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Money surely isn't everything. It definitely something. But not everything.

You could be Tyrese Gibson and poor as hell and aint going no where with yourself. And I wouldn't even care. j/k j/k But you know there was a reason Beyonce  made that song "Upgrade" so ummm. . . . . . *cough* here's a twenty *cough*

4 Play:
Exactly! Anytime you have a group of women this passionate about something, it's jealousy. You are already imagining how  much better you will look in the role of 4th wife compared to Yar'Adua pikin.

Oh oka, so lets say we women were as you agadi nwoke say talking "this passionate about something" such as a women being brutally raped. Does that mean we are jealous of her??

I highly doubt you will reply so whatever.

spoilt:
Age only makes women more cynical. Not likely she will change.

Oka, dang girl. Chill with the insults. Jeezzz.

I wish their marriage the best of luck. We all know that this is probably not the end of his reigning in marrying more wives. But as they say, if the tool still works, might as well use till it rust.

WOW Acid. . . . . I definitely wasn't expecting an answer like that. What a strange strange strange strange world we live in.

Anyways, it is just sad to see that even in the States things relatively the same are happening here. I mean how many times have we watched a film and seen a guy walk into some club with like two girls in each arm. And what do we say??

"Oh so and so be pulling" "You know such and such got game like a baller" (heard this one from a sitcom)

But as soon as a woman feels like "dating around" Oh no, she this , oh she that.

What a wonderful world.

And people are surprised why I view so low value in marriage.

OutlukBabe:
hey, I thought it is acceptable in their culture. What about the former vice presidents how many wives? what about the man with 86 wives? Are u girls jealous or what? u trying to get the girl for ur brothers? sorry yuguda done do fast moves

Shizzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz the very last thing anyone of us are is JEALOUS!! I consider myself very lucky into not having to go through being forced to marry first a guy who is 20 years older than me. Then I have to deal with three other wives who I know don't want me there. Who will probably going to abuse the shit out of me. And you call me jealous?? PLEASE!!

But why?? ??

Even here in the states. A man like Hugh Hefner who has multiple girlfriends and I know for sure he is not going to marry not one of them. But no one really gives a damn. It is like,

"Oh he has three girlfriends and possibly adding twins to the picture? Oh well. So what's the weather going to be like?"

Like no one gives a damn. But once a woman just has one previous sexual experience,

"Oh Gawd, Oh lawd. . . . she must be condemn. Oya now go and get me Holy Water. She needs Redemption."

Even though we laughing and stuff, there is still one thing I want to know.

Why is it that the man can marry multiple wives and nobody is calling him a LovePeddler, or a slut. Or anything proclaimed to women who have sex with just one guy??

And like if a woman were to have multiple husbands, most will run her ass out of town. Saying she is a hoe and such.

Just doesn't make sense to me.

JENNY!!!

Me, a concubine??  I never. . . . . . .

Shit I'm priceless. I demand a whole month, the rest can wait.
Cause you know I be pulling. . . . . . hair.

hehehehe. . . . . chukwu mere I ebere.

tope2000:
Lmao . . .ofcos there must be

The first wife gets Monday and Wednesday
The second wife gets Tuesday and Thursday
The third wife gets Friday and Saturday
The fourth wife, since she is still a youngn' gets Sunday.  

H2O2:
Alhaji Sule Gambari married 5 virgins and they lived in marital bliss.

According to what?? Did you live with these people?? Did you see how they carried their everyday lives?? NO.

I feel that if you feel that you need multiply wives to sustain your *Man Urge*, then go right on ahead.

BUT, and I mean BUT. . . . . don't be ashamed to tell EVERYBODY that you are a polygamist.

Such as: Akon.

This man will lie, change the subject, say all this yarns when asked about his multiply wives. Why is he so ashamed?? That is an answer I want to know.
Also you better be financially stable to handle as these damn people in your house.

I personally don't believe in such a lifestyle. There has not been a man in history who has benefited from having multiply wives. Look at that polygamist sect in West Texas. See what happens when you live such a lifestyle? Screwed up their WHOLE lives and took all them kids away.

Shaaaaarup T!!

I'm enjoying the show and you want to destroy my fun!?!   FUN KILLER!!

hehehehe. . . . .

how you been T? Hope all is well. Surely missed you and your stories.

The girl is quite beautiful. I mean she is really gorgeous. But she is only twenty one. There is no way in hell I could even begin to wonder how this marriage was arranged.

Sorry I just know it couldn't be me.

I would think that one wife is enough for a man. Being that folk get divorced each day and so forth. But FOUR!?!
I don't understand how people can live such a life.
I mean I do pay for everyone's meals and school fees and such??
And like who gets to go to sleep with him at night??
Do have a schedule for each wife??
So he celebrates FOUR Anniversaries a year?? That can get expensive.

bawomolo:
see mouth, where was all these tough talk early in the season.  go the hell, you and matt schuabb 

WOW!!!! Instead of sending me to hell, why don't you send yourself to the library or get some hooked on phonics.

