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Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by Nobody: 1:10pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
jclassiq:If at 35 and I am not married, na to bleep one guy born sure pass. 3 Likes |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by pocohantas(f): 1:11pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by olabrinks(f): 1:14pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
He must’ve this... he must be that. Don’t be one of those women please. You are 25 now use your time wisely and stop being delusional . There’s a difference between standards and being unnecessarily picky which is the problem with a lot of women. It’s not until they get to 30 plus and they start wondering where Mr right is. Wake up and face reality, that’s all I will say. |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by DonroxyII: 1:14pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
Debaiz:This one na lie .... na 30s most Naija hustlers dey arrive especially early 30s b4 35s ....especially if u be guy ..... Na oyinbo dem, dey arrive in their 20s and teenagers ..... life dey balance in naija for most guys at 30s .... if u no careful sef, life go balance 4 u in late 30s .... and if u enter 40 and u no balance ..... e don be for u be that oo .... a fool at 40 na zombie forever |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by anonimi: 1:16pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
jclassiq: Many thanks for your cool headed clarification. Greatly appreciated. 2 Likes |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by jclassiq(m): 1:17pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
GrabHisBalls: Hahahaha |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by DonX001: 1:21pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
pocohantas: Since Se.un has quoted your alternate troll account today, he might have something for you nau. EDIT: And I think he fits your bill perfectly as well.... In his 30s, IT guy, "accomplished"...and I guess "ambitious". Maybe you should ask him what he wants.... 2 Likes |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by mrdino(m): 1:25pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
Harlequeen: Your requirements/standards are good, but you also need to look beyond physical attractiveness. The desired spirit do not often come with the desired vessel. |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by Nobody: 1:28pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
DonroxyII: Alot of fake people these days |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by electroTech: 1:28pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
zoeycherie:Hi, check your email please |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by casdoruche: 1:30pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
Why do rich igbo men go to the village to marry? Because they are tired of your standards. The so called high profile guys dont even want high profile gals. They need someone that is not having your qualities. Some don't even want career women. Especially well traveled men who have seen the lives of white abroad in marriages. They settle for an African woman. So if you need Mr Right are you also Mrs right. Why do guys want sex from you and not marriage. Your character? Is it a good one. You want mr perfect but forget that he can also be a rapist or a drunkard or have a very bad trait that he keeps secret. Stop fantasizing. My friend who is a primary school holder was begged for marriage from a banker in her 30s. Why? Many reasons. People change and i know you will. When you reach 30 and discover all your mates are always discussing about the stubborness of their children you will wish for it. Its life. When i was younger all i wanted was a bicycle but now i want a car. Maybe now your standards are your bicycle but soon you will realize why yorubas say ile obinrin oo pe su. 5 Likes |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by Doktajay5: 1:33pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
Harlequeen: So, knowing that all these are what u desire in a man, and wish so much to have them. I'd like to know what stuff you are made of. Who are you? What's your worth: Academically, economically socialy and moraly. @ least to stamp your feet and say u will definitely attract the right man with the aforementioned, even in the face of this your high guard and rigidity. If u ask me, u haven't really understood who men are. When u do, u will eventually stop all these one's u r doing and saying. U sound like issues of men and relationship is what you engage in for a living. I mean, u date physically, u date online, u ve been adviced to go to churches and all that. Sorry, is dating ur occupation?? Like are u that idle? Meanwhile u r just 25..please what time do u get objective with ur life in terms of building urself up @ least to increase your overall value that will attract quality men to you. #smh. Madam, u need to get useful. When u do the needful, the real men will walk in, attracted by value and not by stories.. No man goes for liability these days for your information. Gone are those days..... Stop and get serious with your life, else, by the time u get so "hard to get" ontop your nothing, guy men who want to straf ur ass will put up all those ur wish up here and land u on their bed don't think u r smart... Men are smarter. Ur eye go clear.. U r definitely jobless.. When u get busy, u won't have time to look for boyfriend @ 25..... U will be more serious and if u know, serious minded men love focused babes and are ready to commit in all sense. as such will come. WORK on ur self while u r young. Stop wasting your time. 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by simplepee(f): 1:35pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
Harlequeen:.This girl you are too funny. |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by Doktajay5: 1:40pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
DonroxyII: Is OK to have a taste. The issue is when u have a taste and yet have no worth. The type of man u desire, are u his type? Or is enough to have taste. I mean, wetin de hungry girls dez days even when dey have not worked hard enough for such. No wonder yahoo is all over the air now. 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by healthserve(m): 1:45pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
casdoruche: Alagba, I raise my hat. You pack bullets abeg |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by Paccus: 1:46pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
