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give money to the church for what?the people voted for you not the church rather than help the people who voted for you,you are making one pastor rich,my advice use your brain

LosC:
https://dailypost.ng/2020/03/01/bayelsa-gov-diri-donates-n40m-supreme-court-awarded-him-to-church-warns-apc/

guy your woman no get problem,you get African queen.that is how a properly trained African woman is ment to behave,it is you who has been westernized,but if it is worrying you,please i am begging you with God,give me.based on what you have said,i wouldnt even waste my time dating,i go marry am tomorrow morning,pay you three times the bride price and wedding cost right away.

Bervelyhillz:
This is a bit long but please bear with me.

I’ve been married to my amazingly beautiful wife for 3 years. The problem is she is very shy around me but at the same time seems to try to secretly please me constantly. It leaves me feeling guilty and I’m not sure of what to do next.

Backstory:

I met her through my mom. My MIL and my mom are childhood friends who grew up together. I never met her at the time since I lived in the US while She was in Nigeria. When I was 20 I saw her in a family friend’s wedding album. I was floored and my eyes were watering. She was the most attractive girl I had ever seen.

I figured out her FB and messaged her since I didn't want to initiate contact through our moms. I struck up a conversation. I soon realized that my mom fed info about me to my MIL which in turn got fed to her , so she already knew a fair bit about me. We chatted constantly, met up on my vacation to Nigeria , and hung out together every day. I learn she is still a virgin saving herself for marriage. I was still one too, mostly because A) I was chubby most of my life and didn't dare go near girls in that state and B) when I did start getting more fit, I already fell in love with her and it felt wrong dating at the same time. So yeah we had that in common.

Skipping ahead again to three years ago when I graduated from grad school. We met up a handful of times more, and things were awesome. She was outgoing with me, giggling over almost nothing and general silliness. We never did anything sexual, but we were intimate enough and honestly seeing her gave me goosebumps, so it wasn't on my mind. On one visit to Nigeria, she brought up the topic of marriage in a joking manner, something about how our mom's always planned it. I jokingly replied that I would be happy to marry her, then she got all serious and asked if I was for real. I said yes and, well, the rest is history.

The problem:

We had our wedding in Nigeria and, after the papers got sorted, she moved to the US to live with me. The first few months were interesting. She knows English pretty well and she majored in her native language, so she looked for translation jobs. She never got replies from employers, so I was getting a little suspicious, especially since she was an honors student at a pretty high ranking international university. I found out that she wasn't actually sending the applications out. I bring this up gently with her, and she starts tearing a bit telling me she wants to be a stay at home wife and that she didn't think I would be proud of her if she didn't get a real job. She says she was going to tell me soon, which I believe because I found a recent word document in our computer that was basically a draft of the speech she was going to give me. I don't mind her staying at home as I bring in enough money for the both of us and she is a really good cook.

This prompted me to sit down with her and figure out where our communication is breaking down. After a bunch of long discussions about this, I felt we were on the same page. She was still growing more timid around me and didn't start conversations easily with me, but she always seemed happy. I stepped up my displays of affection, showering her with compliments, hugs, and kisses. I would often catch her staring at me (usually while we ate), to which she would get red-faced and look away quickly. It’s been 3 years now and still does the smiling stare, except now she doesn’t look away when I catch her. The conversation starting has gotten a bit better, but nowhere near pre-marriage. While she always had this quiet peacefulness to her, I noticed she is intentionally not doing things that might get me worked up. Examples being: discussing politics (we have the same views), discussing my work problems, discussing anything philosophical in nature, etc. She will respond if I start, but she doesn’t take the initiative like before. I really miss that.

The sex is...interesting? As I said before, I didn't have any prior experience so I can't judge her, but she just lays on the bed and doesn’t move until I suggest to. She never initiates but never declines. I try to make it about her more often than not, but if I’m looking for feedback she quietly agrees with whatever I'm doing. After we finish, she lays in the same position looking at me, sometimes smiling, sometimes teary-eyed. I take it she likes it, but then again she never likes to talk about sex. From what I gather in our pre-marriage talks, she doesn't have any negative views on it and it wasn't shunned by her parents, it's just that she is shy. She doesn't like me seeing her naked even though I do (ha ha...:/ ). She is…shy very well proportioned…and I tell her how it is so she shouldn’t feel self-conscious. But she still covers up outside of sex.

