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[quote author=HR.hotness link=topic=165944.msg2738245#msg2738245 date=1220284783]u and him, barely any cloths on. . . on a bed. . .
it works!  [/quote]Hmmm. . . . . . never thought of it in that kind of way. . . .

davidylan:
taxis, horses or cows, the most important prize in TX is onyinye2

What is more important is your:

Credit card
Debit card
ATM card
Social Security Card
Green Card
Check Book
Bank Account number
Car Insurance card
Health Insurance Card
Pocket Change
Savings
Stocks

[quote author=HR.hotness link=topic=165944.msg2738217#msg2738217 date=1220284533]@ topic

things I find riomantic are:

~ long soaks in the bath together
~ pillow fights
~  doing d dishes together
~ giving each other massages
~ sharing a bowl fo ice-cream, while attempting to watch a movie[/quote]I guess that can be romantic. . . . . not sure how do

davidylan:
which kain girl be this sef? I'm moving to TX soon, better get ready.

Well come on down. Hope you don't think it is like NY where taxi drives you everywhere. Betta buy a saddle and some britches for your horse.

mesmya:
wife wey dey follow stephen up nand down dey tell am she love am

Hmmmm. . . . . . . . .

eldee:
Na wa ooo . . . 'Live with it' is just an opinion again??
Igba wo la bere love ta ti bere si ma kiss??  

You've gotta chill with this your love doctor thing jare, I just answered Toyin and you're giving me your thesis on emotional insecurity
I've said it before, if I wanted relationship advice, there's this sexy psychologist down the street from me
She's even with NHS . . . I'll be getting free service

Why would i give advice to a lost cause?

davidylan:
That is no problem, you aint seen no tougher guy than me. Now say yes!

CORRECTION.

whitelexi:
Come wait oh, i have a niece in houston texas whose name is oyinye. . .  I know u're not the same person because my niece no fit dey this radical - she's a gentle lady

Me, radical? Verify this.

davidylan:
don't make things more difficult than they already are. My father can always buy me Fulani cattle.  

Who cares about cattle It is all about being Texas Tough.

whitelexi:
Never flee from what u identify with as a good and honourably just cause! You dey Onyinye2 wey be size zero?

See trouble's ring leader.

davidylan:
NY and [b]TX [/b]are within the same country. Now say yes!

I only ride with Cow boys.

eldee:
This is where you just missed my point
Toyin said 'All women are possesive', I'm saying 'Nigerian women are relatively extremely, ultrapossesive'
Did I tell you 'Save me from this possesive chic'? C'mon, I'm Eldee!!!

I think you need to check up the definition of 'whine' and stop playing the love doctor
Kapish?? ?? ??

Don't believe i was playing anything eldee. Just stating my opinion . Seriously you can't base such things because on woman actually agrees with it. I mean i admit ALL WOMEN ARE CLINGY TO A DEGREE. It is just nature. It is just how it is. So live with it. But those women who go overboard are the ones who are insecure and/or have no trust in their man. Yes there are some woman who digest the wrongs signs in the beginning of the whole dating thing. Some my take it more than its stride. Then there are some who don't give a flippin care.

mesmya:
seriously ,this love is too much,and [b]they both stay in d state[/b]s

Can you verify this?

davidylan:
nah i don't think so. [b]She sounds more like a girl who hasnt ever been in love before. [/b]Once she meets that guy she's the type that can be led meekly by the nose.

Very faulty.
Me "[i]she's the type that can be led meekly by the nose."? [/i]you must be really tripping.

whitelexi:
Onyinye2 will be a seriously possessive lover, red alert for men who love to enjoy some independence. . . This is the kind of girl that will drive a man to his early destruction if she doesnt have her way.

Please elaborate on this because it is very faulty as it stands.

[quote author=NiyiRocks! link=topic=165512.msg2737882#msg2737882 date=1220281130]Unfortunately for me I'm not. My only loss is I've had to kill the speakers for the time being. .
while watchin this hyper-hilarious Bush-Condoleeza Rice youtube footage.[/quote]Oka you pretty much said it all for yourself in this one post. Good Job. It saves me time and energy. Thanks.

eldee:
As I told you before, I've been in, witnessed and heard of enough cases to form an opinion
You know the truth, let's not call the kettle blueish, metallic, scalded black . . . Nigerian ladies get clingy from the start
That's why you hear them saying 'he used and dumped me' when he didn't promise commitment in the first place

Oka what ladies have you been dating? Like on the real. . . . it sounds like you attract insecure women. Because yes i admit there are women who tend to be on the clingy side. But you have to remember there is a lot of women who see no need to be clingy. A woman who is clingy from the start is a red flag for the rest of the relationship.

eldee:

Tell me how to say 'Please hun, you really need to back off now, let's slow down with this' without putting a Nigerian chic on suicide watch?
It still boils down to the 'Every relationship must end in marriage' thing that they grew up with
As TOH said, a nigerian sees a chic that goes on three dinner dates in a week is seen as a slut
And now look at you describing being possesive as 'caring' . . . hmmn dark days ahead for us ooh

Just simply tell her from the start that you aint looking for no relationship and leave at that. I mean i can't stand people who whine about things going on in the relationship when you were given opportunity after opportunity to set boundaries. Just open your mouth and speak. Simple as that.

