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InsideLife2022:
I have been an active member on this forum for the past eight years. I just created this account to bring this issue to limelight. Good evening gentlemen and ladies. I got married in late 2020. God being merciful, we are blessed with a baby of 5 months. My wife has been giving me attitudes of recent. I have tried to find out what the problem has been, she is not saying anything tangible. I am being confused and depressed. I have been begging her to come back to join me after delivery. She keeps traumazing me emotionally. She just told me our marriage is over. She couldn't say what the problem is.

She has not been taking care of the baby. She was medically advised to stop breastfeeding our baby permanently. Is not that she breastfeeds our baby. My mother in-law and sisters in-law have been complaining about her lack of motherly treats.

They told me she doesn't even know how to take care of the baby. They cannot allow my child to be in her custody because she can't take care of the baby as a mother. She has fought her mother for asking her to leave her house to join her husband. Every member of her family has been asking her what the problem is. She keeps telling them to come and marry me that it's over between us.

I haven't told any of my family members or my friends of what is going on in my marriage. I am a kind of person that do not like involving a third party in my new marriage of lest than two years.

Her family has never supported her actions. Her mom and her siblings have been asking me to come take my wife and baby. But, my wife is not ready to join me. It has been a serious issues in her family house each time they push her to go meet her husband.

Her family has ask me to come with some soldiers or the police to come carry my baby and leave her since she claims she is no longer interested in any marriage. I have been trying my best to make sure my wife never lacked anything during her pregnancy and even after delivery.

My in-laws have been very supportive and good to me. I know they have never and will not support her for her wrong actions and behaviors. My challenge is, my baby is just 5 months and I don't want to take the baby to my parents because of the questions people around will be asking. I don't want to be seen as someone who is separated from his wife. I hate divorce with passion. My wife does not have any concrete reason why she decides to stay off our marriage.

Her family is fully in support of my next actions of going to take my baby. Now, the question is this; is it advisable to keep the baby with me while I employ a nanny to raise the baby with me?

Please and please I need mature and sensible advise.

Cc: RoyalRoy

I want this thread to be moved to the right and appropriate section. Thank you!

naijakorean:
Is this product only useful for construction sites? Or can I use it in my house?

naijakorean:
What type of appliances can I plug into this solar generator? Will it carry a fridge?

lalasticlala:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=knvHBsThoxc

Dr Chikodili Nwigwe, a consultant pathologist at Military Hospital, Yaba Lagos, speaks about Sylvester Oromoni's autopsy results. She was among the 8 doctors that witnessed the autopsy at LASUTH.

She said: 'Yes, due process was followed. All the necessary protocols, methods, laboratory tests, radiological testing, were performed. We had about 8 pathologists there.at the Lagos State University hospital morgue where the second Autopsy was carried out. The autopsy was recorded from start to finish. Photographs were taken, not by one by many. So whatever you have documented can be corroborated with video and picture evidence.....'

Watch from 10:04 to watch the Pathologist speak.

highoctane:
It could be vice versa.,
Abeokuta means under the rock may be or may not.
Ibo has it Ebe Okwute or where there is rock.
Okpuru Okwute means under the rock.any similarities?

jlinkd78:
This Govt want to make people panic when they have not been able to create anything the only Bank of reference in terms of healthiness is now being fingered with their leprous hand of mismanagement. This CBN that is supposed to be busy printing billions to be shared across the States now wants to crash First Bank, regarded as the Rock of Gibraltar Bank, same way big names like Oceanic and Diamond Banks including Intercontinental went out of space cos of conflict of interests

modsAREuselesss:
i dont bother about prce of comodities. i am more concerned about the money flow

Apeshy102:
Life may never remain the same for Mr Emmanuel Iloabuchi Iloanya after the Officer in Charge of Awkuzu Special Anti Robbery Squad (SARS), Mr. James O. Nwafor and his men allegedly killed his son Mr Chijioke Iloanya without getting justice.