Harlequeen:I know you may not see this since the thread is already far gone, There is nothing wrong in you setting standards on who you want to be in a relationship with, what you listed are great but if I am to advice you as my sister I will tell you to try to put your eyes on men also who are your senior with only 3-5 years because if you are looking for an ambitious man that is older than you with minimum 10 years, that is 35 year old minimum, most ambitious men who are 35 years old are already married, some who already have plans to leave the country have already left the country by that age so finding someone becomes harder. Goodluck 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by healthserve(m): 1:47pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
mrdino: Blood of Aaron. What an amazing revelation Sir. The desired spirit doesn't often cone with the desired vessel. Only the wise and discerning would be able to process this amazing revelation Sir. Well done Sir 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by Laurene: 1:49pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
AntiMCU:I do, based on what happened to my father. Na long story jare. How is the DC thread? |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by Harlequeen: 1:50pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
Paccus:thanks, but many younger guys dont behave maturely, some just want to deposit and go. 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by healthserve(m): 1:50pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
SarkinYarki: Baba Twale... The elder himself 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by Akious2k2(m): 1:51pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
Is this the new way of telling us to apply for the position of "husband"... Just joking |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by healthserve(m): 1:53pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
Harlequeen:. Sorry 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by Dafemo(m): 1:58pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
simple advice, focus on developing your best self and enjoy life, hangout with friends, do things you have always wanted to do, go out, meet new people, forget about men for now, it is while doing this you'd meet someone who has the same interest as you. 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by OgbeniSamm(m): 2:01pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
Follow your mind, but take your brain with you. But as for the standards and those asking you not to.drop them? They are setting a trap for you and you're making a mistake being adamant, sis. I know you won't agree with me though...but it doesn't matter. All the best |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by Harlequeen: 2:01pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
healthserve:Thanks, till today we still talk,we are still friends, i asked him if he had married the girl. He said no, life got in the way. She later lost the pregnancy, then she later needed money for appendectomy, recently her parent died. He then told her to go home and look for a job. Last i heard, she had found one, but along the way he told me that marriage is more than he realized, that he knows now that he is not ready, especially financially. All i could see from this is that he seemed like a person who isn't down for better or worse. And he is 11 years my senior. Dating him helped me realize what i didn't want. But we had good chemistry, until i caught him almost coming out alomst naked with two women . when he thought I had left his room after knocking for an hour. 3 Likes |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by healthserve(m): 2:06pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
Harlequeen: See. There's a lot I won't say because of the enemity between the two of us... . While our enemity remains intact for sure, allow me drop some things I feel you considered lightly 1. Take vacations more - this time not to classy places but to open places like Shoprites and co. 2. Drop your car for some time. By taking public cars, you could see men climbing up the ladder 3. Spend your Saturdays outdoors. Attend conferences, seminars 4. Above all, see a prophet, this issue like other issues emanates from the spiritual. 5. You've been a victim of wrong/substandard environment for the men you sought in the past, now wake up and make the most of your work environment 6. Try to replace all online shopping with going to the grocery/super market stores yourself 7. Try new profiles with pictures on sites like Facebook/instagram 8. Start using public transportation and increase your use of this system. I.e BRT. Don't do boat rides o. You know you ladies have your spiritual husbands close.. Water draws you closer to being kept in check by your Spirit husband.. My belle o. Am I this mean? Cc: LifeisGuhd Crazyblue Cc: MissJoy29 3 Likes |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by InvertedHammer: 2:06pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
/ You are 25. That's why. Every young lady has a fantasy list until they hit 30. Ever been to a High School reunion? There are some of your flamboyant classmates when in school you will see later in life and ask "what happened?!" It is called life. Keep praying so that you don't become a victim of phantom high standard. / 2 Likes |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by Joystark(f): 2:10pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
Wish the pages on this post can just be converted to $1m per page. |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by Harlequeen: 2:10pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
healthserve:thanks for all you have done, it means a lot. Blessings go your way in jesus name. Just out of curiosity who do think my main monicker is? I have already ditched the car and live near the waterways,my mum is also looking into that spiritual angle for me. No you are not this mean. |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by healthserve(m): 2:10pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
Harlequeen: Lol. My dear Amara. I know its you all along na We're sworn enemies na. Its crystal clear I can spot you as you can me I hope your mum is cool ATM. And you're enjoying the crazy city/state Your answer is in the spiritual realm I told you about. Ditch anything else, go there and resolve issues of the past that has sapped you of your desire for way too long. Good luck Your worst enemy 3 Likes |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by Enwhen(m): 2:10pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
zoeycherie: Nigeria is under God control... You are just a human and knows nothing There is God and nothing else can change that |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by healthserve(m): 2:11pm On Dec 03, 2019 |
Joystark: Another day dreamer spotted |
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