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UniversityPaint:
Alright. Thanks. Any particular idea in mind. Just a night most likely

I'm trying to think of something but right now my head is blank. If you are willing to stay in GRA and transport yourself to your place of work everyday then I might have a few pointers

Bro try and spend a little more. Your safety is more important. I live in Benin and EFEX is not it at all.

PrimadonnaO:
But what you did is actually annoying. I'm not involved, but I'm pissed too. What sort of back and forth parade is that? Do you know what it takes to ask people for favours? Perhaps, because you weren't the one doing the asking yourself, you don't know how hard it is. Your sis was helping you out and all you could do was to keep changing your mind, making her look like a joke in the eyes of her friends.

Yes, you should have thought it through before agreeing in the first place.

That being said, your sis will get over it.

When I was about to open the thread, I was thinking in my mind that it was one of those stories about a sister being mean for no reason. Here's a sister who loves him so much and is willing to go out of her comfort zone to make him happy and what she gets in return is an unappreciative kid who cannot listen to the voice of reason but instead is stuck up on his mentality that somehow his sister's life should revolve around him. It's not a matter of deliverance, I'm sure he's had this attitude for a long time now. The root of the problem needs to be traced and nipped in the bud because if he goes out feeling like he's entiteled to whatever then this is gonna be a really sorry case.

lebete3000:
And you think I jumped into conclusions in the heat of the moment? You want to tell me you haven't taken days to plan a decision only to edit it again? Or you'll say because you've planned it for decades you can't change it again, even if it's glaring it was a wrong decision? Or you think a decision that took years to make is guaranteed of being foolproof?

No bro,when I take time to make a decision I stick to my decision no matter the outcome because life is a teacher and we learn from our actions, I don't have to be right all the time. In this case it's your sister I'm concerned about not you because you are obviously very stubborn and unrepentant. You owe her an apology. That being said, I wish you all the best and goodnight.

lebete3000:
So even when you make decisions that are eventually not profitable to you and the other person- the couple in this situation- you stick to it and continue down the wrong road ba?

Alright.

That's the reason why you need to weigh all the options before arriving at a final decision no matter how long it takes. You just don't jump into conclusion in the heat of the moment. The most annoying part of this whole issue is that you still insist you are right despite the fact that you are wrong.

lebete3000:
Issokay. I'll apologize to the man myself. I've told her that already cos I don't want her to look stvpid as y'all have said.

You on your own part need to be decisive. This is probably your first job and you are going to need to make swift decisions sometimes. Think fast and learn to stick to your decisions because right now your image in the eyes of superiors will be on the line.

My guy what is wrong with you changing your mind up and down. Just reading through your thread alone my blood dey hot. You are making your sister look stupid in the eyes of people who respect her because trust me if they didn't respect her they would not consider her after you goofed the first time. Honestly you need to receive sense and go back and apologize to your sister. How old are you sef

Nice write-up. I know a woman who died in Canada. She told her kids and grandkids that if they ever took her corpse back to Nigeria to be buried her spirit would haunt them for the rest of their lives. Apparently she believed in reincarnation and wanted to return to the world as a white person.

dam007:
what of an AS genotype, in love with a SC genotype, somehow, they've lasted 10 good years together... the SC genotype carrier is clearly healthy, like rarely sick, and in fact about just 1 crisis occurrence in 2 years, would you advice they marry to adopt? advice without sentiments tho.

Anything that will put you at risk of having a child/children with sickle cell anaemia should be avoided not for the sake of the love but for the sake of the child. Sickle cell is not beans oh, I couldn't feel the pains my sister felt but trust me she was always in pain and during her last crisis all she could say was she was tired of living such a life, after experiencing that I promised myself that I would always advice any ear that's willing to listen again it.

Bro, I lost a sister to sickle cell years ago and till date it still hurts because she was such a sweet soul, she had a really bright future ahead of her. This is my advice, look for the most reputable laboratory in your city of residence and get a test done there. Love is not enough in this case, if she is AS please use your head and not your heart because I've seen what sickle cell anaemia does to a human being and you don't want to put an innocent soul through a lifetime of pain all in the name of love. It is well.

My guy you are just stingy. I think you'd be doing your fiancee a big favor by letting her go. I think she even knows how stingy you are that's why she didn't have the guts to ask you for the rent herself. I dey shame for you, no matter how successful you are, you are a broke ass if the person you love cannot enjoy it freely

Bush woman

okoji:
Doesn't mean anything. It just means they have received your application. That's all.

thanks

Hi people, I hope you all are having a good start to the month of February. I submitted my application in person and that same day I got an email with the tracking number et al. At about 2am the next day I got an email with header "Application Accepted/Demande reçue" I wonder if some experts here can shed a little light on the header. Thanks a million.

Looking good mamagee. don't let these haters get to you. I'm a big fan of people who keep it real and I pray that beautiful smiles never leave your pretty face.

