Be careful man
Fell for one. I didn't know back then. I loved her. I became overly jealous even though I wasn't perfect also. I was warned by two different people to not infuriate her - I didn't listen and said some things.
Things went south. I ran to Jesus and He accepted me. I see sege, not only from her
Fact Check:: she is the only female I ever dated that never took advantage of me. She even warned me of some things back then. But did she hurt me spiritually? Yes, but I have forgiven her because I was warned and also Jesus tells us to forgive.

what a year 2023
Spiritual warfare is real. Never knew these things existed
Jesus is Lord.
Don't anyone deceive you.

ojun50:
Like I keep telling people around me, I don’t have friends.

Smile, celebrate with him and move on.

Only Jesus is yr friend.

Learnt this the hard way
Only Jesus is your friend

By d time dem jazz dis one up, ur eye go clear.
Except u urself get one power somewhere.
Nonsense

DONT HAVE SEX WITH ANOTHER WOMAN PLS
!
Don't give anyone excuse to wage war
Keep praying and trust God

Eriokanmi:
Well, this might be a cooked up story but what I once witnessed was the other way round. Back in the days, I graduated ahead of this my friend who played a great role during my admission in those days. We gained admission same year but I graduated ahead of him.

After finishing my final exams and preparing for my nysc, he told me that he had a reference in one course , which happened to be his favourite. His script couldn't be found. That's how he lost one year. He went and cleared that paper. When it was time to pick their call ups, in preparation for the nysc, the school went on strike so the man in charge of student affairs unit took all the call ups home due to the strike action and directed all graduands to come to his house and pick their call ups.

Somehow, my friend was doing slow motion in a girl's place. By the time he now went to pick his letter, he learnt that the student affairs director had been rushed to the hospital. Cultists whose names had been pasted all over the campus after rusticating them quickly went to the director's house to pick their call up letters. I wouldn't know the system now but in those days, the moment you moved to the final level, depending on the duration of your course, your department would collate your names as possible graduands and send to faculty. Your names would now be forwarded to the nysc. So, before these guys were rusticated, their name had been sent down to nysc in abuja so, their call ups came with others .

When they got to the man's house, the man looked at the list he had and discovered they were all in the black book of the school so he asked them to settle with the school after the strike was over for possible consideration. These guys refused to leave. One of them grabbed a bottle and hit the director on the head, snatched the call ups from him and ran away with everything. That's how my friend missed that year oo.

He came to me one day. I was already working. He narrated all that happened, except his dating life. I told him to accompany me to a man of God. That I was going to have a vigil there that night which used to happen once in a week. He agreed to follow me. Before the program I took him to the pastor. He said what's the problem and my friend said he had issues with his school which was delaying his progress. The man said sir, please lets pray first. As he began, he said sir, pls open your eyes, who is Amaka? He said its his gf and he said OK, as he continued, he asked again, please who's Shade, he said his gf and the man continued, he asked who's Bola, he said its his gf and the man reacted, saying, but why do you like women this much bro? He said one of them whose name is Bola( not her real name pls) was behind his problems. He said the girl had been telling him that they'd both graduate same year but he was taking it to be a joke. That she had had series of disappointments in the past, as guys always slept with her and dumped her. She now went to a herbalist who made some incisions in her private part that, whosoever slept with her would be her husband as he'd be in her perpetual bondage.

In short, he prayed, fasted and he overcame. A few weeks later, his cousin told him they pasted a list of those affected by the call up issues and his name was among those names. That was how he served with the 2nd batch. Today, he's in charge of logistics in a leading USA company in NJ.

Guys, stay away from those ladies if you want to live your dreams and you don't want your glory to die. Their legs are longer than you may have thought. Pray very well and be convinced of your life partner. Don't choose by beauty or cheerfulness. Enough said

Brother l learned this the hard way. Thank Jesus for rescuing me. Am still praying. And mind you this started last year October.
I am happy I know Jesus now. Do you know how many lives have been destroyed
My advice:: don't engage in sex until after marriage. Fast before you marry
I made that mistake but God saved me.
I have warned my siblings. I would keep telling my friends also.
Most Naija girls are fetish

Once you have had sexual relationship with her, somethings wouldn't be clear.
I learnt this the hard way and I am still learning.

Everything is not physical. Africans are fetish in nature and would go any length to satisfy their wishes.

What if her mum doesn't want you as her daughter's husband? And she is just wanting you to not marry her daughter

I would advise you to fast for 3days. Take leave off work. Many people have lost their lives/destinies due to a wrong decision.
I was saved by God's grace.
I believe God would talk to you directly. Just cry to him.

Una don dey scare me. I don dey experience my own sha.

Zonefree:

What if she's trying to save him from unforseen harm? No mum will be quiet or comfortable seeing his only son going into deep shiit, and remember, a man in love sees no evil.

People don't realize this on time. Women are very manipulative - even including the mum.

Just pray and fast about it yourself. Women and occultism are like 5 and 6. Don't trust any of the three (we have wolves in sheep's clothing)
Just pray that God should guide you.

pulsa:

True experience makes you realize there are spiritual things in life, last 2 years I saw someone turn into an animal and since then I’ve realized that there are principalities and powers in this world.

Yes o. I have zipped up ever since then. To even follow naija babe talk sef they irritate me. The few ones I talk to, na lie I dey lie to them. If I say I am going to A, na B I dey go to.