[quote author=NiyiRocks! link=topic=165512.msg2737804#msg2737804 date=1220280223]naija chicks?!!!!
Possessive is an understatement.
To lend credence to it there's one hitting da buzz key on my YIM right now it's drivin me nuts!! [/quote]Stop exaggerating. . . . it is so phony and unnecessary.

Moyola:
juz thnk it'D b beta 2 let d guy make d first move in such situashun!! abi?!

Straight Up! I wouldn't want to make the first move.

kemisuga:
I think the guys are more possesive than babes.

Hell Yeah!

eldee:
Ta the Bleep toi!!!
If I wanted to generalise, I'll be saying 'all women are clingy'
But I've seen women from other cultural backgrounds
Nigerian women take it as an art, it's like a skill they learnt in school

V.O.G. (violation of generalizing)

eldee:
Not caring?? C'mon . . . I don't need you to be 'caring' when we just met last week
The average nigerian lady thinks a date is a ritual that shows commitment
Questions like, 'I called you twice and you didn't pick, where were you?'
Erm . . . it's just a flipping dinner

So then why don't you open your God given mouth and speak? If you notice the particular chick you kickin it with aint understanding that what you got between yal aint no commitment. . . . then just say it. Aren't you the same one who rants about women expecting their man to be a mind reader? Well it seems like the table has changed.

eldee:
Aight . . . tell me which Brit dishes out eye gestures towards their boyfriend's secetaries??
C'est fini . . . you put it well
Caring is 'how was your day', clingy is calling every hour to see how your day's been going

Oka you have to understand that EVERYONE is clingy to a degree. Men and Women.

whitelexi:
Ten of the 2 of u combined, add all your spirits, and . . .

Gini?

Cutty Buddy-------- Mike Jones ft. Tpain/Trey Songz, Twista, Lil Wayne.

@post

Can you explain to me the whole "blood transfusion" part of being an JW? Because since im becoming a doctor in the future. . . i want to get the full assessment over the whole thing.

whitelexi:
There is a clear difference between being caring and being clingy or choking - GOSH! I don dey tire to dey read your sexist rants, when u see the truth, identify with it please

Good thing this wasn't aimed towards me. . .

eldee:
C'mon, let's be truthful here
When I go on a date with Serena, I know there's still a chance I don't call her again
Infact, bout 70% chance that we're not taking it anywhere

But let's try the same thing with a Bunmi
You'll get calls filling your voicemail, there was a time this next chic used a different number to see if I was avoiding her
It's like you're married just because you when on one date
Fine, most Nigerian chics don't spew first, but when you give sumn as little as a greenflash, they go all clingy

Blah Blah Blah. . . . you are in violation of generalizing. You can't give faulty stats based on one experience with a woman. Overall. . . . women are clingy to a degree. If she wasn't. . . . she would be deemed as "Non Caring". It truly depends on the guy and the vibes he gives off. Some men give no reason for a woman to be ultra clingy because he is faithful and keeps his eye on the prize. While others flirt in front of their woman, check out babes in the presence of her, so on and so forth. So you can you blame her for upping her degree of clinginess? i wouldn't blame her at all.

Hola, Baxilexi

Ujujoan:
Poster, why don't u relax and enjoy it while it lasts. [b]Take advantage of it. Get what you want from them. [/b]You musnt open your legs. If they don't want to drop the they'll definitely get lost.

hollandis:
your mama 4got to tell you?

tell me what. . . .

hollandis:
berra start relearning your role as a woman

And that role is to be what again?

eldee:
C'mon that's a lie jare
The difference is, the nigerian lady starts being possesive from the first day you meet

Shaarup dia! This be lie! You can't pin point this straight to Nigerian women. . . . all culture groups are the culprits. Im not saying all women are like this. I for one im not possessive. Im secure enough to know that if my man knows whats good for him. . . . he'll keep his eyes on the prize.

It seems like you have been sleeping since 1952 and just arised from your long slumber.

hollandis:
its obvious you are in emotional bondage .

Brotha. . . . you need to stop smokin that mary jane. It is killing your brain cells. I mean c'mon are you really serious?

Missy B:
Onyinye
PLSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS STOP!
I jst can't stop ROTFL

Gurlie. . . . im laughing w/ you. There is no way the brotha is serious.

whitelexi:
Its always got to be one out of 3 girls on Nairaland, if its not UjuJoan, it is Onyinye2 or its Jennikadry - In no particular order

Blancolexi. . . . . i see you are itching for trouble.