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the demons go tanda gidigba..no name can save a person except the
name of Jesus..#UdonHear

hmmmmmmmmm

Nigeria no dey carry last o..in corruption we dey..in kidnapping, we tanda gidigba...in terrosism, we boku well well...in divorce rate, we are getting there..unemployment and poor standard of living, we no carry last @ all...too much dependence on oil revenue..if only God can just stop the flow for six month, we'll see how the oil theives and bunkers would survive it..#O ga o..

Is it a must to serve their fatherland? Why the desperacy? Anyways, I wonder why the have to travel 'abroad' to learn if only they are strong enough to jam Jamb and pay the daring fee for diploma and other university pre-entry programs...#Shikena#

Girls..ladies..women...when will they stop to become victims of murder? Planned murder by her boyfriend and his accomplice..over what? Money, I guess...

A decayed cultural and moral system. What are they looking for in a guest house? May be they have a practical course there..they were sent to school to read..

Omo ti a ba ko, o ma ntun ara e ko ni...a trained child will re-equip himself...#IcommentMyReserve#

Good armoury..nice pictures though...but if Americans challenged us to battle..#JezSayin#..will all these be enough to counter their attack? Pray it doesn't even happen in the first place..

Have you forgotten that since they forgot to retain God in their knowledge, He gave them over to a reprobate mind to do what seems right in their own counsel? #Think on it...

Shameless FG...why won't they pocknose into LASG affairs? They (FG) failed to initiate and successfully complete a federal project. LASG should keep the good work rolling and don't depend on the toothless FG..God knows if they won't raise an eyebrow when LASG completes the light-rail metro project...#JezSayin

Where did the corper get such a huge amount of money? I'm sure it not from the the federal allawy because Abdulfattah is kinda stingy with the state allawy. I served in kwara state - Isin LGA..its just God's grace that kept me through the one year mandatory service...Nice one though, selfless service I guess the corper did..

What are you waiting for? I think the Phantom is the winner here ooo...Samsung has got more names but Tecno has gotten the pocket friendly price which is affordable by Nigeria...I'll consider changing my mind to the Tecno tab..

The devil is always to be blamed..abeg mek dem leave the devil where im dey and punish the finger that offends the king..

tjskii: Really,well she shud be ready to accept a new wife

Because meh lolohun wi...#Jez sayin o

Over sophistication will not ruin lives o...have you heard a Nokia 3310 to burn someone's lap before? #Evils in modern technology...

If this can be happening now, what will be the fate of Nigeria's electoral institution and our so-called representatives come 2015? #God help...

Can I talk girlfriend to girlfriend for just a moment? It's about a very uncomfortable subject, and honestly, one most of us would rather pretend does not exist in "Christian circles." It's sexual sin.

A woman is enticed by a syrupy word from a co-worker, an e-mail from an old boyfriend, an invitation on Facebook, or an alluring smile at a neighborhood gathering. Loneliness fills the room and passion comes knocking at the door. But when the smoke clears, loneliness returns with new hunger pangs laced with regret.

A sexual relationship outside of marriage can be highly addictive and the search for love in all the wrong places, insatiable. It is a drink that never satisfies the soul and leaves the partaker only thirsty for more. Sex outside of marriage can lead to many things: unwanted pregnancy, sexually transmitted diseases, divorce, mistrust, regret, shame, loss of family and a whole list of undesirable dominos that tumble in succession.

In John Chapter 8, we read about a woman caught in adultery and brought before Jesus by a group of Pharisees. In Jesus' day, a woman caught in the act of adultery faced possible execution. In some parts of the world it is still enforced today. So why would this woman take such a risk? Was it worth it? No. The answer is always no.

There is no greater longing in the heart of a woman than to be loved, cherished, and cared for. It can cause the strongest to break a resolve and succumb to the tempter's lure. Adultery has been the cause for church leaders to crumble, ministries to meltdown, and families to falter. Sexual sin has caused the most sensible to act like a fool, the most moral to march into madness, the most devout to be devoured by desire. The desire to love and be loved can sometimes scream over the din of reason.


The yearning for love gnaws at the heart. And then the brush of a hand, the glimpse of the eyes, or the stirring of a comment blows on a spark and sets it ablaze. Loneliness echoes in the hollow soul just as passion comes scratching at the door. Never doubt this, my friend: Satan is an opportunist who takes advantage of the lonely heart (Luke 4:13).