Another issue is fitness: I work out constantly at home or in the park (calisthenics) and I invite her to join but she politely declines. She runs almost every morning so I thought maybe she gets enough from that. But I have noticed that my weight backpack at home is sometimes at a different weight than when I left it. I have also noticed She has made some serious butt/thigh gains which really stand out on her thin frame. When I ask if she is doing anything differently, she says “maybe it’s the running” then changes the subject. I don’t understand why she is working out in secret. This is most likely my fault though since I used to try and tease her into working out with me; I made a silly remark about how squatting/ham-raises will put more meat on her legs.

Conclusion:

Guys and gals, I need help. I love my wife dearly. She is funnier than any comedian, more disciplined than any soldier, and more beautiful than any celebrity. But she is making me feel weird by trying to secretly improve herself based on my preferences. Her shyness around me is awkward and I want a return to the easy-going pre-marriage . Has anyone had experience with this?

Also: she has made many friends here and still is in contact with a few back home. However she doesn't seem excited to be around them as much as when I offer to go out with her. She's always offers to cancel plans to stay in with me or go for a walk. I thought she might be depressed, but she is super cheerful even when she doesn't know I'm around.

first of all,even if we agree they are nigerians,let us look at the law,enetering somebodies property without permission is tresspassing,that is a jailable offence,then breaking and entering is another jailable offence,then distruction to property is another jailable offence then evasion of privacy is another jailable offence,then carrying a weapon into his property that is a capital offence,meaning life in jail,then treat to life,then damage to property again for his phone,then disturbing the peace.after all this civil charges comes for loss of revenue.if we are to go by the law those boys would never see the light of day,in any civilized country and some of those cows would be sold to compensate the farmer for his crops and his phone.i hope you understand now.

Notasaints:
What is wrong? Are they not Nigerians.

we do not suspect,we know they are the chief sponsor

tsephanyah:
We suspect that the French are sponsoring Boko Haram

make no mistake,i happen to like the fulanis alot,because they have some kind of sound reasoning,however i dislike the religious part of them.i think religion is the problem of Nigeria and Africa as a hole both christianity and islam which by the way are one and the same ,need to live Africa for it to progress.and usman spread headed the injecting of religion into the north onbehalf of the arabs.

Blue3k2:
They're childish busy bodies. The supposed victims hardly write about it funny enough. The fact is they're culturally similar and have similar political voting patterns.


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Lol you clowns are mentally challenged. Instead watching video you're attacking strawmen arguments nobody made. Who claimed he hausa weirdo?

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Blue3k2:
https://www.dw.com/en/usman-dan-fodio-founder-of-the-sokoto-caliphate/a-51995841

Front page: Lalasticlala

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this idoit should be sent to jail,nobody no idiot mislead by a fake god has the right to distroy another persons religious place.

new2naija:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r99OmoIkjZw

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i would whatsup you

ayosunkanmi:
Okay, looking forward to hear from you..
I would be glad if you could drop your number for me as well..

good,i would call you and visit next month.

ayosunkanmi:
08060762732

number

ayosunkanmi:
4.2million

how did this trash make it to front page,i hope they didnt kill any blacks over this purse.

WriterNig:
The mystery of the contents of a purse found in the space between a locker and a wall in an Ohio middle school have been revealed.

The red purse covered in dust was discovered last year by Chas Pyle, a custodian at North Canton Middle School, when he was reattaching the trim between the lockers and the wall. The school district in North Canton, Ohio, posted images of the long-lost purse, trying to find its owner.

After some investigating the school learned it had belonged to former student Patti Rumfola, who lost it in 1957. Rumfola passed away in 2013, but the school was able to connect with her children.

