To be honest most business are not doing well as they claim. Income is always equal to expenditure in most cases.

If you earn over 400k,why not try to save more start a business why you're still working when you're 100% sure of your business,you can quit your current job

I know what it means to be on d road for up to 3-4hours,try to make up for d time you're not with your kids and also tell them why you're always away from them. Trust me they will understand and love you more.

But then it your decision to make

CrazyMan:

Exactly.

I used to experience it some years back but it has stopped.

I don't hallucinate like the op and most posters shared during their experience. just that I won't be able to move an inch and most of my experiences happened in the day, when I wake up or I'm almost awake. I don't usually experience it at night.

It's so scary, cos you'll feel all your senses, you'll even hear voices of neighbours, feel movement in the house, like fan, light, music...etc. apart from your breath you won't be able to lift a finger.

And it happens in seconds, between 10-30 seconds.

I thank God that it has stopped.

I don't hallucinate also..but there was a time I tried calling my aunt bcus we were in d same room but she couldn't hear me,I could see and hear everything but couldn't move...I thought I was dead bcus d shocking no be here

I've only experienced it once this year,it has reduced drastically

incogni2o:
currently battling this, but I think it is due to the mattress I need to change and inadequate sleep

when ever u experience it,relax don't try to fight or struggle...sleep back or relax a little longer for the rest of your body to wake up. I know it quite scary but being fearless is d key

tot:


If it was just a fall into temptation he would have come out of it prior to watching the movie.

Typically, people fall into temptation, see they are enjoying it and stay there. The only reason that man pulled himself out was because he was convicted, nothing else. That's my view anyway.

so are you saying those that watched the movie and didn't repent are in a bigger temptation?
Meanwhile
This argument would be needless if my assumption is correct that you are a Pentecostal

tot:


He was convicted.

If it was by goodness, he wouldn't have cheated in the first place.

Do you become a bad person because you fell into temptation?

paulolee:

yeah i kno wr u are coming from bcoz some men no jus get conscience...tanks bro

you're welcome but I'm a sis.......

paulolee:
good...this man is one of the producers dts doing a good work in nollywood...love his movie from the production to the interpretation of roles and most especially his story lines are always on point and i do endup learning from his flicks...remember when me n ma parents watched "the storm" a movie abt a troubled family dt was in total shambles from d drunk n cheating parents to the wayward children" i guess dt was almost 6 or 7 yrs bk...we watched dt movie together and we learned alot as a family...dad was being accused of aving anoda lady outside n ma mum learned how to curtail him and leave d rest to the lord tru prayers after weeks of shouting and challenging him...mum jus changed and started being extra caring n praying all nites and one day dad took mum out n confessed and also deleted n block d lady causing problems n said he felt too guilty ever since mum changed n hearing her prayers each nites keeps givin him nightmares n dt was how we wr blessed by this man's evangelical movie...thanks sir.

your father changed because he's a good man..some other men won't have

i didn't read everything u typed but I think it says a lot about the environment you grew up..... love is missing

you won't run now o,after marriage u will come to us for advice....

I know it can be frustrating waiting for that special someone but your peace of mind and happiness is more than important than being with someone who will cause u so much pain and sadness every now and then.


you can remain in d r/ship still she uses sharp object on u,shebi u fine

junior20202020:
where can I get the drugs, I stay in jos plateau state. I want to cure this problem at it's earliest stage.i don't want it to prolong. Even if it is 2 children God give me, I would be happy

Did you read the part were he said go to the hospital? Stop self medication it kills especially in delicate cases like yours maybe what u need is therapy not necessarily drugs

And why did you later attribute it to spiritual problem? May devil not have your time o,let's be careful of the things we call upon ourselves.

I'd advise you seek medical help and pray

elchapoo:


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elchapoo:
It's Good but it shouldn't have been all their hospital,
Where will those that are not Covid 19 + get treatment if they fall sick?

They donated all and told govt to approach d Bishop of each state to give them access to the hospitals, meaning they can use anyone they want ...

And I should add Catholics hospitals have multiple buildings, they can give a building or two for covid 19 isolation centres

Divorce rate/suicide rate based on marriage and relationship will reduce when society stop putting pressure on people to marry at a certain age. Also people shouldn't allow societal pressure get to them it is not worth it
My opinion though

Chuky7:


girls and korea ehnn 5&6 7 included...
Amandla Sternberg is the bomb I love those two movies still have them on my pc sef and she is beautiful

not all Korean movies,I look for movies with actors that I know and like.

