₦airaland Forum

ThoniaSlim:
Haba Mr Pataki. . .what justice are we talking of here? do you expect her to keep wasting her time with this confused being and listening to his whacked up excuses. . .while better guys pass her by? don't think so.

You are quite right my dear Thonia. But then again, could it not possibly be that, the lady forced her emotions on the dude, hence leading to his confusion? Nevertheless, my advice for the poster, is to move on. There are better guys out there. No point sitting on the seat of confusion with a confused dude.

teissys:
@ Post:
Commanding wife material. I am also capable of beating my hubby to stupor if he "misbehaves" I am also the best in the kitchen. I cry so easily too. I wouldn't think twice about suing a hubby who "looks" at my kids in a suggesting manner

This has got to be a joke!

@ Poster,

If you could pay for her flat as stated by you, I do not see why you cannot afford to sponsor an adult education for her.

Even your spelling of illiterate as the topic headliner is wrong. Should I assume you are uneducated and living in the UK? Never judge a book by its cover.

The poster is back at it again.

Facebook? It is not all about romance. I use it to keep in touch with all my friends and friend of friends, esp. those I have not seen for over ten years and above now. Lovely seeing what they have grown into, where they are and what they are doing. If romance comes by the sideways, sure, we rock it on! And did romance come along? Only my facebook profile can say.

So Mr. Poster, next time, get your facts right.

agabaI23:
Emotions are not under anyones control.

The man in question is not hr brother or father

It is easy to cast aspersion when the shoe is on the other leg.

Am I supporting her? NO, but what most people here cursing her have done may not be printable.

I first of all blame the guy that was making advances at her wives sister.

Now to you the poster. I hope you did not give him the reason to look lustfully at you.
Why did you not pack and go when you could not bear the advances? That was the honourable thing to do.
You can still make amends by packing and leaving that house.

Talk to a someone he respects who can talk sense into him so that he will not come after you.
Love or lust is geographical. Your sister does not desreve this, does she?
Now throw away that your love theory. I think it is lust.

Love or lust is geographical? What in the world does that mean?

What is wrong is outrightly wrong! Please stop all this political correctness of posts sweeping across every thread as it is fast becoming the trend on nairaland. The poster is foolish and let the hard truth be spewed. What does it take a woman to leave the house for the man before her emotions begin to soar. Is she in denial of someone else proclaiming love to her outside her own sister's husband? These are the same kind of women who throw-up the ''I am hard to get'' label when a good dude approaches them.

Stupidity is stupidity. The poster in question should be given a mental health assessment to find out whether she is really sane.

@ tumfubu,

Go and self-service yourself.

Dumbo.

What a bore.

Ibime:
Guy, forget that chick. No long thing. I don't need to remind you that she has most probably given up the cookie to your sponsor's brother. Abeg have some pride in yourself. The girl sounds like a knucklehead. Free her.

Very true.

So are you?

patwhizkid:
What if u've gat what it takes & he is not interested? How do u make him get interest in u?

Then you are threading on a dangerous wavelength. If a guy never has any natural interest in you at first, even if you make him have, it can never last. He simply sees it as, you forcing yourself on him.

bamboke:
My heart is hard after having some bad relationships.

Told myself I won't love until after marriage. Then you know the guy is there and there is no going back.

Right now, I want to get married and wait for the good man who will convince me that it alright to love again.

All I see are they who are still looking for jobs, and I dont have time as my friend.

Will I eventually have a good man after been hurt?

I was once good and still believe I am but care less now.

Marriage is not by force. No one is forcing or begging you to get married. Stay celibate if you so wish to. You are looking for a ready made man, who already has a job? That is your definition of a good man? Absolute twaddle.

Bleep it! This is so silly. Some women can be utterly stupid sometimes I have come to conclude.

Love here, love there. Yet it is causing more chaos and confusion around the whole place.

Arrant nonsense.

londonbwoi:
How do would you describe love and how do you know you really love someone and it is not infatuation. I'm 17 and this is something thats been on my mind for a while, as i just realised that all the times i felt i was in love it was just infatuation. And do you think it is possible to fall in love when you're a teenager. I dont think so cuz of my experiences

The society you live in, looks on you with the eye of a growing adult. Nothing stops you from finding love right from your teenage years, however I do advice that you give yourself some time before you dabble into feelings for any woman.

patwhizkid:
Oya, more posts needed plz. I want 2 knw how 2 lure a guy into asking u out.

Really? If you have got what he desires, he will come after you.

ThoniaSlim:
Good riddance to confused rubbish. . .guilty about what? he's confused and so you did the right thing by leaving him to deal with his confused brain and moving on with your life.

Ouch! That hurts! Temper justice with mercy please.

Women and wahala.

Wahala with their hair under the oven for hours; wahala with their manicure and pedicure; wahala with what they can wear and what they cannot wear; wahala with their periods, now this one again??

Those shoes are in no way any comfort whatsoever.

Siena:
Not sure why you guys can't follow simple instruction.

An automobile only needs to have a minimum of 2 wheels, and angine and transmission to fit in this section.
Does the subject of your post / link qualify?

You are coming back into your elements real time! Heard your gist oh!!!

Congrats.

It is a crazy world, and it is getting crazier by the second.

And yet again Debra scales the hurdle. That girl surely has a nasty tongue.

$1 Billion loan from World Bank to fight malaria? What kind of a useless and hopeless government is this? No wonder the World Bank projects poverty escalation in the country.

The religion board is dead. Not that I even believe in 'religion' though.

I suggest, the administrator creates a child board for atheists and friends of atheists. It is totally nauseating having to have read something edifying from the religion board only to click on the next thread and it totally disgusts you.

I am tired of all these endless cases that bring out nothing in the end.

Yes you can. There are still loads of trustworthy and faithful women in Nigeria. And there are tonnes of she-devils as well.

biina:
never been a fan of love across the seas

Why is that? We all have our preferences though.

klassyguy:
Mr Pataki, so u dey fear for ur Mrs moonstone pataki right?

When I have the 'kokomycin' what is she looking for in koko mansion? Her own don finish be that!

Moonstone:
What da heck? Give me a convertible and I'll sit down. I want to be D'Banj's kokolet for a year with a brand new shiny convertible and then I get to meet the rest of Mo' Hits crew.  :DDon't mind him o! Give me money, he won't give - now he's shouting up and down. Lemme catch him.

Just go there! I know how to deal with you! Your own will be worse than Rihanna's naked pictures that were exposed on the internet. I would immediately post our sexcapades on AIT and Silverbird. Let me see whether you will still get that ordinary N5million promised you.

Mschewwwwwwwwwww

Omo, this your story na something else oh. Never hope and pray to be in your shoes. I cannot stomach such. Never born to endure such anyways. Some girls are just outrightly not worth it at all!

God forbid.