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Hannibal:
You must be very intelligent.

Some women say NO after penetration and still scream RAPE.
Counsellors come in, take swabs and finds the man's body fluids in the babe's canal.
One minute a man is in his yard sipping cristalz, the next minute he is being shipped to jail because of a woman's EVIL ways.
It's pathetic.

You get what you gonna get. If the broad said[b] NO[/b], and you continued. . . . . you basically said [b]YES [/b]for jail.

[quote author=Okija_juju link=topic=166376.msg2740378#msg2740378 date=1220310409]The way to a mans heart are just too many;

Examples
1. Food
2. Sports
3. Cars
4. Alcohol
5. Cigarettes
6. Hybrid weed  

_e.t.c


BUT>>> The only way to remain there is;

SEX. _{No! I made a mistake.}

Really, freaking, damn, hot, steamy, interesting, adventurous SEX.   _WORD![/quote]That is a big, ginormous, freakn, flippin, ballin, catch me im fallin. . . . . NO!

mesmya:
because we helped u discover yourself

I humbly agree.

Geniall:
What? Cooking is not a dark art. If you're smart enough to do algebra, surely you can learn to cook? And men can cook too, but a man (usually - now don't take this too far  ) can't  have sex with or talk to himself.

Just to clarify (it looks like I'm contradicting myself there, doesn't it?  ), if you're going to spend more than half your life with someone, you want to still be able to stay around/ with them even when you can't eat their food or have sex with them.

You can be as interesting as Oprah Winfery but if you can't cook or the sex is bad. . . . . . yeah there is definatley some problems. You got to be good in all areas. But the sex and the cooking are "usually" weighed more.

idupaul:
so is there anything like justified rape?

If it was justified. . . . then how was it rape?

mesmya:
sweetheart this post of urs has made me happy

Contrary to what you said earlier. . . . . i do know something.

Geniall:
Or he could be unfaithful with books in a library somewhere. You can feed on only sex and food for so long. Sooner or later you want some sensible conversation/ intellectual stimulation before your brain turns to mush. And guess what? There are women that are good at sex, cooking, and are interesting too.

But what is the point of being "interesting" if you can't cook? I don't care how "interesting" you are but if you can't cook for your man. . . . what he finds interesting in you. . . . will turn to boredom.

Hannibal:
A woman can switch off at any moment before and even during sex.
For a man, there's a gunline.
Once u let him get to that gunline and refuse. . . . . .You are asking for trouble.
The moral of the story is. . . . . .Don't SMELL what u won't EAT.

But Mufasa. . . . you are making men sound like untamed creatures. I mean a woman has the right to say NO at any point in time. And the man being understanding must abide by that.

Hannibal:
Men are NOT designed to say NO after penetration, senora.
The wetness and warmth of a woman's clutch is so hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.

Start shopping for your strip jump suit and add hand cuff while you are at it.

Riskie:
Could you translate your siggy to prove that to the rest of us who don't understand Igbo  

Oh sorry about that

God foisted one problem on the Igbo, and
the Igbo foisted another nine onto themselves.

There is no competition around my siggy.

davidylan:
close your legs, walk before the guy enters you. simple. If you don't want sex, don't flirt with a guy and give him a wrong impression . . . easy.

If the girl say No, stop, get off her, walk away. . . . simple.

davidylan:
why didnt she just close those legs and take a walk?

Well you are the one over here talking about no amount of screams will matter.

[quote author=Ruby_Pearl link=topic=166449.msg2739774#msg2739774 date=1220302413]If she didn't want it, she wouldn't have opened her leg WILLINGLY[/quote]Im just saying that the woman has the[b] RIGHT [/b]not PRIVILEGE to say NO at ANY point and time.

davidylan:
What's the controversy here? I simply said the girl has every right to say no until the guy enters her, beyond that point only guys with water running in their veins can stop. A guy doesnt enter you by mistake, you were fully aware he was going to and you could have stopped it before then.

Oh so the girl should lay there like a casted mummy and accept the multiple thrust from her rapist. . . . and be happy?

[quote author=Ruby_Pearl link=topic=166449.msg2739751#msg2739751 date=1220302062]Now if a big woman claimed that a tiny popsicle looking man raped her, well, let's just say, the court would ba laughing at the situation. Easier for the guy to proof his innocence[/quote]RUBY!!! You know you aint right!

seeu:
@Onyi,
It's not easy to prove rape case.  Do you think you can prove it that a single man overpowered you, held your legs open, covered your mouth from shouting, held your two hangs before he was unaable to rape you.  It's really difficult to prove.  The court will assume that the girl enjoy the act.

Proving is not easy but someway or another. . . . justice will be served.

davidylan:
that's pretty silly. Where you sleeping when the guy initially entered you? why didnt you say no then?

Werent you the same Lou Housier who said and i quote[i] "If i was inside the chic already no amount of crying will stop it o"[/i]

davidylan:
that's odd. Maybe its because i'D rather i made sure you were 100% down with it before it happened. If i was inside the chic already no amoung of crying will stop it o.  

Might as well buy a striped jump suit and hand cuffs when you are done.

davidylan:
stop that. that's my cousin's nickname not urs.

Can't tell me what to do.

davidylan:
long story. If a guy who knows how to touch a woman gets you he will do whatever he wants.

Not with this chica.

Uche2nna:
@ Onyi
This is becoming very unbecoming     Why do You always pick out insults from ma post? This is the fifth time in two days that You have implied that I insulted You  

Because you consistantly do.

Uche2nna:
She shed the naive toga when she went to bed with the man and allowed for some heavy petting.

