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[quote author=Ruby_Pearl link=topic=163916.msg2712478#msg2712478 date=1219804973]^{*white girl's voice*} Like omg, Like why are you quoting me?
Like omg![/quote]ROTFLMAOSMD!!!! true though. Very true. Esp. . . . the first six.

DeepZone:
Ehmm na so you like dollar? What about Olu maintain? He's famous now?

Well. . . . . . . im going to have to say NO!

[quote author=Okija_juju link=topic=163916.msg2712415#msg2712415 date=1219801818]Whatever fuels your "Man-eating urge".[/quote]Blah Blah Blah. . . . . rubbish in my ears.

bigboyslim:
Tall
Handsome
Rich
Confident
Responsible
Honest
Non drinker
Non smoker
Non womanizer
Great sex

to name a few. If you don't meet the minimum requirements, you won't even be invited for the interview

So are you saying woman should eliminate these so called "criterias" and just give every man the benefit of the doubt?

DeepZone:
Emmmhnnn Will you marry Alariwo?

(coughing relentlessly). No way jo. But i would happily marry. . . . . Amobi Okoye

[quote author=Okija_juju link=topic=163916.msg2712396#msg2712396 date=1219801385]"The truth" according to Onyinye. [/quote]CORRECTION. "The Truth" according to all the people who have sense.

[quote author=Okija_juju link=topic=163916.msg2712346#msg2712346 date=1219800136]All hail Onyinye

Nairalands resident "Man-Slayer". [/quote]Shaarup dia. Onye ara
You know i speak the truth.

@post

Of course i would marry a famous person. It is does that are famous who abuse it are the ones who have their lives posted on People's magazine.

@post

You see, you got it all wrong. We have alot of men. . . . . physically. But we have very very very very very very very few men mentally. What we have is an infestation of Men with a Boy's mentality.

sistawoman:
i tried not to call again but just did.

he picked the call this time but would not speak to me.  I just spoke into a silent phone and asked that he please break the silence with me, come home and allow us to work this out.  I reminded him of our wedding day and i could hear him crying.  I apoligized for the nasty voicemails and texts and lying to him and not trusting that he could understand the truth.

I love him with all my heart and I am hoping and praying that God softens his heart long enough for him to come home.  At least let me lay eyes on him this day before i close mine.

I miss my husband and I love him so much.  I can't believe this is happening to me.

Ahhhh now you are begging? Where is the dignity in that? Any ways. . . . . you need end all this high school acts of texting and calling and leaving voice mails. You sound like one of my friends when she had a fight with her boyfriend when i we were sixteen. Instead of calling him on the phone tryna be "sweet", got off the freakin phone, log off the dog gone computer and GO CONFRONT HIM!. And whatever you do, be sincere. No crocodile tears, no begging like a dog, and no attitude. Just start acting like a married woman and not a high school love puppy.

davidylan:
Chill o! Is this the sistawoman who just got married?   This is what you get when you spend too much time talking ABOUT your marriage rather than working to protect it.

[b]My father once said - never marry a woman who can't control herself when she is angry. [/b]Now that i'm older i think its one of the wisest sayings i ever heard. Kudos to you sis . . . when your husband starts staying outside the home it wont be long before another sistagirl replaces you.

pele o.

why does this ring a bell. . . .

If it is one thing i know. . . . and that is not be sarcastic with some people. With my girlfriends or my personal guy friends. . . oka im very sarcastic. In fact i do it without thinking. But with people such as my father or people of his genre. . . . i don't even show that side. I did it once and learned my lesson. Because even though my dad is the most sarcastic person in the world. . . . you never give him a taste of his own medicine.

So sista. . . . you betta suck up some of that pride and apologize. i know it is hard because i most definately wouldn't apologize, or atleast be the first one. I would probably have an attitude about it. Actually i would most definately have an attitude about it. So yeah i would come off "sincere", and leave the attitude. Because it would add insult to injury.

bigboyslim:
Have you tried craigslist?

Who is craig? I rather read from emekaslist or obinnaslist.

