₦airaland Forum

luskysylver:
Only if family understands what some of us first child passed though to make life easier for them. But funny enough they may not understand. As a first child with 5 younger ones to look at for, i have to borrow, work extra time, deny myself some good things just to pay school fees, feed them. If you are lucky enough they appreciate, if u are not they will use you at the peak of their career as a no body.

I sincerely appreciate the lady on her courage towards this part, even though i know, she knows that its not the best way to go, but circumstances and grace of God has kept her to this point and i would encourage her to quiet and begin to manage her life with the money she has saved up and reduce her cost of living. Send the younger ones to affordable university( it must not be private). She will eventually get a good husband if she wants and make her own home

Its time to stop. It has been grace keeping you all these while. Think about these things and work on them. Once again you are well appreciate and i understand the level of sacrifice you have put in. I am a first child i know what my salary is passing through.

Its time to quiet.

Mikespecialone:
Na lie , e nor scatter

Mikespecialone:
How I wish say I come this world as a woman

GenSpecifics:
My mum was also calling me frequently to complain about their needs and indirectly ask for money.


There is only one particular people that do this.


I had a girlfriend from that corner of the world whom I met in Abuja way back in 2007. She was supposed to be doing her IT but yet to get a job placement.

One day she broke down in tears after a phone call from her dad.

I asked her what was the problem and she told me that her dad said her mum was sick and they needed money to pay for her hospital bills. I inquired how much but she kept crying. I had to give her space to calm down and later asked her again that I could help.

She then turned to me and told me angrily that why should her father be asking her for money when he knows she is a student looking for her IT placement and that even if she had a job how much will they pay her as an OND IT student that her dad will be shouldering such responsibility and demands on her. I told her I could assist but she got even more angrier and told me that that's not the point . That does her father think she is doing prostitution in Abuja that he will be heaping his responsibility on her. She even said the father never have her a dime for her school fees after she left home for her OND program in Kogi.

DiskJokeyManic:
If it is Crime/fraud-related and de fool is found guilty,,, den let him rot in jail... Since to lay low na big crime for where Nigerians dey😐😐

U will be shocked to ur bones to know that this fool might not have any investment or business at hand to defend his wealth if need be, but is here doing stupid showoffs in a country where the law works😐

No be say na Nigerians be the highest/best/Richest internet fraudsters nor cocaine/drug dealers in the world but na them loud pass!

Useless set of fools😐😐

bentenny:
What are factors that affect goods and services in terms of increment?

High Transport cost due to cost of diesel and fuel
Multiplicity of taxes eg bakers have over 32 different taxes
Electricity hike and no electricity
Increase in tariff but little or no electricity
Insecurity


Please tell me which one has reduced since the artificial appreciation of naira?

You said electricity has been constant for 4 months and I ask if you actually reside in Nigeria because for the last fours months the national grid has collapsed more than 3 times...even after restoration,there is still no power even for the band A subscribers.....so please I ask....where is the constant power for the last 4 months?

What you should be telling your paymasters is to remind him about the promises he made about getting CNG buses that will aid and ease farmers who transport their raw crops from the rural to urban areas while demanding for atleast a constant power supply!

In a nutshell,where there is little or no power supply,a businessman will resort to alternative power which is far more expensive and that will be added to his production cost....

Where there is increase in diesel and pms,a business outfit will input this increment to it's production cost ,hence prices of goods and services will increase!

Where there is an increase in the multiplicity of taxes,companies will unfortunately add this to their production cost and the customers will be the victim's!

This is no politics or rocket science.....it's the reality that an average SME company faces everyday!

Yugoslavia247:
See what you will do?

Increase her workload?

Change her position to the most difficult tasks.

Give her more work.

Increase the deductions for her salary.

When that is done.

Or simply pay her off. Take leave for 3 days.
Sack her by instructing the gate man to never allow her in or lose his job.

Let he gateman hand her the sack letter.

Over.

Pleasure is pleasure.
Job is job
If she thinks because of sex she can misbehave she will get sacked.

Better make make the warning clear. Tell her what is wrong with her.

Dem no dey waste time for this kind thing.

Na knack you knack.

If she no fit be matured show her the way out.


Dont be timid to her ooooo

Many gals here will support the gal because most of them don't think.
They feel sex means I can do anything.

Bro give am suspension. 2 weeks.

If she come again and do anyhow give am 1 week extra.

Because she will do same to you if situation was reversed.

If I am the owner of the company I can sack you not because you had sex but because you can't get your shit together. You should know what to do. You no rape am na.

