Jullima:
These are the kind of stories you wait till you hear the version of your uncle’s wife.

Your parents and your older siblings visited the same uncle and came back to rave about it.

You were locked out for two hours, according to your aunty she didn’t know it was you (maybe true or false) but it’s very plausible.

Although some people are very good hosts, they offer food first to all their visitors, some don’t until you ask for the food. Your uncle also didn’t offer you food, why blame only his wife?

The only ‘evil’ thing I see here is how you say she treated you differently from your cousins. That’s not a good thing to do. I think you should let your sister go and live her own experience, maybe it will be different from yours, your older siblings had a more pleasant experience.

From experience some visitors feel they’ve been treated badly because the kind of reception they expected fell below their expectations.

Auntie I understand u re trying to stay on the fence but if what he typed are the exact way it happened, then that wife get skuri.

What kinda version sef from what I saw there she called him in when she knew her huz was on his' way home or do u want to say the huz didn't mention his' coming at all for her not ve known and probably do a second chk wen she was told someone was at the gate.

What kinda Host wait 4 visitors to ask 4 food 1st time visitor for that matter and a teenager in this context as Yoruba when u go to people's house esp 4 the first time, u re expected to maintain some decorum wch he did and it was d woman that ought to ve done the right thing.

U also said she hosted others well trying to say perhaps he is the one with issues. Have u thot of it in the context that she fears her sis-in-law and out of respect she has for her she had no choice than to pretend and hide her heinous act.

OP if u love ur sis pls tell ur mum what happened and ur worries if ur sister shld go and live with ur uncle cos of his wife.
U don't hide issues like this u ve endured but ur sis is too small to go thru any trauma from people like that if family Wan scatter abeg make in scatter ur sis remains ur sis let ur mum settle any issue that may come with this with her own broda.

Pls don't mind anybody saying make family no scatter ur sis is ur first family and u must protect her jealously.

Get rich quick syndrome has come to stay and won't leave in a very long time.

Do u know why?

Not just the Parents ve failed, Society has also failed us and Nairaland is also one of those failing the society.

People whose source of wealth can't be established nor verified are celebrated regularly by the society (nairaland -Hush dog Mompha and odas) making it look OK to do so.

Until when we stop celebrating mediocrity then Yahuu is here to stay

Gbogbowa:
So Jesus will give out his church if he were in the world today?you criticize Jonathan but have not seen anything wrong in this govt,what you said today is like a pastor that has lost his calling I believe strongly that Jesus is not happy with you

Well done Deputy Jesus

Alejobs:
What is the update on your barber friend who was locked up by his former boss?

Thank you for chking up and asking.
He spent about two weeks in Police custody and we got a Human Right lawyer that helped us facilitate his' release.

We insisted we weren't going to take his' bail at the police station except if the case was taken to court. Thanks to the lawyer who helped us ensure that so he was released on bail while the case is still in Court.

The pandemic has forestalled the court process for now.

In a nutshell he's doing fine and he has continued his' biz without fear while we await the resumption of his case at the court...

I think late detection of the virus would ve led to the death.

This is one of the dangers of not doing massive testing and doing selective testing.
There are people who are +ve but won't know but until it reaches it's peak that is when it would be detected.

In our usual way of taking fever as malaria/Typhoid.
If only people can just get tested at will esp when they ve the slight headache but we're still doing selective testing.

This country is cursed ah swear.

wagazala:
Gambling is meant to be for fun and not a means to make money.

Most of us clearly do not understand this and think it's an investment program. You are meant to gamble with your 'spare' money. If you win good, if you don't no qualms. Just like drinking.

It's only in Africa that gambling has become an investment by players. People who play the UK lottery don't go about crying that it has ruined them because they mostly play with loose change and don't over indulge.

I was going to like this ur post but the highlighted part got my attention.

All over the world, gambling has wrecked lots of people so it has nothing to do with region or continent.
Just like u said anyway gambling is meant to be done with loose cash and shldnt be seen as a mode of investment.

Plead:
Mind yo business!

I am suspecting it's either u the landlord son molesting the girl or u re also an abuser trying to save a molester like u.

All ur comments above is enough to show ur personality.

In all honesty FG and NCDC are not doing anything let's call a spade a Spade.

We shldnt sugar coat it at all.
We've been on lock down for 4 weeks now and just about 10,000 people have been tested and we all know the best way to contain the virus is to do mass testing and isolate those +ve but no they re only doing the test selectively.

How can a state like Kano run out of test kits.
It is a big shame on our govt.

With all the funds we got, we're doing less to what many expects us to be doing right now.

If u re a govt official, and u re using this period to enrich urself fraudulently pls rmba Abba Kyari and rmba u ve families and children.

Sorry brother. I am trying to put myself into ur position and I can picture it he way u re feeling.

