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PoliticsRe: Please, Release Me, My Health Is Deteriorating- Magu by Openbusiness3: 11:37am On Jul 12, 2020
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RomanceRe: Ghanaian Man Pours Hot Water On His Breastfeeding Wife's Breast In Enugu (video) by Openbusiness3: 11:34am On Jul 12, 2020
Terrible! shocked
CelebritiesRe: Jude Ojegwu: Why I Reconciled With Ned Nwoko - Regina Daniels’ Father by Openbusiness3: 11:07am On Jul 12, 2020
shocked So everyone is just going to pretend as if they didn't read Ned Nwoko say that he has target to reach huh Is it target for number of wives or target for number of children cuz ayam not understanding oh. Somebody shul explain na sad
PoliticsRe: Exposed! Why Awolowo Never Became President Of Nigeria By Dr Olukoya. (watch) by Openbusiness3: 11:02am On Jul 12, 2020
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Christianity EtcRe: Evangelist Morris Cerullo's Last Moments With Oyedepo, Chris Oyakhilome, Enenche by Openbusiness3: 10:59am On Jul 12, 2020
FamilyRe: This Is For Men Only: Women Should Not Read This by Openbusiness3: 10:55am On Jul 12, 2020
bukatyne:
While I might not relate well, I see and hear same stories around me.

And my question is this:

Has anyone interviewed this men to know what happened? Where did things change? How did they use their season (30 - 60s)?

Like I say to women: if you have an issue with a system, find out what the problem is and change.

You don't counter a 'bad' system with another bad one: it shows you are no different from the people or systems you are whinning against.

Rather than men/fathers to figure out where things went wrong and how to fix them, you are talking of 'putting yourself first' before your family bla bla.

You put yourself first, your wife puts herself first, the kids put themselves first. Wouldn't it be better you all live in separate houses and meet once a month for catch up?

1. What is fatherhood without sacrifice?
2. What is leadership without sacrifice?
3. What is husbandship without sacrifice?
I never said a father should put himself first over his family. I can't do that. I won't do it. I put my sons first, I love them too much. Can't count how many times I went to bed hungry and weak just so I can put food in their mouth. Can't count the number of times I would eat once a day just so they can eat anytime they are hungry. I have forfeited things, gotten indebted, begged, crawled, scratched, swallowed ego, done things I never thought I would ever do for anyone just to be a good father to them. So this matter isn't about a father not wanting to sacrifice. This matter is about good fathers getting shut out of their children's lives when the harvest is ripe. It happens a lot, for different reasons too many to start talking about. So the OP is advising fathers to prepare for any eventuality, so they won't sink into depression and die as miserable frustrated sorrowful old men in their last days. That fathers should have a plan for themselves and put a little something away for themselves. Because often that not, as the days go by once the "dynamo of their lives" have been set in motion by good father who spent his best years making it happen, many are just left alone, with that subconscious idea that he is a man na, he can take care of himself. No, men need care too, especially after going through the toughest roughest battles of life to ensure the next generation are better off than where you were, than the best place you ever reached as a man. But many times, it looks like a case of 'use and dump', and sometimes, it is even worse when history is now "re-written" for the children and some good fathers are re-painted as absentees, yet they bore a lot of the dues that was paid. That's why you see many elderly men separating from their wives at old age and marrying younger girls. Many times, it is not about sex or lust. It is about companionship. The "old family" has abandoned him to himself and pushed him away with that "we don't need you anymore attitude". So he gets a younger girl (gold digger or not), that makes him feel special and wanted and gives him the companionship he desires to keep mind, body and soul together
PoliticsRe: How 4 Anti-graft Chiefs Ended Up In Corruption Charges by Openbusiness3:
Hmmm, see we Nigerians need to tell ourselves the truth. Asking a police officer to head an anti-corruption agency is like asking me to guard your goat meat pepper soup pot, it just cannot work, e can't work, no neva, it won't eva neva work. Your meat must short. It not my fault. There's something about soft goat meat inside a pepper sauce that will just be calling me name, calling me name.....u get d point. Anyway, the only people that should be heading EFCC because of their impeccable honesty, integrity, forthrightness and incorruptible personalities are people that sell suya. If you make a suya seller EFCC chairman money will not lost again. I mean somebody will put suya in his front for hours and not eat it, and be serving it to others, I kent do dat, I just kent. Suya sellers are very honest Let me tell y....yeeeeeeeee, hu slap me dia sad

