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Still deliberating on this matter? Hurry up in time joor. Still, I think 50quid is too small.

And I don't fancy south, east or north london joints. Strictly central or west endz. So who is taking up the mantle of responsibility to organizing this event? Ayettymama and Kenny G??

Nairaland and its crazy theatrics. Can't stop laughing with the clusters of expletives entrenched solely in this thread inclusive of the moderators.

Carry on, surely, a lot of your egos here are seriously being massaged.

Reporting a thread is silly as I once stated on this forum. If anyone feels they are tongue blessed with insults for others who have a contrary opinion to theirs, then, they have something else coming their way.

Not everyone swings with the 'Report to Moderator' button. I for one, hate that button seriously.

Anyways, can't be bothered. I just breeze in and out these days on the forum.

The OP must be so dangerously daft! How do these bunch of dysfunctional nit-wits get a grasp over the internet?

Which president in his right state of mind would come into his own country under the cover of darkness after over 3months of absence? Following the BBC voice interview stunt, I have personally entrusted myself not to believe whatever bullshit Yar'Adua tries to pull up. How sure are we that Yar'Adua has landed back into the country? Nigerians should be wary of the seriatim of bollocks the Yar'Adua family can pull up just to continue decieving Nigerians.

Looking for a British or US citizen? Whereabout are you @ OP?

What have you got to offer in return? S:E:X?

Absolute rubbish!

I remember back in my days in Nigeria, one of my ex had issues with paying for her own private accomodation in Uni. I was financially capable of paying her house rent for the whole year. Aside my regular spending on her monthly, I decided to pay half of her housing accomodation for a flat and told her to source out the remainder. Two weeks after that, she ended our relationship. It sure did hurt me, but I never thought of the financial involvement to the relationship.

Till tomorrow, she respects the fact that I never ever fail to give when I have to give. A relationship should never be defined by how much you contribute to your partner financially. If true love prevails, money would never be an issue to bother about, more especially, if you are blessed with resources to make the money. Nevertheless, one should know how to be prudent even in a relationship. It all boils down to balancing IMO.

The un-employed are still on the streets looking for employment. Now we have the so-called employed ones joining the queue. It is such a repulsive shame, and to add to that, we have an uncaring Government.

Na like this e go dey dey??

Interesting points raised by respondents to this topic. Varying from BAT (Best Available Technology) for efficient energy production to Privatisation of the power industry. This topic was once a matter that was severely discussed here on this forum.

In adding my bit, I think Jonathan does not have a clue what he wants to do. 6000Megawatts is all a matter of appealing to the public that he is aware but no definitive solution in sight. First and foremost, he should tackle corruption. Until that is effectively curbed, sorry to say, he is just wasting his time and that of NIGERIANS.

Truly and sincerely, I have no seed of forgiveness for such a woman. Immediately I know, I expect her to be aware that our marriage ends there instantly. I also expect the same reaction from her if she were to be in my shoes.

@ OP,

He is gone. When a man makes up his mind emotionally, it is a done deal. No amount of begging can bring him back. Even if you beg him to return and he does return, his heart is far away from you. A true relationship is based on utmost truth. I am sure you would not like it if he had done likewise to you.

Sorry but you need to move on.

LOL @ trojan virus.

No nairaland antivirus program can flush away that radical nuisance in person of Becommrich or whatever usernames he uses now.

Without any reservoir of apology, this is rather an idiotic question to ask.

@ OP,

Wow! That was surely a write-up burning right up from your soul. I faintly remember the thread you are talking about which has instigated this thread/topic you passionately drafted with extensive verbiage.

Stereotype is wrong. Unfortunately, we all have to live with it. I wish it never exists, but it does. While you might have been angry with the postings on that thread, kindly note that on this forum, not everything stated here should be taken seriously. More importantly, there are some posters who just derive joy in seeing others (posters) emotionally aggravated by their own nonsensical posts.

I strongly encourage you to skimp/gloss over posts that make no meaning to you. Enjoy your stay here on the forum. Otherwise, every other day, you do be having series of verbiage entwined with expletives to address to some set of forumites on this board.

B.T.W, I reckon this thread should be in the culture section or sumfin.

chamotex:
It's Tunde Ednut's Bday bash tonight at Paradigm bar so there should be enough chikitos there.

Oh you mean NL girls? You are on a looooooooong thing on that one o
Nl babes just talk the talk but never actually walk the walk

I no dey do, ''mo gbo - mo branch'' system. He has to specially put me and me mates on his guest lists.

I think I am already on a guest list for a club tonight. As for NL babes, oh boy, I know dem be loooonnnnng thing oh! LOL

My weekend starts from Thursday. So I sometimes lose track of days.

Which clubs are the girls here hanging out tonight?

chamotex:
I thought Coko bar was only on Saturday nites . . . .

LOL! My bad. . . . keep thinking today is Sat.

r231:
^^^^its too cold LOL

Nah brov! See the sun out there. The more reason we need to hang out. Why burn your heaters all night long when you can get all da heat in da club?

Who is hanging out tonight? Coko bar or West Endz?

Such a disgrace. Of all things, scamming nit-wits are at it again. We keep parading disgraceful leaders, spend time whining about them across the globe, yet some average Nigerians sit down to look for means to scam others across the globe as well.

When would all these madness end?

This is serious. Who is this man?

@ Ohsisi,

I know you do want to protect your gender. I just finished having a chat with a female friend of mine somewhere in Eastern Europe. She was telling me about her heartaches involving two men. When I stated women are confused, I know what I am saying.