Maybe the marriage is legit And he is one of those "understanding" Nigerian men Why haven't i found one?

Queenisha:
from original poster


Look at this woman and this kain nonsense question.
A woman who has been around the block many rounds with 4 kids to prove it captures a man 8 years younger.
You should be at Redeemed church giving thanks than come here to ask this kain yeye question.
Which person on this forum would want their brother entangled with a woman with 4 kids and loads of earthly bagagge.
Has he really told his parents the real story here
His mom will have a heart attack, honestly.
Thank God none of my brothers fell ito this type of evil  omen.
Not one, not 2 but 4 kids by another man /men
and then you pin this young man down and deliver the 5th
are you looking for farm hands?
If this man is not good,tell me who else is good.
For all you know,his family may have disowned him for this act

To answer your question,you not only have a good man, you have a brave one.
There's none like him.

LMFAOROTFLSMD!!!!!!!!!!!!!! All osisi. . . . . . you know you aint right for this. eziokwu

[quote author=Ruby_Pearl link=topic=163465.msg2702719#msg2702719 date=1219625481]And I got the best of both words [/quote]Oh I see. . . . you got it like that. Yeah igbo men got it but does AA's. . . . mmm mmm mmm!

[quote author=Ruby_Pearl link=topic=163465.msg2702703#msg2702703 date=1219625111] Me too, I love my Igbo/yoruba men ( ), but mixed is even better [/quote]GREEDY!!!!! You want the best of both worlds.

[quote author=Ruby_Pearl link=topic=163465.msg2702696#msg2702696 date=1219624806]Like I said, AA men are not and never going to be my type [/quote]That is how me and you differ. I love my igbo men but those AA's. . . . . . are scrumptious.

[quote author=Ruby_Pearl link=topic=163465.msg2702686#msg2702686 date=1219624589]Yes, . . . .are just not my type [/quote]GINI!?! AA men are EVERYBODY's type. In high school, all i dated was AA men. They were the star athletes and were so damn fine. Mayne i still keep my baby Reggie Bush on my wall, wallet, key chain, computer screen, tattoo.

Queenisha:
In that story,the first day he breaks a plate near my head,that's it.

You would wait for efere? The moment he grabs my wrist in anger. . . . . i will pack my things in a ghana must go bag.

[quote author=Ruby_Pearl link=topic=163465.msg2702675#msg2702675 date=1219624265]Na, they can't handle my wahala [/quote]Gini? AA men are just. . . . . (in a lost of words. looks over to Reggie Bush poster)

Yeah SeanT. . . . would hate to see another African woman who falls under "My man is a phucking over protective byatch" category.

[quote author=Okija_juju link=topic=163465.msg2702665#msg2702665 date=1219624030]another naija men bashing thread??

Ara ga gba nid ara na obodo Nairaland a one day[/quote]Don't be made because you are deemed categorized as indecent.

bigboyslim:
What's an AA brother?

"African American" (saying this in a white girls voice)

bigboyslim:
Excuse me. Sorry i don't speak yoruba. what does that mean.

na asusu igbo?

bigboyslim:
Oyinye. Only a naija man can tolerate ruby. I can guarantee that

Naija men ko good ni.

[quote author=Ruby_Pearl link=topic=163465.msg2702650#msg2702650 date=1219623745]If your brother is handsome and rich, bring him to my state ASAP [/quote]What you need to do is get you an AA brotha.

SeanT21:
Damn. That is some bad story. If I see signs like that, ITS OVER!!!

That is what they all say before they do it a second too late.

You can't prove it. There is nothing good about an over protective man.

bigboyslim:
But on a more serious note. Ruby you are always quick to stereotype naija men as dishonest and worthless. I think you might be hanging around the wrong crowd. maybe you should try to sway a bit from the norm and try and meet naija men from a different pool and you will see that there are still lots of honest ones out there.

No, what she needs to do is date outside her culture base.

[quote author=Ruby_Pearl link=topic=163465.msg2702622#msg2702622 date=1219623193]Let's round that up to 96 [/quote]Oka we have finally reached middle ground. 96%. *phew*