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tkb417:
wa sere paddy mi

where u don dey since

oya pick your val sharp sharp

My guy, been damn busy this past few weeks man! But nothing do me sha. Wetin be scores with baybbootz? You get updates on her postcode?

Brb in about 3-4 hrs time.

@ ladybird,

Are you 1977? I need me a val too!

baybbootz is 19?

na wa for this forum.

@ topic,

Whatever floats your boat. As much as I come across fine single chics in my church whichever Sunday I am opportuned to be in church, I do not wish to be involved with any.

Buncha hypocritical tools claiming to be serving God. I rather meet a chic on a level playing ground, than a bird showing the religious card to make an impression.

All these yahoo yahoo boys sef. . . . . .

Unfortunately, most women never know when they are ready for marriage not until the pressures of life and womanhood come staring them in the face.

In the face of the inevitable, best couples go their ways. So yes, surely DIVORCE can be the best option out.

This does not make any meaning whatsoever. It is just up to a month that the list came out, yet the US is thinking of a review. There must be more to this than it meets the eye.

Only on nairaland.com. . . . . .lol

@ Olugirl,
I don't know where you have been hanging to find out Nigerian men here in London, but the reality is that there are genuine honest Nigerians out there.

While you consider what your parents would say and feel about you marrying a white, the ultimate truth is that your joy in marriage is the most important. You strike me as a decent lady, and all you have to do is exercise patience and search rightfully. But then again, it does not have to a Nigerian man you must marry.

I could actually connect you with single blokes here in London who are downright sincere, and they keep convincing me to stay on the path of sanity with Nigerian women. . . .otherwise, I have lost faith in Nigerian sistas here in da UK.

Yall have a reputation that is really not too good to write home about.

All the best lil sis.

@ OMO IBO,
We have never agreed on anything. But there is always the first time right?

Anyways stay cool mate.

@ Sauron,
Tpia ke? That is equivalent to, doing a manicure and pedicure for a lion. There are some women, one should steer clear of.

I was gonna f@ck one naija chic when I saw your signature, ''Sauron wuz hia''. I immediately told myself, no more naija babes oh,

@ Sauron,

Learning from you has improved my lot innit?? Chai, my phone is already on fire for this my message.

I have stopped playing now. Pataki is single and seriously searching. I must marry this year!

@ tkb417,

Sorry I don't f@ck UK naija chics oh. Am more into other African women these days. Even in da clubs, naija chics are still a NO-NO for me. You need to leave that your Lagos and come try out these African women here esp. Zimbabeweans. Those women are blessed with bakassi! And they love Nigerian men koboko! Naija chics can go hoard their thingy.

Are there no more intelligent posters and respondents on this board??

What a daft thread.

So I reckon you are a black Jew. What in specific do you wish to know 'romantically' about Yoruba men?

@ madlady (what a queer name),

I hold no offence. How far back in the day are you talking about? Of what input does it add, knowing about the Jews culture or the German culture, except I happen to be doing it for academic or a special ''vested interest''. As I earlier submitted, knowledge in this area is often at times, highlighted on the negatives than the positives.

You are yet to disclose your culture which I asked earlier. Prolly I may have a vested interest in your culture anyways. . . .lol

Sweet mother. . . .I no go forget you, for this suffer wey you suffer for me. . . .

Sorry about the great loss. Time is surely a healer. Make sure you are around friends and family at the moment. . . .who can walk you through these moments of sadness.

Make your mum proud, as you are proud of her at the moment. May God enlarge your heart to accept this great loss and be greater than your mum. Take heart my dear.

@ madlady,
You are very right. But these days, if you do not have a vested interest in someone else's culture, why bother to learn it, even if it is intriguing? Permit me to ask, what nation or culture are you from?

While trying to understand a Yoruba man, or any man from any other tribe or nation, it will be totally wrong, to stereotype any gender based on their culture. As often the case, the ills of a culture stick to the brain faster than the good, which often times makes one to think more of the negatives than the positives to any human being. I think everyone should be noted for who they are not based on their culture.

No. Everytime I have slept with a woman, they all have this wicked way of waking one up at he dead of the night. . . . .all for no reason whatsoever!

The way this romance board is filled with Nigerian men . . . .this and that, seems we are demi-gods.

@ Poster,
The key to a good relationship is communication, which should be effective and proper. A yoruba man loves a lady who is spontaneous and does not wait to be told what to do, while at the same time respects and values his man and his opinions.

Was going to respond to the topic, not until I saw how the thread was churning out.

@ Ndeewonu,
If all what she said is true. . . .my guy waka fast!

@ chemali,

I feel your pains. However, I have questions to ask of you. What is the definition of a good girl? Do you mean to tell me that you ladies are not easily influenced in Europe by the lack of morality and respect for relationships as seen in nearly everyday lives here?

If you ladies keep complaining there are no good Nigerian men out there, was that the case before you left Nigeria? Certainly, the influence of your environment must have played a factor to changes you suddenly expect from a Nigerian man in Europe or the UK.

@ BrownJay,

Some of your points are a tad ludicrous. ''She should check on her bf at 3am, yet still stay away from sex with him for 6months''. What does a lady want in a guys house at 3am in da morning? Is she now a patrol officer?

