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18k for an average Nigeria civil worker with @ least three children wiv dependable relatives, when would FG have mercy on Nigerian worker who they in turn use their sweat to amass our monies, all in the name of national cake,

A self reliant and sexually confident lady dat wont belittle her standards n beliefs due to traditions
A lady whose idea of an ideal date is not food, shopping, lavish/silly spending in exchange 4 sex (as common in many Naija girls) but is excited just at d chance of spending time together n doing some fun activity, learning and catching lots of laffs.
A lady who accepts a guy 4 who he is, NOT WHAT HE HAS
they are out dere somewhere. . .

true talk, i agree wiv u o,

they are wasting our monies, hence they would be enforcing tax payments, may God give us good and accountable leaders and not just leaders,

should there be imitation in Nigeria? first we have the who-wants-to-be-millionaire (UK) which Nigeria also coined its own (thank God its a well copied program), secondly, the American idol which they organized well, but Nigeria failed to package her own well, should we blame the organizers, sponsors or brains behind these programs? No creativity, interesting package, organization? etc, when will NIGERIA STOP THIS ACT, and be innovative!!!, I don tire o,

the correct form is "prick", not the pidgin meaning, lol

his just trying to show his transparency, anyone can go ahead and same the same thing, he'd better get smart, ATIKU and his other corroborators are up to sumfin thing in this forthcoming election,

Me sef dey laff, wetin make OBJ they laff should also be a debate on NL,

who doesnt want sex ?

Most men love sex but that shouldn't be the "principal" thing in a relationship, even though you are married. There are other more important issues than sex in a relationship,

Men want women that are financially independent
" " " " " 99.999% faithful, though it kinda difficult these days
" " " " '' virtuous women, you know what I mean? see proverbs 31

some people need to know that somethings in the old testament holds no place in the new testament.

@jmoore:wat meks you think things in the old testament are oldies? will you tell me that you would neglect the old testament and use more of the new testament? Jesus himself made references to the old testament, so y would you consider it as non-essential? please let read both old and new testament,

Tattoo carries spiritual symbol and its mostly occultic as said by some pastors and I stand for their opinion, shekena!!!

Opportunity of a life time?

@ Maingate1: what if she dies and you are held spell bound to marry someone else? don't you think she might die with her wealth? tfink 2wice,

Mrs Eve, dont u tfink eating one repeated meal could piss you off? the best thing to do is to love your wifey for who she is, GBAM!!!

Be on the STANDBY, if she's yours, you'll eventually get ha, she cannot love 2 people equally, WISE up!!!

that is shear stupidity if the guy agrees, blood covenant in this civilized age, gone are the days when such thing holds!!!

You men put silly stipulations on a wife BEFORE MARRYING HER not knowing the circumstances can arises

@ Mrs. Eve: you know in our culture, its women primary obligation to learn and know how to cook, I could tolerate it, if she doesn't know how to do it properly and can send her to catering school to learn, But if she doesn't know how to do it @ all, I think there's a problem, Must we be eating noodles and Mr. Biggs everyday?, and no one ever prays for odd circumstances, parents should please teach their sons and most importantly daughters how to cook good food,

mba!!! why should I marry a woman that cannot cook?
tufiapa!!! I cannot play wiv my stomach o,
she'd better learn before we end up hooked or else,

Next thing to a man's heart afta sex is quality food which his woman must be able to provide, abi na!!!

Would sit her down and let ha undastand the KOKO, and if she insist to go GAGA spiritually, I will dance to her tune, but if I later discover that she's using ^spirituality to prevent sumfin from something, I will become the KOKOmania, lol

its better to marry an ugly man (not 100% worse off, @ least 65% presentable) than to marry an handsome man who in turn becomes the chase of other babes, hereby giving you unrest when he goes partying or attends meeting, abi wetin una tfink?

The nicest, most gentle men are the ugliest. But strangely, the ugly women are the rudest ones. Just an observation i made.

ugly women have nothing to offer handsome men, so they misbehave!!! GBOSAAA!!!

This one gets my hair on its toe, you are walking with your babe and at every metre of the short trip she keeps throwing herself without respecting your presense at every of her male friends that we ran into, making you look silly before them.

I will never for once accept this kind of character from ha, I might just load a bullet on ha head,

the word [b]tatoo [/b]was somehow mentioned in the book of Exodus, but God instructed the Israelite not to copy the custom of the Egyptians, coz they are the one who make tattoos on their body, why should you alter your image which is in the likeness of God?

The finger that offended the king shall not go unpunished. Good for her and her family, May the Briton fish out more of our fraudulent governors and leaders coz our EFCC and ICPC are nothing but a weak barking dog,

Yep, happiness lies in the mind, and not mostly by external circumstances,

Ur partner get jealous of the time you spend wiv sum1 else on phone conversation, while you kept him waiting, lolz

why in God's name would you want to break up a relationship? Remember, you can't eat your cake and have it, You need not to start what you cannot end, tfink 2wice,

"2b the man" in the relationship;
1. Entails you getting respect from your lady.
2. You making yourself secured financially and making her also be.

it doesn't mean beating her like a dog. itz ONLY a stupid young man/man that would beat a woman to pulp all in the name of becoming the MAN in the relationship,

Yes, Why Should I not pay? At least, business is business. If she's not making enough profit in the long-run, a typical Nigerian woman will definitely complain that you've eaten away all her profit, don't you think so?, lol

@ hot-angel:
that's so funny and hilarious, I guess the writer of this piece must be a typical Yoruba man, abeg no vex o,

Nay, that's not enof, last thing you forgot:
Pray for him always, I think dat secures his life rather than being "good" alone,

Never mind the polygamy stuff, Itz all about yoruba culture; education or poverty ain't the major cause. it stem out from the hubbie's blood, Yoruba women need to pswrd their hubbie's "thing", lolz

Why SSP dey beef 2FI, SSP no no say him time and season don go? To everything under the heavens, there is TIME. Let 2face be and use his time the way he wanted to use it, Someone somewhere might also talk about how well you use your time, hence, use it well!!!

If he profess to love you then he should really have time for you. Love is meant to be sacrificial and not unyielding. Why not try and pay him a visit, at least he shouldn't be working 24/7 for the whole week? Making marriage plans with someone you are doubtful of, is like building castle in the air, LOOK before you finally LEAP, Shalom!!!