Nigerian women really weaponize sex ooo.
To them na tool of control.
Manager you timid
Wey you for change for am.
Madam I bought you drinks. I paid for the whole stuff. You agreed now it is over. You are not acting well again. Better change or else I will treat you as disgruntled staff.


Staff that you vetted and employed. You toast am she gree. I am sure you gave her money.
No whine me oo. She wants to be able to determine how others are. I know the thing she wants. She wants to be able to sack her colleagues and show them that she is in control. Lool

Isolation
Isolate her from the group
Anyone found with her gossiping
1 week suspension straight.
They will avoid her like plague
Her power is in the group
Now no one will want to be a part of her plans or whatever she wants to share.
She will know you mean business.

Finally avoid your workers pussy

thesicilian:
You know that saying that you should never poop where you eat? This is the reason. At what point did you come to realise that sleeping with your staff is bad? Is it before or after sleeping with her?

Obviously she liked you and wanted something more, but your plan was to hit and run. You treated her bad and now you're surprised that she's disrespecting you.

What I'll suggest you do is to take her out again and apologize to her, because you've wronged her. If both of you are single and want to continue the relationship discreetly, its ok. But it must not be allowed to affect the job. Both of you should spell out the terms of the relationship. If it's something that cannot work for one reason or the other, then you should also be able to break it off in a civilised manner. If that is not possible one of you will have to leave the establishment.

Personally I'll prefer you leave (both as a matter of honour and as punishment for sleeping with someone under your care and supervision) instead of trying to force her out

Homiesjinxbank:
The useful idiot earned #500,000 per month and he said the money isn't great!!

bentenny:
Has transportation cost reduced?
Has electricity cost increased or decreased?
Keep that in mind before making another ignorant comment!

motionarena:
I think is high time we wage war against greedy and evil distributors and marketers.


A product I use to buy for 2k before Naira depreciation went as high as 3k now the dollar has been steadily decreasing the same product is going for 4.7k

They are the ones suffering Nigerians

Bluntguy:
Judging from where the Naira started plummeting to where it is now, it is not performing anything. I will agree with Bloomberg when it gets back to less than #800 per dollar.

guysbewise:
Giving the lady belle is even worse because when your friend joins her abroad it is your friend that will be looking after the baby during the day and doing menial jobs at night as childcare is very expensive abroad, while the woman upgrades herself and when the lady is done with your friend we might see another video of how the lady sends him packing.

Melagros:
COMRADES why are these guys disturbing us with this cross dressing news all the time

LibertyRep:
He repeatedly admitted he has no such power.

In his state of misdirected anger, he said things he's not capable of.

bukatyne:
I believe 60/40 is in terms in financials.

Do you also share the chores 60/40? Childcare 60/40? Running of the home 60/40?

dequir:
So true.

I remember when I overborrowed in the bank I was working with then to build my house, and I received no salary for 6 months because the loan was devolved into my account, it was then I knew who my wife of many years was actually is. She was collecting her own salaries, but no support to me.

She nearly turned my young daughter against me by teaching her to say stupid things to me. But I overlooked it and forgive them when my salary was restored.

So in marriage, what matters most is the continuity of the husband's source of income. Once it dried up, expect insults and impunity from your wife.

ifyain:
The only good thing that come out of marriage is kids. it only benefits women. it is even difficult to get quality companionship in marriage.

gerizzim:
Money wahala.If the man is not very calculative and discipline with money, he wil find himself borrowing all the time to kip the home running.
Responsibility in d home dat goes wit solving it with money keeps hitting you back to back.to some extent,it bcoms pretty difficult for you to save.

As for the man, he may stay for like 1yr and doesnt buy himself a new t-shirt or jeans trouser because of lots of sacrifice and financial commitment he is making for the home.

Inevitably, sometimes husbandman gets broke. He starts to check the pocket of all his trousers if he could see some little cash he probably forgot . You can call it a life saver money.
At workplace,he bcoms cautious in situations dt wil warrant him a query or been sack because of the big effect his dismissal wil cause his family .
Husbandman absorbs insult from his supervisor or boss even when he is not at fault. He kips swallowing unpleasant incident, psychological and verbal abuse so as to keep his job.
Man is 45yrs. Wife is 25yrs. Irrespective of the age gap between him and his wife, the wife also serve him her own idiosyncrasies at home.
By virtue of marriage, the wife assumes to be equal to the man. ".....foolish man", "...yeye man","...you no get shame", "....idiot","....poor man", ".....I regret marrying you" ".......bla blaaaa blaaa" that is the usual ringtone when her hypothalamus bcoms skewed.