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Kikikiki grin, if you wanna have free comedy show, just visit a newspaper stand that is in poor man areas and you will hear the funniest arguments ever. Lagos for show grin Check my signature to buy intelligent dispenser. Best quality North America product with warranty
PoliticsRe: NDDC Budgets ‘Hijacked’ By Nigerian Lawmakers — Cairo Ojougboh (Video) by Openbusiness3: 10:05am On Jul 12, 2020
VickyRotex:
Waawwuuuu make I kuku sit down. At least if I no trust you no be sey my head go double. embarassed Oya cut Yam. cry cry
am juz cumin from Harvard training cuz of u. Sha, i don cut am finish, see as ur head fine pass diamond necklace ........... Anyway, your bill is N60m, I don't accept transfer abeg, na cash grin

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SportsRe: Kamaru Usman Retains his UFC Welterweight Championship by Openbusiness3: 9:41am On Jul 12, 2020
isan:
Lol those racists like hating on isreal when he beat gastelum they came out in full force saying Whittaker will kill him because he beat Romero twice when adesanya KO Whittaker in 2nd round they say Whittaker is rusty and Romero will take his head off now they are all saying Paulo Costa will kill him
Kikikiki, u know dem very well. That Romero loss to Stylebender gave dem heart attack grin . When he finish Costa, dey will form another excuse. The worst one is saying that Stylebender should add weight and go into heavyweight to fight Jon Jones grin, see how far they are willing to go just to see him lose. nothing but pure hatred just because he's a black African.
Christianity EtcRe: Evangelist Morris Cerullo's Last Moments With Oyedepo, Chris Oyakhilome, Enenche by Openbusiness3: 9:26am On Jul 12, 2020
Hmmm. Who got the torch from him?
PoliticsRe: Thugs Attempt To Stop Joy Nunieh From Exposing Akpabio by Openbusiness3: 9:25am On Jul 12, 2020
basybasy:
Despite all the money this Akpabio carried when he was a two terms Governor. He is behaving like someone that has never seen money in life. Kai, our leaders are very greedy. All what the woman said about might be true. God please, help the soul of Nigeria.
they are not "our leaders". Who born monkey to be leader. They are nothing but thieves in power. They have no leadership in them whatsoever. They are not leaders. They are Crass thieves!
SportsRe: Kamaru Usman Retains his UFC Welterweight Championship by Openbusiness3: 9:20am On Jul 12, 2020
Yujiro:
I was busy laughing and immediately knew that USMAN won when i say different comments saying "the match was boring", "Kamaru was only grappling and stomping". The forget that this is Mix Martial Art not boxing. When Colby Covington predicted that Kamaru was going to dominate and win, they came for his head, now who's laughing. Great Fight.
yes oh, it's always a boring fight for racists when a black defeats their overhyped white fighters. They are still crying all over social media now. They are calling him the Foot stomp champion of the Ultimate Foot-stomp Championship grin e pain dem no be small. Same way Stylebender last win pain dem die grin
PoliticsRe: Thugs Attempt To Stop Joy Nunieh From Exposing Akpabio by Openbusiness3: 9:14am On Jul 12, 2020
sad 2 types of enemies:
a) The enemies within,
b) the enemies without
A is more deadly than B.
CrimeRe: EFCC Arrests Boys Who Was Lavishly Celebrating The Arrival Of Thier Cars. VIDEO by Openbusiness3: 9:00am On Jul 12, 2020
All this show on top ordinary Camry muscle. See as dem dey spray money with reckless abandon. What if dey come buy private jet, these ones no go know d time dem will carry the whole Nigeria spray am give Ghana, Togo and Cameroon grin
CrimeRe: EFCC Arrests Boys Who Was Lavishly Celebrating The Arrival Of Thier Cars. VIDEO by Openbusiness3: 8:56am On Jul 12, 2020
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EducationRe: Private Schools Teachers To Protest On Monday Over Nonpayment, School Closure by Openbusiness3: 8:44am On Jul 12, 2020
sad Na government teachers dey enjoy
PoliticsRe: Malami: I Didn’t Buy ₦300 Million Abuja House For My Son by Openbusiness3: 8:43am On Jul 12, 2020
tsephanyah:
99% of Nigerian Government are criminals and corrupt.
Fixed wink
PoliticsRe: Ondo APC Primary: Presidency Favours Akeredolu, Tinubu Camp Shocked Over Abraham by Openbusiness3: 8:39am On Jul 12, 2020
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SportsRe: Kamaru Usman Retains his UFC Welterweight Championship by Openbusiness3: 8:37am On Jul 12, 2020
ThierryJay:
Are the categories based on height or weight?
height increases your weight
PoliticsRe: Ize-Iyamu To Obaseki: Explain Whereabouts Of Your Commissioner Arrested Overseas by Openbusiness3: 8:35am On Jul 12, 2020
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Foreign AffairsRe: President Trump Finally Wears A Face-Mask In Public For The First Time by Openbusiness3: 8:33am On Jul 12, 2020
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SportsRe: Kamaru Usman Retains his UFC Welterweight Championship by Openbusiness3: 8:28am On Jul 12, 2020
ThierryJay:
Kamaru looks bigger and more built up than Adesanya. But I've always wondered why he is in a lighter weight category than Adesanya who is in the middleweight division? Congrats Kamaru anyway
Style Bender na tall guy
SportsRe: Kamaru Usman Retains his UFC Welterweight Championship by Openbusiness3: 8:23am On Jul 12, 2020
grin Kikikikiki, Ask me why I'm laughing? Because many racist white folks on MMA pages were saying thrash about Usman and his accomplishment, and saying he would lose badly. Another win. Another title defense. Dem go dey cry now. Racism doesn't pay grin
SportsRe: Ronaldo Scores 2 Penalties As Juventus Come From Behind To Draw Atalanta At Home by Openbusiness3: 8:12am On Jul 12, 2020
Penaldo grin
PoliticsRe: Ekenedirichukwu Innocent Chima Held By Pakistani Gang Thank Nigerians by Openbusiness3: 8:00am On Jul 12, 2020
omoluka:
What did you tell him? tell us
he was right about the story. He was able to deduce and figure out the true situation of things. So that man is a very smart man grin the 2nd thing is a secret grin lipsrsealed
BusinessRe: Scam Alert Please Avoid This Bitcoin Seller So You Dont End Up Being Scammed by Openbusiness3:
lipsrsealed anytime I hear anything like Bitcoin, crypto currency, I just jaapaaaaa

