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Tkb,

Take it easy oh! Lool. No need getting your blood hot over this peeps. It is surprising that a married woman amongst them is even longing to drop down her pants for this Jakard of a person. Did you say he permed his hair? Lol

She could not even think of a sensible lie to come up with except this one? Why punish you as a husband to be, by having to go and bang another man? And yet you sit down and tell me you expect her to work her way back into your life, if indeed she is the one for you? Dude, wake-up! This is a whole new decade. This girl is still banging your brains while getting banged by another dude!

Personally I would not. Too stressful and demanding. However, the day she gives me cause for suspicion, I may start considering spying on her activities. She has to be my girlfriend for that to happen though. As a wife, I pray that never happens. We should have been able to trust one another so well before and during our marriage.

Such a sad story. What more can I say? All has been said. I feel for you. I would have gone mad with rage, but you have taken it all well.

The hardest word to say right now is MOVE ON. Such a shame, most women of our generation hardly know what they want. The bone of your bone is somewhere out there, and when she comes, you would feel that inner reassurance.

All the best bruv.

@ Abekeade,
I don't hate, I appreciate. A fine dude or a pretty babe, I would not hesistate to state it as it is. The Jakard dude is just OK. With that goat-like structure of facial hair, I pity the lady who scratches her face on his. That facial hair on his face is more than enough to compete with a sandpaper. Maybe other pictures are alright, but what I saw was just simply a dude contesting with Osama.

@ Sauron,
Essex girls are smoking! I don tire sef. . . .lol.

@ Plat,

Pls do not patronise me. I never expected this thread from you either. You are way above all this guy tripping mode. All is for fun right? Enjoy! Lol.

For some days now, I have been watching this noise making about hot this, hot that. Mschewwww.

I kept on wondering who this Jakard of a person is. Upon seeing his pic, I laughed to madness. I even thought he do be a drop dead handsome dude. The guy design face with rubbish facial hair? What is that all about? Is he Osama the second? Even Mutallab has got nothing with this Jakard picture.

And who says who is who here? Mschewww. . . .just another thread to while away the time.

selena:
Because God did not create ugly people,you dork.

ThoniaSlim:
lol. . .longest time Mr Pataki?

Yeah it is really a looooong time.

Hope you are cool though. Still staying attractive and intelligent as always I can see that.

ThoniaSlim:
Let it Go and know it wasn't meant to be!

Intelligent answer!

@ TKB,

Guy how far? How did you know of me and Cocobar? Did you see my pictures on facebook? If you were around, we coulda met there this Sat. Should be popping in there this weekend again.

Hope you cool? How my former wifey? Lool.

@ Poster,

Sorry mate, I have been in your shoes, one too many. You give a woman your heart, she messes it all up. From my own experience of life, she is definitely no more into you. She is simply just keeping you as a spare tyre. A woman whom you are in a relationship with, suddenly develops a condescending attitude to you, becomes secretive, hides her ''so-called friends'' from you is pure DANGER.

Have you asked yourself this pertinent question: ''what will you do today, if she tells you the truth?'' Sincerely, were she to open up to you today, how will you handle it? Continue to love her and hope that she changes one day? KMT!

Dude, wake up and smell the coffee! A woman who will love you, will give you her heart and not play poker cards with you.

Love is a delicate matter. I have seen it shattering a lot of people time and time again. She might ''love'' you, but the signs are there for you to see her philandering ways. When a woman reverts to online meet-up and exchanging numbers, flirting online and over the phone, she definitely has some low self esteem, relationship and security issues with her, mixed with an unsatiable desire for the long stick. Moreso, when she is fully aware that she has her own man. Take a walk out of this matter and get a breather. She is totally not worth the hassle you are giving yourself.

And again, the extent of time you dated her, does not matter here. Whether it was 3years, 3weeks, or 3days, a woman that will cheat, act snubbish, treat you like trash, ignore issues/discussions will still do it! If it is who she is, time will tell. In your case, count yourself lucky. . . . You are not yet married to her, jump out of this emotional torture. Even though, I can tell you, it ain't gonna be easy!

Only in America. How many gays searching for gays topics have you come across on this forum. We Nigerians love our women. Darn! We are even polygamous with it. So pluuzeee, give unto Sodom what belongs to Sodom.

I do not ever see myself going down on another bruva. Of all things! When I got cherries to pop up!

I cannot believe all these tribe nonsense is still dominant even in our times. Marry whomever your heart feels is the right man for you. Afterall, no family would be there to make your home for you.

@ OP,

Your topic is nauseating. Who cares who you knack and where? Pls grow-up.

So what if Nigeria was mentioned? Who cares? The Jos crisis is more than enough to know that Nigeria is a war zone.

Who has read James Patterson's novel: Cross Country?

Maybe you do know and understand the kind of perception, people view Nigeria with.

I dey on messenger. Lets jam wavelength there.

tkb417:
olowo; paddy mi to sure

whts gud?

Chiefo I dey oh!

Long time man. How you dey oh?

I thought the norm was that there are many fishes out there? If the guy is not yet ready and she cannot exercise patience with him, why not move on? These are the same set of ladies who later come back and state that she does not have sexual compatibility with her husband.

Rubbish.

@ Chika,

Try Eko Restaurant in Hackney for real! Not a big venue for a restaurant, but their local Nigerian dishes will surely kill you off. If you were a guy, I coulda said you should also parley with the Nigerian girl that serves the food. That babe fine die.

805 is cool, but they have poor service facility.