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davidylan:
the irony of it all is that she actually thinks she wields any sort of influence.

The irony of it all is that in real life some poor innocent soul will actually have to put up with you and your jive. Breaks my heart. May the Good Lord protect her with all her trials.

davidylan:
change the bride's name to stillwater then we can talk of a wedding.

Please do so. I can't marry someone who i can turn into a busboy with the flick of a wrist. Where is the fun in that?

agaba123:
I guess you guys are not taking her serious. Onyinye definitely deferent from what she posts here. Never mind her nl character.

If not, then she has not had the real opportunity to interact with the real world to see what it means to be on your own.

Don't you just love knock off Dr. Phils? Dont they just tickle your ribs.

stillwater:
Hehehe. The mistake people make is to think when you apologise first it makes you a lesser person, that's not true. To be frank, there's nothing wrong in apologising even when you're not in the wrong.

LMAO!!! You obviously don't know me that well. Me, give in. . . . . _never.

agaba123:
Abeg keep quiet for one make we hia word. You told me david is your headache why are you talking like this now?

davidylan:
hehehe na husband this girl go marry so?  

A Real Man.

[quote author=Okija_juju link=topic=165944.msg2735227#msg2735227 date=1220225006]Obviously the better arguement here dosent seem to go down with you here, despite the fact  that majority agree that your opinion is hollywood.[/quote]This should effect me how again?

Ruby. . . anya means LOVE or eye i think.

Uche2nna:
Sharrap!!! I am trying to plan a wedding here

Oya go ahead and plan. I rather be hanged by fingers on a pole than the alternative. . . .

agaba123:
Onyinye2 and davidylan

By the authority invested on my, I hereby proclaim them husband and wife

David you may now kiss the bride

Rather have my lips sewn shut with a needle.

@ david

davidylan:
what happens when you both have a fight? Do you put on a stiff lip and ignore him till he comes begging you? what if he makes a decision you don't agree with? will you bear a grudge or yell at him? what happens when you both have conflicts of interests? you'll sit there with your back against the wall?

1. If we debate, we debate
2. Ignore him maybe. . . . but i wont make him beg. But i won't beg either
3. If he makes a decision i don't agree with, fine. If it back fires. . . .
4. Me, hold a grudge? Never. But if you think i will have a kool aid smile on my face, you are kidding yourself
5. Conflicts of interest will happen. The better argument will hold the outcome
6. Sit and have my back against the wall? For whom? Him? Why do that when i can go and read a book or something. I'm no child.

eldee:
^{Damn . . . Weak point noted}

So your uncles and cousins are not 'mentally mature'
They don't tell their mates 'I love you bro'?

Yeah im going to have to ask you to step away from insulting my family. Seriously. Funny how you know about Brokeback Mountain and Girlfriends. Confess NOW!

davidylan:
So really what are you doing that is new onyinye2?

Don't know where you are getting at.

mesmya:
@onyinye2
seriously sweetie david and co r saying d truth,ive been in d system so i know hpw it works,two men can't live iin a house,one has to come down and be submissive and that is d woman,if a woman starts all this rights of a thing,then shes a man,a woman has got to respect her man,and even displease herslef smtimes to please her husband,that is what makes marriage of this days last,that is y your parents r still living together even till date

My parents are different. My father never treated my mother less than she was worth. He was a true gentlemen at all times. They both worked and never put it on my mother to do everything in the house. Both cooked, cleaned, took care of us, drove me to my games, they did everything. My father never expected for there to be food on the table whenever he was home like a cave man, if he was hungry he cooked for himself. That is what i call a REAL MAN. He treated my mother like his equal never inferior. And they both respected each other. He would bend over backwards to make her and us happy. Not by throwing cash wods at us, but just being there. I guess his type no longer exist.

@ Okija_juju

My primary role is to be me. If i lose myself, what good am i? Everything else comes second hand. The whole cooking thing can be arrange. I live in the states and i live in an are double populated with Nigerians. In fact there is this chain of stores just for Nigerians. I can easily buy all the ingredients and make them. I aint pounding nothing when it is already pre made. No one "has" to be on top. Society made it that way. The whole sex thing was really not necessary. If you want to out sex your wife to death. . . . be my guest. But thankfully i won't be marrying  you and i will marry a man who understands im not just there to be and a sex machine that he can turn on every freakin minute of the day. Anyways all in all. . . . . i will do whatever i feel is right for ME and MY life. Not society or what have you.

