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Crime / Re: 15-Year-Old Virgin Girl Gang-Raped By 7 Men In Delta State (Disturbing Photos) by OutharryHIV: 10:13pm On May 08, 2021
saphiere:
Loud it. I wish I have money I'd plan a nationwide protest against rape.
How much will it cost?
Celebrities / Re: Hushpuppi Wanted In 47 Countries As He Lists Crime Partners - Kemi Olunloyo by OutharryHIV: 6:33pm On Jul 03, 2020
DuBLINGreenb:
Won't happen but las las hush done chop money, flex life, lived lavish, flown choppers, flown private, had the most exotic cars, mingled with celebs obtained connections, became a known international brand.

No jail can take that away from him, if he comes out of prison he will be better than most poor Nigerians because he has a platform, he has connections, he has experience, he is known and so on. He won't be starting from square 1

He can write a bestseller book, be a TV host, sing music people will buy, sell his story to American media companies, work for security organisations abroad etc

Most Nigerians live in houses worst than American prisons me typing this have not seen electricity in 42 hours straight, I paid aboki 50 bucks to charge my phone, American prisons have 24/7 electricity, gym, free TV, free laundry services, free phone calls and free food that is why black Americans even the celebs see jail as an achievement as street cred status bringer

how many haven't been to jail? you tell me as we speak many US celebs are in jail including Steven Spielberg's daughter, R Kelly, Da baby etc
Even Robert Downey Jr, Lil Kim, tommy Lee, Mark Wahlberg have all been to U.S prison
Their prison is not like our own many come out of jail looking better than they did before they went in.

Those quoting me will chose 10 - 15 years in American prison and a lifetime of living lavish for themselves and their family without thinking twice over being a poor Nigerian from birth to death.

Ask yourself what odds hushpuppi had of being as rich as he was without doing what he did? We all know majority of Nigerians will be born into poverty and will die in poverty but we all want to delude ourselves by thinking "I will be the one to make it" niggger that's what the other 100,000,000 dead Nigerians before you thought, you think every poor Nigerian chose to be poor? or they don't know your God or another one is "if he didn't do crime he would be enjoying by now!" Nigguh enjoying what exactly

Simple question please how many Nigerian lawyers do you know richer than or even half as rich as Hushpuppi? Even the celebs how many of them where as rich as hush? Only the very top 1%

Another quick question? Ask them how many years and how much suffering, and how much connections etc it took them to get that degree and then that position and if the pay for those without connection is adequate, do the same for every other profession except clergy and politicians

And decide for yourself what chance the vast majority of Nigerians have of becoming millionaires or even hundred thousandnaires ?

I'm not encouraging crime please don't do crime but let us be realistic in our thoughts and speech,

I thought if you go to school you must be rich until I was in a slum and a woman told me she did her youth service in taraba, I was surprised I was like wtf excuse me, she said yes she served in.... She didn't know I was thinking shocked thinking to myself "how did you go to school for 17+ years only to end up in this slum in this poverty" I assumed everyone in slums where uneducated never do wells, miscreants etc.

Imagine if she, like most young girls were compelled to sleep with lecturers for grades, or sorted to pass and all that thinking riches were ahead of them upon graduation only to end up in a slum without husband and children hey this isn't fiction this lady was quarrelling with another non educated woman the other day I recorded what the women were using to insult her. Her lack of husband and children she kept saying she sacrificed all that for school and her future but you decide if this is a future worth losing sleep for, worth losing meaningful relationships for


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oGhHX6sSzCU

Don't worry out of respect and privacy I didn't show her face.

Extra fun fact did you know?? Nigeria made more money from Yahoo boys in 2019 than from Agriculture think about it.

Hello, Please how can I likely get in touch with her?
Health / Re: Please Help, My Mind Has Not Been At Rest by OutharryHIV: 8:44pm On May 26, 2020
I don't think anything is wrong with you son... You're just going through a phase.. it'd pass.

I've been there too.. I felt dirty about myself, I felt violated and stained but I later got to realize that my having certain desires was not my fault.. It was just a call of nature and its our choice to decide whether to answer or not.. Whatever your choice is, it doesn't make you bad.. just ready yourself to bear the consequences.

