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RomanceRe: Is It Wrong To Spend A Lot On A Guy? by Pataki: 4:35am On Mar 09, 2010
@ ayettymama,
So you are an Imperial chic? shocked Your postcode would not be too hard to track then. grin See how Yankee babes are tripping for the same UK dudes you girls scorn here and there. grin Appreciate what you have and buy him gifts. tongue

@ Chika,
Hope you are enjoying yourself. Do not overblush with the accent thingy. Trust me, we know y'all like it. grin
RomanceRe: Is It Wrong To Spend A Lot On A Guy? by Pataki: 4:18am On Mar 09, 2010
ayettymama:
omg pataki

its a lie  shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked

ithe person is soudin like my friend

no worries

i dont want to no anymore

cos if it turns out to be she wont like the outcome
London is full of rich spoilt girls and I can tell you for a fact she is not your friend. grin

What outcome would that be Miss? Now you have to spill the beans to me. I am interested in this your postulation.
chika98:
This is not my first time here but the first time I am allowed to drool. Dem sabi dress plus that their accent! Jehova! embarassed grin cool
Now I get why my friends are always travelling down to America at every break they get from work. American women can trip for the British accent esp. in a black bruva.

Are you still around or you have gone back to the States?
RomanceRe: Is It Wrong To Spend A Lot On A Guy? by Pataki: 4:07am On Mar 09, 2010
Ayettymama,

What makes you think she is not even on this forum? grin Now if you tell me why you are intrigued in knowing who she is or she might possibly be, I might be ready to disclose who this babe is, and which club you could meet her and me crew this coming weekend. wink

But she is definitely in one of the two uni's first mentioned above. tongue
RomanceRe: Is It Wrong To Spend A Lot On A Guy? by Pataki: 3:56am On Mar 09, 2010
ayettymama:
Gooooood Forrrrbid

naa my sista will neva take £600 to the club!|!

we not that independant!! we still follow the boys small small

please please tell me what uni she goes

pls i beg u
Why do you so wish to know the id behind the person? grin Still follow small small boys? grin We will all get there one day abi? cheesy

Hmmm. . . . I cannot tell you on a plain forum like this. TMI!!!!
RomanceRe: Is It Wrong To Spend A Lot On A Guy? by Pataki: 3:45am On Mar 09, 2010
ayettymama:
jokes abeg

u neva answered my q's
this girl does she go to one of the top uni;s

or one of the yeye ones??
Are you trying to source her out? shocked grin Me mates and I, do not talk to yeye girls whatsoever. wink

She goes to a top Uni, lives in the West-endz of London in her own flat. Or is she your sister? tongue grin
RomanceRe: Is It Wrong To Spend A Lot On A Guy? by Pataki: 3:41am On Mar 09, 2010
ayettymama:
yes pataki u are bless cool cool
kiss
RomanceRe: Is It Wrong To Spend A Lot On A Guy? by Pataki: 3:35am On Mar 09, 2010
ayettymama:
let me tell u this

every woman- esp fashionable women like me

like to buy things for thier men

we all want to do it
watches lates silver cufflinks its something we love to do
but u have to wait for the right time to do it

ie when your married!!!!

theres nothing wrong with looking after your man

but not foolishly and not b4 your married!!

because

eni afe la mo, aoo meni to feni

u dont no what the guy is doin with u, u have no way of assesing whether hes using you, a responsible man should never take expensive things from u!!!

its not right!!- lets not get carried away by the proportion of broke men in london andbe sensible with our cash pls

recently someone inno got bumped out of £7000 thats not childs money

@poster u are not God u cannot be expert at judging character

be sensible with your money let the man lavish u! theres a reason for that custom!
I totally understand what you are saying ayettymama and I share your view. Which was why I stated in the beginning that I have my reservations about a woman spending too much on me. Of course I do expect her to. It is a show of appreciation from her heart that she truly cares and I matter to her. We guys love it as well. But the keyword is MODERATION.