Amandla is beautiful,I love d way she interprets scripts

Michael Scofiled - Prison Break

Laura Jean - To all tge boys I've loved before

Lee min ho(Real Name) - The heirs,boys b4 flower,personal taste,faith,legend of d blue sea and The King - Eternal Monarch

Amandla Sternberg- Everything everything and The hate you give

Jack bauer - 24

Liam Page - forever my girl

Tokyo,Berlin,Nairobi, Rio - Money heist

Lemme stop here

i opened this thread to comment relationship this relationship that,but trust me the comments so far are hilarious...

elchapoo:


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What a write up, I'm touched

Nice Idea

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o9o9:


Teams can take 250 people at the same time and i think they are about 400 so Teams is out of it.

Zoom seems the only free service that would give room to such loud audience.

so we can't blame them after all...zoom should work on their app then

solmus:



Nigerian women are generally wicked, were is the love? are we saying 5 people cant share 3 rooms and a parlour peacefully without quarrel ? My first time outside the country I spent almost a month in a tiny apartment with 2 rooms and a parlour, the husband and wife shares one room, their daughter and the man's neice shared another, while I slept in the seating room with the husbands younger brother.. we all enjoyed our time together and contributed to pay bills, buy groceries.. we hide from neighbors to avoid being reported for being overcrowded and early in the morning everyone is out of the door , saying our goodbyes at the subway station

Its absolute lack of love that make Nigerian women hate house helps and husbands family, they would even treat their kitchen like its a sacred temple meant for only them.. whats the big deal if anyone cooks while the wife is away, and once she's back she microwaves it and eat? the other occupants in the house can make themselves useful by cleaning the house and making everywhere tidy, and in the evening after meal they can all share stories or watch a movie together


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let's put her mother in law in a special place, her brother in-law brought his girlfriend not wife to stay with them...from the story they are young people,this same set of people will ask her for a baby in no time.

to me she already did her best by leaving her matrimonial bed for them...

truth is there's more to this story,I don't think d lady is wrong maybe her approach was wrong

[quote author=emae009 post=88959610]it'll end in tears...[/quote

zero joy..

o9o9:
Why would a government use Zoom?

they should've used Microsoft teams,but I heard zoom accommodates a good number of people at once

[quote author=Umartins1 post=89227247]Agnosticism. A part of me seems to be embracing religion[/quote

it's a good thing to embrace religion,but don't be brainwashed, don't forget your pastor can be wrong,ask questions. lastly the aim is to make heaven and not to be an hypocrite

MisterGrace:


She has always been like that from the onset. But a crafty pastor lured him into the pit of hell.

Stop shying away from that part.

The wife isn't tired of no apology.

Una no dey even consider his mental health and well-being.

Apart from typing RIP, what will you lots do when he finally dies of emotional trauma?

in my first comment,I told him to leave d house for a month or more,without notifying his wife or leaving money for upkeep

in those months am sure d man will find himself. he already made a wrong decision by thinking she will change,I'm sure he had plans on how to endure her character aside thinking she will change.

Don't worry he won't die,if he's talking and asking for help then he wants to be saved

MisterGrace:


Will he die if he finally divorce the demon?

Why are you guys been very wicked to the Op by asking him to remain in hell? Why?

hope you know there are other sides to this story? we heard just one which is OP side

She's not physically attacking him,I stand to be corrected...baba should man up and be emotionally intelligent

maybe she's tired of a man always apologising for everything even when his not wrong and gets angry at almost everything she does.

lastly I will be d last person to tell anyone to walk away from their family/home..honestly it is not my advise to give

humilitypays:
Good ladies like this guys won't marry them, na ogbanje and mami iwota Naija guys go de rush marry, and after they will come online to be disturbing our peace of mind



Op you saw the signs and decided to chook your head inside. How can u expect a lady to change for good after marriage Have u ever seen any politician that didn't campaign and then start campaigning after he has won the election


Just carry your wife de go, de manage her like that, una have like 20 more years to live as couple and everybody go face him aging wahala so endure

but baba say hin don get high blood pressure,if d woman no kill am,BP go kill am...las las life no hard make e find one small girl wey go dey give am joy, when match resume make e make beer parlor hin comfort zone.

on a serious note.. He should ignore her and look beyond her flaws,for his own happiness...if we say make we dey count wetin people dey do us,we won't be happy

if you've forgiven yourself by marrying her,just forgive her wrong doings in advance for peace to reign and don't let any of her moves excite u anymore ...get used to it

Leave the house for a month or more,don't tell her your whereabouts, don't leave money for upkeep..see if she would call u.

She believes she already own u and there's nothing u can do,u also sound calm which is something she's using against u

But how did u expect someone to change after marriage

Basilpearck:
When I saw the number of viewed Nairalanders I was overwhelmed, that's was why I booked the space..
Am tired of this country ooooo, our president can only address us every two weeks based on Coro. I want those stubborn Journalist to ask him questions...

I had to check o,the largest view I have seen so far since I joined NL

I hope they are richer than how they look.

Now they neither have money nor peace of mind

e don happen...
over to people that know what you have