing a sport, tell them to immediately sit down, have a Dr check his pulse and listen to his chest. No wasting of time. Give him some space and air whilst those checks are done. Head to a clinic once the checks are done, even if good or bad. We also need to start teaching Emergency Medicine to everyone. |
nairalanda1:Just to add to this: Football is a heavily Cardiovascular sport. A lot of young players actually collapse like this annually. Not just in Nigeria too, my friend is a Cardiovascular Surgeon and he can you enough stories about footballers. They are very well monitored medically, even from Academy levels. The reason you don't hear so much about this is because there are usually equipment available to revive them on the field (yes, a Defibrillator is one of them and the patient must be rushed to a Emergency Trauma Centre ASAP even after his heart has been shocked back into a normal rthymn). So less Oxygen was needed until his heart was pumping normally. Then you give Oxygen to supplement his breathing whilst monitoring his pulse. There should have been a fully-equipped medical team on the field. It's why I don't let my kids play football and I don't encourage school sports, I know our family medical history and the fact that most sporting events have no medical team on standby, so not taking chance. Like I told someone a month ago, the safest place to hold a Sporting event is at a Sports Stadium and ask to pay for their in-house medical team and inspect all their equipment. Schools should not be hosting sporting events in Nigeria until they get it right. I've lost a friend this way |
Gerrard59:Like someone else said, firstly it's a class thing and then a cultural issue. Asian kids commit crimes too but at much lower rates and the ones who immigrate to Wester countries tend to have a lot of sense. They have very strong international communities, unlike African immigrants. Asians also have a stronger sense of shame and stronger fear of losing face. |
Nigerian British kids cosplaying American thug life, they started from Brixton and Peckham and now it has spread and London has become like New York from the '90s. This is why most of them are sending their kids back home to Nigeria for secondary school now. They left Nigeria for a better life and opportunities for their kids and now they're heading back in terror for their kids' safety. Worse, some of the kids are the actual gang members and bringing that behaviour here to upper middle class secondary schools. |
brain54:People don't vote in those elections, if they run it the same day as Presidential he would have lost since. Surulere is somewhat enjoying under Gbajiamila (it's relatively clean, no okadas and safer than Lekki. Almost everywhere is safer than Lekki expressway 😑). Desmond Elliot's tenures have really been poor and everyone disliked him when he opened one shanty and called it "public toilet" years ago. APC should field someone or let PDP, ADC or LP field one correct person and kick him out |
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