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JimD:
That's just her way of saying, you're option B, I want to wait a bit to see if Option A will show up

100%
if Option A doesn't show up, i will MANAGE YOU

OboOlora:
This is an old gist BTW, and what is HOME LAND SECURITY madam reporter?

Nor be new thing, this kind of story is rampant in UK at the moment.

Most men are at the mercy of the women, and the women are bleeping anyhow cos they make the same amount of money as the men (sometimes even more cos they pack extra shift more than the husbands).

Women will only respect you when you are financially better than them. If they feel they are at par with you, and share financial responsibilities with you, otilor.

The way they are bleeping those COS girls, afi ki Olorun shaaanu.

Visit my page to read a story about one...

where is the Story?

Honestey:
She no mention who can sweep, mop, wash plates I for show up

peterboro:
What am i doing?
I can do everything she mentioned there through Christ that strengthen me. As long as she's the one in charge of anything that has to do with fund.

Please tell her to contact me.

LOL, you missed the Point.:

You need to be well employed too( has a good job business and/or great career prospects .)....to foot the bill of Course.
you need to be Everywhere like MTN

tobenuel:
lolz, well that's women for us. their reasoning is out of this world. what will be her own contribution to the so called union, just to lay down like a drained log of wood

and Someone's children for you to train as your kids

tobenuel:
Whats the meaning of PDA?

Public Display of Affection....

After you Don wash and Iron Cloth Tire....
You will have to still show Love for Public as if you are Enjoying your Stress filled Slave Life.....

Chickenandchips:
I Want An Educated Man Who Can Pray, Cook, Do Laundry, Loves PDA And Can ‘Perform’ For Marriage - US-based Nigerian Lady

She stated that the man must love plants and know how to pronounce certain words before she can consider him.

A US-based Nigerian woman, Ogechukwu Christine Kalu, has taken to Facebook to list the characteristics she requires in a man for marriage.

The educational consultant, in a post on Sunday, June 2, 2024, said the man should know how to cook, do laundry, enjoy other house chores, PDA and “perform.”

She stated that the man must love plants and know how to pronounce certain words before she can consider him.
 
"Now that my DM is clogged with “I love you” let me reinstate that I am single. Looking for a cute man, well educated, God fearing, knows how to pray and intercede for the family, can cook and enjoys laundry, is homely and can fold clothes immediately after laundry.

Enjoys house chores, can take care of kids and also has a good job business and/or great career prospects. Loves PDA and can perform. Loves plants. Enjoys listening to worship. Expects loyalty, respect, faithfulness because he gives and is capable of giving them long term. Listens to understand and not to respond. Knows how to pronounce “parallelogram, Otorhinolaryngologist, and Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious”

Na Employment?

Babastrong:
We are enjoying in my area. They no born any fulani well to enter someone's farm and eat. Hummn heads will

story....
let them increase in number first..

Mopolchi:
These people are very wicked. Army should do the needful.

i see some people in uniform in that clip....

TheOmalicha:
So the children of A rich man should live like the children of a struggling mum? Because they are living like that?

The man is capable, let his children enjoy the good life.
Poor man go call am waste....lmao

Since you love comparing, why not compare his family with that of Dangote? Abi na only poor people you dey use take do example?

I'm a big fan of people living within their means.
If the man can give his kids a good lifestyle, it is not a bad thing.

Btw he never complained of his wife buying bonestraight or worldly frivolous items for herself with the money.

Anyway if e reach your turn, give your children stream water to drink in order to save cost.

Madam,
I didn't call you a struggling mum.

I am telling you a Single mum of 4 kids (even if she is not struggling) will Never spend 700k on Upkeep
You women know how to be economical when you are spending from YOUR OWN pocket

BUT becomes very inconsiderate when a MAN is in the Picture. you will want to Exhaust his resources to the extent he won't be able to take care of himself or his personal responsibilities
That is Wickedness of the highest order


2ndly,
from your speeches, you are not a big Fan of one spending Within their means (Na just mouth)
In fact , i think you are capable to telling for your husband to take massive loans to satisfy lavish spending like the Op wife

3rdly,
if you read the Ops complaint, you will see he is becoming financially stained and is seriously worried that if he continues with this spending style, he will be financially ruined..

You and the Op wife are in the same Boat. you will push and Push your Husband not minding if he gets HBP trying to meet up with Outrageous Bills.

eventually, if such a Man dies of HBP,
you will suddenly become single mother with 4 kids....THAT BECOMES VERY ECONOMICAL BECAUSE A MAN IS NO LONGER IN THE PICTURE.
and you are now spending from your Pocket

That is wickedness.

fistonati:
Hope she won't stop her future husband from doing the same for his siblings.

Exactly.
if the Brother was Married....
if for be War...if the Wife Found out....

