₦airaland Forum

wumi11:
Shei! your type fit give you man groundnut and garri chop when the kitchen is filled with food. no hard feelings,
But if u value your Kids uve got no choice. sory

Oh brotha man, there is ALWAYS a choice to be made.

rampant:
keep dreaming,its so easy to get a man,u men r as weak as only gawd knows what,you're all known for that

LMFAO!!!!

creamkele:
It 's not only Naija men, but women too. We all want to be treat with ROYALTY

Says who?

whitelexi:
If u go, better don't come back oh - because the door will be shut and bolted!

Come back for what? There is more where you came from. . . .

wumi11:
[b]NIGERIAN [/b]MEN SHOULD STOP BEING EGOISTIK!!! women are also meant to be treated with respect, abi u no get Mama!

Does your kind exist in this day and age?

Go to her then. As for me. . . . .

Queenisha:
na you talk am.
You'll soon be  Mrs Karma Okereke
I've been known to prophesy

OMG!!!!   Ho ha, for where. Biko, that will be the day.

whitelexi:
Its a natural phenomenon

Shaarup dia blancolexi.

KarmaMod:
Osisi is lying oyinye

Outspoken wetin? If anything they wnat their women to be quiet tit mice with no voice/mind of their own which is why Yoruba-Igbo marriages is on the rise. The women are running for their lives before they end up chopped up like maggi cubes.

TOH you know aint right for that I don't know cause i have seen some igbo guys who like their women quiet and i have seen some who like the opposite. For instance, my parents. My mom aint the most quiet person in the world but she does know when to let things go and be quiet. So i guess it depends on the individual.

Nautillus:
God created man in HIS nature and said he should DOMINATE the earth. Just as REVERENCE and WORSHIP and ADORATION excites the lord . . .so that is how the EARTHLY version exites a man.

Hmmm. . . . . . . truly questionable.

[quote author=nwa-uwa link=topic=160981.msg2683630#msg2683630 date=1219250080]Done with you,old maid.
goodluck in your search for a hubby till then keep zuzuring  [/quote]you know you are wrong for that.

Queenisha:
not that.
Igbo men like outspoken, confident  women
jidekwa k'iji my sister

literal meaning: hold onto the thing you're holding unto
real meaning: nothing do you

Oh really now, cause i always though the opposite.

Blah Blah Blah, blancolexi. You know would love your future wife to cater you as a king. So don't even give me that. You would be the first to quarrel with your wife if she didn't.

[quote author=nwa-uwa link=topic=160981.msg2683578#msg2683578 date=1219249629]@Topic,i still stick with what Ifyalways said:
Nurses should not just rush into marriage with any abroad based guy because she wants to get abroad.
Girls should learn to be respectful and wise too,who earns more notwitstanding.
a girl wrote this women should learn how to talk to their husbands "without appearing too bossy or totally stupid"
As a man,if you can't handle your girl earning more than you do,DONT even marry her.[/quote]Why does this make me feel like im about to talk to my father instead of my husband? IdK.

Sha Dang!!! I might not be fluent in igbo, but i understood all those insults.
Nna what is with all that cursing?

KARMA, handle this.

cold:
You're my superwoman,y would i want to lick your feet when there are a dozen other places i can lick & get u to cloud 12

Cloud 12 Ha Ha! Those that even exist?

whitelexi:
Now i'm suspecting the legs are

Open your mouth and speak. The legs are what?

grafikdon:
Nobody is afraid of anybody. He's just bashing the North with a new style. Nothing new, just boring.

When i mean of afraid, i don't mean "fear". I mean as this kat is off.

Yal are some characters. No one goes near my feet unless you want a dent in your face.

Is is just me. . . . or are yal a wee bit afraid of this gost character?

izeek:
@onyinye
wats the bold face lie.
i don't want to rule over any one.
maybe u boyfriend dey use u practice servant master rela.
slave trade era don pass, so wake up.

Oka yeah don't bring my life in to this. . . so not needed. Any ways. . . . seriously come on. Guys love being treated like a king. It is in their mentality. It runs through their veins.

izeek:
no 1 wants to be king or subject,
they just want to feel loved and respected.

This Is A BOLD FACE LIE.

gost:
I did not get a new I.D to post this lines. i was introduce to nairaland a few days ago by  a friend. I ve red a lot of  submission from u guys so this is how i wish to start mine. expect more bashing in two weeks time.

So not right.

Nothing. . . . i know i will never be perfect. I shall forever be stubborn, cantankerous, and Me. If you can't work around that with me then. . . . you might as well not associate with me.

Abstinence. . . . . or death.

[quote author=nwa-uwa link=topic=160981.msg2683177#msg2683177 date=1219244707]simple and very well put.Respect is gradually dying ! ! ![/quote]*rolls eyes*
So sad how male ego is fake and weak.
[quote author=dudu-bobo link=topic=160981.msg2683237#msg2683237 date=1219245524]One day, she may remind you she's the bread winner and you'll curse the ground you are standing upon.
I know it's very easy for you to rationalise intellectually but in reality, it becomes different for those actually involved. Just the same way you see love in movies and it seems so easy but even those who give you the movies can't make the love work in their lives[/quote]So how do you think women feel when day in and day out, we are constantly reminded "im head of the household" "im the bread winner" "im in charge"?

Whatever. . . . in reality we all know it was probably their own people(northerners) that robbed that woman. But they will go and put the blame on the south(especially the igbos for some strange reason) as the culprit.

[quote author=dudu-bobo link=topic=160981.msg2683170#msg2683170 date=1219244633]I thought it might be a good thing for a man to want to be the provider for his family. Okay, please marry me and provide everything while I sit around reading and watching TV all day[/quote]What im saying is, you and your wife work. But it just so happens your wife is making a bigger income than you are. Why feel inferior? You are both contributing to the household. Why should it bother or make you feel less than a man?

[quote author=dudu-bobo link=topic=160981.msg2683116#msg2683116 date=1219244122]What masculinity is there if your wife is the one providing for the family? i'm not sure how I would take it but I don't know if I'll be able to handle it properly. . . time will tell[/quote]It goes to show that a man's ego is weak and fraud. A man only feels a man when he is a provider? That is just a man with a boy's mentality.

[quote author=dudu-bobo link=topic=160981.msg2683048#msg2683048 date=1219243325]I'll be happy for my wife. I just don't know how I will feel knowing that she is the major contributor to the financial aspects of the family life. i'm a traditional naija man [/quote]Why can't you be secure enough in your masculanity, that you don't have to feel inferior to your wife.

[quote author=dudu-bobo link=topic=160981.msg2683029#msg2683029 date=1219243069]As much as your post made a lot of sense, I have to disagree with you on the Nigerian men point. There are very few men ANYWHERE IN THE WORLD who can handle or deal with their wives being the bread winners in the home. I think I may be one of them  [/quote]Why? Why can't you be happy for your wife?

cold:
But y do i hav to kiss any girls feet.What is that supposd to prove?

I have no idea. It aint romantic nor intimate nor appreciated.

size 3/5 baby.

Epiphany:
My goodness, and here i am thinking that i am the only one doing this. I have been comparing white, black, brown and all the feet that i come in contact with. Honestly, black feet do not seem to be as well kept and manicured as the white ones.

WHAT IS WRONG WITH OUR BLACK SISTERS? POVERTY?

I really love well kept feet, nails, skin, etc etc,

Biko, give me some money to go to the nail parlor and i will get that arrange.