Thus I always say, Abstinence remains the best answer.
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And don't ever feel that you've betrayed anybody.. its your life, its your body.. At the end, you decide what happens to it.

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Politics / Re: Ngige: I Don’t Have Interest In Anambra Governorship For Now by OutharryHIV: 7:42am On May 25, 2020
yanabasee1:
Listen to Ngige at your own peril.... Politicians are greedy folks and will never be satisfy with whatever they have at hand.....


If given the opportunity, Ngige will gladly embrace it......
That's not right sir.. The Nwabueze I know is not opportunistic neither does he go back on his words.
I have spoken with a lot of politicians and none has come close to this man in morals, responsibility and standing on the truth.. let us not use the yardstick of "politicians" to judge individual character

Chris has been with the APC right from when it was just Ac- Action Congress.. He has been devoted and loyal to the party ever since.. You won't hear him brag about it or try to hustle for juicy positions.. He is just calm and calculating.

He was on his own when he was called to become a minister and he never argued for a better portfolio.. He is not just the regular politician.

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Foreign Affairs / Re: African Militaries/ Security Services Strictly Photos Only And Videos Thread by OutharryHIV: 8:54am On May 18, 2020
Kabe2:


Even from Across Africa, the South-African special forces operationally deployed in Burundi are not carrying side arms.

The main thing is tactics and can your special forces rapidly deploy.

Nigerian special forces in the last picture with a side arm.
Thank you very much for this.. and the picture really went a long way.
Foreign Affairs / Re: African Militaries/ Security Services Strictly Photos Only And Videos Thread by OutharryHIV: 8:08am On May 18, 2020
Toju200:
Our AFSF,SBS are all equipped with Side arms..
Perhaps you haven't seen them..
Thank you Mr. Toju.. My conclusion was made through the pictures I see here, my eyes always go to their right thighs, but I don't see anything there. and my experience with the Nigerian Army 72 special forces battalion, Makurdi, Benue state, whom were placed on our security detail.. they looked like regular soldiers coupled with the Ak47 they were brandishing.. but I noticed that wherever we go and they introduce themselves, the other soldiers' there just light up with respect.
Btw, Thank you for the clarification.

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Foreign Affairs / Re: African Militaries/ Security Services Strictly Photos Only And Videos Thread by OutharryHIV: 7:42am On May 18, 2020
Please, a quick one brothers, Why are our special forces guys yet to be equipped with the standard issued side-arm(pistol)??
I think its a necessary part of them being well armed. cuz I don't see how special they are if they are not superior in weapons unlike the regular army.. I think its not only about training and tactics.
Foreign Affairs / Re: African Militaries/ Security Services Strictly Photos Only And Videos Thread by OutharryHIV: 12:09pm On May 14, 2020
Kabe2:
OutharryHIV, I read you inspirational thread on the front page a few months back. May God bless you.

You can at least say hi in the thread grin grin

Are you a fan of big guns?
Wow. Thank you very much Mr. Kabe2, I felt really honoured receiving a mention from you.
I stumbled upon the thread barely 5days ago and I've been following it judiciously ever since and yes, I'm a hugeee fan of big guns and military equipment.. if Nigeria was liberal towards guns, I think by now I would have had a personal stockpile of light and heavy equipments.
I really love what you do here.. don't stop please.

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Food / Re: Seahorse Donates 10 Million worth of food To Anambra 4 Communities (photos) by OutharryHIV: 3:29pm On Apr 26, 2020
MirJay:
Some one should please help me. Am so starved please help me.Ulcer caused by hunger want to kee me. if I don't talk I may go.
Mention me if you wanna save this little poor boy.
Politics / Re: How The 36 Nigerian States Got Their Names by OutharryHIV: 8:59am On Apr 26, 2020
This is wonderful.. Keep it up o.p
Health / Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by OutharryHIV: 1:35pm On Apr 25, 2020
Amazinglyqueer:
That's so brave of you op,keep being you.
Dear Amazinglyqueer, I've been following your diary like my life depends on it. I've always had one or two things to pick up from each of your post and I want to thank you immensely..
Your analysis on the stages after being diagnosed is just apt and fearfully accurate.. my wife got stuck in the denial, anger and depression stage for too long.
She denied the result to the point of going to different hospitals to run the test and even thought of flying off to India.
She later directed all her anger at me after she knew that nothing can change the outcome of the test and blamed me viciously for her misfortune (disregard all the people saying under my post that she must have infected me thus she took it calmly).
Then the depressed stage kicked in, and I actually feared that I would come back one day and see her hanging from the ceiling in suicide.. Thank God that didn't happen.
After many excruciating months, she accepted and moved on.. and we moved on.. I cannot begin to tell you the number of things she destroyed in her depressed state. LoL.. They were all replaceable tho.