"Patti's five children were together for a family gathering in the fall where they opened the purse to have a glimpse into their mother's life as a teenager at Hoover High School," said the school's post on Facebook.

The contents of the woman's clutch were revealed on social media by the school Thursday, offering a glimpse into the life of an American teenager in the 50's. Like many women, Rumfola carried around a comb and some makeup, including powder and lipstick in the shade of "pastel pink."

The purse also contained her membership cards to the local public library, YMCA and American Junior Red Cross. There also were several black-and-white photos of what appears to be family and friends as well as a dog, one dating back to 1950.

"Patti. Good luck to a swell girl and friend. Bonnie" is inscribed on one of the photos.

She even had a high school football schedule from 1956, showing where she had marked off some the games.

Rumfola's purse also held 26 cents, which became special mementos for her children.

"Each of her five children kept one of the wheat pennies as a token of remembrance of their mom," said the school district.

Rumfola graduated from the school district in 1960 and went on to have a career as a teacher. She married John G. Michele in 1980 and he preceded her in death, according to her obituary.

https://edition.cnn.com/2020/02/16/us/purse-found-ohio-school-wall-trnd/index.html

70% is how much?

ayosunkanmi:
Pay minimum amount of 1.5million and spread blance within 2years.
pay up to 70% payment and move in

what is the payment terms

ayosunkanmi:
Alright check the attachment

i say this without fear or favour Nigerian Ministry of foriegn Affairs need total over haul,most of the career diplomate do not know there job,they think they are been paid to work for forgien governments and most of the time you can not blame them,the missions are grossly underfunded and worst of all without clear directives.it is only Nigerian missions that there citizens run to and are turned back,yes i would agree that some of the Nigerians abroad behave like crazy people but you signed for the job,it would shock you to know that almost all the time politically Appointed Ambassadors do far far better than career diplomate,second the minister needs to seat up or resign,madam abike should be made the Minister of forgien affairs.

Ctorch:
http://saharareporters.com/2020/02/17/nigerian-ambassador-norway-facilitating-unjust-deportation-nigerians-without-any-offence?fbclid=IwAR2zsgk9GvtMfySQ43MqVT4OwQHX9cvZyDXybkxWKyEZTNcYWJexVTpTUkc

let me see the picture of the two bedroom.

ayosunkanmi:
interested?

now this is a smart man,,,,checkmate

Afro3:
Actress Tonto Dikeh Sued 500million For Defamation As General Image Damages To Ex- Husband

The High Court of the Federal Capital Territory in the Abuja Judicial Division has invited popular Nollywood Celebrity, Actress Tonto Dikeh, to appear in court over a suit filed by Her Ex-Husband, Dr. Olakunle Oladunni Churchill and his organization, Big Church Foundation, a subsidiary of Big Church Groups. The case against Actress Tonto in the high court with Suit No CU/5801/19 issued a 14days notification with strict implications on the Actress's failure to appear before the court, as the court may proceed therein with judgment even in the absence of the Defendant(Tonto Dikeh).

According to the case filed by the 1st and 2nd Claimant(Dr. Churchill and Big Church Foundation respectively), ex husband of the defendant, it maintained claims that the series of malicious and fallacious allegations, assertions and accusations through media campaigns and publications by Tonto Dikeh and her charity organization was defamatory, baseless and sponsored to tarnish and damage the image and political ambition of the claimant, as he might have told her his intentions to run for House of Representative in his constituency.

The suit identified several declarations with substantial proofs ascertaining illegalities in the action and approaches adopted by the Claimant's Ex-Wife. The claims includes the declaration that the Defendant's Interview and/on series of false allegations on domestic violence, infidelity, false allegations of fraud, sexual disease, money ritual, homosexuality/bisexuality, and mockery of the 7000Persons empowerment project by Big Church Foundation, describing the humanitarian intervention as fake.

According to the suit, Tonto Dikeh's interviews were aired, published and sponsored via broadcast channels, online media platforms, YouTube handles, notable print publications and even on her large 4million followers page on Instagram, with a view to impugn the character, standings in life and goodwill of her Ex-husband, Olakunle Churchill. The claim also requires the sum of 500million naira as general damages from Actress Tonto Dikeh(the defendant), for the libelous, slanderous and false allegations published against the Claimants.