And unlike you, I have a life outside of Nairaland. So of course I won't be here 24/7. LMAO!!!

This is going to be my new insult. "Hey you! Yeah you! GO THE HELL!"

Oh HOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOLD up now Jesolo

Don't be talking about my babies the Rockets

Atleast my team means something. . . . . what the hell is a Celtic?

Yal saw that DOUBLE OVER TIME win against the Jazz which is how we going to beat them when Playoffs come around.

So say good bye to your Leprechaun Dynasty because it is the West or South who is coming over to crush your lucky charms.

What a BEAUTIFUL GAME I watched the other night!!!!

Lawdly lawdly lawd. . . . . I know yal saw them Cow boys. Hehehehehe. . . . . same folk who were boasting about SuperBowl and stuff, now look at them.

I know yal saw those WONDERFUL Texans stomp on those Windy City Bears. After we were through with them, you know they went back crawling into the forest. Betta hope Goldielocs got yal some porridge or some bear food for yal to recuperate. hehehehe. . . . . .

Na uh tope baby. . . . . I know Ruby's post anywwwwwwwwwwhere

ibkaye:
YOU! Where have you been?

Mschew!

School is cool dear, how are you sha? Long time

Hehehehehe. . . . . you know school is my first priority so I had to let nairaland go and focus.

But now I'm on leave and I'm LOVING IT!!!

Not sure if the rest of the members are.

Sorry Jenny but when I saw all those grammatical errors I was like,

"Oh my word. Does this lack of intelligence still exist??"

So I just could not resist. I had to make a point.

I mean I understand when you got some spelling mistakes but that mess right there was eye burning.

KOFFEE!!!!!!!!!!!!

smoooooooooooches!!!!

How is school na??

My response to this post is that if a guy feels the need to hit his woman, his love, then he should have his ass beaten the hell up. I mean get a ginormous man to tear them walls up. Not in my house will some man come up and hit me and I aint fixin to do nothing about. You know what, the girl is also just as stupid. What the hell is you still doing with this disrupted excuse of a man?  Lawd let me stop. I just got home from church you know and I'm tryna be holy but LAWD!!!

All I have to say is not me. Not me. Not me. Not me. Thank the Lord my best friends are dudes cause. . . . let me stop.

Dog gone mutha luvas. LAAAAAAAAAAWD!!!!

Chrisbenogor:
Yea we don't the bible did not mention that

Wow. We can see why you don't believe in the Bible because it is obvious you can't read nor spell.

1st mistake:
Yea is spelled, yeah.

2nd mistake:
Whoever was your English teacher should be immediately discontinued from their practice.
When did people start using Double Negatives within a sentence?

3rd mistake:
The entire sentence is a fragment. I can't even begin to distinguish the lack of intellect posted above.

Instead of worrying about The Holy Bible, the book, why not invest in some Grammar books. I will happily invest in one for you. All you need to do is ask.

Ogetogeo:
Onyi family in igbo is ezi na uno.when was d last time u were home? Just asking

I meela.

And to answer the second part, well let's see. . . . . since home is where the heart is, my heart is here and I have been since well, FOREVER.

busybein:
onyinye awww dalu so,chukwu ga gozi kwe gi na ndi be gi

heheheheheh. . . . nnoo

Oka well I don't know about  yal but for me. . . . when I think about men in uniforms, Im thinking those brothas you wear Football Uniforms. No no no, not those soccer rift raft uniforms.

I'm talking those NY Giants, TX Texans, and of The Patriots.

Doesn't get any better than that.

p.s. I meela Jenny. Ka Chukwu gozie gi na your family (don't know how to say that in igbo)

*disclaimer
Not sure if any of you have ever been confronted with such questions or not but just wanted to share it with you.

Well today I was given a link to a video that contained very thought provoking questions, for me atleast.

And I wanted to share it with you guys, being if you haven't seen or heard them before some where prior to.

Here it goes:

[b]1. Do you believe energy has always existed?

1A. Do you believe it existed within vacuum fluxes in a timeless, spaceless, matterless, void before a big bang?

1A-A. Can energy create itself?

1A-B. How so? (Give 100%, infallible, non-opinionated, empirical proof on how it does still today)

It is scientifically believed that energy can't be created or destroyed, henceforth law of conservation of energy. For something to be labeled as science, it should be able to be observed, tested, and then repeated. Since it's seemingly impossible to be able to observe whether something is eternal or not, (since you're not eternal you can't observe it) which means it's seemingly impossible to be able to test whether it's eternal or not since you can't observe it, which definitely means you can't repeat it if you've never tested it.

2. Has matter always existed?

2A. can matter create itself?

