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They hate because of:

Ignorance
Boredism
Not knowing the South's worth
See South as scapegoat to all the problems
View us as less than
They hate us cause we dislike them
so and so forth. . . .

well. . . . .

Hmmm. . . . .

hmmm. . . . . .

Axis:
Yorubas are fucking ugly.

Oh so yorubas are ugly abi. so then who is "good looking" in your eyes? surely not yourself.

vislabraye:
KISS on your feet means- i want to be your house boy ; i am a woman wrapper. Think about it, upon all the erogenous zones , is it the feet that attracts a MAN

LMAO!!!!!

Orikinla:
The bottom line is, pedicures are a must.

Sure if you are 100% willing to pay.

[quote author=$$Rhino link=topic=161956.msg2684253#msg2684253 date=1219258040]Onyi, it is high time u stop struggling with the label, if u don't want to treat him like a king and yet you will treat him like a woman that treat her man like a king will treat him, then, chose any word that best fit how u will treat, the bottom line is no need for the man to ask for kingship treatment, Love from him will be enough to make u want to even give him your life.[/quote]Of course im a ride or die kind of chic. If i truly truly truly love you, then why wouldn't i ride or die. For me. . . i will just think of it as instead of saying "treating him like a king" it will be me giving him that butta love instead. Cause when i think of king, the word "worship" just enters my mind.

sistawoman:
Most of what my hubby does for me is not materialistic. Most of what he does for me can not be measured in dollars and cents.

I know that when i need him he is always there.
I know that I will never NEED for anything.
I know that i may WANT for somethings until he is able to provide it.

He is not perfect and neither am I. But our NEEDS are always taken care of, both his and mine.

I guess you know you are living the life most people dream of. But. . . . . the king things just doesn't work with me . . . . . right now. I still have time to experience, learn, understand. Because for you, treating your man as a king goes without thought. As for me. . . . i guess im more worked up on the title then the whole "treatment" aspect. Who knows, that might change. . . . with much much much time.

sistawoman:
What if he gives you whatever you want?

Depends on what i want. . . . . because i aint too into material things. . . . . for me, giving me what i want could be hard.

[quote author=$$Rhino link=topic=161956.msg2684191#msg2684191 date=1219256332]Do u really know the meaning of Love, i mean real love, not the kind of love that, i love you because you love me too, please, tell me, if you really understand the meaning of love, because if you do, there are some things that u argue about and u just wasting your time oh, when u love someone, i mean when you really love someone, he will tell you to jump and you wont even ask how high before u jump.
Treating a man as a king isn't same as enslaving yourself to such man, and trust me, just pray to find a man that truely loves yuo, because such man will do anything for you as well.[/quote][i](coughing relentlessly) [/i]I will treat him like a "man" not a "king". Whats the different. . . . . truly depends. Any how, im not some cold heartless person you are trying to make me seem like. I would do almost anything for the guy i love.

Im more clean. In fact im a neat freak. I need my space to be spotless at all times. I don't like to see things scattered all over the place. I don't like to see dishes in the sink, trash on the floor, clothes hanging everywhere. My place needs to be clean.

I don't know if it is the label or not. Cause for me to treat a man as a king. . . . you know, what does that make me? And who are you the king of? not me. Any ways what i view as king treatment. . . . . . is me subjecting myself to do whatever he wants. . . which is VERY hard considering me.

sistawoman:
I treat him like a king because he earned it.

When I ask him to do something he does it the first time when he said he will do it.
When I need him he is there.
When the bills are due they are paid.
When I am sick he is there.
When I need a shoulder to lean on he is there
I am always treated with respect, kindness and geniune concern.
He is faithful to me and our children.
I always, always, always feel like I am sitting up on a pedestal and that my needs come before his own.

He treats me like his queen and in turn he gets treated like my king.

All this is sweet and peachy to read. And i see you married right. And you are oka with treating a man like a king. But as for me. . . . i don't treat no one like a king. I will treat him right and make him see i know a man's worth. Cater to him, satisfy him. . . . . you know blah blah blah. But for me to treat him as a king. . . . Idk but it just doesn't suit with me. . . . .

DRANOEL:
might interest you to know that countries like thailand,mexico,holland,el savado,isreal and a host of others have agric based economies while the most developed countries in the world have a masive agric inputed economy

Funny of you to mention these countries. Countries where poverty is HIGH and need other countries assistance just to get by.