Mr Iloanya in a telephone chat with News9naija recounts how his son was arrested and gruesomely killed in cold blood by one Mr Jame O. Nwafor, now a retired police officer attached to Awkuzu SARS who led his boys to a naming ceremony and arrested attendees which many of the arrested never made it out alive, unfortunately, Mr Chijioke John Ilonanya was amongst those who never made it out alive.

Upon learning about his arrest, on November 31, 2012, Mr Illoanya in company of his wife went to the Awkuzu Police Station were they met their son in handcuff, though they saw him there, they were driven out of the police station.

Unsettled with the proceedings, Mr Iloanya proceeded to the office of the Anambra State Commissioner of Police where he met the Commissioner and his deputy. Upon narrating his sons ordeal to them, they promised him that nothing would happen to his son, but this promised was never fulfilled.

Upon his subsequent visit to the commissioner, Mr Nwafor was summoned but never showed up.

It was on his visit to the Commissioner's office in January 2013 that the Deputy Commissioner of Police told him of his son's death.

Mr Iloanya proceeded to the Awkuzu SARS office where he met Mr James Nwafor. Upon request for his son's whereabouts, Mr Nwafor told him, "Go, I have wasted your son". This insensitive statement didn't go down well with Mrs Iloanya as she collapsed and was rushed to the hospital upon hearing what Mr Nwafor said.

Mr Iloanya didn't stop there, he went on to seek justice for his slain son, if not for anything but to at least retrieve his corpse from the SARS.

He met one, Rt Col. Emmanuel Udechukwu (now Late), a human right activist through who Mr Iloanya delivered the sum N1.5M to the Awkuzu SARS but nothing came forth.

Till now, Mr Iloanya has not set eyes on his son nor his corpse.

Mr Iloanya is calling on the Nigerian Police Force, NGOs and well meaning Nigerian to help him get justice for his son. He said, "I know that my son is dead, but i just want justice"

Mr Illoanya can be reached on 08035501598.

Listen to him Below:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DJgAwIdf90M

Awkuzu is a town in Oyi Local Government Area of Anambra state of Nigeria.

https://www.news9naija.com.ng/2020/07/08/i-killed-your-son-and-nothing-will-happen-awkuzu-sars-oc-to-man-after-killing-son-video/


The Sister to the slain young man also gave account of the incident on Twitter.


https://twitter.com/Ada_mummyya/status/1140000709649358848?s=19[/quote]There is no November 31 though.
#JustSaying

OAUTemitayo:
He diverted money from his own company?
Imao. Sahara Reporters don't rate PDP members. They know most of you are brainless

mank1234:
Just checked. You're right.

mank1234:
That's R1 not R3

mamaafrik:
How do one determine the R2 from R3 on a prepaid meter??

bigiyaro:
its not the common traders that are spreading it, its those empty headed and wicked travelers, this is the hand work of the rich and stupid, if the virus venture drop into the Masses....say one danfo driver catch am, hehehehe Italy go be child play.

strungup79:
I'm always out of town looking for one job or business. I've just been unfortunate that all my efforts have yielded little or no fruit. It's almost as if there's a curse working against me.

strungup79:
You are just like my wife. If marriage is about control, why marry? Why not stay on your own? Making money is not about hustling, if it was i'd be earning over three times what my wife earns. Luck, favour also plays a role. Maybe God just wants to show me who I married.

FactBoyz:
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Butterflyleo:
Yes he is.

It doesn't take rocket science to see that the votes are already clearly split right down the middle.

If he got about 950k for PDP in 2015 then statistically speaking, we can say he has secured about 400k votes from that especially since he is from the other divide of AKS called the Anangs and from what I gathered, even the old are now talking politics due to akpabio and are solidly behind him based on how he transformed a once hidden away state to a place of repute within one year of his governance as governor.

A little tweaking from him would swing the votes to his favour especially now that he once again would have federal might at his disposal same way he had in 2015.