If I see a latest fashion in store, and I like it for my sister or my woman, I buy it for them. I do not consider that buying her gifts is buying her love, nor do I consider she is doing likewise. I believe when we entertain that -ve thought too much, it begins to make a relationship faulty. Nevertheless, there are times she would demand for certain things, which as a guy you can still afford, but you outrightly refuse to buy it, so also a lady must know when to stamp her foot down and say NO to silly and unnecessary request from a guy to buy him things he fancies in a store.

Hope we are on the same page now? wink
RomanceRe: I Don’t Feel Like Sleeping With My New Husband! by Pataki: 3:23am On Mar 09, 2010
stillwater:
How do you want it? Debit, credit or cheques? cheesy
I prefer debit straight off. No hassles. Just direct transfer. grin

So have you heard from afar of the exploits of Lord Sauron? cheesy

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=406497.msg5654218#msg5654218 date=1268100966]I am a born again Christian o.[/quote]Then I must have been a born against Christian I reckon! cheesy
RomanceRe: Is It Wrong To Spend A Lot On A Guy? by Pataki: 3:18am On Mar 09, 2010
ayettymama:
THEN WHAT IS SHE DOIN THENhuh

chaaaaale ooo  shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked

she popped to england and started with the wrong crew!!

where did she meet your friend?? south east??

see what my relatives are doin wit thier money!!!

if i find her i go beat her well well!!
Now you are talking like a proper mama. grin Where in London are you from? East London? grin

It is not about mixing with the wrong crew. She found a man she loves and he loves her too. Even before he knew this was a lady with exceeding cash inflow.

So you are saying you cannot spend lavishly on a guy? embarassed cry
RomanceRe: I Don’t Feel Like Sleeping With My New Husband! by Pataki: 3:14am On Mar 09, 2010
[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=406497.msg5654189#msg5654189 date=1268100098]Okafor's 3rd law says the more you test the fitter you get.
Non-sexual activities is worse cos you get rusty, slow and unnecessarily anxious. grin[/quote]I trust you for that area! Your exploits speaks massively for you across the length and breadth of London. grin

chic2pimp:
Yes oooo grin
Imagine a woman listing sexual incompatibility as her reason for divorce?
That woman will chop heavy kondo that night! Or best still make I carry woman come house and blow the rooftop with serious moaning!

stillwater:
grin grin grin grin grin
I'm making this my signature. grin grin grin grin
Are you ready to pay subscription fees? grin cool
RomanceRe: Is It Wrong To Spend A Lot On A Guy? by Pataki: 3:06am On Mar 09, 2010
ayettymama:
some women are monkeys

in this case shes tryna buy his love

it wont work!!

cos he will dump her for the next chick who is dependant on him!!
She is not buying his love with money. She has the money, and she wants to spend it. What would you say of a woman who is into prostitution, earns her money and yet still spends the same money on another man she proclaims to love somewhere else? Is she buying the man's love with money?

I do not deny love cannot be bought with money esp. in our time. But it would be so wrong to conclude that whenever a lady spends lavishly on a guy, she is buying his love with money. Afterall, we guys also spend lavishly on you women! And furthermore this is a girl who enters a night club, and the least amount she has on her is at least 600quid, just simply as a  naija student here in the UK.
RomanceRe: I Don’t Feel Like Sleeping With My New Husband! by Pataki: 2:57am On Mar 09, 2010
[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=406497.msg5654156#msg5654156 date=1268099492]It all comes with the package.
I cannot for the life of me not test drive the commodity i will be living the rest of ma life with.

Communication is KEY but agility is a necessity.
Who needs a log of wood in his bed in this time n age? grin[/quote]Take it easy Lord Sauron. The living sexual terror of London. grin

By the time you are through with your test driving, would you not have lost this powerful agility of yours? grin No woman wants an expired and shrinked kondo. grin
RomanceRe: Is It Wrong To Spend A Lot On A Guy? by Pataki: 2:50am On Mar 09, 2010
I have my reservation about a girl spending on me. If she wants to, fine.

