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agaba123:
Detective onyinye2

If that is what you detected, I make bold to say you were 100% wrong. In as much as I like Ruby , nothing more than what could go on beteween u and I was going on. You see a guy throw a flirt post, you conclude they are making out. You will learn more when u grow up hon

I truly hate it when people try and question my intelligence and maturity.

OluwaKANYE:
of course, have you asked yourself why lesbianism is easily overlooked and even accepted unlike gayism

Because of double standards.

3viso:
Lord Are we baptizing GAY Practice with a new name BROMANCE.
 The last time I took a guy out for a dinner was when I'm trying to hook up with his sister.

That is truly foul.

[quote author=Ruby_Pearl link=topic=38130.msg2729438#msg2729438 date=1220113002]@oyinye
lol, you na d the men on this forum sef [/quote]What. . . i hold no grudge or resentment over none of them. . . . i just know when something sly is going on. . .

agaba123:
@ onyinye

You never believe anything good can come out from me. Do you? She showed a keen interest that is not seen in a non Igbo. That was why I wanted to teach her but you guys deceived her.

I was actually interested in teaching but people like you made her believe I was looking for her kitten. I wonder that is possible while we are thousands of miles apart

You remind me of some folk when i went to Nigeria. They think just because i don't speak my native language. . . . i don't understand. Well i do. i understood enough to know something was going on. . . . . but im not down pouring on your teaching skillz. I actually learned alot.

loffers:
@koffee

plz, i want 2 learn igbo, can u teach me

@ibk
are u good in igbo also

Hey no one calls Ibk, Koffee but me. I will let it slide this once

[quote author=Ruby_Pearl link=topic=38130.msg2729422#msg2729422 date=1220112721]you saying he's a bad teacher? [/quote]No. . . he wasn't a bad teacher. . . . just a wee bit, how can i put this. I might not be fluent in igbo but i do understand enough to understand that something is going on. . . .

Sisikill:
Please keep telling them for me!! I don't get it, I just don't get it. . . Why is it so hard to understand?

I guess you know how guys love to be seen as tough and hard and all that jive. So they don't want anything to some how "damage" that image. I truly think it is just childish and what have you. Maybe because i know the difference of a guy who loves another guy and a guy who is in love with another guy.

Sisikill:
ROTFLMAOPIMP. . .  Stephen, I can't stop laughing! Is that what you guys think we do? Cry and handle each other? I don't know what to say right now. . . maybe it's because I have questions. So are we crying because we're being fondled or are we fondled because we were crying?    

You are really something. . . sisi But yeah i have friends who are women and i have never been fondled or the fondlier so im wondering where this came from.

loffers:
i wish i culd get someone to teach me igbo

Ask KOFFEE. . . . she is an expert.

[quote author=Ruby_Pearl link=topic=38130.msg2729354#msg2729354 date=1220111805]lol, meaning?[/quote]I mean think about it. . . .

StephenP:
Well, I did say "generally" that's what happens. Level of maturity? I don't think so. Bond? Yes. They love each other so much that they want to get married in California.

Oka i have male friends in which i have known my whole lives. The four of us are family and like sometimes i have heard one of them tell the other "i love you" and it was just that. They are not gay or "sweet" for doing so. They are family.

OluwaKANYE:
@Onyinye   do you expect guys to do the higlighted among themselves too

Young man. . . . please quote me where i said that because i don't believe i did.

[quote author=Ruby_Pearl link=topic=38130.msg2729341#msg2729341 date=1220111691]Agaba refused to teach me.

I need to sculpt my body too, bring me along o[/quote]Was he [i]really [/i]teaching you in the first place. . . . .

ibkaye:
@onyin
goood

igbo language? yesss o infact i am now fluent  

You know that is a boldface lie.

StephenP:
You ladies have your kind of "deep friendship" which involves spending time alone with yourselves, handling each other, sitting on each other, hugging each other, crying with each other and all that and that is cool because you're generally more emotional than we are. We men have our own sense of deep friendship which involves ordering pizza, watching a game together, going to the Chinese restaurant down the street to get something to eat while talking about current girls we're dating, playing basketball/soccer/football together, going to the club together and all that. That is just what we do. We can go to the movies together as long as it's a really good movie like Batman, saying "I love you" is a red flag unless he is your dad or maybe brother and/or he did something extraordinary but nevertheless, it shouldn't be said with emotion like you'D say to a girl, it is should just be said.