In one of her defamatory assertions Tonto noted the Father of her Ex-Husband was a Gardener, but sources have revealed that her claims was just a mere fabrication, as the father of her Ex-Husband was instead a high leveled personality, recognized and engaged with several international leaders, with gainful impacts in areas of humanitarian impacts and diplomatic connections.

The defendant's action in appearance would be to propose and provide reliable evidence to sustain the accusations, insults, defamation, slander and allegations supported, published and promoted on several mass media networks and platforms, including television, YouTube channels, social media handles and the online media channels.

Tonto Dikeh has also been compelled by the suit file against her to publish or cause to be published an apology to her Ex-Husband, and a retraction of the publications on her Instagram pages, YouTube Channel, 3major Nigeria Newspapers and their online sites, as well as a file affidavit of compliance of same within 14days of the delivery of judgment. Also an order of perpetual injunction may also be issued restraining the defendant, privies, agents etc from publishing or cause to be published any further defamatory words against the claimant. She would also have to refrain from any form of blackmail or extortion of her ex-husband in the name of upkeep and education for their son. However, she has continued to refuse the father access to the child, even when the court had earlier granted him access to his son.

The claim also demanded a sum of 10million naira as cost of the action of defendant. Actress Tonto Dikeh may be facing so much challenges especially as a result of her involvement in lots of activities that may be presently hunting her peace and rest of mind. She is yet enmeshed with the legal implications of her actions during the Dubai Concert where she was allegedly found with substance of hard drug and was arrested by the police and now she has to face another high court suit to defend some of her unverified assertions and claims on mass media channels.

http://ytainment.com/actress-tonto-dikeh-sued-500million-naira-for-defamation-to-ex-husband-dr-olakunle-as-general-image-damages/

if this story is true,then you are a mugu,your wife gave you the best gift any man can ask for and you are complaining,enjoy your party,if you are still angry please give me your wife and her friends number,i go marry them first thing tomorrow morning,with all gladness

Overlordship:
Hello all, I got married to my wife 9 months ago and it has been a wonderful experience all through until her friend showed up two months ago. That was actually the first time I was meeting her as she wasn’t around for our wedding as she was doing her masters programme in South Africa. I knew she and my wife were closed as she was always talking about her best friend while we were courting.

She showed up at our house and I thought she came to visit and catch up with old times with my wife so I gladly welcome her. Later in the night, my wife told me she will be staying with us for sometimes while she gets a job. I was upset because we never discussed it before and I made my feeling known. Nevertheless, I had to give in since she said the friend also accommodated her in her room back at school for a session. So, I accepted her living with us and I felt it was only for a short time. We gave her the visitor’s room.

The first trouble started when I noticed her night gown barely covered her bum and sometimes were transparent with her boobs showing whenever she comes to the sitting room. I expressed my reservations about it to my wife and she dismissed it playfully that it was nothing and that what were my eyes wandering there for, so I let it go. Sometimes, she will enter her bedroom without knocking saying she wants to gist with her friend. And I will just stay on my side of the bed playing with my phone while the both talked. I noticed my wife doesn’t care, but I don’t want any issue with her so I accepted it with the hope her friend will soon leave the house.

I must admit that the friend was a bit useful in the house. My wife closes late than I, and her friend stays home when she’s not job hunting, so sometimes she would have cooked before we arrived. Though, I complained about this also, but wifey believe it was trivial. Her friend was intelligent and as times goes on, we talked on a wide range of topic while waiting for wife to come back from home so I stopped complaining about her to my wife.

It became so normal about her dressing that I accepted it like that. There was a day she came to our room to gist with my wife and playfully, my wife hit me with a pillow and before you know it, the three of us were throwing pillows about and playing like kids. They were both jumping on me and incidentally, I had a hard on as we were playin. I noticed her friend was slightly brushing her hand on me. I had to quickly stop and stylishly use the pillow to cover myself until I came down. I was really uncomfortable with the whole situation, but I didn’t complain to my wife again since I know what she will say. What I just keep asking my wife is when her friend was leaving.

