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jayedu108: I pity dat man dat married u.

And if you are married, i pity the woman that married you too,so who was washing your clothes when you were a bachelor? what happened to your hands? is a woman your slave?

The best thing she should have done is to cut off the husband's pe.nis since that is what is causing the whole wahala. Nonsense woman, as for the student.... No comment. Ebola and HIV awaits her if she continues towing that path.

I dont wash my husband's clothes because he has two hands and his mama trained him right.

This story get k leg, why would a bride carry 4 million naira to the registry? pls tell us something else.

[quote author=clock247]@parismarc, this post is strictly based on the experience i had and not an avenue to mislead or misinform people here... thank you[/quote


Be guided about the filing fees, I doubt if u registered your business this year, I repeat, name search for business name is 500 naira and filing fee is 10,000, u may wish to edit your post. It will be dangerous for anyone to rely on the fees you stated in your OP.

My phone - I.C.E-simply means In Case of Emergency.

On his phone, same name.

Hmmmm OP, when last did you go to CAC? Availability is 500 naira, and filing fee for business name is 10,000. So a business name cannot be registered for less than 10,000.BTW, I work there, stop misinforming the public about our filing fees.

Please lets stop promoting Nigerian men as being sex starved and promiscous. Not all men think with their dicks. When you tell a people over and over that they have no self control, they tend to believe you and act that way.

Yes, i can employ a househelp like this because my husband is disciplined. I have a 19 year old nurse for my daughters who has nice curves and i dont feel threatened. Yes, it's good to avoid temptations but for how long can you shield your husband if he is a randy he goat? why would a man, the head of a family lower himself to sleep with a maid? Is that all he thinks about?

My dad had so many ladies staying with him (relatives from his side and mum's side) and not for one day did i hear about anyone being molested.

Please lets give our men some credit.Haba!.

Good, serves him right.

No, I don't bother to psych my self when going to c the doctor, my major concern doing ante natal visits is that everything will be fine, my bp, blood sugar and baby.

I honestly don't care, I just take it as a neccessary evil that must be done, and asper male docs shining a light inside my ......., na dem sabi, I guess they've seen so many ........ So mine wouldn't make a difference.

Hi babymama, God bless you and yours.

priest2u: chai can't believe that issue like this can cause someone to give attitude and cause problem in marriage? Those of us that are disorganize and arrange our cloths whenever we are in the mood, what are we going to do?

My dear, it is an issue o and it can be very frustrating,please learn to be more organised before you marry because your wife might feel very bad especially if she is the organised type.

There is nothing as soothing as coming back from work after a hectic day and meeting a fresh and clean room....Heavenly.

A very sad and tragic situation..... And some people will still blame Jonathan.

Hian!! What an evil mother. I thank God for my Parents.

sailormoon: Direct access? Nah, but if he asks I'll give

Same here, I pay part of the bills, but he doesn't have direct access to my cash.

Head, tail,neck,bottom, I don't give a damn, all I know is that no one is superior to me as long as we both breathe the same air. The day I stop breathing is the day you become superior.

Abeg, enough of these 'the man is the head' thread. I respect my hubby because he earned it, no imposition of his views whatsoever.

Hmmmm, well, I would'nt dress my daughters like this. They can wear it indoors when it's hot but snapping and uploading it is a no no for me. I love my kids in frilly gowns and skirts, they look nice and decent.

imurboss: @hispinkolo, I've had my own share of in laws troubles, I've studied them & understood them as they have also shown me the stuff they're made of early enough. So I've learnt to keep them at arms learnt.

I've experienced some of the things you went through too & that was when my marriage was just 8mths.Sil (far younger to me)just invited their family members one early morning without prior notice to come over to our house to come & judge me because they believed I came to snatch something away from them. My dear,it took the grace of God for the marriage to still continue till this stage. Today if I look back I continue to bless God but I see a lot of regret on their faces. It is well

Pls full gist, what happened?

Hmmmmm, thanks for the info.

cococandy: Fear of a ruined body from child bearing
Some women never go back to how they were before pregnancy.
I PRAY I won't be one of them.

And stubborn kids who won't let me have a nap in peace.

LoL @ stubborn kids who won't let you have a nap. I'm in that exact situation now, my 2 girls have refused to let me be, I sent their nurse to the market and they've given me hell. Most children are like that but well worth the troublem

@ OP, I fear infidelity and death.

He shall also be the last Victim. I declare death to Ebola Virus in Nigeria.

laplace12: Why pray for his financial success when you should be out there huzzling for your own cash.

In summary you are a gold digger

And you ignored where I wrote I pray for his general well being right? So what does that make me? How typical. Gentleman, better wake up and realise that not all women rely on their husbands for finances, his financial success will mean a better future for our kids who bear his surname, I have my cash, I can take care of myself, gold digger my arse. Mtcheeeew, people just like spewing rubbish.

I only pray for financial success and his general well being, I can't worry God over trivial issues like my husband resisting temptations, for wetin na? That's why God gave him a brain and free will. If he is not matured enough to know that marital infidelity will destroy his household, that's none of my business.

OP, better tell Karma to hold the married men responsible since they are in violation of their marital vows.

Yes she can, i've done that, nothing happened to me. It's very tiring though.

Tough one, but my answer is.........HELL NO.

The same woman will come back after some years and claim her child. Taking care of children is physically and emotionally tasking. Why should i raise a child whose mother caused me untold heartache? Not easy men. i'll rather adopt.

Hian! This is terrible, why commit adultery with a member of your husband's family? This is wrong on so many levels. And what's wrong with the man's nephew? Why sleep with your uncle's wife? Kai, I tire for some people.

Congrats dear, may God bless, keep and preserve your little princess.

Nothing, u can't compel a full grown adult, if I have the means, I will take care of my kids and my self, the man should however not expect to enjoy the privileges and rights of a husband, if he tries to compel me, I'll move out of the house, my daddy didn't treat my mum like that so I won't take it from my hubby,I refuse to have high blood pressure over any man,or to die prematurely. No one is worth it.

So sorry about all this, please don't blame your self, that's life for you, we win some, we lose some, just trust that there is a reason all this is happening now, u will look back and smile in future and say thank God it went this way. Worry not, someone better will come your way.

The passive neighbours, I love them, very peaceful couple.

Lol, this is serious, may I never encounter such, it's too embarassing a situation. If the adult visitor is not on an extended visit, he can wave it aside, asper his galfriend, he should take her to a doctor to get her treated, if she insists on lying, then he should do the needful.
No need to take the matrass outside, just remove the bed cover, open ur windows, put ur fan directly on d spot,u can also use water, disinfectant and rag to clean the affected spot before u air the matrass in the room.
@ op, I hope its not the owner of the house bed wetting and trying to shift the blame to his poor visitors because this coincidence is just too much.