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heryourdayji:
I am in this relationship, and I and my boyfriend have had quite a rocky relationship. We often quarrel and argue and just recently, I found out that he had joined a dating website. This surprised me as I don’t know why he would do that while we were together. I confronted him and he apologized, claiming that he only did it because we were having a lot of problems and thought that we were done at the time. I was extremely hurt and angry so I broke up with him and told him that i never wanted to see him again.


The day after that, I was hanging out with one of my male friends, we got into a serious talk and ended up having sex.

I had sex with my friend, hoping it was going to make me feel better but i ended up feeling a lot worse after. I have never done things like this, but when I decided to sleep with my friend I don’t think that my boyfriend and I would ever get back together.



After a few days, he called me (my ex) we were talking and we got all emotional and we decided to give things another go. I love him so much and really want to be with him but I was sad because it took me having sex with my friend to realize how much I wanted my boyfriend back. Having sex with my friend also made me realize how easily mistakes are made so i am willing to forgive my boyfriend for joining the dating site. You really need to tell him the truth before it ends up like ice prince and his girlfriend ish.. by the way, you look hot if truly you are the one on that pic. Kindly give me a call 08037364617 let's hang out.


We are back together now but I have not told him that I slept with someone else during our short break up and I really don’t want to tell him because i am afraid he will not forgive me and that I will lose him forever this time. I feel like I am being dishonest, which I so hate the feeling but I definitely hate the thought of having to tell him more. So my question is, if you sleep with someone else during a short break up do you need to tell your partner that u slept with someone else? Or is it none of their business when you have broken up?


Please I need good advice from mature romanceland esp guys

ohaleoghene:
my fiancé and I has been dating for 6years now. met him after my high school. when he was around ,we had sex two to three times a week. now he has travelled abroad. and over a year I haven't had sex and I miss it. I sometimes self service but guilt kills me afterwards so I want to stop. any tips on how to over come sexual urge as I don't want to cheat or self service.

dammyconcept:
My fellow nairalnder, I will be happy if you can help me thank God. I am a good nairalander and people called me Nairaland addict.
Im a graduate finished serving my fatherland last year. I am a professional Photographer also then I said if I cannot be employed as an accountant then let me apply for the post of Photography.
Everyday I open Nairaland and see people thanking God that they are now employed I do join them praise God and I know my day of testimony will soon come.
I don't have any forum than Nairaland as my job search engine because I know I will soon share my own testimony. Last year I saw a post on photography so I quickly forwarded my mail. A week later, I was called for an interview and we were told that they will get back to us.
I was called for second interview and we were told that anybody that did not receive text within three days should considered not qualified.congratulation bro..
To the glory of God, I received mail that the last interview will be a chat with the MD so below is the short chat with the owner of the company.

Dammy: Good morning mir,
MD: so you are ........Dammy and you applied as a photographer
Dammy: Yes you are right mir
MD: I am not going to employ you...........
( come and see me I wanted to faint)
MD: I mean I'm not going to employ you as a photographer but you will be my accountant so follow me I will show you your personal Office.


for those that are still hoping that God will give them a good job, I pray your own time will soon come
pls if you know you can help me with accommodation around MAGODO PHASE 2 pls mail me . dammylaray@gmail. com

bigtt76:
Mr. Doctor wan play guitar ni I'm sure there are better ways to check than doing the manual thingy. Truth is if you've only had an encounter with a 6 year old back then, you have no cause to worray. Funny enuf some girls without any encounter still get their hymen broken due to excessive bicycle riding so stop worraying joooor and live your life!
How did you felt when his finger was inside your virginal.. Guess u enjoyed it .