Pataki:
Are you also an idiot?

I guess your brother(s), uncles and male cousins are into bromance right?

Oka yeah i don't take that kind of joking too lightly.

Quiet eldee Just because i dont view life through a stupid football soccer jersey.

agaba123:
which stephen is tope talking about. Stephen who?

I have consulted my father abeg and I have his nod.

So stephen should try Onyinye

_{strange how my name came into this one. . . .}

davidylan:
_{you have a very thin skin, not too good ah ah.}

Let me share with you a little secret, there are two sides to a man you date - boyfriend side and husband side. Dont be decieved by all those romantic nonsense when you're dating a guy . . . soon as he wants to be serious enough to marry you, you'D be expected to play the role of a wife. That is when you'll see the other side of the "Real Men" that you never saw before.
Some more experience is all you need.

We'll see who gets the last laugh. . . .

tope2000:
im also going for a drink with stephen, im sure u will understand too

Hmmmm. . . . . . truly questionable. . . .

Ahhh. . . . see how men rant like boys when the truth is told.

mesmya:
sweetheart calm down,they r just playing wt u baby

Haven't lost composure if that is what you are implying. . . . but there is a fine line between joking and being down right insultive. And yet those two cross that line each and every time.

davidylan:
If there's any more vindication of the fact that you really don't know anything (no insult o!) then here they are in highlights . . . your own words.

No woman enjoys being submissive even though some may lie to you that they do. Every woman wants to lead too, but quite a lot of real women are smart enough to know that you don't keep a happy home by being trying to be a co-husband.

What do you mean by "i'll just do what i want to do?"   abeg come off your high horse, this is not a boyfriend we are talking about hia. Get married first and tell your husband that, if you avoid slap na God save you.

Im so glad that Real Men exist in this world. If more thought like this. . . . . who knows what the outcome would be. I do what I believe is right. Don't need anyone to tell me what to do.

[quote author=Okija_juju link=topic=165944.msg2734940#msg2734940 date=1220220541]Any of your cousins o!! I will accept. uJust deliver me from Onyinye.[/quote]Seriously you need to quit the insults.

[quote author=Okija_juju link=topic=165944.msg2734916#msg2734916 date=1220220323]Onyinye which part of Igbo are you from?? _{(just curious)}[/quote]All ova.

davidylan:
Listen real good yourself to some gospel truths:
- your average man is not interested in a housewife, its economically unwise in the 21st century.
- there's nothing "complex" about you, you're not much more than many of the women i've met before so what's new? You sound very stubborn and think you know it all when really you don't know much. Take a deep breath and try and learn from others . . .
- No one is molding you into anything, we are not asking to marry you so why bother.  
- There is nothing like a "traditional wife", there is however something like a woman who is savvy at knowing how to keep her home.
- no one wants a doormat or sex puppet if not we'D just get housemaids. We need women who understand that men and women complement each other not compete with each other.

. . . and for the upteenth time, i havent insulted you . . . just inconvenient truths.

Yeah you do insult me. . . . . time and time again. Not in the traditional sense, but you do. By you stating "you don't know much" is insulting because first off you don't know what i know nor do you have the right to down pour on my intelligence. Just because im not your average chick who enjoys being submissive doesn't mean i wont be a good wife. I'll just do what i want to do not what some one wants me to do. Simple as that. So by you and Okijia going around stating im a lost cause and basically implying that if folk thought like me there would be no such thing as marriage. . . . if you don't find that insulting, So help you God.

Getting ready for another week living the gym trying to get ready for the season.
Go to the store to stock up on salads and low calorie dressing.
Go jogging later to loosen up my legs.
Need to finish writing English paper.
Watch COLLEGE FOOTBALL!!! been waiting for that.
Get my hair done ASAP
Then chillax.

[quote author=Okija_juju link=topic=165944.msg2734883#msg2734883 date=1220219870]Na single parents go dey rain.
Who wan marry stubborn wife keep for house??[/quote]You couldn't pay me to be a housewife.

davidylan:
frigidaire is an enigma; one moment she sounds like a really interesting chic you want to meet the next moment you're thinking "errr maybe not". I don't think she needs help, she just needs to grow up and see the world as just more than the size of her father's compound.