@ topic,
Whatever floats your boat. The underlying point here is that: it necessarily does not have to be a Nigerian man you marry. As for me, naija UK birds. . . . .are a NO-NO. Totally not worth it!

Still the tribalism madness rages on amongst our youth. Which way Nigeria?

[quote author=Paroh_frey link=topic=371719.msg5189131#msg5189131 date=1261839360]The shoe Bomber, Richard Reid an alleged al Qaeda-Trained Terrorist is British - 'Shoe bomber' Richard Reid was convicted for trying to blow up a jetliner flying Paris to Miami in 2001, with plastic explosives concealed in his shoes. He is serving a life sentence in a Colorado prison. He is British - white and stuff- that doesnt mean the whole world labels the whole of Britain as terrorists and neither was he fighting a course for britain- so, why are gullible Nigerians already sealing their own fate just because this one Nigerian has done this? Why are you seeing yourself differently already?[/quote]Your argument does not hold water. America has far more ties to the British than it would ever have with Nigeria or Nigerians.

Please even Yaradull should be investigated. No little wonder he would prefer to jet off to Saudi when the UN meeting was on, only to be attending the opening of a University there.

Sometimes I weep for my country. I think it is time we separated, and everyone finds their square root.

Lagosboy:
Now listen

The boys act is terrorist  and i have in no way condoned the act so please do not imply what i have never said.

What is father's link that is the question i am begging for an answer.

If a father supports his son like everyother parents does , what has he done wrong.

The boy lived in the basement flat in a massion where some other rich UCL students probably lived so what?

How can you on eart say women dont have a say in nother homes, now that is simply tribalist statement , little wonder why Turai Yaradua is holding Nigeria to Ransom.

You tried to link the jaiz islamic bank with this act which i brought to you attention and you have never thought to withdraw it.


Please think again my old pal

I will catch you later anyway as i am out of here

What is the father's link to the story you ask? How does a 23yr old boy have links to Yemen? Where did he get it from? Keep in mind that his own father is married to a Yemenese woman. In Yemen, the main lingua franca is Arabic. So I assume he is versed in Arabic language - comprising of writing, understanding and speaking.

Nothing wrong with a father giving his son good support in all aspect of his life. True. But when he (the son) holds an extremist view, and yet the same father still keeps on sponsoring him for travels across the globe, does that speak well of the father?

Living in the basement of a 4million pounds rented apartment? And yet you make it sound as if he is living in a garage or warehouse store in Abule Egba. Please you live in the UK, you know even a basement with that high amount and value has all the basic furnishings other apartments in that building has.

Do not tell me that women in Islam have a say in their homes especially in Northern Nigeria! That would be totally ridiculous to read from you. The fther has never for once come out to say he renounced his son as a father, so it is only logical to deduce that he was responsible for whatever expenses the son might be engaging in with. Allow reason and logical deductions to flow in our conversation here please.

It would be very very foolish of the US to decide that they would place embargo on the amount of visas issued to Nigerians because of this incident. Not to say that measures should not be in place to checkmate future occurences, but if this problem has to be tackled, it is going right down to the root of it.

A ''Jack Bauer'' kinda mission does not always solve this problem of terrorism. Not does an embargo on visas being issued resolve this monster of terrorism.

mbulela:
in my view, this is an isolated case.
the average nigerian loves his life too much to go into sucide bombing.
it is not in our make up.

What constitutes an ''average Nigerian''? Someone who is ready to kill his fellow being (rituals) for money? Or a Boko Haram trained useless being is an ''average Nigerian''? Or a MEND fundamentalist is an ''average Nigerian''?

Lagosboy:
Listen dude, the guy last lived in that house 2 yrs ago in london. Stop heaping blames on the boys father for goodness sake .

How come no western nation has towed this line of yours.

How many parents can control their children in everything. How do you know the boy doesnt have his own source of income. How do you know his mother had not been supporting him financilly. How man mother can reject their sons no matter what they do. Please be real and stop living in an idealist world.

First you tried to link the islamic bank to this and now solely link his father, common buddie.

I know you are obtuse when it comes to logical reasoning especially bothering on Islam and actions taken by Islamic extremist across the globe.

1) Is the father oblivious to the extremist views/actions of his son?

2) Is the father oblivious to the source of wealth at his son's disposal?

3) Within the Northern/Islamic tribe, does a woman have a say in the home?

4) What source of income is available to a 23yr old boy who is studying in UCL? Assuming he had that amount of money as a source of income personally, why attempt to blow himself up?

Would even Osama with the amount of money available to him decide to blow himself up today? NO.

He would rather prefer to recruit and train others to do the dirty job. Please engage yourself in some analytical reasoning here. You are hopelessly being flawed in all arguments you bring up here, from firecracks to effects of fireworks in a plane, to what constitutes an act of terrorism, now this one?

ode remo:
@ Pataki , can you pls tell us what this older muthalab could have done differently, all am reading is assumption, are you saying with facts that most of this boy activities could not be funded elsewhere. ?

Even Osama's son came out publicly to declare that he was not in support of his father's extremist view as a muslim.

The older Muttalab knew what his son was into, knew of his lavish way of living and traveling, assuming the he was being funded elsewhere and kept mute on it. And furthermore, who would fund a boy with so much wealth, without a vested interest in him? Al-Queda? I laugh in rhetorics.