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happybee:
Please bro, I know I effed up by walking out and I'm ready to tackle the situation now. I'm intending to talk to the girl now as you advice, and talk to her what does she wants from me and if I could get a good response from her. I'll let her know to fix a meeting with the guy maybe her place or I don't know, and I think from there IL try to fix up what I had broken. Or what do you think?

Cc: pacesetting

happybee:
Expantiate more...
Cos to me I don't have any business with the guy..

happybee:
Do I have any issue with the dude?

Munzy14:
I love life, eapecially when people think they can predict it for u.
Eyo bassey tweeted abt ceec during the show. but today see him hanging his hand. Nobody knows tomorrow. Always express urself. One day some people will cherish u for such.

PrecisionFx:
It's very silly n senseless to assume an apology as weakness.

MIKOLOWISKA:
if the house were in his name she wouldn't have been running her mouth

sugah:
ExtraExtra and HEseesall
The foundation of your marriage is flawed. In marriage there's no I, me, my share, his share. You went into a biz and shared the profits into his and hers instead of ours. Assuming you had the profits as "ours" then taking part of it to take care of an ailing father and using the rest to build your house wouldn't leave doubts as to whose name should be on the house documents.
ExtraExtra your faults are plenty.
1. You have inferiority complex. Your wife, in her write up, did not mention she was from a more financially stable background but you brought it up even though it added no value to the issue at hand. Deal with your complex problems else it would destroy your home.
2. You are not nuclear family oriented. Yes you are the first son so you still have a responsibility for your extended family but you don't do that at the detriment of your nuclear family. Your wife bought and built a property to completion and you are only just finding out the details of the documentation? How unconcerned were you exactly I understand putting health first in cases of emergency but afterwards you went ahead to complete your father's house before adding the change to your own house? You should be grateful to your wife for covering up your weaknesses. At least she's more family oriented and built a home for you and your kids.
3. If you are having a heated argument with your wife, the reasonable thing to do is to excuse yourself from the situation. Go out to a bar, have a drink or two to cool off then return home to a calmer atmosphere and discuss the issue. How on Earth do you ask a woman to leave the house during an argument (forget that your joking b.s, I'm not buying it)? Where do you expect her to go to cool off?
4. This one goes back to your not being nuclear family oriented.... you have already gone ahead to report the situation in your home to your extended family and even your wife didn't do it. Now you are making unreasonable ultimatums just so you can satisfy your bruised ego or at least prove to your extended family members that you wear the trousers in your home.
5. You are not willing to keep your home and you are taking for granted the fact that your wife is willing to do anything to keep the home. You have applied for a transfer to another state because of this issue? Did you consider what the move would do to your children? Have you even thought about anyone else except yourself in this issue?

HEseesall,
Learn not to make assumptions (you assumed he would know the property was in your name)... communicate! Communicate!! Communicate!!!
Agree to put the property in his name and if he doesn't change his stance about it, that's having both your names on it, then consider your stance in the marriage. Unfortunately you married a man who doesn't understand what marriage is about or the relationship between marriage and Christ so you either chose to carry your cross and make it work or seek professional help.

All the best.

kidman96:
There is something I don't seem to understand... He claimed his vehicle was shot at and riddled with bullets, he accused the police of being responsible for this, the police calls him for questioning and you clods blame the president and call the police names?

Wow... I see why the we keep recycling politicians... The youths of this country have shiit in their heads... All you know his to do is critisize and type rubbish online from the comfort of your shiitehole homes instead of go out to make the country a better place....

Niyinficient:
Papa should stop all these hate abeg!!!

I am a Winner...i believe in his ministry but all these messages is not helping the situation. He follow the teachings of Christ and preach love. He shouldnt his temperament as a person to attend to such sensitive issue.


P.S

All those quoting me and raining curses and abuse...i have no word for you except Gen 12 vs 3a. What help has the hate messages and doom prophesies done to help the situation. Solution is required not compounding the situation.

They called themselves Christians and Winners, yet they rain curses and abuses. These are the people that if Oyedepo preach from now till tomorrow, their lives never change because they remained illogical, irrational and love not the Almighty God but worship man. God have mercy on you all.

ChiefAzubuike1:
This is what happens when you poke your fu*king nose into other peoples business.

justtoodark:
what...??...are you talking to me....??...i didnt understood anything you wrote...
try to write in short sentences...i didnt log on nairaland to read a book....

justtoodark:
nope....i should commend you for putting your lifes in danger.....?

no way.....

Mylove55:
We will still burn it .
I don't know why the jobless aggressive lazy idiotic pigs of biafra are wasting their dubious resources on fruitless exercise.

swiz123:
Believe a gluttonous asslicker's words at your own peril.

decatalyst:
That's the way great men push themselves to being a genius.



Behind any true success, there is so much hard work.

placeofallure:
I can't stand a short guy.
I also don't like my man to carry a bald head.
No pot-bellies, they're a big turn off.
I prefer my man, slim and tall, not fragile looking slim O

Baawaa:
One by one Buhari will camp all these criminals and their sponsorers

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Twoclans:
To be honest this housemates do not know how to play the game. Instead of them to return Biggies ex housemates to him.

They are all their beefing themselves.

Papiikush:
This is pure bullshìt.

I think she is 100% correcta
I am not saying you shouldn't defend your favorite housemate but saying "Young people don't become independent early in Nigeria" is just a very dumb statement.

Do you even think before you typed that?

Jesus Christ!