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extol1:
this is a sign of red flag which I think you won't be able to cope with in the marriage. true is I appreciate the fact you love her, but I keep telling people that love is not what you needs in marriage rather what you needs is value and respect. love is temporary while value and respect is permanent. if I must be sincere to you she is already fucking the other guy while they are not dating. I want to believe that other guy knows about your relationship with her, he might just be using her to wipe away time

BRO is the TRUE definition of LOVE not directly associated with VALUE and RESPECT?
Just asking sha!

Nice one!

Those who do good deeds should be greatly rewarded and honoured as if they acquired a degree or certificate!

Such gesture will inspire others to carry out such commendable act!

Some might say its just a 50k phone but no one knows whether what the HOD had stored inside that phone could be worth more than a million naira!

Good one!

What he is saying is nothing but the truth!
Most of these security operatives will see a guy with a laptop and assume he is a criminal or fraudster!
I once had an encounter with one last year...He asked me if i was the owner of the laptop and inquired about why i was carrying the laptop and for what purpose....he even wanted to know my residential location....when he say that i was not afraid of him and was willing to prove whatever question thrown at me, he just told me to leave!
I am not in any way doubting the enormity of internet fraudsters in nigeria,however it is wrong and illogical for an efcc operative to label one a fraudster simply because you saw him or her with a laptop!

Its unfortunate that APC haven't gotten over this pathetic comparison syndrome between them and PDP forgetting that at least 80% of the present APC members were in PDP from 1999 till date!
APC should have realized by now that they weren't elected to compare but get the job done!
I will instantly hire another competent worker and fire the present one if he keeps complaining about what the former worker failed to do!
APC,Stop the comparison and get down to work....Simple!

Even if the said kidwaya didn't directly buy the 'power equipment' for her,it was his 'contact' that made such possible...so Kidwaya is indirectly responsible for the purchase or does she know if kidwaya gave the funds through such contacts?
No need for this clarification.....Just humbly thank Him and move on jare....She still hasn't changed her vexatious attitude! Smh

Romanoff:
This marriage matter.

A lot of people build their marriage on the wrong foundation.

Money, sex, looks, loneliness, desperation and some other mundane reasons.

The best foundation to build a marriage is on friendship and that's why you'll hear marriage counsellors say "marry your friend".

Take away sex from most relationships there will be nothing left, you'll discover the sex isn't even enough to keep it going. Sex that should be the icing on the cake has become the entire cake.

Money that should add spice to the marriage has become the entire food. He must have money, he must have a good car, she must be working and earning her own money etc. Once the money is not there anymore, water done pass garri.

Don't get me started on the Looks part, you'll marry because she has big bumbum and boobs, or because he is tall dark or fair and handsome with a six inch rod. A time will come that all these things won't do it for you anymore.

Marry your friend. That person that comes to your mind when you want to have deep discussions about your dreams, your bad day, your plans, your failures. That person that you will forget about time and keep talking with cause conversation and laughter and joys and tears just comes real.

That is what brings intimacy. The attraction, sex, money, looks all those ones na jara.

My opinion o. So before you mention me and insult me, take note of the fact that it's my opinion, make Thunder no fire you this morning.

Relax....
Your opinions are on point!

Heathrow44:
Mad oo! How can u call funtamistic queen high value babe? Are u OK? Funtamistic queen is an infamous misandrist and men hater, she hates men to the extent she's emotionally and psychologically torturing u and because u are a victim as u can't see, u av learnt to enjoy ur chains and pain, CIA intelligence reports after 9/11 leaked classified information showed that when u withdraw attention from a tortureree and invite them again on phases, the person tend to crave ur attention whenever he/she gets it, and can go to any extent to get that high and can grow to enjoy the pain, she's a feminist-extremist and has found someone she can control and have wrapped around her fingers, she's the man and u are d woman in d relationship, u would be washing her pants, brassiere's and fishy smelling lingerie while she lies on the bed with her macbook air using the internet! I've not seen a bigger low self esteemed sad person as this op that doesn't have any value for his sanity to want t date such a disgusting man hater!

Chai make una pity them nah

Raalsalghul:
I thought "Men are scum" in your dictionary.

iLegendd:
Nice post to an extent, but not for my kind.

For iLegend, me and my woman will be billionaires without working day and night and with all the time in the world to catch cruise.

No work obstruction. I don't compromise quality time for money/work. I compromise money for quality time.

This is why men should work smarter to avoid being in OP's shoe. At last, he will raise another man's child.

The woman is in control and she subtly dictates all in the name of work.

Chimaokigwe:
Not those stupid girls like Trayceey who you take home and their mothers start crying that you didn't buy bread for them.

Guy make una free the babe nah....she has suffered enough bashing!

What a horrible way to leave this world!
The FRSC should intensify more of their efforts this year in curbing this avoidable accidents mainly caused by wrongful overtaking!
Some transport companies need to be either suspended or fined heavily for using unprofessional drivers and dysfunctional vehicles!
The number of fatalities on our roads last year has been shocking!
Two years ago I witnessed a sienna conveying passengers luckily escaping two trucks coming from opposite direction when the reckless driver was trying to play 'God' by overtaking....any slight increase in speed from any of those ugly looking trucks would smashed that sienna in seconds and its occupants would have been 'pushing daisies' by now!