I have a friend here in the UK, that his girlfriend bought all his electronic gadgets for him. Right down to his i-phone, which got nicked off him, and she replaced it with a BB storm the second day.
RomanceRe: I Don’t Feel Like Sleeping With My New Husband! by Pataki: 2:45am On Mar 09, 2010
[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=406497.msg5654120#msg5654120 date=1268098794]How would you know for sure she's a virgin?
Ma policy is. . . . . .I must test drive(virgin or non virgin). . . .We are talking about a LIFE PARTNER here.
A man cannot afford to make any error.[/quote]Errors are bound to occur in marriages. It is never a bedrock of ''everything goes perfect.'' Every woman claims to be good in bed, Dang! any woman can even act good in bedmatics. But the reality is that she must be able to communicate what she wants sexually in bed.

Aside from test driving. . . . . which I reckon is just a surface indicator, I believe more in communication between partners as to what they want in bed.
RomanceRe: I Don’t Feel Like Sleeping With My New Husband! by Pataki: 2:37am On Mar 09, 2010
[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=406497.msg5654075#msg5654075 date=1268098204]No way!
Before i buy a car. . . . .I do a test drive.
Even in Selfridges, i go to the changing room to see if what i am paying for will look good on me.

How much more when one is choosing a LIFE PARTNER. . . .
No test, no marriage. grin
Thatz ma policy. wink[/quote]It is hurtful and shameful on a man if his wife declares she has no sexual compatibility with him right after marriage. Personally for me, I ''may not'' test drive her if she still happens to be a virgin, but I do make sure that all my sexual fantasies are what she wants to drive her mad in bed. She has to give me in clear terms what bedmatic skills she possesses and she is bringing on board to drag out the sexual beast in me.  grin
RomanceRe: I Don’t Feel Like Sleeping With My New Husband! by Pataki: 2:32am On Mar 09, 2010
[quote author=mama-gee link=topic=406497.msg5654070#msg5654070 date=1268098134]I have just realized I have been wasting my time on a sleek
Next![/quote]You think I am in the league of those you spit your balderdash and regurgitated internet invectives on?

Sleek? grin . . . . I will spare you tonight. cheesy
RomanceRe: I Don’t Feel Like Sleeping With My New Husband! by Pataki: 2:27am On Mar 09, 2010
[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=406497.msg5654045#msg5654045 date=1268097540]They were following the NO S[i]E[/i]X BEFORE MARRIAGE policy. grin cheesy[/quote]hahahaha! Is that your own policy too? grin

[quote author=mama-gee link=topic=406497.msg5654059#msg5654059 date=1268097924]It implies you need help, simple![/quote]Your mates are busy with their rabbit. Go and play.

mama-goat.
RomanceRe: I Don’t Feel Like Sleeping With My New Husband! by Pataki: 2:24am On Mar 09, 2010
[quote author=mama-gee link=topic=406497.msg5654039#msg5654039 date=1268097470]I recommend you go see a psychiatrist as soon as possible. . .
What kind of person detests marriage? huh huh
I know of people who choose to be single for the rest of their lives
not detesting it like the way you do. . .[/quote]At the expense of not wanting to sound pedantic or irritatingly annoying, I suggest you tape your gob! Or what kind of manner-less and rude goats roam this forum these days? What does seeing a psychiatrist imply? undecided

Succinctly you depict that grammar comprehension is beyond you. Or where did I state I detest marriage? I said I dread marriage. Go and consult your lexicon before you type any response to me henceforth.

Rubbish.
RomanceRe: I Don’t Feel Like Sleeping With My New Husband! by Pataki: 2:14am On Mar 09, 2010
[quote author=mama-gee link=topic=406497.msg5654009#msg5654009 date=1268096729]You dread marriage? shocked shocked[/quote]Why enter into something that will cause you agony, pain and sorrow all your life? Not with the kinda girls that roam the street of marriage seeking these days.

A man does not show love to his wife. . . . . trouble.

A man shows love to his wife. . . . she is not sexually attracted to him. KMT.
RomanceRe: I Don’t Feel Like Sleeping With My New Husband! by Pataki: 2:03am On Mar 09, 2010
This is at times part of the reason I dread marriage. It is not just worth it. Was there no sexual compatibility before marriage?

