₦airaland Forum

TippyTop:
Anyone who believes Osibanjo is not Abba Kyari's deputy needs to donate their brain for medical research.

Sai President Abba Kyari

poshestmina:
I haven't seen that man a woman cannot bring down. God has not created him .

They should have kept Amaka's involvement hidden na ,this NPF self! they have put the lady in a big danger.

dingbang:
20years later now they will say he was wrongfully dismissed and recalled back to the force... Anything can happen in Nigeria

nmreports:
I salute the officer.

The account seems untrue but gives an insight anyway.

When the robber went to the small window after several gun shots where were the backyard officers?.

Dipping gun in the blood might have been explained by the gallant officer.

The backyard officers probably also did not come out probably because they were protecting some cash.

Im not sure if the robbers used some spiritual protection but those three officers in that small room should have finished the robbers all at once.

This is not their fault but the government who dont provide proper equipment and training. I wonder why all police officers carry AK47 like its a daily war we are experiencing in Nigeria.

Ripped off bullet proof vests etc.

RIP to the officers. I love them.

nmreports:
I salute the officer.

The account seems untrue but gives an insight anyway.

When the robber went to the small window after several gun shots where were the backyard officers?.

Dipping gun in the blood might have been explained by the gallant officer.

The backyard officers probably also did not come out probably because they were protecting some cash.

Im not sure if the robbers used some spiritual protection but those three officers in that small room should have finished the robbers all at once.

This is not their fault but the government who dont provide proper equipment and training. I wonder why all police officers carry AK47 like its a daily war we are experiencing in Nigeria.

Ripped off bullet proof vests etc.

RIP to the officers. I love them.

Me77:
Those 7 oyinbo men should be ashamed of themselves, over aged dummies all they know is to be chasing our girls upandan #Idiots.
And for our smart Yoruba and igbo sisters Grace Akintaro and Victoria Nwogu I think their intelligence should be put in to use instead of locking them in jail. To pull over £100k out of nothing is not an easy feat, it requires vast knowledge and intelligent.

bigerboy200:
i don't believe this jare...d op is just making up the story...

boykas:
All ds people that said u should report him maybe Gtbank boss, they want to know the branch so that they can sack him. And if they do what will be ur gain.,the staff don't have access to your account so there's no need to report him. Pls the country is hard right now don't make him to start all over again

Biko

Guitarlife:
dont answer thisguy, they will sack him if you do so.

TippyTop:
Thank God she landed at Abakaliki. Your guess is as good as mine if she had landed in Kano or Katsina, she would have been made somebody's wife by now.
Praise God.

TarOrfeek:
The tragedy of wealth.
If someone had lapped her in a moribund danfo. none of this would have happened.

Guyman02:
Do you expect the Hausa and Fulani officer corp dominated Police Force to order their arrest when they are yet to arrest a single Arewa Youth for incitement?

shizzy7:
It was expected.


Every year, June 12 has always been a public holiday here. It's not a matter of holding a meeting.

LubeyNaijaBlog:
more @ http://www.lubeynaija.com/2017/06/prefer-ring-but-let-start-with-this-man.html?m=1

SmartMugu:
My mindset is clear, I'm neither from a Biafra region nor from an Arewa region. I dont think I'm in the right position to take sides with either sides, not when I know each parts have some unsolved historical grievances that I'm personally not keen about.
Let's not pretend we are blind,a certain region in the country gets preferential treatment. That was all I said before you started mentioning my generation. I don't even give a damn who ur ancestors are, and never said wussup to them in my comment. So, wetin concern me with your generation? How my generation take affect your own? That was what pissed me off.
Was just pouring back in your cup same purple tea you put in mine because I don't want it.
No hard feelings. One love bro, no shaking. We dey together!!!!

HaneefahRN:
You are plainly been used.
You are carrying out both the husband's and wifely duties in the Union, while he relaxes and take advantage of it.

Cut back on what you give out, if your children's school fees is expensive, change school, seek a cheaper one also with quality, do not pay the next rent, decide and find with him where he can afford to pay for within his capability, ask him for money for the house upkeep, foodstuffs and the likes, you can augment if not enough.
Stop doing more than yourself, it's cos he knows you will surely carry up all the responsibilities that he decided to live the extravagant life he can't afford like a bachelor. Men earning 40K are taking care of their families, he has no excuse.
And have a fixed savings, have a separate account you drop a fixed part of your salary in every month, I won't advise to have a joint account with him, he could use the I am the head, you are proud cos you earn more mantra to keep having his way yo use that funds anyhow.
And I don't think you should think of having any child for now, unless you can cope with the extra finances.


This is the best advice so far with lots of "buts". Firstly, you need some questions answered before implementing this advice. Now has this always been the case or all of sudden you're now making more money than him? also, what is he spending his money on? there are instances where maybe the man will spend money fixing the car and just ensuring everything is going on smoothly and the woman just sees everything working and does not know money is spent on those things to keep them working. Yes, i agree that the money has to drop money for all the basics. For me, in my faith, the man has to pay for food clothing and shelter. If ure paying rent now, there has to be an agreement that you both cannot live where he can afford and you want to waive that right or responsibility from him else, you need to go get an apartment that he can afford, again this is by my faith. He needs to drop money for food. Have a talk with him it should be sincere, focus and with a purpose, have clear questions, it should not be a put down just clear questions about his spending habits, his responsibilities and what a wife will assist with, Good luck.