SalamRushdie:
Anything yo remove Buhari is very welcome

the same way anything to remove Jonathan was highly welcome and look where we are today. Countries are electing young diplomatic leaders into power and we are here cycling and recycling.

Thegeneralqueen:
Excuse me who are you to quote me

I've already told you all I have to tell you so take a chill pill mami. I'm not here to tell you who I am or who I'm not and I wouldn't be surprised if you get defensive and talk trashy. Peace.

Thegeneralqueen:
Growing up from a broken home is what you call cute

growing up from a broken home didn't stop him from being cute. Chillax abeg

africangirl000:
He should keep quiet. With the unhealthy love for attention he and his wife possess, I won't be shocked if they do something similar when their time comes.

I agree with you, their love for attention is really unhealthy but he has a point.

Bro take the risk and move ahead. Maybe you can ask your mom,dad or close family member to assist you in securing a loan but please when you get there don't disappoint in paying back. It shall be well with you. Good luck and God speed.

I'm sorry to say but in this age and time when you can input number plate details on the FRSC site and know which car it's registered to, the car cannot be unidentified. Maybe you can say you don't know the color but it's also stated that the bumper fell off so the color should be known except the bumper is a different color.

Nice move. I'm not a fan of the Tonto Churchill drama but I strongly believe that the child needs to be protected. Linda Ikeji on the other hand is only concerned about making more money and I'm beginning to lose my respect for her. Don't get me wrong, money is good but when you are willing to exploit a little child for financial reasons then you are just plain evil.

mejai:
Even me wey dey handle corolla most tyms no fit commit dat blunder.
Dis is insult to V6 engines ooo. Make una forgive am and return to d topic

my brother I tire oh. Abeg make una forgive me advice op on which motor him go buy.

In such situations there's her story, his story and the true story.

king406:
Lol corolla dey accelerate like v6

if you have ever driven a 2005 Corolla Sport you'd know that it's a pretty fast car. At least in a convoy the V6 car in front of me doesn't go to far before I catch up. Anyway I'm glad I could make you laugh.

elshanAutos:
No Toyota Corolla born of metal, can accelerate like a V6. Corolla parts are not cheap aswell.

@ OP, if you want a basic, bland, boring, no frills car, by all means get the corolla.
For something more fun, classy & engaging to drive, get the C230 2005 (it sports a 1.8L supercharged i4 engine)

Have a pristine one with 117k actual miles for sale by the way- https://www.nairaland.com/4266676/mercedes-benz-c230-kompressor-sport

at least it accelerates pretty fast and as per the parts,its definitely cheaper than the c class you have for sale. My advice,dont try to hype a car just because you have it for sale.

I use a 2005 Corolla Sport, it's an excellent car, great fuel economy,parts are cheap,accelerates like a V6. There's little difference between the 2005 Corolla Sport and the 2004. If it's your first car I'd advice you go for the Corolla.

Searchinglady:
if standing up for my self because I was insulted by miserable cretins who think they can just type trash just because they have long things inbetween their legs makes me rude ,then I accept.

Just because it is the internet gives no one the right to bully or slut shame me ,if they actually had respect for women including the one that brought them into this world,they will not think of disrespecting me (who will also be someone's mother and is also someone's daughter), if they had respect for their own sisters they will not come online to insult me who also happens to be someone's sister too. I have had enough of guys thinking they can just say trash and use demeaning words like olosho just so they can have some form of control over their miserable emasculated life

If you don't see anything wrong in what those comments then I think it will not be out of context if I say birds of a feather ...

Lest I forget, I wasn't born neither did I grow up in upper, another hasty generalization

I'm not trying to be disrespectful,what I find rather annoying is the fact that you insult people's mothers and sisters just because they make silly comments. So now let's assume you finally start dating one lucky dude, are you trying to tell me that at the slightest provocation(cos trust me it's not gonna be a bed of roses)you will start to insult people who will probably end up being your mother-in-law and sister-in-law? You seem like a really cool girl, most of the people making those comments can't even talk to a girl and probably get laid at brothels,please don't bring yourself down to their level.

As for my comment about you being from upper, I didn't mean it. Have a blessed day and I hope you find a really nice guy and when you do please don't take him for granted.

I've looked at her pictures from up to down, down to up, left to right and right to left and I'm still trying to figure out how and what makes her pretty. I even had to turn my phone to the the side and even upside down,still no sign of the beauty, just an overly made up and bleached Nigerian police officer.

Honestly I wasn't gonna comment but I must admit the op is really rude,always reacting to comments with so much anger. I don't think any man in his right mind would want to date someone like you. Anyway you live at upper sakponba aka USA so I'm not surprised

I see you are in Benin, I'm also in Benin. Would you like to meet up?

That guy needs the job badly plus one month salary advance to at least get a better shoe