I think the problem here is u re putting ur parents first before urself and ur own personal family wch if I were to be in ur position, I won't ve done.
What I ve seen is no matter what u do, u would neva do enof and I'm sorry to say ur father is a selfish person who feels he's entitled to what eva u make rather than him seeing it as a support from u.

You need to give urself a break and I hope ur mum understands ur effort and even if she doesn't, give urself a break replan ur life.
Try to place ur parents on a regular and affordable monthly contribution and let them know they shldn't expect more from u and adhere to that except when there is an exigency.

Live a good life broda cos u deserve that and please erase the thought of committing suicide.
Don't let anyone put u under unnecessary pressure

Tobinrobin:
Great move! Even though what they did with the beret is an offense I believe they can just warn them instead of punishment

I really do not know much about military rules but I don't think it shld be an offence to join the challenge.

We ve seen military officers even from US (very beautiful video) joined the don't rush challenge and we didn't see any uproar such why shld ours be different.

The thing with Nigeria is every oga loves to flex muscle

packagerz:


Parent should not miss this school.. I finished from there. Now working in a financial institution

Abegiii u re only doing ur work as a PR person

Do u want me to say what I know about the school and her sister school The Poly Ife.

Alert intending parents should pls do proper research before sending their wards to this school.

Intending parents that may want to send there children to the school shld do dre research properly before sending there wards there.

That's my little advice.

Which ever of the mode that moved this to FP is stupid and insensitive cos I'm wondering the exact msg this is passing.

U people are amongst those encouraging social vices. HUSHdog without any known source of wealth is who u people keep glorifying.

There is a ticking time bomb we're all sitting on that would soon explode because of fools like this, we ve many teenagers in sec school who no longer value education and are seeking to get rich quick because that is who the society celebrates.
When this Yahoo stops pls what would all this young teens fall back to in future to us the society that has been celebrating them.

itsme01:
Post trash about my Father and am gonna insult your mother too and give you jara with your tribe

Don't go on peoples pages talking trash, don't tag or quote them, stay on your damn lane.. you think wishing his father death all around social media he is happy about it?

.

This is just a mere face saving tweet.
1)The time Bello Elrufai made his own post was 11 Am and the picture u posted was 1 pm so this was after the done had been done.

2) the handle that Bello threatened ain't the same with the handle that made this post.

This was done as a cover up from anoda handle just to claim he provoked him but he he handles are diff and the timing.
The 2nd picture shows the actual tweet that provoked him to alter such derogatory words.

So my question does that warrant such

My concern now is I'm sure diff mods would ve seen this post but do not want to take it to FP but I'm sure if it were to be Dino or any other Politician, this would ve graced FP.

@lalasticlala and Seun, why the double std

KingAzubuike:
Don't do it for the money , do it for the passion. Even if you're earning 10k monthly, be satisfied with it.

Is it Passion that would put food on the table abegiii - - and if I may ask can u do it when u ve needs to service

I did my NYSC in Ekpoma (Yr 2018) and as Corper we were given 5k stipend + alloweee 19,800 & it was neva enof.
My headache then was that core staff in the school were paid btw 10k-12k and they teach from Jss1-Ss3 and each teacher teaches at least 2 subjs.

The Proprietor & Proprietress would sometimes delay salary and still deduct from there salary and these are family men and women.
I used to pity them like mad and cos of this I sometimes riot for the salary not cos I needed it but because of those staffs cos they can't complain else they would be sacked.

The school is one of the biggest school in Ekpoma now imagine what other private schools that ain't as big as the school would pay there staffs

Subduer:

Forcing people to church CAN'T CONVERT them to Christianity. Such Moslems have used Our Lord's prayer, learned by rote, to DECEIVE many unwary Christians into regrettable marriages, & worse experiences.

Just like forcing people to wear hijabs can't convert them to being a Muslim afterall it's just a way of dressing.

I really do not understand the sentiments go to any Xtian university I repeat u re forced to go to church progs at least I can speak 4 Covenant University. It is a must that all studs shld b at the auditorium when there is a church prog in fact u would be suspended if u re not at the auditorium.

Frankdoz8:
This is the problem I have with Yoruba Muslims, in Christian university, are Yoruba Muslims force to bear Christian insignia? Are Muslims force to carry bible? Are they force the pray in Christians way? Then why will they force Christians to wear hijab which is a Muslim outfit? This is hypocrisy!

Shuuu na today.
We s they re.
They re forced to attend all church programs in the school.
Pa Oyedepo doesn't joke with that nobody shld b in the hostel when there is a program in the auditorium in fact u would be suspended for that.

I really do not understand the fuse about this issue.
As a a Xtian going to an Islamic based school u shld know u would ve to adhere to there rules.

Just as Muslims in Covenant, redeemers, Babcock University etal are not allowed to practice there Islamic religion and are forced to go to church without there will so also Muslims university also ve rules ch they must also adhere to.

Goalnaldo:
I noticed that people are quick to call someone scammer these days. Did he ask you for money or your BVN?