Husband gets cranky when he is broke. He wil keep shouting and complaining repeatedly about Wifey's act of wasting resources in d home. "Your water is boiling. Go and off the gas" , "the gdnut oil you added in the stew is too much. don't you know dt gdnut oil is now vry expensive "

"Husbandman gets caught up in buying wife gift for almost every public holiday. you buy for 1st January, you buy for February 14, you buy for Easter, you buy for mother's day,you buy on her bday, you buy on Christmas day at the request nd reminder of d wife not dt the man intentionally choose to.

Wife allows nacking base on how well husbnd buys her stuffs. sex may bcom like doing husbnd a favor. some husband somtyms practically beg to do sex wit the woman he paid her dowry.
Husbandman is stuck with the ocassional struggle to please inlaw. If you don't send stuffs to inlaw, you are branded a stingy husbnd.
Dia unending manipulation and emotional blackmail crawls into marriage.if husbandman is not the assertive nd firm type, he may be turned to a vegetable by the wife.
Solomonic wisdom needs to be applied once in a while as it is not all misunderstanding dat requires the man to bring out canon to quench it. You ignore some and you respond to some. the man needs to pick nd choose his fight.

e plenty oooo. make local man stop here and sip some burukutu

TheTravelingOne:
Yes I have noticed that too. It’s because the mentality is to go to the highest bidder, whoever has the most money. That could be someone driving by in a car, someone sitting with their wife snd kids eating at a restaurant, no man is off limits. Ever.
So they dress as seductively as possible to get the attention of whoever they can, trying to secure a bag using sex & anything sexual. Wearing no bra, wearing no panties going about in public is an example.

TheTravelingOne:
This is COMMON sense which most females here don’t have. & Also, the goal i have noticed is to tempt as many males as possible using anything sexual. Seems y’all are raised this way. Don’t know. But it’s weird.
& yes I’m a female too. But I wasn’t raised like these people.

Elinosweet143:
Haaa this seriouse, so them no want make we get work from Nigeria go UK bah, i see this as a clear strategy to pack our very highly skilled workers to UK cos for an employer to even consider dragging a worker to the UK with this new minimum wage then the person must have what it takes and must be the best of the best but then again i hear their citizens are lazy and do not want to work although i don't know how true this information is, na still them e go affect laslas abiii

Egalitarian1:
Verydarkman really got the info right o

Ahmed4002:
https://www.facebook.com/share/51KT3fnSm1hZSqeq/

billyG:
What off d one she contacted from multiple sex partners before she hooked moh'bad?

folake4u:
Apt. My thoughts exactly.

If indeed her boyfriend gave her the money to buy hair, she should have used it for that singular purpose.

Misappropriation is still misappropriation even when benevolent or beneficial to you. And if starts small...

Tomorrow, you'll give her money for a building project and she'd use it to make yam pepper soup with goat meat.

But oh well, she's a Queen afterall and her type is rare.

iampeterben:
I thank God for giving her wisdom, she is just a replica of what my wife to be did oh! That made me since yesterday say nothing any man or woman is gonna tell me I will marry Elva.

IkeOnyia:
I thought so too but reality is that most Nigerians are dubious and wicked, if it reduces that low, they will start smuggling the product to neighbouring countries where the prices are higher thereby creating artificial scarcity in Nigeria. And artificial scarcity will then knock the prices back up to what they wanted.

Kuginzi:
Dealers get one million litres each at N1,225/litre, price drops in Oyo, Lagos, Ogun



https://punchng.com/diesel-price-drops-as-dangote-sells-n1225-litre-supplies-petrol-may/?amp

CharleyBright:
I really can't understand why FIRS has now constituted itself as a Rascal Agency that always make insidious posts that hurt people's sensibilities, then they will apologize and delete. Then the next day, they will look for any insensitive post to throw at yet another person or group of person.
Someone should tell them that churning out insensitive posts are not ways to shore up revenues. They should be more proactive in their strategies.

I remember the Sterling bank insidious Easter advert that generated controversy.
I also remember Peak Milk insensitive advert also.
All always happen during Easter, as if it is deliberate.
CAN should give stern warning that going forward it will take legal actions against any organization that make insensitive posts against Christianity.

dominique:
The no.1 enemy of man is man. If they're not impregnating their fellow men's sisters and daughters out of wedlock, they're impregnating their wives. Lete not talk too much sha, they're exercising their rights to be redpillers and true alphas.

GreatrAnalyst:
Gloomy headlines.
Don't know what you guys gain from them.