So, Thank you my dear and keep doing what you're doing.. Its time we start opening up.. one day at a time.

N.B: And if that guy messes up, don't worry, my younger bro is always ready and available..lol.. a very good lad.

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Family / Re: Mothers, How Did Your Husband React When You Were In Labour? by OutharryHIV: 5:23pm On Apr 22, 2020
My respect for my wife grew that day, last year, when I saw what she went through cuz of an act the both of us committed..

Hers started in a bank, where she went to do some transactions so that she would head straight to the hospital and wait for delivery. so when I got the call that my wife was in pains in an Ecobank in Ajah.. I cursed myself, I thought I had failed as a man for letting her go alone while I rush to do some business.

My hands were shaking, I was driving like a mad man.. I got to the bank and was told she had been taken to the hospital.. everyone was touching my shoulder or hand to calm me down.. then the tears started.. One of the security guys had to drive me to the hospital. my sister and my wife's friend was already there.

I didn't even know what to feel, I was about to be a father.. it felt strange tho.

I entered the room and saw her screaming and blowing out hot air.. when she saw me, she kinda calmed down.. I think my presence brought her a little peace.. but that didn't save me from her pulling my shirt and telling me to remind her that I love her.. I was just nodding, saying incoherent things, I was crying and sharing her pains with her. that singular moment bonded us like never before..

Our twin boys came out strong and HIV-free.. our joy knew no bounds that day cuz that was our greatest fear that day.

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Health / Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by OutharryHIV: 7:16pm On Apr 15, 2020
merahki:



Why?
Thank you for posting that. Hopefully it would encourage somebody, somewhere, anyhow.
Own your story and your life
How can someone on an anonymous forum make you take down your post?
Don’t make me bring cane for you
Cheers
Lol... the cane part made me laugh so hard.. thank you sir.
Thing is, I don't really like issues or being criticized.. I just want everyone to see the bright side of things.. In all, let peace reign.

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Health / Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by OutharryHIV: 7:06pm On Apr 15, 2020
Eulalia:
So touching.

Op, thing is, you might not be promiscuous but do you know about your partner? That is why celibacy is the best safety measure.
Many people don't care to know their partners hiv status before diving into them. They don't even know their partners sexual history. like how many men they've slept with and the kind of men; whether they were promiscuous or not. They just go ahead and start having raw sex.

I know you're taking your drugs and you all are fine and all that but how convenient and comfortable is it, living the rest of your life taking drugs? what about those who may not be able to access the ARV drugs at all times or even have the luxury to live a healthy lifestyle like you?
I'm not trying to create panic of any sort but just saying it will be more appropriate to warn people to desist from any caresless lift style that will expose them to the dreaded than making it look like its OK to let off their guards since its not a death sentence. Though I understand you were actually addressing those who are already living with it but care should be taken in doing that so some people will not get it twisted and use it as a liberty to go on an unprotected fucking spree.

All I'm saying is, there's need to still let people know of the dangers of having unprotected sex and that HIV is dangerous.

May God perfect His healing upon your life and family.

Thank you.
Hello Miss Eulalia, Thank you very much for your wise comment.. I can't lie,it has not been comforting taking the drugs, I get tired sometimes but I always console myself in the fact that there has been breakthrough in the cure which is going through clinical trials and will be rolled out in 3-4years.. but above all, I still hope in God.

I'm sorry I couldn't make it more detailed and talk about all the pros and cons cuz I know how nairalanders behave to a long post so I tried to make it as short as possible and I wanted to focus more on the bright side because every other post out there tries to cast a dark shadow around the virus which causes more stigmatization for HIV patients.

So I just want newly infected to know there is a glimmer of hope.