The incident that happened two weeks really changed things. My wife took one week leave and decided to visit her parents outside the state we reside. I wasn’t okay with it leaving her friend alone with me, but she said I will just do fine. I tried to come home late for the first three days so I can completely avoid her, until the fourth day when she came into my room. I didn’t want to be rude by asking her to leave, so I asked her to sit down on the sofa in the bedroom. We first spoke about football, politics and other things. I can’t really say what happened, but in a lapse of judgement, we started kissing and then I had sex with her. I felt regret immediately and started apologizing to her for taking advantage of her. What she said really dazzled me. She said I shouldn’t be sorry as my wife never keep talking of our big I am and how sex was so great. And how she wishes her friend can experience what she was talking about.

My regrets turned to anger immediately and I asked her if she and my wife planned this whole episode just to confirm what my wife was boasting about. She denied being in cohort with my wife, but said something that devastated me. She said my wife wouldn’t mind as they sometimes share things together as they are besties for life right from their school days. I had to quickly exit the room to the balcony. We barely talked again until wife came back, though she tried to initiate some conversation, which I rebuffed. My wife further heightened my apprehension when wife asked if her friend really took care of me and that I couldn’t have missed her much since her friend was around. The dilemma now is that I can’t confront my wife about the incident as I will be admitting I slept with her friend. Her friend is also acting normal and I am afraid if she will inform her “bestie for life”. I have been thinking, what if they had been “Sex partners” before and I married a bisexual cos of the way they do play together. I had just been asking her when her friend was leaving and I don’t want to be forceful because of what happened between us.

Note, my wife has been a good wife. All my family member love her like she’s part of them and she is so comfortable with them. We never had any issues except this. I need advice on how to go on so I don’t destroy my marriage.

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stupdity,triblaism and hate deserve no refuting.nothing sensible can seat on nonsense.so my brother what you are saying in total is a bunch of trash laced with hate and tribalism and as such requires no refuting,rather you require rebuke.

mynaijaforumcom:
I wish you will take the time to go through our discussion and try to refute any point you do not agree with. But then you are the kind of person who wants to justify all the unnecessary violence and things you cannot imagine visited on the Igbo people with me excercising my right as a full citizen by questioning a questionable contract.

those who preach hate derserve no civility,trablism has no place in the Nigeria we want,i owe you no apology,as for my grammer as you can see i am not english but Nigerian.as you can equally see by your stupidity,the mastry of a english language is not a measure of intelligence.

Hisduchess:
So you had to insult me to drive home your point with your grammatical and spelling errors.Do you actually have sense? Must you be violent in everything you do or say? Can't you bring forth sensible arguments without cursing. Just grow up and stop being an a*shole.you actually is the mugu and the bigot with all the sh*t you've been ranting on this thread.i would have refuted some point from your almighty Wikipedia comment but I've come to understand that you are an unintelligent fellow who is naturally violent,so let me keep my cool

invite this woman and her group and do the needful arrest them all,all this idoit thinking they can test Nigerian law and get away with it,your right supercides the right of 80% of the population.you do not stay in nigeria or pay taxes in Nigeria,you contribute nothing to Nigeria but you think you have rights in Nigeria,lock this idoit up

Phoenix999:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/again-lesbian-group-sues-cac-over-non-registration/amp/

another ignorant mugu,chancellors have usually been chosen from the tradtional rulers,and it is complusry atlist at the federal level that the chancellor is from a different state from the univeristy most times a different region,the obi of onitsha is a chancellor but surely your tribalistic bigotry would not allow you do research,it is simply easier to hate.
because i know you would argue i helped your lazy ass do the work
Obi of onitsha is the chancellor of ABU Zaira,in case you do not know where that is,it is the Biggest university in the north and it is in Kaduna.

