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vargasvictory:Thank you for the information sir. |
dre11:Wrong moruf, I am muslim, you need her fathers consent to marry her. Also, a 17 year old girl, haba nobi soo naa. Moruf is in the wrong here. |
vargasvictory:stealing what? give complete information.... |
0b100100111:Well, Rule of law always. he should've been tried by the legal system, but hey, i see your point, corruption has eaten deep into the fabrics of our society. |
Coccoh:Coccoh, good point you said "its better..... how about someone with dry mouth fasting amongst Christians on a fast paced project having high profile collaboration meetings daily? |
itzzhoneybee:itzzhoneybee, when you start working and having professional goals, the first thing in goal setting is that "it is achievable", it can be right but if its not achievable, my dear its a waste of time. So, use that energy and focus on what is achievable. For example, if you preach, shout, wail etc from now till tomorrow that pedestrians should use pedestrian bridges, they wont, on a daily basis, by FRSC statistics at least 3 people die everyday in Nigeria from vehicular accidents from just "road crossing", now if you build fences along major highways, people will not be able to cross, even if they want to, that is practical. Most Naija or African men value their mothers, for me personally, if my wife should insult, or put her hands on my mother, i don't even want to know what happened, i will slap her silly and send her packing, period. Most Naija men will behave likewise, so if you're single and searching, just know now now you wont find that kinda man in Naija or Ghana, you might have better luck in Netherlands or Switzerland. But, i liked the fact that you admonished ladies as well at least you tried to be balanced, i duff my cap to you for that one. |
AbdelKabir:Ramadaan Kareem. This is Ramadaan, i remind you of "SABR" patience in Ramadaan. |
Mofpearl:MOFPEARL: I have been away and i am just seeing all these now two things you should be aware of: 1. I have attended ISNA conventions where this particular topic was discussed with so many examples especially as it pertains to some muslim majority countries where they request for marriage certificate prior to allowing a male and female to book or reserve hotel rooms. This is not prevalent to Nigeria alone and it does not mean all those in Nigeria are myopic, no, that is not what i meant, i am specifically talking about the answer you gave and i know if you're in business, you cannot deny a paying customer service else your business will be closed due to legitimate litigation charges for discrimination. Also, our communal living which is a beautiful thing with so many positive values to it also comes with challenges where your answer for example is possible because it might be based on the fact that you know the individual as a muslim and that he/she should be observing saum. Also, i see a lot of pretence because things are "forced". There are so many masajids that are looking for imams, all over the USA and they dont want a muslim Imam that grew up all their life from Karachi, Hyderabad, Jordan, sudan (applies to Nigeria as well) etc because of so many things i dont have the time to discuss at length here but it all boils down to "context" and audience. Just last week i asked my good friend in NIGERIA about what a muslim can do if he doesnt fast in Ramadaan. This is because i see and encounter lots of muslims that are not fasting with bizarre excuses like, you know i am a Director here and i cant afford not to brush my teeth, or i am amongst Christians so its somehow if i am not eating at the graduation dinner, or a lunch meeting, or oops i forgot, or its too long 3a.m till 8.30 p.m etc, as well as so many others that has left the faith just because of rulings applied wrongly not looking at the circumstances or situations. 2. I see the other brother saying you should not "dignify me with a reply" Subhana Allah, in Ramadaan Well, i remind you of patience and of even trying to understand the other persons viewpoint or where the other person is coming from or more clarity that might lead to better understanding. Conclusively, this is ramadaan and Insha allah i need all the hassanat therein so i sincerely apologise for whatever i said that might be offensive to you. May Allah guide us all aright, ameen. |
Protein0:What inferences are you drawing? explain... Now understand that i started with Allahu Alam, (Allah knows best) Can you just answer the question? If you've forgotten what the initial question was, pls follow the thread and answer the question first. Again, one can give ones "Opinion" but that is what it is not a general ruling and that is why Imam Al-Shafii, said and i quote my opinion is right with possibility of it being wrong and my opponent's opinion is wrong with possibility of it being right. Also Imam Ahmed Hanbal said, if a daif (weak hadith) contradicts my opinion, take the weak hadith. Some others did not want their opinion written down so it does not become a general ruling. Conclusively, yes you can have your opinion, as long as it does not contradict the quran, the hadith, the consensus or a well known islamic jurisdiction, also be clear that that is your opinion and it should not be imposed on anyone. |
Mofpearl:Well you can say i am not reasonable because i and you disagree. But again, your answer speaks clearly about your horizon. You don't know because you just don't know. the answer you gave is reflective of your worldview which is limited. Walahi, again i repeat walahi, brother if you have lived in Egypt, UK, the US etc you will not give that answer. You have not in any way made it clear that Allah has made it haram to sell food to a muslim in ramadan. Or that it is not permissible. For the sake of Allah, i beg you, arguments apart, leave people alone. Stop judging people, these are the reasons why people in Kano will lynch a lady because she is wearing "jeans" or kill Bridget Agbahime because she said "don't do that una thing (wudu) for here. May allah guide us all aright ameen. |