CodeRED:
Sweetie, just like some people NEVER grasp the contents in school, so too are some men. No amount of training will and can deliver them.   .
But as I earlier said, I have no problem treating my significant other like a "King".Which translates in my dictionary as, respect, love and admiration". However, it he is NOT worthy of such, then Hell NO . Why waste my energy trying to do what his mother didn't even bother to attempt?

LMAO!!! You got that right. King ko, dog ni, for me to treat my man like a king. . . .  it must be his birthday or father's day. Besides that. . .  wetin.

whitelexi:
More like planet of fantasy to me

Shaarup blanco boy. What do you know? nothing.

wumi11:
1. I HATE IT
2. MORE ESPECIALLY I DONT HAVE THE TIME.
and why would you not make me some nice dinner when we get back from work? huh?
you got issues with the dishes?

i now know u got issues with men,

If you don't have the time to cook, i don't have the time to cook. If i see that im the only one cooking in the house and you just sittin there doing nothing, me cooking shall cease to exist. Me got issues with men? Never. . . .

Sistawoman. . . . . why do you treat your hubby as a king? I mean i will treat him right and make him feel like a "man", but for me to treat him like a king. . . .

CodeRED:
LOL.funny thread indeed,

@topic
I have absolutely nothing against treating my man as "King". However, he must be deserving of such treatment. Why on earth would I treat a "dog"( true definition of MOST men) as a "king". And just to clear up any misconception, I DO treat mine like one. Sadly though, I had to "kiss a few toads before he came along"

You know you aint right but as they say men are dogs, and dogs can be trained!

whitelexi:
Seriously, what planet is this person from

Planet of Reality.

wumi11:
Chickala! am not an exception! i hate to cook, moreover i don't have the time. most time i go junk or iya basira!
and that goes to most men.

Oh you hate to cook and you expect a woman to cook for you at all time abi? Wake up brotha man, because you gonna cook whether you like it or not.

DRANOEL:
were you sold to an easterner at the age of 8? why the anger?

You obviously have some problems in the head if you actually think that the North can survive on agriculture alone with the South's oil.

whitelexi:
I see say u no get senior bros for house

Whatevers. You would be the main one to beg for your woman's feet.

wumi11:
To an extent you are right. But thats were we have to work on ourselfs, and also understanding would come to play here, because an average Nigeria man cannot cope with a wife that does not cook good food talk less of "can't cook" thats Bad

That is understandable. But then again being that this is 2008 not 1908, i wonder why the guy can't cook for himself. hmmm. . . . . Anyways you really don't know a person until you are married with that person. That is why when i see people who get married after only dating 1 1/2 years or only 2 years, i question their judgment. I mean do you really [/i]know this person like you think you do. I mean there are people out there who's main principle is to [i]"hide the flaws until after the wedding". That includes men and women.

ibrahiem:
takin control all time n at all course.being able 2 command respect

Nwoke, are you serious? I mean are you truly serious? Who are you commanding? Your wife?

wumi11:
if he weak, he be treating you like a b**tch!

but he aint then he be treating u nicely.

sorry Guys but i once read a book that says they are the weaker vessels,
but some strong pass us o!

Oh dry up your tears.

whitelexi:
Its not mentality, its not attitude. Its how it is, how it has always been, and how it will continue to be till death do everyone part.
God created it that way, Allah sanctioned it that way, The jews, the buddhists, the monks. . .  Everyone knows it will continue to remain so, so wake up from you little slumber before its too late

Blah Blah Blah. Will i be a good wife. . . . . yes. Will i bow down before him. . . . . hell naw. Treat him like a man. . . . . yes. Treat him as a king. . . . . hell naw.

DRANOEL:
meaning what? i was just trying to point out to him that without those states the norths agric potential will be drastically affected

Doesn't matter. Even the original poster knows that agricultural aint even enough. He is willing to sell eight year old innocent girls as slaves wives to make ends meet.

whitelexi:
When u view both from mature eyes, the difference is clear

It is not my eyes that are the problem, it is yal's attitude and mentality.

whitelexi:
Take off the boots first

You truly something blanco boy.

whitelexi:
Men are not weak, boys are weak. . .  So don't decieve yourself about your strengths when u take advantage of weak guys.

Boys ko men ni . . . . . sometimes it is hard to differ between the two.

whitelexi:
Only goodness knows the kind of safety boots u wear on your feet wey u wan give person dent for face eh?

You wanna find out. . . . .

DRANOEL:
@bashali
you are busy talking about making money like holland from agriculture and you(from your map) cut off benue,taraba,kogi and kwara the main producers of the agriclutural products hmmmmmmmmn!

If it bothers you so much, una go and post it up yourself.