₦airaland Forum

Babyvet:
Lol, Abeg no mention my name, who said I’m well to do?

Be ready for the numerous PMs... Eligible Bachelors you can try Babyvet, she is a wonderful person if you are sincere but if you are not sincere I pity you . 2020 marriages must full Nairaland, Midehi2 and Ishilove abi no be so

franchasng:
Success attract friends, misery have no company.

Forget all the arguments we do make here. If I tell you what my mother a woman that will soon clock 80 told me when I told her about my fiancé I wanted to finally marry, u will know that even the old people know better than us

My wife's dad made sure he knew what I do, did lots of research about my family before he agreed for me to marry his daughter and he is not even a billionaire like Dangote them oh, so brother gold digging is allowed.

Allow the ladies to try their luck. Search well here u will see better chicks too looking for love with good financial standing and throw your luck, u never can tell.

Let's enjoy this life small abeg and fight when its time to fight as usual

Yes oooo.... if any single guy here too want to try there luck at least there are single well to do ladies like Babyvet here on nairaland

pocohantas:
Nlders are just so rude. Any mature human would know it was just fun. One even took the screenshots to another thread, said I have been in the hotel with him, undergoing intense fûcking. Lmao!!!

I don't know o. They are just angry that a feminist is about to hook Green card. Which isn't even the case. So, they should calm down biko...

LOL Nairalanders and over reaction...so you are involved in one of those Men vs women, Igbo vs Yoruba, Abroad vs Naija fights that is always ongoing on Nairaland, you may just be cruising with it and some people here are taking it seriously . Abeg, leave all those childish Nairaland fights in 2019, don’t allow it in 2020 .... Merry Xmas and enjoy your holidays..But travel section still stand by the vision 2020 things of you and Alexandre7

pocohantas:
I don't even understand why they are insulting me upandan. Later they will say Nigerian girls are unfriendly, but when you are friendly - you still get tagged olosho.

Which one person go do so?

lol... that’s why I don’t like travel threads coming to front page ooo... na once different people go come take things wey be just for fun seriously. You can ignore the thread for now. But it seems you have a lot of enemies on nairaland, wetin you do dem??

Alexandre7:
We haven’t exchanged any numbers,

Biko leave pocohantas alone.

we are not leaving pocohantas alone ooo... na full Travel section go chase her for you , you have tried for this section, you need to be rewarded

Beautyaddy:
Hmmm....pushing him to get married ASAP in Nigeria.

Anyways, his US Citizenship might give Alexandre7 an advantage to get married ASAP...lol!

She will just be telling him “I love you” on text while he sends Dollars Pocohantas will love that arrangement ...

MackyNaija:
Abeg remove the name, is not a nice sturvs posting someones name like this.

Lol.... name wey Naija blogs go carry with him full picture , Cgpa , Department , state of origin , Alma matter ...with title like “Nigerian shatters records at Texas A&M Kingsville graduation ceremony”

MackyNaija:
Been busy in the last two weeks sotay my beards don full back..

Work hold me for throat like bow tie.

It's been raining here for the last two weeks making my commute to work longer.

Graduating students, if you get a software engineer role in northern Cali... Come.
Other people, stay away... This town too cost abeg.

welcome Back boss, all this one na still part of the experience you go share with us

Drenimarcus:
Honestly you should think about being a comedian. I almost choked on my coffee

Beverlyjean:
I love Tyler Perry's movies for one thing ...it tells stories of the reality of life... Acrimony showed us how most of we women think .... The woman in the movie felt so entitled cos she sponsored the man all thru their existence together but dint 100% believe ,trust or loved the man ... He loved her a hundred percent but also believed in his dreams a hundred percent ... When u both come together as one , u both should trust ur dreams a hundred percent , even if it doesn't work in the end ... Most times God brings these challenges to test us ... And most times we give up in the dying minutes... She was the man's distraction but dint realise it... Love is for better for worse till the end ... But because she felts entitled , she tried to control him , and u can't take a man away from what he believes in..u can only support till the end ... She made the decision to move on , the man still came bk to beg but he was ridiculed ... Most women get bad advice from friends and relatives ... We women are not good managers cos we are illogical cos that's the way we are wired , but feminism has come to decieve most of us .... When a man truly loves a woman , nothing can ever change that feeling unless she cheats ... But when a woman loves a man alot of factors can change those feelings ... The woman in acrimony had an unforgiving spirit and that's y she dint accept him bk till she heard he was now in money ... Any woman that supports the woman in acrimony is a red flag , a glaring one at that

Harlequeen maybe you should talk to this lady, I think the problem is that you don’t understand men and Beverly here really do. Also, you are still showing signs that you are not over your previous relationship although you have tried to be strong. Also Harlequeen do you consider yourself an Introvert??

Harlequeen:
I opened this account because my main one is pretty popular.