Protein0:Like i said again, you are myopic. You are giving an answer that speaks volume about where you're from and how you live etc and that is not Islam. If, for example, you are a student at Columbia University in NYC, and you work at the cafeteria selling food, now a muslim student that prays at the mosque with you comes in to buy food, in Ramadan will you refuse him service? Also, if you own a Restaurant, and known muslims comes in to your restaurant in the afternoon in ramadan to eat will you refuse them service? Also, you have not quoted a quranic verse that clearly answers this question, so where is "the manifest has no versions" coming from? |
Mofpearl:Brother, you obviously has not stepped outside Nigeria so you are myopic in your world view and thinking and that is not Islam. I live in the US and even recently during the TRUMP muslim ban, gays, lesbians all where at the forefront protesting with muslims against the ban and stood all night at the airport to ensure all muslims coming in where all allowed to come in and their rights protected. Now we made it clear we will not join them if they are protesting for their rights, but back to the discussion, Yes if someone wants to buy weapons to kill, others or cause harm to himself and others you don't enable that person, but you cannot deny someone accommodation because they are going to commit fornication!! that is wrong and that is not islam, you might as well say you will deny a christian accommodation because he is not muslim, or a single lady because she is not married, or an akwa-ibom man because he eats dogs and pork, or an ogboni worshiper because he worships ogboni on and on and on. That is the reason for religious intolerance. Stop judging people stop pointing fingers, that is not islam, The prophet said in an authentic hadith, even if someone is committing sin and hides it, you do not expose him, Yes, you should advice him and do things that might positively help him stop but you don't expose him else Allah will expose you too on the day of judgement. So if someone has a BUSINESS OF SELLING FOOD, i repeat a business of selling food, you sell food to whoever buys your food. There is a lot on misunderstanding of the faith and people make Islam unnecessarily difficult for themselves and others and offers unnecessary interpretations. |
Protein0:Amen. I disagree with you brother, you are taking it out of contest and applying a hadith in a case where the hadith is not applicable. Look here bro, i live in the US now and grew up all my life in Nigeria. This practice and finger pointing is more cultural than religion. Also, you are myopic because you live in Nigeria where your horizon, your world view and your whole concept of Islam is limited to your Nigerian environment. Now if you live in NYC (New York City), you are muslim and you own a Subway where fast foods are sold (lots of muslims own Subways) are you going to close down in Ramadaan? People are going to be coming in and buying food, mostly non-muslims and muslims as well, so are you going to close down or ask who is muslim or not and refuse to sell to muslims because they are supposed to be fasting? Also, Bola Tinubu owns hotels, he is muslim, if he hires you and you are the Manager of the hotel, are you going to refuse to allow someone book a hotel room even if he tells you he is a student and he wants to quickly "blow" his bea? You preach a better sermon with your life than with your lips. |
Protein0:You did not even answer the question asked and you are wrong. YES, there is "My Opinion in Islam" In islam, if you want an answer to something, you look first in the Quran, if you cannot find your answer there, then the hadith, then ijtihad or (consensus of scholars), that is debatable, then you use your reasoning or opinion. Case in point, a traveller did not know where to face to pray and used his opinion to chose a place and prayed facing where he choose, he asked lots of scholars if he should repeat the prayer and he was told by a majority of scholars not to repeat the prayer. His opinion and judgement is fine. allah has not placed a burden on you more than you can bear. |
Bashnigga:Yes, you can brush your teeth with paste and water. Remember what can spoil your fast is anything going down the throat "INTENTIONALLY", if you brush to keep your teeth clean and to have fresh breath, understand that is your intention and if anything should go down the throat unintentionally, you are fine, Allah knows best. |
dauddy97:Allah knows best but this is my opinion, fasting is prescribed for muslims... there are those that are exempted from fasting, the sick, nursing mother, children, etc then we have those that are not muslims as well. So, if your business is selling food, please sell your food and those fasting will abstain until their fast is over and those that need the food can buy and eat, its a service your providing for profit so go ahead and sell. There is no compulsion in religion, there are muslims that do not fast at all for no reason whatsoever, if you know them and they come to buy your food, what do you do? of course you sell to them each person's judgement is with Allah. It is not in our place to point fingers or judge anyone. Note also that fasting is a hidden ibada (supplication) i.e unless you tell someone no one knows youre fasting for sure. It is between you and your creator, Allah. |
Mofpearl:I disagree with the quotations you quoted. Allah knows best but this is my opinion, fasting is prescribed for muslims... there are those that are exempted from fasting, the sick, nursing mother, children, etc then we have those that are not muslims as well. So, if your business is selling food, please sell your food and those fasting will abstain until their fast is over and those that need the food can buy and eat, its a service your providing for profit so go ahead and sell. There is no compulsion in religion, there are muslims that do not fast at all for no reason whatsoever, if you know them and they come to buy your food, what do you do? ofcourse you sell to them each person's judgement is will Allah it is not our place to point fingers. |
You all will see this letter and laugh, but not smart enough to connect the dots when you're told that Chibok girls couldn't speak "GOOD" english.... |
