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@op
why ever not/ am friends with all my exes save for 1 & i make sure my relationship ends amicably. we still hang out sometimes

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@poster
Not another IN-MATE AGAIN FROM IBADAN
PHYSCO HOSPITAL AGAIN,
no warden assigned to this one yet

more like yaba left

stillwater:
Don't be shy. The Lord will reward you faithfully.

AMEN

stillwater:
Rotflmao. You said test drive first as if there are no risks involved especially where women are concerned in this two faced society of ours.

not just women but guys too

off course u test drive with caution and utmost care afterall nothing in life is without risk

jet age

stillwater:
How many people will one test drive?

tope5000:
i dont do second-handz

remember yaba?

so peeps, dont only test drive but also request for guaranty/warranty as well

spoilt:
who be this one now?

was wondering too

obstead200:
bros'
i dont know what u are talking about.
all over the world, girls flock over handsome guys like flies flock a pack of shit. Even the not too hansome guys and the outright ugly ones _{like me} get their fair share of stunningly pretty gals. if you cant catch your fishes, then one of the below will be the reason.
1. u are hideously ugly but yet you dont know it ( u still believe u are desmond elliot)
2. U are so broke dat you cant afford to buy a girl a bottle of malt. (or you are horribly stingy)
3. u have the manners and breath of a gorrila

No offence meant.

wonders where the OP gets his facts from

Moonstone:
She's still with him now and she's miserable.

instead of sneaking around, suggest she bails & not having kids makes it a lot less complicated. misery has no company

playsafe:
Be Specific to the Driver you need.

read before you post

STENACO:
THE MODEL IS 1153ei, HP pavillion dv5. I hope to hear from you

tope5000:
Ewooooo . . . ur friend has suffered
How long have they been married?

doesnt matter but a man who comes before anything is done leaves the woman unsatisfied which makes her cheat at the long run

sex is not evrything but its a very important part of marriage & marriage cannot survive without it (pity those who think they can do without it)

so one begins to wonder if we should confirm before marriage or just take a leap of faith

as for me, i cant leave anything to chance

serves him right though

4 Play:
Did he tell her he doesn't believe in sex before marriage prior to getting married?

thats the problem, most with this kind of problems are ever so willing to play the gentleman or lady waiting for marriage to consumate their union

y me:
@oxone

please lead us in prayer

ladies cover your hair & bring out your heels. i think its time we beat the demon outta him

ibkaye:
Is that what they call it now? Oma se o

Evangelism ko

ok if u say so

there are also situation where the guts dick is just too big for the womans vagina & sex becomes a nightmare instead of pleasure with the woman becoming bruised & battered each time

how do u explain to a man who has shown restraint till his wedding nyt that he'll have to wait till God knows when to consumate his marriage & ofcourse u know he wont enjoy it if the woman doesnt

a former pastor turned counsellor (divorced her husband after 6months) found herself in that situation & now advocates for sex before marriage instead of getting surprises

for the ladies
what would u do if u find out after marriage that ur husband cant get it up?

ibkaye:
Ewu, you actually got me on the floor https://smileys.on-my-web.com/repository/Laughing/lol-049.gif

what u laughing for

havnt u heard of evangelism

ibkaye:
Somebody knows their way around

my church is on the next street

it becomes boring if u get it easily

love a good chase & the mind games but then moderation is the key

& the feeling you get when u succeed is outta this world

somethings are woorth fighting for

ibkaye:
A brothel would have been so much easier, smh.

yeah "OBALENDE" or " allen avenue"would have done it 4 him

ThiefOfHearts:
so they didnt know of this issue before the marriage?

they never had sex before marriage so how in God's name would they know

ibkaye:
Medically doesn't enjoy it? What does that mean?

there's a medical condition (cant remember what its called) where a woman cannot enjoy sex as a result of a traumatic experience (rape, abuse etc) which makes them tense during the act. they cant get wet and is usually bruised as a result
it takes tons of therapy to make to manage this & it usually hard for newlyweds to survive this cos the husband would have to do without sex for a wyl

guess the poster was looking for an easy lay else how do you explain the fact that looks stopped him from becoming her friend

or trying to find out what she is like deep down

lizzy A:
Apart frm his cheap clothing,d guy doesnt really look butty 2 me,he has dis ibile looks,i mean local look,so i had 2 put his number on screen list,anyway i dont go 4 cheap guys,i love expensive looking guys,nice perfume,clean look,sweet accent e.t,c

so what if he creates an illusion of wealth & u get down with him only to find out he's not all that. what would u do

ur setting urself up to be played thinking lyk that

things are not always what they seem dear

ibkaye:
This is exactly how some people don't get to know the real person behind the so called 'cheap' or 'expensive' clothes, I'm assuming she judged him based on the kind of clothes he wore that day, correct me if I'm wrong lizzy.

yeah we all have bad days abi? guess if he was in rags & drove a hummer, he wouldnt have been so cheap

talk about having an open mnd

blind dates?
i guess he was looking for a quick lay else how does looks affect who your friend r

ibkaye:
The look of it was cheap or you actually asked him how much each item was and calculated  

rotflmao. was wondering if she sell clothes at yaba to know their worth

StephenP:
I don't know about the rest of you guys but I like the game.

the thrill is in the chase right

doesnt really matter but experience counts.

know of a couple who broke up cos the guy loves sex & the gal can do without it (medically doesnt enjoy it)

finaly became an issue & the marriage ended

Badriyyah:
Hmmmm, I can't speak for all women, so here it goes. I know when a guy wants more from me. It's pretty obvious most of the time. "I'll think about it" was for secondary school. If i'm not interested I let him know, if I am interested I won't let him GO.

thats the way it should be instead of all the pretence

[quote author=Igwe. link=topic=268638.msg3819374#msg3819374 date=1241444665]Before i say jackie Robinson, will you go back to your parents and reaccess your life and know what  to do with it. [/quote]

run lyk hell babe & stop fooling yourself. dont sell yourself short for some lame job.

ur better than that