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denzel2009:
Bros, make I bring along my Old Kent road crew come drink ororo?

You're welcome to do so. RSVP

teemon:
i for like come but no money for ticket jare!

Have faith my friend. You'll be amazed.

Wislet:
@paris10, Finally my dear. Finally. But hey! Put away all doubts & see a lasting future with your lady ok? Make her your best friend, and do away with anyone dat will distract u from her. Dont go into this marriage with skepticism, but with faith. It is in your hands to make sure it succeeds, and your wife is looking up to you. If there's stil any atom of hurt from betrayal, lack of trust or disappointment she might be feeling toward u, try to talk to her before/immediately after your wedding. U guys should have a heart-to-heart. Dont fail you both. It is well. Congratulations.

You're such a darling @Wislet. Thanks for your words of comfort and wisdom. I pray that you receive all your petitions from God IJN

ragdollz:
Lol @ Asking for NL membership ID at venue. So if I claim I'm moderator Muki how can you tell? Or if I say I'm mama gee

It's high time we do proper ID cards here sef

Congrattations @paris10

But with a username like urs, u should really have had the wedding in France

For anyone to sit at the Nairalanders special table, and to know you're who you claim you are, there's gonna be a computer at the entrance of the reception hall. All you have to do is punch in your password to log-in to your Nairaland account and then log-out.

They're both attention seekers and not the best talent out there.

[quote author=High_Chief link=topic=752689.msg9085927#msg9085927 date=1315247953]Where is the weddin takin place?[/quote]Check the Dating and Meet Up section (under Romance) for details of the date and venue

Are u ok

The moderator has moved this topic to the Dating and Meet up zone.

He said it got nothing to do with Romance. He however forgot something; getting married is the most romantic thing ever. How much romantic can that be.

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Can the moderator pls move this topic back to the romance section

Thank you

r231:
Dont worry i will save you a seat

just ask me in french

You laugh too much @r231. Go through all your posts and see for yourself, lol

yeye4live

i will take d next aval flite a day b4 d wedding to join u guys ok, cheers

Your presence will surely be noted. Thanks

r231:
so you jus gonna use our church for free

I will report you to DADDY GO

No report me o. lol

r231:
good ;Dmy mosquito chest will do d job


cool. . . . . make sure say Arsenal no get game dat day


how come i neva see you for dat church

I'm not a member

debosky:
Big City Wedding behind Lidl??

Just remind me closer to the day and I'll pop in for a few drinks.

@ r231

Abeg make sure you come and pick me up in your hummer.

The Redeemed Church is actually a big and cool Church. Come see for yourself

claremont:
Congrats OP, I will try to be there, but ensure there is enough alcohol for the boiz!

Enough of booze , pls don't get drunk o @claremont. I won't be available to drive you home you know

Goldieluks:
I hope your not trying to but people with your lies,or did the ANGEL dump you?

She fit? No, not that all. Too much pressure from both families. Besides that, I'm doing this to repay her years of honesty, patience and faithfulness to me. My new girl is unaware of this, but will let her know soon.

r231:
too late

there is date and venue now so its official

Thanks. I was about saying same thing.

Goldieluks:
Is this the wedding that they've already planned a divorce for?or?

Hopefully things will turn out good for us.

coogar:

should we bring our kevlar vests or juju capable of stopping bullets?
cos as far as i am concerned, you have 2 babes pulling you in opposite directions. . . . .which of them are you getting married to?

Well, they say the old is better than the new

Are in the UK or coming for a visit come December the 3rd 2011?, You're officially invited to my wedding ceremony.

Church service will be at the  RCCG VICTORY HOUSE LONDON. 5-5A Congreve Street, Off Old Kent Road, Behind Lidl. London. SE17 1TJ. Service starts 11am.

Reception follows immediately after Church service @

Bacon's College Sports Centre & Gardens
Timber Pond Road
Rotherhithe
SE16 6AT

Invitation card will be posted in due course.

Pls do make this wedding a day to remember for me and for you. And as you come, may the Lord bless and favour you forever more IJN.

Oh! engagement is a week before the wedding, don't want to bother y'all. But if you could be still make it, then why not. More info on this later.

NB: There's gonna be a special table for all Nairaland members. You all gonna be asked for your members ID before being allowed in.

