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@OP..I cannot determine if its imperative or not!
What i can say is that sex doesn't 'really' determine the longevity of a relationship....However,a relationship without sex doesn't also imply that the union will work out well in the foreseeable future!

Some folks want to use the 'no sex before marriage' policy to tie a partner down or determine their faithfulness forgetting that both partners can get married, have the long awaited sex and still divorce leading such person who made such policy to go back to square one!

It changes nothing if you have sex or not(that should be a decision between both partners)....but what should be paramount or of great importance should be about the level of the partners' emotional maturity and compatibility!

In simple terms,date someone with the same mindset like yours.....Don't date a bad guy and expect him to agree wholeheartedly with your 'no sex before marriage' policy

Nazgul:
To me sex isn't necessary.

From my past relationships, if I'm to advice any girl I'll tell them to avoid sex and stand on it. Sex makes you suspicious of your partner. It makes you have unnecessary problems, unnecessary commitments, unnecessary responsibilities.... etc. How many guys would you keep offering your body to just to make them stay?

What makes most guys wants sex is when the financial demand from the girl becomes too much. Most girls will tell you that they're not ready for sex, but will still want you to show dedicated financial commitments towards them. No guy will ever agree to that.

Many girls naturally lack wisdom. Let me share a my own experience here. I met this girl some years ago, she told me her usual no sex till marriage. I asked her if she's a virgin she said no that she dated just one guy who broke her heart and now she has decided to zip up till her wedding night.

To me, I didn't have any problem with that. My problem was that this girl literally flirts on the phone with guys even in my presence. When I confront her she'll tell me they're just toasters that she doesn't have anything with them. She receives calls like a call center agent. Always on Facebook and WhatsApp till even midnight. And to make matters worse she's the urgent 2k type. So tell me would any guy in my shoes honour her request to date without sex....of course not. I had to end the whole stuff cos she wasn't contributing to my life in anyway. Most times I initiate a discussion with her on chat, she can't even sustain it without indirectly telling me one problem or the other she has.

My take...if you don't want sex in a relationship and you don't want to have any problem with your man concerning your stand, then avoid unnecessary request so it won't make him feel that you're owing him. Avoid flirting with other guys on phone and in reality. Concentrate on your relationship by looking for ways to make an impact in his life. It could be through business ideas, could be counseling, could be partnership in business, education...etc. also develop yourself. Let him see that your life is progressing. That you're successful in whatever it is that you're into.

Make him see you as someone he can't do without and he'll stick to you regardless of your no sex stand.

Nice points!

fashrola:
Try get sense......

Why una no fit perceive sarcasm for him writeup

OP Please If you have the means, take your mother out of there!
A violent person like your stepdad will not stop being violent by signing a mere undertaking and will never stop until he hurts your mother using other diabolical means!

dahnimoh:
Seriously, this News almost confused me because I know Borno is Boko Haram free,banditry free ,herdsmen free and crime free .

I think the zamfara guys should go and find out how the borno govt was able to contain all these

dahnimoh:
Seriously, this News almost confused me because I know Borno is Boko Haram free,banditry free ,herdsmen free and crime free .

I think the zamfara guys should go and find out how the borno govt was able to contain all these

I no longer bother my self with whatever happens in the north since one of their own Oga zulum said the security now is better than before!
Since they said they are enjoying a 'secured' north,who am I to complain?

While this piece of advice is imperative and instructive we must also ensure we get to the root cause of jungle justice abinitio!
If an armed robber is caught and taken to the station,the same bandit will be released and come for those who caught him!
There was a particular street where a notorious armed robber and cultist had been operating freely until some worried and concerned individuals staying there paid some vigilante to catch and arrest the guy.....can you believe two days later,this same criminal was already released and one after the other,he killed all those who participated in paying the vigilante to capture him.....He was finally killed by a rival cultist!
So while we say no to Jungle justice,we must call on the security operatives to do their primary responsibility!
Most of our security operatives esp the police force are culpable for releasing these bandits after being heavily bribed by their sponsors!

uglodoh:
I have also watched the terminator 2. It is also a nice film. It has been long oo

One of my best villain T-1000 aka the running man

uglodoh:
It is a very nice film but not an action film

Ohh sorry my bad!
Guess i got too excited about the film!
Hmmmm....Terminator 2 Judgement day

Scent of a woman

Afam4eva:
They're yet to crash out. They need Istanbul to beat PSG today to qualify.