Righteousness2:
This one is bold to tell you what she represents.

There are so many others out there. Young men and ladies, agents of marine kingdoms, whose assignment is to dilute and destroy destinies.

Knowing how polluted the world is, One of their major means is through sexual immorality. Once they get you , you are gone.
You may be alive but you are dead. You become a walking corpse .
A blossoming life and Destiny could suddenly become a leaking basket.

It takes the Mercy of GOD andctge Anoiting of GOD on a man to Break the yoke.

Flee Sexual immorality! You WILL save yourself from many spiritual and Physical calamities.

I never believed all these things not until late last year. You wouldn't know these things exist until you experience it. Africans and occultism sha

[quote author=Caleycashh post=114925489]What makes you a man if you are not domineering!?... even nature alone should let you know a man is built to dominate, take your feminist shit outta here![/quote pp]
Dude! Am a guy and I can tell you that you have to slow things down with these ladies over here until you can stand on your own.
Am also bidding my time. These women have no joy o. Just no born

Enuguguy:


I don't have anything
I don't even have money in my account
I will start life with her

Do it if you need to. I also did it but I knew what I was getting myself into. Do I regret it? Maybe. Should I whine about it? No, there are positives to take from it.
Take the step but don't loose guard. Don't attempt to start any mortgage plan yet together.

Enuguguy:


I don't have anything
I don't even have money in my account
I will start life with her

Do your thing man. The western culture is spreading faster than I thought. We still have few women that are African but I would say do your thing.
And of course I don't agree a man must be domineering.r

Enuguguy:


What do you make of Akwa Ibom girls vs Yoruba/Igbo girls abroad
Which one stay in marriage and respect their husband

Bro none. Some of them are faithful but have got a nasty attitude. Some are great though. I just feel it's a big risk especially for those that get a mortgage.
You can die of depression if she leaves you after starting the mortgage plan

Reason am o
Na my spouse dey school and I be dependant (just did the court wedding this late last year). When we reach, she start dey show flex.
Jejely, I begin dey apply for job outside her vicinity. I don get one now, pack my things comot fast.

Life is a risk. Right now am trying to get another job that can file for me.

XXLDICK:
The funny thing is that those opposing Freeze's tithe view never support their claim with Bible verses just like Freeze does

i also wonder o.. i am still waiting for any of these celebrities to give intelligent response

a man is not meant to provide for a woman. both parties must work together. that is always the first message i pass to any girl am dating.

my rule remains --work hard. make ur money.. marriage comes last.
there are many things one can do to make u happy

Trust me both are important for a newbie. I always advise everybody to go for MCSA and CCNA.
If you find yourself in an enterprise environment with only CCNA, you wuld find it a little difficult.
If you find yurself in an ISP envirnment with only CCNA, you would still be able to patch thrugh.

But overall I would advise you to choose one path as you begin to explor the basic foundations of the two

for me: you actually wanted to sleep with the girl but you were caught. We all get caught though. ironically you love your girl.
To make amends:you needed to cook up a story since both you and your babe are active nlanders. she reads it and accept you back. good luck

emmylight4u: well its all about love but that does not mean that one should not use his number six.even my own brother married youba [b]he tot i will not show for the weding but i came n perform w[/b]ell.peter should know i can never attend his show cos he is not a gud celebrity.this is the person that so many youth look up to...

you are an illiterate dude. Before your sibling can conceive that idea, it sure means you have a bias somewhere. I trust myself. Who cares if you show up or not. na you go feed my new wife and children. and the moment you don't show up, you wouldn't even invite me for yours. .

To all ladies here supporting Jude, I pray your husband's brother fail to show up on your wedding day..

It's not compulsory my siblings attend my wedding. But hell no, the dude was busy posting pics on instagram during the wedding. You don't choose a wife for a man over 30 years. . You only advise and keep your mouth shut.

igbo girls are beautiful and I think I might end up marrying one. . The only ishh I have with them is they don't have booobi like that

Dude never back down. itz never easy/..stay positive
i bliv the best ting thing to do now is think and choose a career. forget 2-1 ishh for now. think of a career.
now divert all ur energy towards that.
me self na learner but i bliv something gud go show

one of the reasons i would never marry a fellow Yoruba woman. I can bet she is one.

All thingz being equal, I would settle for a non-Nigerian. Last resort is definitely non-yoruba

@ OP
I tink u should try focus on one. Aldo nigeria permits being jack of all trade. I would prefer u stick to one thing and bite from others. know one thing and then try focus on being a solution achitect in your field.
For example i do networks (still a newbie thou), and we plan migrating our monitoring database to a sql database. Hence i need to know basic querying. u might also find urself into linux also.
Just go for one thing and know things that suppor that one thing.
Networking is wide and sometimes i wish i were a programmer coos i feel they are more appreciated. Where i work, once u call urself a network engineer, they expect u to know everything-routing & switching, security, service provider

Am a yoruba dude but don't intend marrying a yoruba woman..no woman yet but dats my target..but I aint going to any village for any paparazii..wedding audience shld be max 50 sef.thank God I av lovely parents dat don't mind..

Hope she is light skinned and hope she works @ marina..I personally lik staring at crazy laps while eating during my break @ work..
Husband!!I rep u

this is just mere logic..u spew something on twitter about helping OJB. Definetly the world would know you are going to donate.
Why is it that every time you give, the world knows?

Phishing and pharming here