TheOmalicha:
Lmao
You people are not in touch with reality or maybe una no get family to feed, that's why you don't know the money involved

Anyway let me just be reading and hope this man is not unfortunate to take advice from people who know how much just breakfast cost

If you are a Single MUM of 4 kids,
Can you spend 700k Monthly for upkeep?

Of course, you can't

But once a man(Husband) is in the Picture....You want to spend much more than That!

That's Wickedness of the highest Order!

Amwitty:
All I can say is that some women are the cause of their own woes and troubles. Any woman who can't manage her family's resources and help her husband (the man she claims to love) has failed as a wife and mother. I sympathize with you sir

WOW,
A rare comment from a Lady.
i'm Shocked

ruffhandu:
In other words, I should be doing the shopping myself? Hmn, you wan shake table o. Na her ministry be that. Yes, for bulk purchase i can do (I do so once in a while like bag of rice), but I no know some things wey i go buy and she go say dem no good.

You be a Real Maga man. You are Afraid to hurt your Wife's feelings...
She will finish you with Billing and Eventually Give you Breakfast by Divorcing you when you hit Your Low.

No wonder those oil workers DIE when they lose their Jobs....
They have Wasted So much Money Setting terribly high living standards they cannot Sustain without an OIL job.

Bro, you better Wake up before it's too late. (High inflow doesn't last forever)
That woman is BUILDING somewhere. You dont know women, They are very Calculative and BRUTAL to the core

Jennyclay:
you don’t even know what is going on You can’t even buy that tomatoes for 4k

Men should please support their wife/girlfriend this period. If you give your wife or girlfriend 40k to take to the market before biko double the money this period.

Honestly, it’s not easy

May God help us.

He should Pick the Extra 40k from the Tree Right?

Absuchat:
700 what?
That's way too much.

My advice, pretend you lost your job or your business just collapsed and see if she won't survive on 100k.

We've read and have heard stories whereby the woman used the money the husband gives her for upkeeps of the family to buy lands and build on them without his knowledge and letting him almost d1e trying to provide for his family.

Na una follow dey spoil these bleeding gender aswear.

Modified.
Maybe she's nursing the plan of divorce.... reason why she is trying to get all she can from you while the marriage lasts.
No dey surprise say she fit even don buy the house wey u dey pay the 3m rent
If you no wise up and man up, I foresee premium tears loading

Even the Kids need to be Double checked....

We4all:
It's you who doesn't understand what is playing out. Your wife knows you are comfortable and she is raising her kids accordingly. She claims she cannot give the children boiled water because she can afford to buy bottled water.

I have seen such scenarios play out on so many occasions. My kids cannot eat or drink this....bla...bla...bla...But when life happens and they cannot afford to buy bottled water for the kids, they will start giving them borehole water and nothing will happen.

What I'm trying to say is, people go over the top for their kids and show off because they can afford it and not because they see it as a life's necessity. Peradventure, you have a drop in income and cut down her allowance to 100K monthly, she will learn to adjust.

She will likely leave him, she had Cashed out enough to move out

Mindlog:
Make it a round figure of one million naira monthly, so she would be happier.

By the way, should you become incapacitated (which is a possibility in life) and no longer able to earn.....reflect, on your wife's capacity to sustain the present lifestyle, when you can't earn.

a single mom will never Spend that amount per month (700k)

They are very economical as a single parent...
but immediately they have a partner (Husband), they want the Most Expensive things in every sector.
because they are not the one to paying for it
eg
School: they will choose the Most expensive around
Food: they will choose the Expensive Around.
House: they will choose the most expensive around

A man needs to wise up and be in control of the finances if not you will go Penniless!
Money might not continue to come in forever!

Dogalmighty17:
You don't have a wife. What you have is someone using you to cash out. 700k is more than what some men give their wives for a whole year and yet you do that in just a month. Something isn't right.

Your wife may be building somewhere or saving up money to move without you soon. I don't blame her. You are comfortable that's why you can be so wasteful.

Going forward, do not give her anything monthly, rather, let her write down everything she thinks the expense of the month will be. Let her list them down together with thier prices before you give her any money.
Make a visual confirmation of any purchase once it is done.

You need to put your wife on a leash else she may be your ruin. That you can afford things easily now doesn't mean that will always be the case and then you will see the true color of this woman.

ruffhandu:

If you don't follow this advice,

it is a matter of time before you Wake up in Premium TEARS

That woman is BUILDING SOMEWHERE
if you lose your JOB or Business Go Bad, YOU Will See the Real reality of your life!
she will move to her new House....You will be all alone....you eye go clear.
imagine N700k per MONTH!!! chai

GreenCovering:
The only business model that Bill Gates understands is the vendor lock in model. A perfect model for establishing a world order. This is the same thing that he did with his softwares until he lost the internet browser war in the technology space. If not, everyone would have had to be using the Windows Operating system because he locked his internet browser, InternetExplorer, into the Windows Operating system and even went ahead to testify before the Senate that the two are inseparable. The tight grip on users was eventually broken up with the arrival of Mozilla Firefox (formerly Netscape), and then other innovators followed, prominently Google Chrome.