itzzhoneybee:Oh Girl, what your just wrote happens in a puritanic world. All this preaching is not practical. Its like "turn the other cheek" who in naija does it? its not practical. Your message is not making an impact, its just good talk that is not achievable. |
All the mofos saying you don't hit a woman are all not naija or Africans. Ofcourse, we all know 80% to 85% of women are stubborn and you will repeat the same thing to them over and over again and they will stubbornly refuse to listen and there are instances you will have to wozz them. Now, wozz means you will give them quick successive slaps, two or three across the face, on her chin.... dan borouba shege, that will reset their brain. Now this should not result in punching, kicking, or all out fight, no, no, no, its better you leave the house. No fighting, kicking or punching or using objects or sticks, that is a no no. Now when can you wozz her? 1. she abuses the child or house-help, not discipline but abuse and you have coached her on how to discipline, begged, explained, threatened, all, to no avail and she is still abusing the minor, you will now slap her good. 2. Now, if she physically assaults your mum, you have to weigh the situation, if you know you have a "were" mad woman as mum, that fights everyone and you marry a wife like your mum, then for God's sake keep them apart, why will you put them under the same roof? Now if you have an average naija mum, that will just complain here and there like naija mums do and your wife beats her up, then you don't have to beat her, go look for another wife period. Why will I be married to someone that will raise her hand on my mother, chai, my sweet mother, may her soul rest in peace, amen.... haaa na there we go share the garri, make she carry herself dey go back her papa house even if she don born 4kids... 3. If she raise her hand on you, waka comot, if she does it again and again, wozz her once, if it continues, and any little quarrel na gbosa for your face, divorce her, period. 4. Now if you should catch her with another man, no need for argument or talk or apology, peacefully divorce her jeje, no story, no apology, no fight sef, the marriage is over, period. |
TheLogicalMind:Chairman, nobi naija you be, how you go accept apology without all the "apology escorts? No kolanut, no ogogoro, even groundnut inside bottle sef who sai, you come accept.... we go withdraw ur naija passport oh!!!!!!!!!! |
TonyeBarcanista:The family of the doctor are still grieving imagine if that was your brother? Also that was due to drunk driving. oh, nobi mistake oh... Na the corruption we dey talk be this, if na obodo oyinbo, she will serve time in jail and do community service then you can open ur mouth and say what you are saying now at least you will say she has served her time and paid her debt to society, but that has not been done...... Na we be ourself enemy, IBB annul election, all man go him pickin wedding, see welcome wey dem give Ibori, some folks say make nobody ask GEJ or Patience any money question, Sanusi wey dem ask question about money wey him spend for Kano emirate council, Osinbajo, IBB and saraki say make all man keep kwayet, whistleblower for house of rep is on suspension, now you are celebrating a murderer's beauty..shioooor. |
forreelinc:Make you prepare to laugh am... na yourself you dey laugh. Oyinbo man call you illiterate because you no sabi him language, colonial mentality don dabaru ur head. Thats why i love my hausa guys, hausa man go smile tell you boldly without shame, baa turenchi, i dont speak english.... so na ur wahala be dat. |
I disagree with you. All the five points are applicable at different times in a child's life. They are not absolute but they are applicable. you can tell your child practice makes perfect, if at first you don't succeed try, try again then quit there is no point making a fool of yourself, but again you can also tell your child keep trying like Abraham Lincoln or Buhari until you succeed, when the child grows up, they will apply the different scenarios where ever it applies. Also, if you cannot afford it, you should let your child know that. And so goes for all the rest of your points. The excellent value you should be focusing on are the religious ones, like dont lie dont cheat, dont be selfish etc. |
This man and nnamdi Kanu na birds of the same feather... |
drnoel:Ojukwu said more than these and at the end, what happened? he ran away, and left others to die. Boast all you like. You are making matters worse. Ordinary boko-haram captured prisoners you cannot hold in Abia prison. All of you were crying for them to be relocated. If they should unleash bokoharam on you, you go talk true. |
Adaowerri111:Ewu nama. |
This guy is obviously jobless and hungry. |
IhateAfonjas:Bros, you go school? You do final year project? you do research? Bros if you answered yes to all these questions, and you are still incapable of researching the "truth", then you have no education. Illiteracy they say is indeed a huge huge epidemic. |
DocHMD:Mumu, if na CNN or the major news network nko? You for don mastubate tire. These na ordinary wakapass people. Stop ur stupidity. |
Zikaviirus:Chai, actually the illiteracy amongst IPOB might be worse than BH. 90 likes, for maybe oyinbo wey dey waka pass, branch. una no see BBC, CNN, and all the big news network, maybe na oyinbo wey dey go film for yankari game reserve for Bauchi just branch to capture the first baboon for picture - Nnamdi Kanu, una dey jubilate, no wonder una still jubilate when Trump win, and actually believed Trump will remove Buhari and make Kanu president. illiterate united people. |
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Well, i remind you of patience and of even trying to understand the other persons viewpoint or where the other person is coming from or more clarity that might lead to better understanding. Conclusively, this is ramadaan and Insha allah i need all the hassanat therein so i sincerely apologise for whatever i said that might be offensive to you. May Allah guide us all aright, ameen.
hmmm I sure say she go throwe bomb well well