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[quote author=Cazzim post=119422129][/quote]They will continue ill advising her. The other lady talking about entitlement mentality has forgotten there are exception to that stuff entitlement. Families are meant to be there no matter what betide. That's why it's called family not relative.

1Sharon:
You're contradicting yourself. You said family is so and so, but you made money come between yourself and your sister.


If you're a grown adult, you aren't owed anything, so you sound kind of entitled to bear grudged towards your sister because she didn't give you 300k.

Did you and your sister have an agreement that told help each other out financially?

Did you pay part of her Masters out of your own freewill or because she asked?

Make life better you in what way? Can you be more specific, in what you wanted the 300k for because it doesn't seem like you needed it because you were sick and helpless or destitute.

Am not here to trade banters with you. I just aired my opinion. Have fun and merry xmas

Sweetvie:
I feel you bruh
You know how mom can be... She will never return the money. The lady clearly need the money for her own family... Not that she did not care about her mom or brother but she av her own family too. What is she suppose to do if it don't work out? Crying to the mom? In that same house the little brother that she gave that money may be the one to shut her up later.
@bolded
You got to let go
You can't expect her to choose you instead of her husband lol you will do dsame too

One lesson,. Whatever you give family don't expect it back.

1Sharon:
The boy is 24 years not under 18. He's an age where he's old enough to cater for himself. He needed the money for school fees, he wasn't sick and helpless in a hospital.

What do you mean your sister chose her husband before you?

Did you want your sister to throw her husband away and marry you instead?


If your sister has kids, the family she has created are now a priority over the family she left behind.

You sound like a selfish and self-centered person.

Selfish? Lol. You might be 60 years and be successful but one way or another you might still need help somedays. Pick her husband before me.... The earliest you learn your spouse is your only family who is not your relative the better for you. Divorce is quite rampart this days, your spouse can choose to leave, your partner can leave at a time of distress but family is where one runs too at the end.


About the sister thing, I needed some help at some point that could have made life better for me. I had like a million saved needed just 300k. My sister point blank told me her husband wanted changing his car and other family stuffs. I cried deeply as I also paid part of her masters fee before marriage even when it was not convenient. I ended up letting go and when the small god go, the bigger ones come. A complete stranger ended up helping. Am good now but it really laid a kibosh on our relationship.

Most of the folks here are telling you not to mind your mum. Watch how you create if not an everlasting enemity between yourself and your brother. Even your mum won't be able to bridge the gap. Family is everything. Your brother might be desperate for the money. If you are to get an house rent won't you path with close to the amount and this is your blood brother we are talking about here. My sister once choosed her husband before me years ago and till today I still carry the grudge. Don't create an enemity, cut your budget cost for the business and help your brother even if not everything. Las Las that your hubby might loose guard you,. The 300k might finish or get stolen but the people you have are everything.

Very shameless bastard.


I hate dancing folks not to even talk of a dancing theif

been dramatic can be annoying though. But this is way extreme. The deceased could have been dramatic but the killer was extreme.

kingreign:
Last year I bought two tyres brand new. 3 months down the line, one developed a huge bulge, the other started vibrating only to discover it was bent. My true pressure was 30PSI always. My crime was driving from Uyo to Calabar and back then these tyre went bad.

But Tokumbo tyres I use never had such nastiness.

I have been using tokunbo tyres on my car now for three years. Funny I bought the tyres then due to financial constraints. The new tyres I bought for my other car after wards is gone, but this tokunbo ones light truck abi wetin Dem call am still dey very good state.

Worldwyde:
Sold it,besides that one blew a long time ago. Check jiji for gs 2jzge engine,igbo are crooks. The will remove the injector mouth and sell it seperate. I've not driven more than 2 weeks,got drunk and parked inside a mini gutter at home. So I abandoned it and travelled home.. when I'm back,heads will roll.

Talking of head. You mean your neighbours?

To whom the gods want to destroy. They first make mad.

Uptheante:
But would you ever agree to give your fellow guy 10k from your 'church mind'?
Also, do you use your aclaimed church mind to give financially help your mum & sisters?
The point is, this bitch disrespected & used you & u still dashed her money from your church mind.
The only thing u may gain from her is the sex, so if you don't want sex from her, then let her work for whatever money you want to give her or she'll see u as a fool & laugh at you with her friends behind your back.