After losing the browser war, and the attendant slump in revenue for his OS, Bill Gates shifted his attention to public health domination. Same business model. Pumping his amassed billions into medical research and the governing agencies and their networks around the world, he wants to control the human genome and Africa is his testing ground and Nigeria is the center stage as it is shaping up.

He has his fingers in everything DNA altering for humans: covid 19 vaccine variants, lab generated mosquitoes, GMO foods whose seeds corrupt the structure of the soil that they get planted on and locking of farmers into a cyclic system of seeding from the vendor, name it. The modus operandi, is the 'aids' offered to corrupt politicians in government while preparing the ground for entry, after which agreements are signed for the phased implementations. The rest as we are witnessing today, as they say, is history. The people who are advocating increased yields for farmers already know what will come after but they have pocketed the money and can not mention publicly the dangers that lie ahead.

This man has got to be stopped one way or the other!

God, The Infinite Intelligence Know how to Press RESET.
We just hope we are still Alive by then.

HisXLNC1:
Fine. But do we have to see the white man eat a thing (say mushroom, crocodile) before we can consider it edible. That we know how to read and write, doesn't necessarily mean that we have to duplicate our marriage ceremonies. How many whites do our own 'traditional marriage' ceremonies in addition to their 'western marriage' ceremonies? All I said was that we blacks should learn to see things with the perspective of humans and not that of lesser humans.

Yeah,
We need to be selective i want what we copy and what we don't copy...

illicit:
HK

Most Likely.

Why so much Voice in that House

natedensel:
Is it just me or it's same with other guys, the embarrassment I feel is as if I'm the one doing something embarrassing, and I can't help the feeling, because of that I shy away from buying foodstuff or other stuff that will make me bargain.

Most times I ask my sisters or girlfriend to accompany me so she can do the bargaining or get the stuff for me.

My older brother bargains alot like he can't do without bargaining and for that I avoid going anywhere with him.

Incase you're wondering how I survive without bargaining, I just use people close to me when its something I must bargain for, but if it's something like clothes, I know the standard price for stuff like that so I just make an offer, and for basic things like packaged groceries I buy from supermarkets in more than one quantity.

Na your MUMU type Market Women dey Like.
They will call Stuff Worth N500 for you 5k and you will buy it.

You better Learn how to Bargain Aggressively!!
and Learn How to Walk away while Listening for a Call Back... from the Seller

You have to be a Sharp man

Even With Women you like, You need to Bargain so that she will not see you as a Maga
Even with your Wife, If you Dont Know how to Bargain, she will be Ripping you off Back to Back especially when she needs to buy stuff in the market or for herself


It is Called NEGOTIATION SKILL.
this skill is very Essential in Every Aspect of your Life...

HisXLNC1:
Na inferiority complex dey worry Africans... Nigerians especially. Always expecting the white man to give validation to what they do. Wetin white man carry for body way black people no get? Imagine somebody abandoning their culture to embrace that of the whites. Who tell you say na white man culture be civilization ? Civilization started in Africa.

But you learned how to Read and Write English from them.....
How would you have communicated with us right now?

Judolisco:
Australians no send any animal rights activist oh

Who tell You....?
Read the Write up

Pinicop:
Exactly. The Black native Australians are called the Aboriginies.

I think they Migrated from Africa (Not as Slaves)

wink2015:
He handed Nigeria to ROGUE POLITICIANs WHO MISMANAGED the democratic strides of Nigeria.


Today, many Nigerians families can not feed.

A basket of garri in Delta state and some other parts of Nigeria is between N4000 and N4500 and it could rise further.

What a HELLISH COUNTRY.

are you serious?
is Garri paint up to 4k in Delta?

phemmie06:
Those of us wey be say na anything goes should appreciate God

Of course Praise GOD. he is the Almighty.

BUT, Are you NOT allergic to Chloroquine?

richiemcgold:

Every food is a go - - - be it local, foreign or intercontinental, no allergies.

Gather here if you're not allergic to any food like me.

Not only food o.....
What About Medicine?

people don't really know about allergies ...

some people react negatively to some antibiotics,
some people are allergic to Sulfur Drugs,
some people are allergic to Chloroquine (for treating malaria)

some side effects will be Sore on the leg, Blistered lips, serious Itching of the body, etc

Khyrvxjzy:
i dey vex anytime i hear "i thought"

lazy youth, read and research or kuku ask questions, illiterate

Pot Calling Kettle Black.
you are calling someone illiterate

What is KUKU in English Language?

Emvico247:
Hahaha.that one na for garri and sugar

It cannot even buy a Paint of Garri in the Terrible Economy we are now...

[quote author=prittyboi post=130336171][/quote]What about Providus?