I've had this issue and don't know what's wrong.
I can't seem to get into a new relationship. I am now 25, about serving




To be honest, i just want some words of advice and encouragement, you can ask me questions if you want. This approach of mine? Is it the right thing? Am i being too smart for my own good? Am i afraid of commitment?

I know you may not see this since the thread is already far gone, There is nothing wrong in you setting standards on who you want to be in a relationship with, what you listed are great but if I am to advice you as my sister I will tell you to try to put your eyes on men also who are your senior with only 3-5 years because if you are looking for an ambitious man that is older than you with minimum 10 years, that is 35 year old minimum, most ambitious men who are 35 years old are already married, some who already have plans to leave the country have already left the country by that age so finding someone becomes harder. Goodluck

pocohantas:
Rules are rules. I think a beauty queen in Nigeria has faced same controversy. It is assumed that contestants are maidens. Not necessarily virgins, but no kids or (ex)horseband.

dru23:
Many are leaving the country the country, the ones that got stuck in Libya during the war ,refuse to come back home to Nigeria... The ones that are coming back don't have not fully faced reality yet.. If you leaving the comfort of good electricity, good jobs, good roads, Good Health care system, security , better education etc to come to Nigeria ,and the ones in Nigeria are trying to leave by all means possible... Oga I don't know what does ones leaving to come to Nigeria are smoking.. Whatever it is must be very strong.... Strongest strain of weed ......

Let us be objective here.. Certain things need to be put in place before things can work.. The basic necessities that the government is supposed to provide.. It is now luxury things to those that can afford them.. Doing business in Nigeria itself so tough , me that I do business self it is tough for me .. I don't see myself ever staying and leaving in Nigeria.. The most I can is two months at a time.. Even the wealthy in Nigeria go back and fourth between their homes in South Africa, London, USA etc.. This gives them room to escape the madness and total dysfunctional that is going on in the country.. Large percentage of them are the cause for it.. People will say foreigners are making money in Nigeria.. Yes the lucky few or so .. But where is the money they are making going to ? It is going back to their own country to enjoy, the are taking their profits back to their country of origin.. Even the people in politics that are chopping money in government.. Those ones are taking stolen money oversea for save keeping, away from instability of the economy. Those are going back to Nigeria to settle finally ,I wish them the best of luck. ..


Ps.. The ones leaving the country are more than the ones coming to stay... That alone should tell you something..

I am sure that man or woman is a retiree, who is in his late 50s to 60s...it is wonderful to retiree in Nigeria after working in USA... you earn your pension in dollars and spend in Naira , he will automatically become a very rich man in that ibadan, any small sickness he will book ticket to US for treatments , if he was earning in naira he will know how far

pocohantas:
Guy do port abeg.

Make I be your homebased babe. The one that will be sending you pictures on WhatsApp and telling you "I wish you were here babe"...

While you wire me dollars.

Yahoo dey different types o.

This girl you are one big funny character , people that are around you go enjoy you well well

ubcandid:
In Nigeria you say? With influence? Come on brother. The same evidence she has is amounted to what cosby was sentenced with. I guess you are looking at evidence from a physical aspect.

sorry, which evidences does she have?? I hope they prepare a better case so the truth would come out

ubcandid:
the case wasnt tried. In sane societies rape cases are dealth delicately. Evidence can come through any form and not just by physical factors. If not, abstract factors like polygraph test and psychological state wouldnt be admissible in a court of law. I was also pointing out to the case of bill cosby, what physical evidence was tendered that nailed him? A crime he commited over 30 years ago.

lol, go and read the bill cosby case again, most of the victims came with police reports 1 month after the rape incident, Busola did not make any police report when the alleged rape occured, Also they came with an evidence of an incriminating statement that bill cosby made sometime ago...if they presented the same type of case Busola lawyers presented it would still been thrown out, Busola lawyers were at fault here, they presented a disorganized case

salford1:
I get you now...
Office based positions. That makes me a laptop pressing Engineer too, but money no dey like field roles Sha. Coffee and muffin in the morning, then better lunch at noon, then come back and fight sleep till close of work . Best thing, home every night.

The HR is right Sha. Lost two colleagues so far to silicon valley this year. The moment they got their Canadian citizenship, they just japa to San Francisco to take up new roles at Intel and Eaton respectively.

oga Salford, its like that whistle to move to USA is getting stronger

salford1:
Engineers are in demand too but not as much as nurse. I can't comment on the level of difficulty of a nursing degree but I know a getting an Engineering degree is not a walk in the park. Very demanding as per work load and maths intensive.

I believe people should just follow their dreams anf heart desires. I would never do be able to fit into a medical line because I dislike anything Biology. I enjoy maths, so I found myself in Engineering. As per occupation, nothing beats earning a good wage from what you love doing.