Are u the scammer or is the scammer U

AtikuNetwork:
This is becoming more like an humiliation. They should temper justice with mercy. She has apologised and admitted her mistake. Nobody is above mistake.

That means an Armed robber or hired assassin who had killed in the past shld be let go once they apologize and feel remorseful.

NextD18:
If you are to be asked why you are pisssed, will you be able to say something tangible?

The only reason you are full of regret is because you are actually not a real helper and a generous type.You obviously seems to be the type that helps ladies for sex as rewards or who helps guys to expect something monetary and loyal-related rewards or to subjugate.

Or possibly those type who'll help you financially and still want to monitor you to direct you on what and how to use the money they gave you.

We have totally lost all sense of generosity and humanity in this generation.

If men don't help women for sex, they'll help their fellow men for loyalty and to enslave them.
If women don't help men to manipulate and rub it on their face with insults later, they'll help women to gossip and mock them.

Too bad mehn!

In all your life endeavors and activities, in all your doings and meetings to people, no matter what--NEVER BE POOR!!

Even if you are poor, don't form the habit of begging and asking for help, because asking for help and begging as a habit is worse and deadlier than the habit of drug and masturbation.

I don't agree with ur assertion.
I think OP did it out of freewill but angry cos he felt the money would ve been used fro things more pressing than a party.

I understand why he is angry and if I were to be in his position, I would ve been I can't give u money and u spend it on things I can't spend on myself.

I am sure next time she calls 4 hlp, he would most likely not do it 4 her and it may be more pressing at that time.

olaniyilukman:
I spend free as well but if we advice the girl to leave her guy now, do you have another one you will provide for her... Stop this bro, they can thrash this issue out themselves...

That is one of the problems with rlships fear of what would happen.

That was why I advised her to ve a heart to heart talk with him then watch him if he changes but if he doesn't, then the decision is her's if she would be able to cope.

olaniyilukman:
My dear lady, I will humbly advice you to exercise alot of patience with him. In my own view, the guy is watching all what you are doing for him and he decided to keep mute about the development, he might have been discussing your issue with his friends as well and might even be proud of you in proxy. Such guy do take care of girls walahi, I swear you will enjoy him to the fullest if you exercise alot patience...

OP pls don't listen to this advise ooo.
For how long would he be watching. This is a pure case of a stingy guy.

I am a prudent spender but there are certain things that are absurd.
A reasonable guy would not be travelling that far without small hand pack and would still expect ur fiancee to feed u all through ur stay.

O gidi gan fun.
I would only understand if he is not working even if u earn more than him, he shld show some form of responsibility but in this case, he is stingy as f*ck.

I think to him he's doing u a favor by being ur spouse
OP my advise is u open to him about what u think about him and hear is response and watch his attitude if he changes but I doubt he would and if he doesn't then the ball is in ur court.

Without doubt the buyer had ulterior motives from the beginning of the trxn.

He already failed in his' own part of the deal.
But what is giving me concern is d supposed Egr who has no biz in the trxn at all trying to justify the buyer.

My guess is they work 2gda to scam people cos if not, u ve no biz whatsoever in this disc.

nams77:

That's great. Thanks. I hope pic quality is good

Yes for me it is very much OK but u know we ve some techy people it may not be

nams77:


Did you get the Coocaa TV again? I learnt they are msnufactured by skyworth TV which is among the top 10 globally.
Where did you see it?

Yep I did bought it on Jumia last year dec during black Friday and it's been working fine since I bought it

You can't edit tweet.

Op ought to had played along with this mofo.
U don't how pained I am right now that u didn't play along to get the retarded fool arrested

hothuntee:


If you have some money to invest in yourself, then go for ICAN and if you have more, add MBA and leave the graduate job category. Be ready to do any marketing job at least for a year to pass as work experience.

I am disappointed in nairalanders and their wicked advices. He is in his timeline and can be lifted without even doing any of the aforementioned

U mentioned ICAN just like that. For someone like him, he would ve to start from Foundation and with that he would use more than a yr to complete his' Ican- that is if he writes without references.
MBA and ICAN would require lots of fund.
The best bet for him is to learn a sellable skill such as IT, or if he had work experiences before leaving skool, he can use that to his advantage.
Every other thing, na govt job sure pass.

OP I wish u the very best and I pray an helper come ur way soon

I was expecting to see our own
Omotola Jalade
Genevieve
Rita
Ini edo
Ramsey
Rmd
BOB
Ageless Joke Silva
AMONGST others

Citytrend:
Oga read the Headline it's all about his present job. Not CBN or UBA. The money in question is not his money

U were questioning his source of income where he could ve gotten money to build the estate and I responded to that and I don't think my response is out of context.

Going thru the thread, u were saying what was is salary as a cbm gov as if he strtd and ended his career with CBN so questioning his wealth is what I find absurd.