Nnaemeka Alfred Achebe CFR, mni (born 14 May 1941) is a royal and the 21st Obi of Onitsha, in Anambra State, South-Eastern Nigeria.[2] He is chancellor of Ahmadu Bello University since 2015,[3] and was earlier chancellor of Kogi State University.[4] Achebe also serves as the chairman of the board of Directors of Unilever Nigeria, and the Chairman of International Breweries (ABInBev) Nigeria. Before emerging as the Obi of Onitsha, in 2002, he had a long and distinguished career in the Royal Dutch Shell Group serving as Director in various companies in the group.


https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alfred_Achebe

Hisduchess:
He doesn't want to face reality. Bringing a contractor from North to come to UNN with his equipments and manpower is completely a waste of resources.am sure that an Enugu contractor can be used by tetfund but because nah Northerners dey rule this country,they didn't.i can remember my days at UNN then,the chancellor was Emir of zzau zzau dunno if he is still the chancellor but that's just to tell you how Northerners are.so allow that north boy be cos he can never agree that nah them Northerners nah the bigots

my friend your arguement is baseless,full of ethnic begortry.igbo people are the major contracts all over Nigeria from lagos down to sokoto,nobody has asked this stupid question you are asking in any of the remaining 31 state plus fct.you are there thinking your are brilliant when you are ignorant,the law of Nigeria says you can do business of any kind anywhere in Nigeria,it does not say in the south east alone only igbo people must get work.this is how you wicked people bring problems for your brothers in other part of the country.then turn around to blame others, una too like trouble.

mynaijaforumcom:
Being Northern is not the problem. My question is that Kano is 760.4km while Kaduna is 567.5 km from Nsukka. Do you really believe that no other Contracting and Consulting firms could have submitted a suitable tender in between those distances? Bearing in mind they are Federal projects. If you really believe so, tell me who is the bigot?

i fear you are just like every demoracte, very very ignorant but carry fancy degrees to make you think you are smart.

this are the facts,what those trump stand forwhat those democratic party stand for?then compare its relationship to African way of life and the answer is settled.personally i thank Trump for the ban,no more route for politicians children to go abroad let us all suffer it together till we get it right.
Back to where we started,democratic party policy for Africa was gayism and libyia,so democratic party distory the most developed country in Africa,turned it into a slavery city where Africans are bought and sold,aggressively went after our family system then started toppling government for there refusal to support there sick life style been Gayism.
let us look at trump,basically Trump careless about you,you live your best life ,he does what he think is best for his people and advices you to do same,if your government are not doing things for you blame your government,atlist now the rich can nolonger run to the states After distorying Nigeria.didnt you hear how one pastor was shouting like a fool when he got his ban,the politicain and there children are feeling it too.of the two i take Trump any day,i am not looking to a new slave master,democratic party is a party of slavery and they love to enslave anything they see.

Rosskiye:
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Nigerians, Do You Still ''Love'' Trump Now He has Shown What He Really Thinks Of You?
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Nigeria was recently noted in the international media as being a major centre of support for US president, Trump.

Nigerians continued to show love for Trump, despite his racist comment that Nigerians in the US would not wish to ''return to their huts'' in Nigeria, indicating he saw Nigerians as nothing more than primitive hut dwellers.

Yet, Nigerians showed love for Trump, regardless. Defending him at every turn, including here on NL.

Now he has finally banned Nigerians from settling in the US.

Do Nigerians still ''love Trump''?

Would they still ''love Trump'' even if he rap.ed their daughters?

Probably.

Why?

Because Nigerians are MUMUS.

Discuss.

when you read comment like yours,then you know something is really wrong with Nigeria.which is it your slave menatlity or your ignorance which controls your thinking??/

Larryfest:
So Canada and Nigeria dey the same level right Our federal government better start prostrating to them so they can have mercy on Nigeria because the way things are going so many countries will still ban us.

but treating Nigerians like trash in your country is African.

jayson87:
Border closure is unAFRICAN

can i see pictures

gloryhouse:
I have Room well arranged for an office at Ikeja for 1.5m per annum

if you have anything ,similar please let me know

gloryhouse:
Taken