Rubbish.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Nairalanders In The UK: Let's Meetup! by Pataki: 1:45am On Mar 09, 2010
Nothing concrete on ground? undecided
CrimeRe: Pictures From Jos Massacre (viewers Discretion Advised) by Pataki: 1:03am On Mar 09, 2010
Ibime:
Goodmorning Pataki!
Good morning Sir. Ibime! How are you doing? Hope you enjoying this terrible cold in the month of March. grin
PoliticsRe: No Intending Corp Member Posted To Jos? by Pataki: 1:00am On Mar 09, 2010
This singular act displayed by NYSC is more than enough to tell any rational and sensible human being that NYSC should be scrapped. It is totally worthless and useless. The sole purpose of NYSC has been defeated if fresh graduates cannot be posted to any state in Nigeria without fear of lives to occur.

A lot of things are wrong in Nigeria.
CrimeRe: Pictures From Jos Massacre (viewers Discretion Advised) by Pataki: 12:54am On Mar 09, 2010
lannre:
Education forms the major obstacle to those who kill in the name of Religion.
Really? So Osama was uneducated? What is the pristine definition to education that so much makes difference to killing in the name of religion?

@ topic,
It is time the nation called Nigeria separates. I have never believed in that, but now and evermore, I hold firmly to that dogma.
PoliticsRe: Jonathan Removes National Security Adviser Sarki Mukhtar With Immediate Effect. by Pataki: 12:32am On Mar 09, 2010
Gusau himself in my opinion is no better. Jonathan surely can think of something more productive and better than what he has done.
RomanceRe: Is It Proper? by Pataki: 12:29am On Mar 09, 2010
mcnikes:
Am a corper serving in Benue. There's this girl in my class. She's damn pretty and good mannered. I sure feel something for her but don't know if I should let her know. Anytime I talk with her the way she calls me "Sir" makes me feel like its wrong to ask her out. I know its unethical and improper for a teacher to date his student but am deeply in love with her. Will it be proper to tell her how I feel about her?
Yes it is proper, if all conditions are right. Has she come of age for a relationship? Do you think if she goes into a relationship now, will it affect her studies? So many things you have to ask yourself. But nothing stops you from spitting your thoughts to a woman. The worst you do hear is a NO. If that comes up, move on.
TV/MoviesRe: Genevieve Hosts "Gulder Ultimate Search Celebrity Showdown" by Pataki: 1:08am On Mar 03, 2010
I hope there would be live streaming of this show. If Gulder Ultimate Show does not have a proposal/plan for live streaming, can I drop a proposal to handle this aspect of project for them? My charge rate is affordable and reasonable.

Would have loved if a comedian was amongst them such as Ali Baba. Now we would get to see the pot bellied, gulder gulping celebrities we have in Nigeria.

Nice one.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Nairalanders In The UK: Let's Meetup! by Pataki: 10:05pm On Mar 01, 2010
Lol.
@ Chamotex,

House parties! Chai, those were back in my days in the Netherlands. Happy birthday in advance. Or have you got a house party outlined for your birthday? With all other benefits to go alongside? cheesy

These days I am not much into naija joints such as the Basketmouth thingy. Me friend was like, we should go when they had started selling tickets for 70quid. Told him, if it ain't VIP ticket, count me out.

@ arkinses,
Abeg tell Nike make she no vex oh. My eyes don dey shut down small small. . . .lol
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Nairalanders In The UK: Let's Meetup! by Pataki: 9:35pm On Mar 01, 2010
@ chamotex,

Forming big boy ke? Why go out on a night and spend below 50quid? When it is not Leicester, Birmingham, Leeds, Sheffield etc kinda places. Lol.

I was not in Coko bar over the weekend. Had so many other activities on my mind for last weekend. You going for the PSquare thingy in Troxy? That hall is too small for them to use, hence I am not going.

@ topic,
I am in support of bowling/arcade games/pool with a few drinks and snacks. Afterwards, we hit the club, declare a VIP section, and party hard! As for clubs to hang out, I sincerely prefer Tamangang in Mayfair.

@ Ayettymama,
I be man, no be woman oh. You seem to be the only woman here interested in this meet-up. Where are all the ladies? tongue
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Ok now it's time by Pataki: 5:05am On Mar 01, 2010
@ tubabie,

Why are you stealing/copying my siggy?

@ topic,

Ol' boi, you are on a long thing.

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