This party is yet to run out of ridiculous jokes!
Bubu democrat

Gkemz:
Your entitlement mentality is wrong. Inasmuch it's expected of him to buy a present for your mum while visiting but it should not be made mandatory. I believe he has been giving you all the while and because he failed to give your mum a present in his visit, you want to ruin this relationship. I'm sure this is his first visit to your mum and will continue to visit her afterwards. Don't judge a book by its first cover page.

Based on what she said in the first page of this thread,this is not his first time of his coming or visit and the last time he went there,he brought gifts to the mother!
The problem is that the mother expects those gifts to be 'consistent' any time he shows up in her abode....which for me is unfortunate and smacks of an entitlement mentality!
Even the op had initially found nothing wrong with what her fiance did until she fell under the influence of her mum and scolded the fiance on phone for not bringing any gift to the mum!

How much is the minimum wage that some of these governors can't pay?
Check very well you will discover most of them have more than 50 aides on their payroll and most of them are contributing virtually nothing yet they collect huge amount of money as salaries!

He added that dangerous driving, driving under the influence of alcohol, overloading, break failure, tyre burst, wrongful overtaking and route violation were also probable major causes of crashes.

Wrongful overtaking has claimed more lives esp when a reckless driver chooses to practice the latest 'need for speed' game on our roads....the result is always fatal!
If FRSC wants to ensure a drastic reduction of casualties this year,they must start from transport companies by giving out stiffer penalties to offenders!

Secondly, the institution needs to be decentralized...there are more fatal occurrences at state level than federal!

pretydiva:
What is going on for God sake? Why the sudden increase in death this January??

Recklessness and the inability to learn from other people's mistakes!

According to an eye witness account, the accident occurred as a result of dangerous overtaking by the driver of the bus that was heading to Kabba. The witness said all the passengers in that bus died.

These stubborn and greedy drivers will never learn that this is not a "need for speed game" competition!

Dear future passengers,your driver doesn't care about your safety but his money....if you suspect any reckless driving,please plead with him to reduce his speed or better still drive safely without any careless overtaking....you have only one life!

Prudence should never be equated with fear!

Its better to be late to your destination and arrive safely than drive recklessly and end up in a coffin!

providencia:
Good. Move from Mr A to Mr B when Mr A request it. Move from B to C when B request and keep moving baby girl. Life is too short to remain one place. Las las the pu*** will be pass to every niggas

@OP
Not entirely true..
Any marriage that gets jittery over the social media stories of paternity fraud is questionable and can likely crumble any time!

debbydams:
Smiles ..forget first born if u want to do DNA do it for all your kids..I look at DNA drama nd laugh, what about men dat cheat on the wives which DNA we go do for them o

Does a man get pregnant after sex?

DarkJeddi:
You do know that you might require DNA tests,to prove that your so called children are yours before they can be issued visa right?
Stop trying to sound smart,obviously you are far from it..

Exactly!
If not for the DNA test requirements for the issuance of us visa,man based in the US would not have known that the man his calls daddy was not actually his biological father!

This mod must be really pained not to have updated the actual scoreline

A brilliant idea was once scrutinized!
Every successful business man/woman was once doubted or ridiculed!
No man no matter his calling or status in life will ever grow without criticism!

iamyemiakins:
For you and the barrister, on the left side of ur brains there's nothing right and on the right side of ur brains, there's nothing left.

Afi extend na

internationalman:
One did call to wish me happy new year though..

But at the end of the call she requested for urgent #500 airtime to call her family to wish them happy new year...

Na wa ohh

lefulefu:
if u claim u have a girlfriend and the only time she communicates with u is only when she needs money then such a guy is a big fool .A girl like that u don suppose ditch her tey tey

True!

Officialyaro:
talkative bcoz his exposing una ass?

Change your ways, don't be a liability come 2021

U can go an be roastin corn so that u'll leave urgent 5k geng

Instead of urging dangote to purchase a Nigerian club,he should be clamouring for our football institutions to be strengthened!
Lots of corrupt practises by elements at our football hierarchy have hampered our football league!
When the sports institutions are adequately fixed,more business men will purchase clubs in Nigeria!
No business man or woman will want to invest in a league that is not productive!
Many will prefer to purchase clubs esp from epl due to its productivity,marketability and its powerful football institutions!

He should have killed himself if he could not bear the shame instead of taking the life of someone who he Willingly impregnated!
Is she the one that made herself pregnant?
Smh

BIGPREEQ:
Omorr between Umahi and wike I no come know who like flyover pass

The flyover at artillery is long overdue!
The traffic around that area can be extremely frustrating...imagine spending 7hours in one spot!

We indeed deserve our leaders!
A governor does flyover and some people think he has done what no human on earth has conceived while a president establishes a rail system from a state to another with taxpayers money and some folks believe that's the best achievement from him since sliced bread!
When are we going to grow above this endless mediocrity?