He will claim to be the man of the house, the head of the house, he has to provide, you can help augment where necessary but do not allow him take you for granted by living like a single mother while married with another extra big baby.

Imagine not dropping money for foodstuffs and wanting to chop more than a meat per food. Ah ah , who does that.
I hope he turns a new leaf soon, cos your children are still young, the financial burden can only get worse and with a carefree man as husband, it won't be easy.

SmartMugu:
Do you know you sounded like a complete idio.t when you mentioned that my generation is cursed? I'm probably old enough to be your father. Learn some manners. Bye.

HaneefahRN:
You weren't there, it is her story so you saying you won't agree with something doesn't mean it didn't happen.
I am certain the woman would have gotten quickly over the embarrassment if he had said 'I'm sorry' while immediately leaving the room upon seeing she was naked, immediate turn out of the room. He can nau come back later to apologize after she is covered. And let's assume he was shocked and his brain couldn't process he was supposed to leave, the husband should have spoken up, 'leave and do not barge in like that next time without knocking'.
And the case would have died there.
I think the op is more shocked the husband took the matter with such levity.

I get and understand your point too though


About me contacting you or the other way round, sorry, don't bother.

Zico5:
These people are naïve of what serving God is all about. They have no knowledge of how merciful and lovingkindness God is. They think so far u are standing and bending before God all other things are minor. See this fool saying he wants to use human being for money ritual after ramadan. People are perishing for lack of knowledge. Religion of peace indeed. Jesus is only the way, the truth and life.

osinbanjoisaliar:
I have said it before, and i'll say it again. Anything after ilorin and before bakassi penisula is biafran territory. Anybody that complains after actualization will find himself facing a firing squad. Whether you're yoruba, anioma, owo, egba, efik, tiv idoma or igala. It doesn't matter. Soon and very soon, you will all be called biafrans. Anyone that can't bear this reality can go to H**l.

Butterworth:
How many BOKOHARAM Terrorist caught was sentenced to DEATH? ?

cerowo:
She don see beta bobo 4 camp

dabossman:
Some comments here are just appalling. Christian soldier my foot. What true Christian would set a man ablaze and watch him die in cold blood whether the individual is guilty or innocent. He is also a poor excuse for a soldier. It is one thing to engage the enemy in combat, it is another to stop a civilian at a checkpoint and set him on fire simply because you have a hunch. Is that standard military procedure? What happened to arrest and interrogation? Such an unprofessional soldier. How is he any different from the Boko Haram he is fighting?

And if you call yourself a Christian and support his barbaric action, then you really should check the faith you profess to. It's no wonder atheists on this platform constantly make a mockery of Christians on this platform. Most of them are filled with hate and bigotry.

ehie:
are u denying that the government of Buhari gave your bokoharamist brothers 700 million naira recently, if that isnt funding terror what is it? has it not led to an escalation of death in the North? you are beyond despicable, you are hopeless and the sooner you people see that the rest of Nigeria is tired of you shenigans the better for you. imagine pumping 2.6 bn dollars alone in 2016 for a futile war. hopeless lot, Go and form your islamic caliphate of Boko Harams and Almajiris and free us jare

ehie:
lol, am sorry, we reward terrorists in Nigeria by giving them billions

SmartyPants:
Why on earth should s suspect be set on fire?

Hope you understand the meaning of the word suspect?

And why was he set on fire? That is barbaric and unexpected from our army.

taylor88:
Joel a Christian soldier


and somebody will preach one Nigeria to me


if thunder no fire buhari b4 October 1st


I go know say national assembly don pass padded thunder bill


zoo

DrGoodman:
Have we have gotten used to listening to ridiculous pronouncements from groups of people who constitute themselves to champion the cause of their group, while openly threatening the existence of others?
Have we sunk so deep as a people that we now allow those who threaten the very existence, lives and properties of millions of people to walk about freely, even having the brazen audacity to reissue and amend their threats to this country’s existence?
At no time in the history of Nigeria has there been more blatant disregard for the laws of the land, and the aloofness of those in authority from protection of the constitution of Nigeria.
But those in the know will understand what is happening, Arewa groups who issued these threats are untouchables, they cannot be arrested for an offence which other people have been detained for years for.
And why should they be bothered, they have precedence in their favour, a similar threat was issued to a group of Igbo visitors to the Oba of Lagos palace in 2015 by the Oba himself. In this case, the Oba issued an ultimatum that the Igbos must vote for a particular candidate in the gubernatorial polls or be drowned in the lagoon. Nothing happened to the Oba, he was spared because he is above the law. We were all witnesses of the scare tactics which ensured the current president won the elections in the north, we heard stories of how some northern youths were brandishing knifes and other dangerous weapons in the north, all to make the people vote for their preferred candidate.
Impunity is when people from openly commit crimes, knowing they will not be punished. That has been the problem of Nigeria. That is why the country will not grow, that is why those seeking to form a different country will continue to get popular, because there is no justice in the present arrangement.