Again with the insults. David listen and listen good. . . . you see im a very complex person. Trying to mold me into a "traditional wife" is a lost cause. Because i will never become one or want to be one. I can't imagine a life of being someone's doormat and sex puppet. I'm just not cut out for that kind of life.

davidylan:
because no one would bother getting married.

Oka quit with the side insults.

[quote author=Okija_juju link=topic=165944.msg2734871#msg2734871 date=1220219714]If the remaining girls all think like Onyinye, Na ehn be say na convent I dey go join so.[/quote]If more Women thought like me. . . . divorce will become obsolete.

Need a drink. . . . ASAP.

davidylan:
As for onyinye, even tyrone don disown am. E talk saw the girl too get wahala.

Jeez. . . . do I have that bad of an impression on yal. . . .

[quote author=Okija_juju link=topic=165944.msg2734824#msg2734824 date=1220219172]We give you onyinye free of charge.[/quote]Jeez. . . . am i that terrible of a person. . . .

davidylan:
Water has energy, it has well define molecules, has a source and clearly defined physical and chemical properties. Water isnt even like you, try something else.

Forgot that i was in the presence of cave men. I wasn't talking about its structure. . . . its ways.

agaba123:
Not even Onyinye that claims to be stubborn will want to lose her man because of manand woman struggle. They sure know what to do as wives> Ialso know that decent men know what to do to not to marginalise decent wives. All these one na forum talk jare.

Look here. . . . you trying to understand me is like trying to understand the ways of water.

davidylan:
Only tope2000 made sense here . . . onyinye2 now has a new name . . . frigidaire.

Continue to insult me. . . . cave man.

[quote author=Okija_juju link=topic=165944.msg2734719#msg2734719 date=1220217698]I would have been suprised if it made sense to you[/quote]Shaarup dia onye ara

[quote author=Okija_juju link=topic=165944.msg2734719#msg2734719 date=1220217698]Abi you wan go queue for station for 5 hours?? Do you even know where the gas tank is located??[/quote]Who has their man to pump gas for them? That is so stupid and ridiculous. I can do it myself.

[quote author=Okija_juju link=topic=165944.msg2734719#msg2734719 date=1220217698]9 months is not 9 days o!! 30 multiplied by 9. you do the maths. Thats enough time for any man to have legitimate reasons to cheat on a woman.[/quote]Stop whining like a hungry puppy. Over sexed hound.

[quote author=Okija_juju link=topic=165944.msg2734719#msg2734719 date=1220217698]Who asked you to work?? The work in the house is too much for you but you can afford to go work a 9 - 5 job. How does this make sense.[/quote]You actually im stupid enough to be a housewife? You got to be kidding me. Wouldn't be one if someone paid me.

[quote author=Okija_juju link=topic=165944.msg2734719#msg2734719 date=1220217698]Money make the world go round. Makes a home function. Without the mans money, no education, food, shelter, clothing, safety, comfort, convienience, happiness, e.t.c. So my dear the money is very important.[/quote]Blah Blah Blah

[quote author=Okija_juju link=topic=165944.msg2734719#msg2734719 date=1220217698]Your problem is that you are too concerned with things that are not in your jurisdiction. Who asked you to pay the bills?? Girl you need to leave the US because its messing up your upbringing. I can bet you that Naija nor Africa taught you this nonsense.
Pay what bills?? I send you??[/quote]What freaking century do you think we are in? 14A.D.?

[quote author=Okija_juju link=topic=165944.msg2734719#msg2734719 date=1220217698]Again, who asked you??[/quote]society

[quote author=Okija_juju link=topic=165944.msg2734719#msg2734719 date=1220217698]You can go to Tyrone, you'll only be his baby mama, house him, feed him, work three jobs, pay the bills, cook and clean. In the end, he'll still prefer sheniqua over you.[/quote]Rather deal with Sheniqua than Ngozie.

David. . . why don't you marry a Japanese maid who will fulfill all your so called needs and desires.

Riskie:
That couldn't be further from the truth. That's the mistake that a lot of women make.

Some men are like clay. . . . just need the right potter to mold them into a masterpiece.

davidylan:
You want to breath too? Well make sure you marry a REAL MAN not the jaquan onyinye2 is interested in. I'm not sure you can breath if the police are constantly at your door.

Stop down pouring on a different culture group then your own. It is not needed nor respected.

davidylan:
please help me drum these into frigidaire's ears.

Must you continue to insult me?