2A-A. How so? (Give 100%, infallible, non-opinionated, empirical proof on how it does still today)

3. Do you believe a mass of matter and energy rotated until it exploded?

3A. Did that mass of energy and matter create itself?

3A-A. Do you believe that all matter and energy in the Universe was created by a Big Bang 14 billion years ago?

3A-B. Were you or anyone existing today, existing at that point to observe this occurrence?

3A-C. If you didnt exist to observe it, how can you test it today? And wouldn't your tests be based on the assumption that it happened since no one was there to observe it?

3B. Can you repeat an occurrence that no one has observed?

3B-A. How so? (Give 100%, infallible, non-opinionated, empirical proof on how you can)

3B-B. If you do attempt to repeat it, wouldnt the outcome be based on the assumption that it happened like you thought it did?

3B-C. How not? (Give 100%, infallible, non-opinionated, empirical proof on how it wouldnt be)



4. If I work to solve a math problem, and I start solving it at the middle of the equation will the outcome be an assumption based on the fact that I skipped half the equation?


4A. If I started watching a movie half way through, will I truly understand the outcome since I missed the beginning the movie?

Do you see that the ending is contingent upon the beginning and the beginning on the end? If you don't have the beginning the end result will be an assumption, which cannot be regarded as science, but religion. I assume there's an intelligent designer because I can't prove 100% that there is one. I believe theres one however.

5. Since the beginning of your theory can't be proven, nor is it a part of science, how do you expect people to think it's not a religious belief, and why don't you think it's a religious belief since your theory can't be proven, nor is it a part of science

For any of the previous or following questions, if you're going to fill in the gap by saying we don't have the answer now but we will in the future, answer me these questions.

6. Isn't that just the same as saying "god did it?" You're not answering the question, nor are you admitting you don't know the answer, you're simply filling in your ignorance by giving an unreliable answer based on an assumption.

6A. Can you predict the future?

6A-A Does predicting the future based on assumptions contradict the humanistic view? If you believe that what you experience through your 5 senses are the only things that exist, how can you try to predict the future since you can't see into the future?

6A-B. How so? (Give 100%, infallible, non-opinionated, empirical, proof on how it doesn't, and how you can)

If I say what I believe is an assumption, nothing changes, I believe in the designer of the bible, and every word of the gospels of Christ. I believe the bible for its valid history that even concurs even with secular history, for the fulfilled prophesies, and also for the stories and knowledge of this book. If science claims their findings are assumptions it wouldn't have scientific data anymore, it would have assumptiontific data.

7. If you had to show me one empirically, 100%, factual, non-opinionated, proof for evolution, show it with absolute solid, unarguable, infallible proof now. Video and text responses are accepted.[/b]


-Questions Brought to you by: ManupPowerup

Well top up. . . . . . I was actually referring to David but hey it is all good.

Oka about the comment in your post about the tears. . . . . ummmmmm yeah I don't do well with tears. Anyways I do get what you are tryna say but personally I think a person can only take so much. Me if I know that I'm just holding someone back and I'm going through some internal things at the time, I might as well let them go and let them enjoy what life has to offer.


LMAO!!!!!!

Leave that Adam CryBaby, lawd have mercy.  That guy is a case. In fact it is getting kind of scary. Christmas Eve on the news, a white man dressed up as Santa Clause and entered the home of his ex-wife while she was hosting a Christmas party with her family. So anyways the guy has been bitter over the divorce and went to the home and his eight year old niece answered the door and he shot her point blank. Then open fire to the rest of the family. Killing nine in total. Then burned the house down. Then went to his car and killed himself. This is love in the millenium.

Oka I'm sort of confused??

So oka when a guy is having one of his "moments" and just feels like being left alone, so then what those the women do? Just lounge around and hope he will come around and is released from his "moment"??

How long are these women suppose to wait??

I really like this topic because it really reflects on how mature I have come to be. Because I remember the old me who was all about

"such such completes me" "yada yada is my other half" "I'm nothing without lalala"

And for the longest I was basically stuck on stupid thinking this was how it was.  But as time played its course, I learned that these thoughts are completely unhealthy. I don't need someone to complete me or fill up the other half that is missing. Because going into a relationship with this mentality was basically setting myself up for failure. When you enter a relationship "half a person" or in the need of completeness, that relationship is already on the rocks. You need to be "whole" person and have the persona and confidence within yourself to know that in a sense like the song says, I can do bad by myself.

I mean hope yal getting what I'm tryna but anyways you just gotta know that you need to be able the see yourself as whole and not search for someone else to be your whole. Because that half that you are specifically looking for is usually not with held in the person you seek but with you all along.

YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

THE LEPRECHAUNS HAVE BEEN STOPPED!!!!!!!

Damn Lucky Charms self hahahahahaha

GO LAKERS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! The stopped the Rockets Winning streak now theirs has been DENIED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Now where is that Jesolo na Na Chi girl