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RomanceRe: What Is The Best Advice Women Would Like To Give To Men On How To Approach Women by optional1(f): 8:57pm On Jul 08, 2017
op which of my post was that.



Btw, be yourself, don't do show off, approach her with some respects.
PoliticsRe: My Brother, Uncles’ Names In List To Recall Me – Dino Melaye by optional1(f): 4:42pm On Jul 08, 2017
and a lot of people who doesn't have permanent voter's card their names are on the stupid recall list.
RomanceRe: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by optional1(f): 1:44pm On Jul 08, 2017
Tahrah:
And the mum will be like, If I am truly the one who gave birth to you,you have to listen to me. May it never happen to us.
Amen!!!
RomanceRe: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by optional1(f): 11:15am On Jul 08, 2017
wjxavier:
I did.

We went to MeCure, did expensive tests, and all of them said she couldn't have kids. All this before the wedding.

She had had fibroid surgery before we met.
My Dad is a surgeon, and I was somehow silly enough to mention it to him.

He swore he wouldn't support it. Mum too.

Siblings queued with them.

For many reasons, I disappointed them.

First, I felt and still feel a parent has no place in choosing your spouse. It is your life. They've lived theirs.

Secondly, she was a 10 for me.

Long story short, I went ahead and married her even though nobody from my family attended.

Yes, the tests came out a week to the wedding! But I effin went ahead. (You gotta know what you want in this life...or else)

I did it.

I did it because I am a person of faith. I wasn't just arrogant or stubborn. I had a strategy.

I knew that impossible is nothing with my God.
I knew that the word of God is a laser that can address and redress any issue of life.
I knew I didn't need to fast. I just needed to declare the Word.

Whenever she saw her period, she would be sad, but I'd drag her around the house and dance.

"There shall be no barren in Israel."

In November, 5 months after our wedding, she missed her P.

Pic below is us.


PS: Not everybody can do this, so do not embark on this journey if you don't have the balls AND THE FAITH for it.

PPS: Faith is not belief. Faith is the words you declare that agree with God concerning your life
.
wow

lovely family
God protect your family...
RomanceRe: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by optional1(f): 11:11am On Jul 08, 2017
Martin0:
my dear I agree to what u said ooo,I be nigerian man ooo then again with how I do live my life I don't think my parents will intrigue into my life or my decision,I did grow that way...what you said normally e dey happen ooo I have withnessed but have not experience it...Abeg ooo coz she nor fit give birth na wa for u ooo is it her fault that kind lackadaisical attitude nor dey our family,my cousin has been married for 5year's now without a child and his heading to 50 now why his wife is about clocking 46 why didn't he divorce or marry another,the family I came from is not known for divorce or marrying a second wife though bible did not condemn marrying a second but we are not known for such...u eh dey find my mouth..
guys forget that thing jor,

your cousin and you are you guys same.. Your cousin married late.



Beside the question said 1week to the wedding will you not after marriage...

I said imagine you the only child of your parent.. Even if they can't detest who you will marry, my dear you can't marry such lady if you reach that bridge...


Pray such won't help to us...
RomanceRe: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by optional1(f): 11:01am On Jul 08, 2017
Tahrah:
Na to bring girl from village or to start matchmaking.
Nigerian mamas no dey waste time.
and he will be like

*mum i love this girl, she is the one who picked me from the gutter and made me who i am today, mum is God who gives children. God will surely give us our own at the right time*

this is Nigeria not America.
RomanceRe: #ExamsIn9ja by optional1(f): 10:49am On Jul 08, 2017
following...
RomanceRe: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by optional1(f): 10:46am On Jul 08, 2017
Martin0:
Yes,my purpose wasn't solemnly for child,so if it occurs that way,we will adopt
Nigeria man Igbo man where is your mother when all this drama will be going on....


My dear if such situation happens you will marry another lady that will be able to give you a child...

Imagine you the only child of your parent and you marry such lady, what will be your reaction and that of your parent??
RomanceRe: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by optional1(f): 10:38am On Jul 08, 2017
NO i can't if he is a Nigeria man but YES if he is not an African..


I love kids so much that i can't wait to have mine and bring them up in the way of the Lord just like i brought other kids up..

No joy on this earth if you a lady that haven't experience giving birth..

I must also experience the Joy of motherhood..

I will rather be a single mother than marry a man who can't release better sperm.
HealthRe: Scary Photos Of Man With Half Face After Cancerous Tumors. by optional1(f): 10:17am On Jul 08, 2017
transient123:
Double tragedy to have such in this world and commit suicide again. That won't me mine and yours!