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Health / Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by OutharryHIV: 6:01pm On Apr 15, 2020
Randy100:
You didn't tell us the side effect of all those antiretroviral drugs that you have been popping since five years. My brother HIV is a dead sentence.
Just like every other drugs, arvs has their own side effects and just like other drugs, it affects a few people and doesn't affect others... I have not actually noticed any side effects although I was warned that there might be occasional dizziness or headache.

I have been working in my full capacity ever since, I fall sick and treat malaria like I used to and become strong in 2 days..
HIV is not a death sentence.. non access to arvs drug can lead to death or waiting for pastors to heal you.

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Health / Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by OutharryHIV: 5:30pm On Apr 15, 2020
klenton:


oga, what exactly is the moral of this your story, that once someone texts positive they should just marry their partner and procreate HIV free kids and everything will be okay??

if you don't want to tell a story and let people learn from your experience then dont
leaving out completely how u got the virus, handled the stigma and healed defeats what ever lesson your trying to put out there.

prevention as always is better than cure, from your story is obvious your family is rich and that explains why you have to get married immediately with the financial implications involved in not just the marriage but raising a family, yours might be an exception and that is not a lesson.
I'm really sorry you got it the way you did.. I'm not really good at writing or expressing myself.. took me a great deal of time to put that one together.
I can take it down if you wish.

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Health / Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by OutharryHIV: 5:04pm On Apr 15, 2020
NextD18:
The statement "HIV is not the end of your life " is nothing but scam.

It is the end!

Just like Sickle Cell patients.

They are all living corpse. Let's embrace the truth, enlighten people on the dangers of HIV and stop giving them reasons to have unprotected sexual activities.
You actually have a point but I didn't give anyone a reason to keep having unprotected sex.. I've actually preached abstinence all my life... The reason I shared a personal story was to encourage those that already have it that there is still life.. You can live as long as you want.

And someone with HIV is not a living corpse sir, choose your words wisely.. Their chances of growing old is high.. higher than sickle cell patients.. I thought you should know this actually judging from most of your comments I read here.

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Health / Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by OutharryHIV: 4:57pm On Apr 15, 2020
lefulefu:
this is why its always important to have protected sex than to be nacking raw under the guise of trust.so how did ur girl react when she found she had HIV.did she blame u?
anyway having HIV is not the end of life.
Like every human, she was shocked and couldn't accept the result but like I said earlier, we chose to put it behind us and move on.
And she didn't blame me.. she knows me and the kind of life I live and what I have been doing..
We dated for 8 years before marriage.

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Health / Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by OutharryHIV: 4:50pm On Apr 15, 2020
MrMicholo:
Thank you 4 this OP. I discovered my status few months ago 2, I felt my life was over, it was a terrible period coupled with the fact that I had no knowledge about the medical evolution & breakthrough being done on the virus.. I thought it led to death like it was years ago.. My boss noticed my always lost and confused state and just gave me leave to get my shit together and one Nurse (A Lieutenant) counselled me ehh, told me whatsup and cleared my doubt ehh. I realized there was hope.
I'm stronger now, also trying to get my happiness back.
Do you belong to any support group, Op??
Wow.. Thank you for your service officer.. my prayers would always remain with you guys.. I've always admired men of the armed forces cuz that was once my dream..
I thank God you are stronger now..
I'd try to pm you so I could support in my own little way..

i do not really belong to a support group.. trying to put one together.
ManuelMount:




@op

Wish I could meet you in person

It can be arranged.

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Health / How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by OutharryHIV: 4:35pm On Apr 15, 2020
I "accidentally" found out I had HIV in 2015... Worst year of my life.. I know you might be thinking that I'm a promiscuous person but I assure you, I'm very far from that... So this is how it all started?

I did my NYSC in my dad's company and finished in late 2014 and I was given a full year to go read a course I didn't even want. So I instead volunteered for Youth In Action Against HIV and poverty in Tanzania. My dad was furious but my mum understood.

It was 6months filled with lessons, tears, experience and a firsthand witness to the sufferings of others... We tended to the poorest of the poor in rural Tanzania.

I later came down to Borno and later North bank area of Benue state, I realized there were a lot of vulnerable people that are hungry and can't afford even cheap medical care thus they die of common malaria.