LordHybrid:
For sometime now, mature married women keep approaching me,and each telling me that they want me to become their special boy.I really don't know what to do.They keep telling me that am handsome,am this, am that.That they will take very good care of me.please am confused i really don't know what to do,it's not as if am a virgin,but why are they after me,i believe it's very bad to be sleeping with somebody's wife.Infact most of them are old enough to be my mother....please i need your advice NLder's...........NB:forgive my bad grammer

collinspro:
I am messed up right now and I need your advice. I work in a company where I report directly to a lady. My woe started when I went to her office one day to pick up a file. As I entered her office, my phone rang so I decided to take the call. The call was a bit long so she decided to get the file for me from one of the file cabinets. As she bent for the bottom drawer her skirt tore terribly exposing her panties. The phone almost dropped from my hand. I tried to hurry out of the office but she called me back to help her go across the street to stitch it. I was almost frozen. Ever since then she has been disturbing me to sleep with her.

She said she gave me the job because she love me. I just got married and don't want to cheat. Yesterday, she called me and and dropped the bombshell " if you don't sleep with me I will fire you". What do I do? I don't want to lose that job. I am considering reporting her to my general manager but I am afraid of the consequence.

Atmmachine:
She did it for the dick

zinachidi:
http://dailypost.ng/2015/10/23/true-confession-i-have-slept-with-over-10-dogs/

Cutehector:
U are a wise man ozaokpe..

5minsmadness:
What's there to advice Your boyfriend said u should buy him something and he'll pay u back when u enter naija. You should have even offered to tell him not to bother paying back and bring it as a gift but that aside what's wrong with it?

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Well maybe a girl should answer this. As a guy I see nothing wrong with it, we give girls gifts all the time. Even when they say they'll pay back and deep down we know they won't we give them anyway. If u don't trust him then u Ave no buisness calling him your boyfriend. If you can afford the n97k but don't want to give him cos you think it's too expensive then politely tell him so.

Abi ladies Wat do you think? Tearoses, MarvellousGod?

Vibesking:
I have a useless aunt (am sorry for using this term but am upset about the situation). I can't imagine why a grown up can't apply her IQ.
My mom's sister have been living with us for a year now and I must confess, she's beginning to get on my nerves. She's in her late 30s and she has all the feminine endowment.
She's a nice person but my problem with her is that she's not conservative. Am talking about someone that hangs her panties anywhere.. Especially on the door of the bathroom.
When she ties her wrapper, she'll expose her mammarry glad. .
She wears those shorts that only covers her unmentionable and every other things are left uncovered.
The height of it all is that. . The bathroom is perpendicular to the passage which is opposite my room. When am getting ready for work in the morning and am probably heading to the kitchen to fix something for myself, I'll see her bathing. She doesn't even close the door! I'll greet her and pass and when returning the door is still opened.
She does this everyday (morning and evening).
Apart from this, she doesn't cover up properly at all. She wears really short things and hardly covers her upper part.
Just yesterday she was getting ready to go out and she was mending her dress, she wore only a top and panties! Yes panties! and came to sit in the living room while she was mending the dress.
Am not having any bad thoughts about her though.. But am Deeply uncomfortable in my own house!
And my mom sees everything and she doesn't even caution her!
I can't even look at my aunt when she's talking because I don't want her to feel like am staring at her bo*bs..
I don't really know what to do.
if I confront her she may start saying am trying to control her because she's living with us.
You know. . Those kinda crap talk. Send me her number.. Maybe she's seriously looking for a suitor.
Am really tired.

mschubby:
they are all aware of this silly attitude of hers, the husband has been threatening to send her parking if she doesn't change but even with that she's getting worse

yourboss:
its like u don't understand my pain bro, u don't know what I'm feeling anyway

funlord:


What a complete _idiot! So you can't hustle hard, save up and then travel to the states on your own! Unfortunately this hungry man will still end up in the states trying to chase hotter chicks and then the old granny go teach am the meaning of "white power"!

DashMeYansh:

BEING a Toyboy and looking for Green Card are two different issues. But Nigga....you just need to put yourself out there their are better Gilfs than this. I see his kind all the time in the states. They disgust me . Low self-esteem. I rank my Gay friends higher in the Respect table. Utter disgrace to African Masculinity . MAKE Baba God bless your hustle sha

oluwadanie1:
bro fans can be frustrating at times o

rawtouch:
Upcoming juves now know where to go and f uck ashis