Suicide is never a way out of a challenge, never contemplate it at all.
Amen!!
RomanceRe: Wedding Bell by optional1(f): 8:53pm On Jul 07, 2017
VickyRotex:
Home is fine dearie. Everyone is fine, Bless God. Mumsy nko? Still waiting for my Amala o cheesy cheesy
mumsy is super great,
Amala and draw soup but you said that will be a special xmas meal.
RomanceRe: Wedding Bell by optional1(f): 8:00pm On Jul 07, 2017
ytkid:
hmmm...dis one dat u r calling ur fellow lady "sweetheart" & "dearie' .....
i hope its not wat am tinking...bt if it really is... lemme tell u dat there is no scarcity of preek in d market grin
are you really sure the tissues in your little brain have don't be dislocatedhuh

If guys are saying they have preek you little rat will come out to say samething.

Smh, grow up little rat.
RomanceRe: Wedding Bell by optional1(f): 7:53pm On Jul 07, 2017
VickyRotex:
Good to know love! kiss kiss
how is homehuh
RomanceRe: Wedding Bell by optional1(f): 7:46pm On Jul 07, 2017
VickyRotex:
Sweetheart, I'm doing well. Thank you! How are you dearie? kiss kiss
i am good sis bless God.
RomanceRe: Wedding Bell by optional1(f): 7:31pm On Jul 07, 2017
op congrats
but where is the venue nah.. You don't want us to eat ofada rice abi..
RomanceRe: Wedding Bell by optional1(f): 7:29pm On Jul 07, 2017
VickyRotex:
Smh! You people joke with everything.
able big sister
how you doing sweetiehuh
RomanceRe: 10 Signs Your Village People Don't Want You To Have A Girlfriend by optional1(f): 7:24pm On Jul 07, 2017
Papiikush:
This one is Horñy undecided
undecided

PetsRe: What Breed Are This Dogs by optional1(f): 6:53pm On Jul 07, 2017
Chris u said dogs but I see only one dog dat u snap twice.
CelebritiesRe: Big Sheff And His Mother, Salawa Abeni, Step Out Together As Fans React by optional1(f): 6:45pm On Jul 07, 2017
Which lady will like this cos of beard definitely not me.
CelebritiesRe: Tekno Giving Out 5M To People Trying Tostart Small Business-trending On Twitter by optional1(f): 6:18pm On Jul 07, 2017
Our duck voice we plenty wey envy you.


Carry good God protections fall on you.


Enemy haters transforma fall on you.



I still love big cassava.
RomanceRe: Choose Yours Now by optional1(f): 6:10pm On Jul 07, 2017
dacovajnr:
had the msg not delivered,i wouldn't have said that after I had told you it was extended to December 31st 2018, as you only need update the app and you're good to go..You needn't have come @ me the way you did..
2018huh?


Well sorry about my reaction and word.
Forgive me please.




Btw, mail please
HealthRe: Scary Photos Of Man With Half Face After Cancerous Tumors. by optional1(f): 6:06pm On Jul 07, 2017
ajalawole:
wake up dear. Be thankful for everything
I am really greatful to my Creator.
RomanceRe: ZAP E-news:: Get Updated On The Happenings In Romance Section During The Week by optional1(f): 6:02pm On Jul 07, 2017
Thepussyhunter wehdon
RomanceRe: Choose Yours Now by optional1(f): 5:47pm On Jul 07, 2017
dacovajnr:
Are you for real?
Yes I am,


Was no need sayin unattended msg if u really read the statues.
RomanceRe: 10 Signs Your Village People Don't Want You To Have A Girlfriend by optional1(f): 5:43pm On Jul 07, 2017
tosyne2much:
P
P for pussy
RomanceRe: 10 Signs Your Village People Don't Want You To Have A Girlfriend by optional1(f): 5:42pm On Jul 07, 2017
tosyne2much:
R
R for roff
RomanceRe: 10 Signs Your Village People Don't Want You To Have A Girlfriend by optional1(f): 5:41pm On Jul 07, 2017
tosyne2much:
D
Tosyne u not organized today why?


D for d!ck
RomanceRe: 10 Signs Your Village People Don't Want You To Have A Girlfriend by optional1(f): 5:39pm On Jul 07, 2017
tosyne2much:
Z
Z for zebra
RomanceRe: 10 Signs Your Village People Don't Want You To Have A Girlfriend by optional1(f): 5:37pm On Jul 07, 2017
Ok
PoliticsRe: Patience Jonathan Escaped Two Assassination Attempts – Lawyer by optional1(f): 5:36pm On Jul 07, 2017
And over here across the Niger Dino have also escaped 2 assassination attempt
HealthRe: Scary Photos Of Man With Half Face After Cancerous Tumors. by optional1(f): 5:31pm On Jul 07, 2017
Is better I drink acid than suffer like this man on this earth that the suffering is never ending.


God have mercy
RomanceRe: Choose Yours Now by optional1(f): 5:25pm On Jul 07, 2017
dacovajnr:
msg bin left unattended to for days
What does the statue read. Or you can't read it. And what was the last msg sent to you a week ago.

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