I didnt stay long in Borno before I started having this feeling of fatigue and blurry vision, I thought it was cuz of the stress that comes with what I do, so I decided to go home. Few days after getting home I started feeling this head splitting headache, I thought it was malaria/typhoid of which a lab test later confirmed.. Out of curiosity, I told the doctor to run a full check up.. Just to be on a safe side.. Which he did..

You should imagine my surprise when he told me I was HIV positive.. Nothing has ever prepared me for that moment.. It was funny how a malaria treatment could turn to an HIV nightmare.. I thought of just ending my life right then.

But i braced myself and took the drugs, I was surprised that it was free in Nigeria sef.

I rushed home and took my girlfriend to run the test and it turned out that she has it too...
We've been taking the drugs for the past 5years now with an high Cd4 count and a low viral load.. The virus is not detectable in our blood stream anymore and we are happily married and our first twin boys are negative.

If you're out there and you've been in my shoes.. Its not the end of your life.. Life just happens and its not entirely your fault.

I don't smoke, drink or live a reckless life or sleep around, like I've been in only one relationship all my life, so its not about your lifestyle.
I don't know if I got it from the idp camps or my girlfriend(she was the only person I was with at that time), we just didn't care, we moved on.

So lovelies, Take your ARV drugs, take fruits, eat well, within 3-6 months you can still have unprotected sex throughout your life with your partner without infecting them or your children.. You can live your life to the fullest and more.

P.s: HIV patients do not look skinny and dried up.. That's just an archaic stereotype...
It is also not a death sentence.

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Politics / Re: Rivers State Government Declares Carveton Helicopters Persona Non Grata by OutharryHIV: 9:43am On Apr 09, 2020
Hedonisst:
This is a poorly written/edited statement. Simeon Nwakaudu should be relieved of his duties because he is clearly incompetent. He was probably in one beer parlour and was ordered to write a statement at short notice, in spite of his inebriation.

The quality of 'short notice' outputs indicates competence, or the lack thereof. The use of the word 'hilarious' in the statement is stupid.

I'm embarrassed on the Rivers State Government's behalf. "never bordered" indeed.
Are you that good at writing statements and being a publicist officer??
Health / Re: Coronavirus: Dr. Joe Abah Talks About Nigeria Airport Preparedness Vs. US And UK by OutharryHIV: 4:57pm On Mar 01, 2020
Dr. Joe just said it as it is.. Heathrow airport was like its normal self.. non of the officials were putting on face mask even though the country already has an high infection rate..
Coming into MMA1 was like walking into a war zone.. with all its checks and officials ready for the inevitable, I was surprised when I saw the news that there was no screening at the airport.

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Health / Re: NAFDAC Warns Against Taking `Maishayi’ Tea Made By Hausa Tea Vendors by OutharryHIV: 11:01pm On Feb 24, 2020
OgbanjeProphet:
I never wanted to post or say this publicly so as to avoid unnecessary sentiment.

The day I stop eating anything from hausas is the day I discovered that my incurable cough was caused by the food I usually bought from malams. I spent heavily to get cure but no cure came my way. But the moment I stopped eating from the Malam, the cough left me.

Whenever I visit Asaba, I would make sure to buy enough sugarcane from malams. But I discover that I would cough non-stop every night whenever I take auger cane. But the day I take none, I would sleep without coughing like an HIV patient.

People should be careful, these people have access to some powerful and slow killing chemicals. At times they innocently use the chemical for preserving their fruits. But I also believe that some of them use them for weapons.

Be guided oohh!!!
HIV patients do not cough or look sick like you insinuated in your post...
You should really be abreast on current medical breakthroughs and discoveries, sick or not.

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Family / Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by OutharryHIV: 7:25am On Feb 17, 2020
taylor89:
Such is life bro


After what I went through years back from a horrible ex I came to a conclusion that it's only ur parents and siblings that truly loves u genuinely that's why I can never trade their love for a pvssy I don't know its next benefactor


Life is so unfair, these kind of adulterous women hardly contact HIV, but cool dude that has been celibate for years now will just hit one night stand now, Boom HIV go show himself

My story bro.. my story
Celebrities / Re: Davido's Album Goes Platinum In The USA, Receives RIAA Plaque by OutharryHIV: 12:05pm On Feb 11, 2020
Congrats to him

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