They are out already whether PSG lose by 60-0 to istanbul due to a better H2H against manutd

Pogba's agent Raiola: He is not happy at the club and wants to change teams!

mrkings84:
MAN U MAY STILL QUALITY SHOULD PSG LOST AT HOME TO HIGH FLYING ISTANBUL BASAKSEHIR!


UP BLUES!
THE SKY REMAIN BLUE!


ARSENAL FANS ARE NKW HAPPY!

No way for manutd!
Even if PSG loses,they will still be ahead of Manutd based on a better head to head!

Thursday night footy for the braggadocious manutd fans.....Comeback kings kor

airliner:
Goal man united.. Kaka scores wat a bicycle kick

omor chelsea defenders really want kepa to dey bench

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Op seems you stay close to an area where there are bushes and host of rodents stay nearby..!
Try to fumigate the area once in a month or make use of wasted diesel products and pour around the compound!

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Christistruth00:
Please keep your Endsars Carnage far away from Lagos and SW


Buhari and Butatai are in Abuja


https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.vanguardngr.com/2020/11/endsars-cnn-backtracks-from-claim-that-38-died-at-lekki-tollgate-shooting/amp/


https://m.guardian.ng/news/ohanaeze-ndigbo-condemns-ipobs-call-to-destroy-yoruba-assets-in-lagos/

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I dont know what you are saying....stop talking like a drunk man!
The citizens in any part of the country including Lagos have the right based on the constitution to protest!
Not even the president can stop them...i am happy the protesters came with cameras so that your beloved NA wont say they fired blanks or were never there

Una go wait tire

amc:
Stop being simple-minded. All you need to do is dispute the facts he listed.

How does the record bring an end to bokoharam?
How does the numbers impede terrorism,kidnapping and armed robbery in northern states like sokoto,katsina,kaduna and borno state?
Of what use are those statistics if people keep dying everyday?
Didnt the president aka sheriff boastfully declare in 2015 that he will wipe out insecurity from the country esp borno state in 4 months into his administration or has his 'body language' stopped working?

Your people are dying and you shamelessly have the time to make a statistics of the deaths that happened before and after the coming of the president!
So Mr zulum are you saying that the lives of those who died during the present administration are insignificant?
So how does the record help or assist in bringing down bokoharam and other security issues esp in borno?
Next time don't come and cry out to Nigerians that your people are dying!
Imagine?

GavelSlam:
It doesn't matter?

Are you saying every policeman is SARS?
If your answer is yes, then it means every deadlocked guy with a laptop is a Yahoo boy.

Are you also happy and impressed with the performance of an average police personnel in your domain or in the country?

if your answer is yes,then i can confidently say you are typing from another country!

Lets even admit without conceding that SARS has been taken out,were the members of SARS not policemen then?....when it was disbanded, didnt they come back to being policemen?

The guy you replied stated explicitly that the police needs to be reformed,he never said the police should be done away with as you are wrongfully alluding to!

GavelSlam:
And the hashtag says EndSARS.

Its doesn't matter...besides,the same SARS that the president put to an end is still very much alive and causing mayhem in our society!
Was it not the sane police men that killed a man who was going to his traditional marriage?
He wants a reform of the police which we are yet to see from the FG! Simple!

GavelSlam:
We should do away with the police right?

juininho:
Let us unite against this people and make sure they are reformed, completely.

Mr Gavelslam,Peruse his last statement.... The keyword there is 'REFORM' not abolishment of the police!

ULOPVQ:
Focus on the killings going on in the North where you stay, so that it won't get to your doorstep . The government you fight for may not be there to save you or your loved ones, when the insurgents come knocking at your doors .

No mind am

Depressedkidd:
If we let him go without getting someone with his workrate and control of the game, we'll pay for it. Btw hendo, Gini, Jones is "THE" midfield.

True!

Oizee:
Lol, and if na leggediz Benz nko?

park your leggediz benz shoes

Silentgroper:
Someone should tell chelsea we're coming to take our rightfull place at d top

actually Tottenham had already done that earlier.....We just need to claim our spot when we meet Tottenham in 2 weeks from now!

Thumbs up to Klopp!
He hardly gets the credit for the 'good' decisions he makes!
He made the decision to bench an experienced Adrian for a young and upcoming Kelleher.....The young keeper has made klopp so proud with some outstanding saves!
Two clean sheets in two high profile games is what any keeper needs to boost his confidence and his growing reputation...Allisson will be doing everything possible to return!

Another series of fist pumps from Klopp,,,he really missed the fans!