Of course when push comes to shove, You can always hold back. Thats not the issue here as far as I am concerned. The issue here is letting young onyi know not to allow herself get into such uncompromising positions and think that the guy would just automatically turn off because Princess Onyi snapped her fingers. Thats the stuff rape is made off. Yes, it is still rape but why invite it in the first place.

Oka Uche. . . . . i already have a father so i don't need you to try and fill in that role. Anyways. . . . you are basically just calling me a tease. Which is super insulting. Oka i don't go around seducing men in to getting hot N' bothered, and when it is time to do the do. . . . i refuse. I don't put myself in such a position because i have no need to. I aint looking for no cutty buddy. . . . so why would i allow it. Even if i was that kind of chick, I have the absolute right as a human being to refuse sex from another fellow mortal. If i don't want it. . . . then i don't want it. If he doesn't understand. . . . he is a rapist and should get ready to do time behind bars. And its not Princess Onyi, that is so cliche. It is Onyi Bekee.

davidylan:
Onyi's case is different, if she's been dating the guy for quite a while now, saying no becomes useless . . . the guy will do what he wants to do regardless of how loudly she cries and she dare not cry rape.

Wanna bet?

Baxilexi:
@onyin,gross nah more like nice
anyways its nice chattin with you, sort of missed you, wierd aint it?
i have to go eat, catchya later.   atleast this is permitted in onyin's world.

You have been loyally dismissed.

[quote author=Ruby_Pearl link=topic=166449.msg2739588#msg2739588 date=1220299493]@oyinye
You this woman, you just made me burn my brownies I was cooking in the oven just b/c I couldn't [b]stop [/b]typing a reply to you.
Abeg, I'm not an expert on this topic, let mesmy help you[/quote]Sorry oh! Just wanted to make a point.

[quote author=HR.hotness link=topic=166449.msg2739576#msg2739576 date=1220299241]I don't see uche's statemnt as an insult oh. . . it kind of hard to believe you're older than 12 . . . no insult meant here either[/quote]So by me saying that men are not untamed animals as you guys described them. . . . . . makes me a minor? Then so be it.

[quote author=Ruby_Pearl link=topic=166449.msg2739543#msg2739543 date=1220298687]What am saying is, sometimes, a woman goes too far sef.
There's flirting and there's FLIRTING.
As Queenisha said, once you let a man lead you inside the hotel room, let him touch you, let him take off your clothes, let him rub on you, honey, you're giving him a GO!
The man is aroused, once he's in there, he can barely control himself to let it out, talkless of stopping.
If men could stop having pregnancy doing unprotected sex, don't you think they'D have pulled out when they wanted. The point is, THEY cannot stop even if they wanted to, it's uncontrollable.[/quote]What im saying is that you can't put all the blame on the woman. The man is not untamed creature. He is a human being. Which has something called logic instilled in to their brains. If the woman doesn't want to go through with the act, it might be hard, but the man has to stop.

Baxilexi:
onyin, you know what, go to a store pick up FHM, or playboy, or any of those men magazine and you would get the definition of sex from a mans point of
view, or better still ask a mentor. but i aint askin you to get some now.

Gross.

Uche2nna:
Or maybe take a cold bath  
I thot that Onyi was like 15. Now I am even begining to doubt that.

So i guess Uche, you are back for round 2 of insults.

[quote author=HR.hotness link=topic=166449.msg2739520#msg2739520 date=1220298436]swthrt. . . u can't just turn on and turn off a human being like he was a piece of electronics. . . we all knw how guys are so why play with them that way? why do expect them to behave anything but how they r programmed to behave?

your stand sounds rather selfish. . .  the world doesnt reveolve around u, u know?[/quote](jeez i really want to know how do i come off as selfish?)

Baxilexi:
@onyin,good to know you permit promiscuity

When i meant my "going outside" I meant the dude should go for a walk or something because he access has be denied.

[quote author=Ruby_Pearl link=topic=166449.msg2739472#msg2739472 date=1220297977]Lol! You still don't get it.
Listen, you can't just turn something off like that!
I think Queenisha explained it with the car drive.
Do you know what a blue ball is?[/quote]So what are you telling me that the chick should just lay there like a casted mummy, and accept the multiple thrust from her man?

Baxilexi:
onyin, thats the point the oven doesnt cool down immediately.

So then go outside and cool off.

Baxilexi:
@onyin, lol opportunist.

And you know this

Baxilexi:
@onyin, thats not fair, your relationship should evolve around you.

You said it not me.

Queenisha:
Like someone already said,don't put yourself in that situation.
Don't fire the oven when you're not ready to cook.

[i](I'm not condemning people who do such) [/i]But a person should be able to fire that oven knowing good and well that any point and time it can be shut off.

seeu:
When a girl says "No" she has to react in a way that will convince the guy that she really mean "No".  you know, a girl's No can mean Yes at times.  So, the way she react will pass the message to the guy that she is not in the mood to have the act.

This is the exact line of a rapist when i was watching Law and Order: SVU

Baxilexi:
@onyin, am not so sure bout that. if your not ready for something you should even probe.
sex works that way, thats the only thing many people/i donot have a guard against, so i don't even get into an enclosed space if i'm not ready for it.
you should understand its a good thing, when done at the right time and with some one you trust.

Im just saying that in any point and time i don't want to go through with act. . . . the man should understand my view or else be deemed as a rapist for the rest of his mortal life.

Queenisha:
It looks like we're talking of different things.
If all she wanted was petting and not sex, she should make it clear and if he forces her it's rape.
I'm talking of a situation where sex is on both of their minds and after the man has inserted she says no.
That is a point of no return
Let her grit her teeth and count sheep _{or goats}

LMAO!!!
Im sorry but that is rape. In any point in time she says No and he continues. . . . he is a rapist. Simple as that.