To be loved is one of the strongest desires of the human heart. God planned it that way because He longs for us to have that longing filled by a relationship with Him. But so many settle for a sip from the rusty tin cup when God offers an everlasting stream.

A woman can risk it all for a few moments of passion. She can lie to herself that a sexual relationship or liaison is love. Then after the brief pleasure lies exposed by the morning sun, she realizes what felt like love was tainted with the poison of shame. It can happen. It does happen. It did happen to the woman standing before Jesus with an angry mob of rock holding Pharisees gathered around. It has happened to many women who e-mail me every day.

I sat in a movie theater with a friend who had succumbed to sexual temptation. She had lost her husband, her family, and many of her "friends." During a preview for another movie, the film showed a woman contemplating an affair with a suave Frenchman. Martha (not her real name) spoke a bit too loudly for the moviegoers sitting in the darkened theater. "Don't do it!" she cried aloud. The words came out of her mouth before she could stop them. Martha was living the devastation of yielding to sexual temptation, and her audible cry was the overflow of her pain-filled heart.

Can I shout with Martha for just a moment? "Don't do it!"

I know this article is not for everybody. But if there is one woman …just one woman who will turn away from the temptation that is knocking on her door today, then it is worth it.

As Paul wrote: "Flee from sexual immorality…Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God. You are not your own, you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your body" (1 Corinthians 6:18, 19-20 NIV).

Don't do it. Turn to God and allow Him to fill the emptiness in your heart today. He's waiting with open arms.

If this is a struggle in your life, let's pray the following prayer together.

Dear God, I pray that I will be alert to the devil's schemes today. Help me to see when and where he is tempting me to sin against You. Give me the strength to flee temptation and run straight into Your arms. I cannot do this on my own. I need the power of Your Holy Spirit to empower me to do what is right and good in Your sight. Thank You for being all that I need.

In Jesus' Name,
Amen


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do all these add up to a good relationship? dating things, a game..try one; messed up, go for the other till you're satisfied with the one you eventually meet..

Just pray for her and watch her company with the guy. get some sense talked into her head. if she gets fooled by the 'mystery' guys poem, then she'd learn when her finger gets burned...[color=#990000][/color]

Its an argument people of different folks had never win.

Some say a man gets the power through education, status, political prowess, financial buoyancy; other argue the fact that it is through what made him such as his values, belief or talent,

I really need your candid opinion as regards this issue.

Well am not married and don't have a boyfwend now,

@freecocoa: can we pair up and feel wat Mrs. Eve is talking about? I'm pretty sure you would not wanna be without someone you truly love, not even a day's absence,

He said that it is a sign of disrespect when a woman is still having friendship or relationship with her exes if she is in a new relationship.

that's too true, why would she keep a string attached with her Ex? it shows lack of disrespect, its never done on our African soil, many other guys would accept my opinion too.!!!

that money could mean a different thing in the Nigeria dictionary, but don't you think that is a waste of money? $50k, is what some dying people needed to be alright in Nigeria, I begin to sense mismanagement in GEJ forth coming aspiration as president, !!!

What was she feeling like when she was collecting the gifts? Can't she tell her sister all of her hubbie's forth coming plans? Well, she should tell her sister with more sense of maturity because that has already affected her sister marital life, I tfink the solution to this problem is not to abort the baby, as she's against it, she should pay dearly to face the consequence of the gifts she has been collecting, SORRY for her O O O!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Magodo lo sure ju!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Nope, it aint bribe, it is a complimentary gift for 'works' welldone, Every member of SNG should wake up from their slumber lest they pollute their self acclaimed 'save' Nigeria group, I am pretty sure GEJ has better meaning to the $50k he gave the group, I hail thee Nigerians,

but i will tell seun not 2 allow dis thread 2 be posted by any1 cos i am tried of reading it. (OLD NEWS)

too old to be new, we need interesting topics on NL,

my luv to her is inexplicable, i dont just know why i love her

you don't smell what you cannot eat, the consequences cannot be weighed, don't try it!!!!!!!!!!!!!

yeah, more importantly if we are married

its perhaps because their heart is so easily flexible to attract things easily unlike men who are heady and strong hearted!!!!

because they are weak willed,