Thanks a lot, reading you and Bossman comments just put smile on my face, i asked based on your last comment, making good wage from what you love is very important considering the cost of Education in USA... Personally i can never do Nursing, But seems everyone was just saying go into Nursing if you immigrate, it was getting me confused because i want to continue in my Engineering field but people just discourage me that since my First degree is in Nigeria it will affect me even if i get my Masters in the US but i am willing to take that risk now.. I will also start to put small eyes in IT from now on and maybe get 1 or 2 certifications as a second choice here in Nigeria first(Bossman which certifications/software do you suggest, i don't know anything about IT oo, Engineers na AutoCAD, Solidworks, ANSYS, PDMS etc we sabi oo, lol) for when i eventually move

salford1:
I also believe it is one of those few profession with demand i.e there are always jobs and not to hard to land a position after graduation.

i think its the demand that makes Nigerians go into Nursing or IT or are they paid better than Engineers?? Is there no demand for Engineers??

kemade14:
It's 3.46 not 3.64 oo.

I was told I can't do direct masters in Canada with this since it's a second class lower.

yeah i know its 3.46... it will fall around 3.17/4.0.. you were thinking it will go below 3.0?? i don't know about Canadian schools, but you are good to go for US schools

Olalekank:
It is so annoying when you find the same person jumping at every thread and spewing nonsense and hatred
How hard is it to just type without downgrading a person or his achievements?


Read your words again, but slowly, and tell me who the hateful person is

Bro to be honest, she had stopped when we pleaded with her, you are the one that attacked her unnecessarily there, She was answering a question... please lets allow peace on this thread. One Love Bro

kemade14:
Sorry, mistake. It's 3.46/5

it will fall around 3.17 + or -

kemade14:
What was your B.tech CGPA before Wes evaluated it?

I had a 3.46/4 but want to bypass Wes as I am limited by funds.

3.46/4 or 3.46/5

MackyNaija:
Paccus, you asked a question and someone posted this response...



Very Very Very narrow minded answer.


A young Nigerian acquires a Bsc, puts together thousands of $, packs his/her bags, and heads off to a foreign land and Babyvet thinks our greatest achievement will be to have married an American?

There are several options to regularizing one's stay in the US. 1 Masters and 2 PhD candidate self petitioned for themselves in 2017/2018.

Several companies have processed the H1b for at least 10 graduates I can think of as I type. This happened between 2018-2019.

As Lionlee has pointed out, in some situations, the paperwork was already filled before the wedding took place. 'Please stay in the U.S with me' naim remain make chics deh tell boys.

I won't be replying BabyV anymore, her thought process na one way.

lol Boss Macky, i see am but no be every drumbeat i go dance to na ... when i see her for this thread, i know say she go find way to throw shade at you one way or the other(upon say you been dey answer her question well), no just respond to her drumbeat na attention she dey find , i dey pity her sha maybe one guy man don chop and clean mouth don make the brain loose alignment small, but its a pity that After all this her raking for nairaland na another Naija guy man go use packaging rearrange the alignment, throttle her motor dey go(Boss Macky, you trust guys for the matter na)... Boss Macky dey fire motivation give boys jare

Drenimarcus:
Oil deh your head bro. We are the worstest in the world. Shefini.

lol Boss, Thanks for your work on that K1 thread oo

Oga Macky, you never still tell us how your 4.0GPA dey open way for you oo, that gist go encourage other students in US oo.. we are all learning from your experiences

Babyvet:
You don’t know what don’t know .

lol, we agree with you, you are 100% right, nobody desires Nigerian men, Nigerian men are considered the worst of all men.. we appreciate you for unveiling this age long mystery to us..we are really grateful

Babyvet:
Lol, hope your finance is not like Angela from 90 day finance ? Come on guys , why would american women or man go to another continent to look for a partner? It usually because their undesirable in their own country.

, person i video call with everyday is undesirable?? ... believe whatever you want to believe but please don't try to derail this thread, Take your troubles to other thread... we don't want your problems on this one ... please, i am begging

please, you guys should not reply her, Thats how she ferments trouble on every travel threads, ignore her now she is starting before she increases the trouble and chase people providing valuable lessons and experiences from this thread, The next thing now she will say Mackynaija is lying and nothing he is saying is True... she say Nigerian men are not desired, agree with her that she is correct.

MackyNaija:
I do not use derogatory terms when I talk about African Americans.

You wanna know who my wife is?
That is beyond the scope of the discussions here.


Let's talk about me 'directly' and my experiences in the US.

Thanks.

Maturity , when i see say madam don enter this thread i know say wahala don come, make una no reply her abeg, she dey carry trouble enter every travel thread... Boss Macky keep up the good work and still dey share these experiences with us.

Jboyossai:
what of some one that that did his undergraduate in school like 'University of Nigeria'...how we wan take remove 'Nigeria from this one?

lol, i thought about that although e no affect me, na fed univ of tech be my own, people wey go uniport, unilag how dem go edit am��