Oka whatever. . . . . that whole highlighted statement is just generalizing. As i said before it depends on the maturity and bond of the men involved.

[quote author=Ruby_Pearl link=topic=38130.msg2729291#msg2729291 date=1220111173]what have you been sculpting?[/quote]

ibkaye:
pahahahaha, sorry o ehn, don't worry, you and your legs will be in my prayers

I have been sculpting My body. I been lazy and im starting to form this non athletic look. So i need to rescuplt my legs, calves, thighs, abs, arms. So im sore as heck. And on this freakn diet. But otherwise, im good. I hope yal have been studying the igbo language. . . . .

Mayne yal need to get yal's minds out of the gutter.
I have been in conditioning and sculpting with my team. So my legs are like freakn' Jello at this point.
I will be feeling this way until around June.

@Koffee na Ruby

I have been good. . . . . but im extremely sore. Like from the waist down im just in pain. I need a massage ASAP.

Sisikill:
Oyinye thank you oh! With the way these guys are carrying on, you'll think I'm asking them to be mare to another guy's stud.

I think it depends on the maturity of the men involved. As i said before. . . . i have been bestfriends with these men since i was like four. So we are basically family. So when they say "I love you" to each other, it doesn't faze me because they are that close. To generalize and say that "In The West You are considered gay" then you obviously fit the category of
1. You have not been in the West that long
2. You watch too many movies
2. You aren't mature enough to understand and get passed gay phobia.

Hola. . . . Koffee and Ruby!
Been really busy this week.

I do think such a thing exist. Like the guys i hang out with. . . . . . we (three guys and me) have been friends since we were about four years old. So sometimes i have seen one of them tell eachother that they love them and it was just that. And sometimes the three of them go places just hang. They are that close.

I hate knock off Dr. Phils.

Most people would say every man to themselves but that is not this case

My hubby should be able to get out on his own. Is he not a man?
I would of course go for my mom. . . . . i mean it just makes sense.

My Top 2 favorite speeches of the week go to. . . . .

Bill Clinton:
He came with that classic gentlemen style. With the charisma we have loved and adored for years. The words of hope and the future just blew me away.

Barack Obama:
The way he spoke of a better life for his daughters and the strength and wisdom given to him by his mother and grandparents just touched me in a way that most politicians can't. For once I actually can say that The White House has a new meaning for its name.

My eyes are engulfed with tears and my body overwhelmed with admiration, hope, and change. I give thanks to God that was blessed to see the day happen. This is truly one of the highlights of my life.

This is a yes and no subject.

Yes because coming to church in the same dress you wore to the club last night is just unacceptable. I mean c'mon. I remember one lady coming to church in a really short skirt and a low cut v-neck top. I was like. . . What. I think you should dress acceptable to the occasion. I don't approve of coming to church in jeans or a regular t-shirt. It just doesn't do it for me. I went to this Presbyterian church wear folk came in wearing jeans, white beaters, extremely tight clothing. So i was like, okay.

No because Jesus did say "come as you are" meaning it doesn't matter what is on the flesh as long as the soul is willing to receive the Word.

So i understand regulations of the Catholic Church of dress code. But i just feel they should have these folk sit in the back more towards the door way then to send them away from the receiving and seeking the Word of God.

@post

No. . . . you really can't convert someone when it comes to marriage. When someone is ready to be married, they will marry. If they are not, then they are not. Trying to convert someone into marriage material is basically shooting yourself in the foot.

Take it like this:
It is like some street thug with some "potential" and trying to convert him into a man worth marrying. Now how do you think the marriage will go. . . .

Cristalz:
@madamkoko
You fought for what you believe in.  .  which is the non-existence of God and Jesus. Don't the Christians have a right also to fight for what they believe in?


I wish you weren't insulted so much sha.  .  .anyway,allz said and done.Its ok.Nobody's insulting you now,so stop insulting,k? See na only me and you remain.  .   .and onyinye.

@onyinye
Abeg spread peace o

Not at all. Just stating one thing and moving on. . . . . far on.

This is the funniest thread ever.

@topup
It has to follow the given scenario or Stephan will get all zangie. I remember he gaves this "over protected lover" topic. . . . yeah i had to break the rules on that one and put my own spin on things.