Thanks

Common factor, sleeping with every d.i.c.k and harry

This is not a joke matter o

coogar:
if i were you, i wouldn't go ahead with the wedding if my heart says no.
the families can feck off. it's your life and this has to be the biggest decision you will have to make in your lifetime.
don't let anyone or sentiments box you into marrying someone you don't truly love.

granted, she's been with you for six years and people might say it's unfair. . . . .but your six years were wasted as well.
marriage is a complex web. better i disappoint her family now than get a divorce few years after marriage. you won't be the first man to walk out of a relationship and you won't be the last.

if your heart is somewhere else, go with your heart.
let people say you are selfish, but who isn't. if the roles are reversed, the woman would leave you without thinking of bringing shame to whatever family. get a grip of yourself and act smart. when the marriage hit the rocks, the people egging you on to marry her won't be there to listen to your tales of woe.

Thanks for your advice. But it's too late now. Too many people are on my neck. I even had a dream 2 days ago about someone from nowhere killing my sister because of me. Although I've rejected that dream, I however think some people somewhere are after me.

Also, before my dream, my sister called me to warn me that she had a dream that I fell into a river, and that my father (now deceased) came and rescued me. You see, too much trouble. Whilst I believe no one can harm me because of God's power and anointing in my life, I do think they might harm my family.

Dyt:
Yh sure i do
jst get my fat assss down in uk

Lol, you're very funny. We'll see

Dyt:
I want 2 cm o
send me an iv 2 cm ova 2 uk

If you have where to stay, why not

jackpot:
Learn to tolerate her. Go on with the wedding. She gave everything to this relationship. You're even her first and only love. This girl can not cheat on you after marriage.
Go ahead and marry her. It's your destiny to be the one for her.
About the other girl, remember not all that glitters is gold. Peace!

Thanks for your advice. The wedding is going ahead.

You know what, I might as well reserve a special table for Nairalanders residing or visiting London come December 3rd.

Anyone interested should pls feel free to say. I'll give more info later

Connoisseur:
I sincerely dunno wanna believe am reading this. Getting married with the intention of getting divorced. Please what would you tell your new foung girlfriend; ''oh baby, am just doing this to save face, just chill for me nd i'd be out before you know it''. Just imagining

i must tell you bros, your life is in danger. You let this girl know the wedding is just to save face. Believe me, you are just setting yourself up for a perfect murder. You ve already given her enough motive, now you dash her the means and throw in opportunity. I hope you dad is alive cos i cant imagine him not telling you this.

P.S: please try and send me an IV. Would like to come

The wedding is in London. I will email you an IV as soon as it comes from the Print.

Jackieugo:
Wouldn't a divorce also shame your families?

Now you caught me, I already have an hamstring and can't run again

Goldieluks:
Stop using the name of God in vain,you are a heartless and wicked being,and i bet you,it wouldn't end ''happily ever after'
with guys like you.If your really a true Christian as you've claimed you'd remember what the Bible said about lying and insincerity.
You are a liar,for pretending you love her and still wanting to go ahead with the wedding,and do you think,divorcing her
afterwards is the best way?? That is even worst because she girl may find it difficult to get married,since everyone close to
her,are aware of her marriage to you.May the Hands of God catch up with you,in any way He deem it fit.(don't mean death though)


And so what if your footing the bills?Remember,money is not everything,life comes first!

Which one is the cursing bit? Don't understand you a bit. Spending six years in a relationship doesn't necessarily guarantee marriage or a happy home. I believe you don't know who you are dating or in relationship with until you get married to them or they live with you for a while.

She has stayed with me for some months now and found her behaviour and character unacceptable and intolerable. Told her I'm cancelling the wedding but she wouldn't accept it. What do you want me to do? I have to go on with it.

I have the right to chose who I want to marry. God is not against me choosing either. What lying? How many times have you lied? Never too late to back off.

Just had a meeting with me family and have accepted to go on with the wedding. Although they all agreed I can do anything after the wedding if the need be, they however pointed out that it will be suicidal if I call off or postpone the wedding. My fiancee father is a clergy and has already announced to his congregation about the wedding. Calling off the wedding according to my family and friends would shame both families.

Although they've succeeded in talking me to doing the wedding, I however told everyone that I'm only doing the wedding for them and not for me. They all seem to be fine by it. Wedding cannot tie me down. After wedding, there's divorce. Money has already been spent and most arrangement made, do I care, I don't think so. I'm footing these bills.

My mum keeps crying every now and then saying she's scared for my life. She said someone somewhere would just do me harm if I call off the wedding.  Although I'm a Christian and do not believe in jazz, I do think some times one need to listen to advice and act later.

I'm in love with someone else but getting married in december with another woman. But after then, I'll get married to the person whom my heart goes with. God will do it. I'm I being forced into getting married, I don't know, but people are scaring me damn to much.