Can I give my fellow guy 10k,. Why not if not. Can I give my siblings or mum 10k,. Haba 10k. Dude I get your point and about the sex, I don't even see sex with her as reason, someone seems stranded the first intuition as human is to be of help if you can, the gender can go to blaze. What can I get from her after sex? Lemme ask you, all the ladies in your life you talk too and deal with, is it only in the bases of sexual favours?

Karlifate:
It's simply due to overinflated false sense of ego.

They want to take the credit of "I tamed, subdued & changed the bad boi."

You said it all.

Worldwyde:
Oga rest, you are toxic.

When it's evident you are the toxic one. You called gazzuzz a their because he told you he can't be of help, still shot yourself on the foot before that was dude decipher your words, now the next best thing after slice bread in your armoury is calling me toxic. You are really the clown gazzuzz likened you too.

Hope the car is waxing strong.

Uptheante:
Guy u are a donkey/fool, sorry if it's insulting but I just wanna say my mind & I wanna be real with you.

Like, how stuupid or dumb can you be to just dash a bitch your hard-earned N10,000 just like that

A girl that didn't give a fucck about you cos she was craving for a hard cock from some other nigga.
She contacted you only after the real nigga has banged her fuccking pussy to stupor & dumped her dirty ass.
At that moment, she remembered you as that nice & cool simp & decided to contact you not because she likes you but because you can be easily manipulated by her, & u didn't disappoint her at all.
You even went a step further in your simpish action by giving her 10k on a platter of gold. It's just like rewarding her for disrespecting you & treating you like shit.
I'm sure if that guy calls her again, she will ignore you again & go get banged by him then come back to you when he's done with her pussy & collect yet another 10k or more from you.
What you should have done when she initially came back to you is to either:
1. Invite her to your crib or wherever you fancy using smooth talk & empty promises, then drill her pussy ruthlessly & mercilessly to your satisfaction, then ghost her for good. When she contacts you to ask you why you ghost her, smooth talk your way again & pound her pussy again. Trust me, if she feels your bed skills, her pussy will be throbbing for you & she'll become addicted to your dick till you use your discretion to dump her ass into the trash if you get tired of her pussy.
Or
2. Ignore her completely like she doesn't exist.

Bro, you really messed up big time & that bitch will never respect you again

Whatever I have gave her was from my church mind. And the bang bang thing, I really don't share my body that much. It sounds disgusting sef me having sexual knowledge of a lady I know some guys who might be a carrier just used.

Jman06:
That is why I don't take women seriously when they want to claim victim with their "he used and dumped me" jargon. No woman fvcks a man she doesn't fancy! If doesn't fancy his looks, she'll fancy his pockets. In the real sense, they're the ones using men!

Meanwhile, I wonder why you gave that biatch your money after all the humiliation.

Didn't even see it as humiliation. If I pressed I could still have had my way with her and all even till now. But of what need is it when am sure she's still over one guy who doesn't give a hoot about her. Funny enough, she's damn so pretty and am sure she have a hell of admirers. I wonder why ladies get so attached to abuse and red flag in the name of I love him and he will change his mind.

Worldwyde:
How can it not be toks. Do they sell toks engine with injector mouth,for thatt exact type of engine. Pls
Go back home,shut ypur doors,windows ,telly,lights and sleep. You know nothing about tokunbo engine ,neither have u gone there physically to get yourself one..

Alright engine man

Some of this ladies will see the red flag but still dive head first. Serves them right. I met this corper girl of recent, pretty and all and we got talking. Was travelling to the east a while after and I even gave aunty the option of joining me. She refutted and was begging this guy to come see her and spend time with her. Dude kept telling her he his done but omo mehn see begging. Left that minute with the little pride I have left and a day or so after after dude came to pick her, used her and dumped her back home, aunty was callinga week after to ask if the offer still stand. Las Las I helped her with 10k for transport. I just keep thinking why the hell will a lady see obvious red flags and still continue waking the devil.

Dozieson:
which mean the one you bought is not toks?

Wisdom will not kill you.

Check your oil pump. It's either clogged or so. Your sensor might also be playing tricks on you and in that regards, scan for error codes.