She has been dating this Igbo dude for over a year now. The guy remains the most sincere and loving guy she has ever dated. Two months ago, the guy traveled to Nigeria. Around last year, my female friend met this dude from Germany, who knew she was in a relationship, but kept professing love to her. She remained true to the Igbo man. Until recently, she developed strong feelings for this Germany resident guy. He comes visiting her somewhere in Europe some days back, called her and told her his location. Informed her to take a taxi and meet him at his hotel. My friend obeyed. She got to the hotel, expecting that they would shag for the whole night.

The germany dude, simply gave her a hug and went to sleep with her beside him throughout the whole night. My female friend got annoyed and asked the dude, why did you ask me to come and see you tonight? He replied her with a question: ''what is it that you want tonight?'' She said, SEX! The guy replied her, ''I want love''. Now my female friend is madly in love with this germany guy, wants to break up the relationship with her Igbo bf, who is still in naija. She is already in a state of mental depression.

Tell me, why should a man not play up with deception with women? Do women deserve the best of qualities in a man, and when they do get it, why are they so foolish to throw it all away.

You can give all the emotional radars and sensors a woman should look for in a serious man, but the truth is that, most women can never be satisfied with what they have in their respective men.

Enough said.

@ davidylan,

You are so right. And any relationship based on flattery, lies and deception cannot stand the test of time. More reason why I do not pity women when they come with their whinging cries about heartbreaks.

There must have been something a lady has done or shown to a guy for a guy to cook-up lies just in order to sway you off your feet at first. When would ladies start accepting a guy for what he is rather than who is he?

@ Ohsisi,

What do you mean by ladies don't know my middle and last names ehn? LOL. Abeg oh, I am not one of those randy pot bellied dudes, looking for cheap and available girls. Every woman I have ever dated respects one thing about me; I am as straight forward as it can be. I do not mince words, and I tell you as it is.

Unfortunately, the women of our times rather prefer excessive sweet tongues and silly flattery mixed with the vanities of this world.

For the true women out there that desire the good qualities in a man, I only have one thing to state: remain true to yourself. We men surely know what we want. Trying to give us a mixed variation of you, surely makes matters worse for all parties involved.

Sauron is born again? Definitely, you don dey eye one babe for church be that! Bad boy!!

Don't you know the more women my mum meets, the more likely she is to get confused, even if I take on board the spiritual and praying side of her. Women naturally are more easily confused than we men.

I rather take my time and separate the wheat from the chaff single handedly. Afterall, the good books says: he who finds a wife. . . .not they who find. This is one journey Pataki must do on his own! LOL.

@ davidylan,

You are so so wrong. Nothing is wrong in introducing ur woman to your mum. Even if you guys are on the same page, it is still not a surety that you are hitting the marriage altar because you have shown her to your mother.

The times we live in, has changed beyond the simplicities of the 70s and 80s which our parents got married in with.

@ Sauron,

Your intel is very very sharp! LOL! My mum was in Nigeria some weeks back, and this babe kept on insisting she had to meet her. Told her no way, as she was in Nigeria for something else.

Am not ready to give my mum any heartaches about my women palava. Even though she is insisting on knowing if Pataki is getting married this year. Of which I told her most def. So any girl meeting me mum is hitting the altar straight off!

How many babes has your mum met so far? LOL! Sauron the London terror!

For me, I cannot marry a woman who gulps alcohol no matter the amount. Previous experiences has shown me that such women are not deem for marriage in my books. I can date and befriend them, hit the clubs together. But marriage? Hell NO!

Some of the points stated here are very true. Others are based on both parties involved.

I remember I once introduced an ex of mine to my parents, stating it openly that she was the one I intended to settle down with. My mum accepted her, even though my mother never knew she was good friends with my ex gf's mum.

Anyways, not long after that, she ended the relationship based on some childish reasons. These days, no showing you to momma, until we are both on the same page for surety!

@ OP,

Good luck as you continue ''braking'' hearts. One day one day, your brake go jam. Hope it does not end in your destruction. We have all been there, and done that.

Hopefully, one day some Nigerian nit-wits will get a functioning brain. No hope in sight yet, sadly though.

Of all things to buy - Chocolate?

Don't know what it implies, but I ain't ready to add extra sugar into my life. I do not come cheap please.

I would talk on general terms here as it is rather difficult to say in specifics how the couples involved in this matter should handle their problems, given that we are not privy to their whole story.

First off, a woman should learn one thing. Never ever boss your husband more esp. with house chores! No right thinking egocentric man wants a woman who uses ''excuses'' to start ordering him around the house or even outside the home. Such a man would snap instantly.

That said, a man is empowered to accept responsibility and take it on full force. I am not the type who thinks some house chores are only meant for a woman. Fine if she excels at it, but it does not mean, a woman is defined with specific house chores, more importantly when she is carrying our baby, through which I am the one who banged her joyfully!

It is only a useless, senseless and heartless man that does not help his wife out with house chores in moments of difficulties. Doing house chores does not lessen you as a man, neither does it promote your manhood. It only brings peace and harmony to the home.

What is the rationale behind this topic being on the front page? Is it to showcase our Nigerian beautiful women or to actually show the sarcasm undertones in respect to the pictures posted? I am a bit uncomfortable with posting other peoples pictures on websites without their lucid permission to do so. I would totally hate it, if it was a friend or any of my family members pictures that the OP posted here to be sarcastically referred to as 'beautiful'.

Each to his own I reckon.