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BusinessRe: Scam Alert Please Avoid This Bitcoin Seller So You Dont End Up Being Scammed by Openbusiness3: 7:05am On Jul 12, 2020
Ran an ad on frontpage. This OP get money oh grin Wish you success in catching the scammer. Check my signature to buy intelligent dispenser. Best quality North America product with warranty
BusinessRe: Scam Alert Please Avoid This Bitcoin Seller So You Dont End Up Being Scammed by Openbusiness3: 7:03am On Jul 12, 2020
shocked
PoliticsRe: Ekenedirichukwu Innocent Chima Held By Pakistani Gang Thank Nigerians by Openbusiness3: 6:56am On Jul 12, 2020
Tonyfx:
Openbusiness3 I told you grin
thank you grin you will live long
RomanceRe: Why Are Latinos So Nice? by Openbusiness3: 4:06am On Jul 12, 2020
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RomanceRe: I Opened My Daughter’s Room Without Knocking, And I Saw The Most Heartbreaking T by Openbusiness3:
shocked. ........

Rgade:
Fake Trash
Fake Trash
Fake Trash
Fake Trash
micfoley:
As fictional as this sounds.........these things are happening o
Nothing fictional or fake about it. Go Snapchat, dem full there. Young girls selling naked snaps for money, young girls doing subscription service for nude snaps. Snapchat na their headquarters. Because Snapchat is very secretive and covers their tracks well because the snaps will delete itself after you see it twice and Snapchat notifies you when someone screenshots, screenrecords or saves your snap. They block the person straight. Snapchat is the OLOSHO HEADQUARTERS OF THE WORLD. If your girlfriend or wife favorite social media app na Snapchat, forgerrit, na dem be dat oh.....but everything dey coded....if u know u know lipsrsealed .... Check my signature to buy intelligent dispenser. Best quality North America product with warranty

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