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Ournaija:
I met a girl online lately, we have been calling and texting each other. My girl has been misbehaving like someone who took kaikai and otapiapia (local gin and local insectiside). I and the new girl agreed to meet some weeks back but she never showed up. When I comfronted her about this ,she was like "I dont know if you will like what you will see". I tried to encourage her to come atleast for me to see her and moreso that I al ready like her person.

On May day she called to tell me that she is in a nearby eatery that I should come over. I met an ugly lady sitting alone in the eatery and I said to myself that it cant be her. I called her number again to know where she was. Lo and behold she was the babe that I have been fantasizing about.I managed to sit near her to talk with her. Whenever I crack a joke and she smiles, It looks like she is crying.I couldn`t bear it  because she was not what I expected. . That was when I said to myself, no wonder she has always decline my request of sending her pictures to my mail box. In the eatery I was looking for an open space to make a quick exit but couldnt find any

I managed to stay with her till she was done with her pie and coke. I saw her off to the b/stop and raised my hands to the sky in appreciation to God for saving me out of the babes hand. I was asking myself many questions like "what if she has asked to know where I stay", "what if she has decided to stay back" What if and if,
I have never tried dating online but with this I almost got my finger burnt. This is my experience. Will never blind date again. The babe wowo no be small and she come fat join

Chai! See how you yab this babe finish. You vex oh! But guy you sef no try at all. Coke and pie on your first blind date, she come take enter okada dey go her house? You wicked no be small thing at all!!!!

I think there is a thread for those born in June though.

Anyways, so whats is the matter with those born in June? I was born in June though, and I met another of my twins on nairaland born on the same day, month and year as mine. In total, we are triplets so far that I have as friends born on the same day, month and year. One as well bears the same name as mine, and we lived as neighbors for years, later became enemies because of a girl back then, but we are friends now

What day of June were you born in?

@ temi,

So what do you watch now? I watched LOST in Abuja in 2007. And I told myself never again would I sit down to watch this nonsense.

I would stick to my 24, Prison Break or Hero.

Your bad sentence construction makes it highly difficult for me to understand what exactly your delima dilemma is all about. When you state you are in a dilemma: It simply implies, you are faced with two or more undesirable alternatives. That I have failed to see in your topic.

@ Poster,

How old are you? Even your name marks an idiotic representation to your topic.

I do not like that series in any bit. Too bland for my taste and preference.

Profehsaw:
I think not!!!!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KJ9kqlRVGgc

Good!

There are far better dudes who play saxophone with their mouth in Nigeria than the nonsense he did in Glasgow.

Wow! What a story you have got up there. Where did you go wrong? Several places! Is this the first time you would be dating? You were so foolishly in love. One thing I am however glad for in respect to you, is that, you have not allowed this experience to make you as a bitter person. Rather you are looking ahead to brighter things.

That girl is a first class harlot. You never dated a wife material but a prostitute. And it is so annoying that she could manipulate you at whatever time she wanted, all with a simple apology! Please stop it! A woman who repeatedly cheats on you, is not worth the drama, she has repeatedly insulted, and lied to you. Yet you stayed through. How pathetic.

Move on with your life bro. She is not worth the shoes you are wearing. She is simply a dog, and thank goodness that you are not married to her. A failed relationship is far better than a failed marriage!

All the best.

Some women are naturally born to be mumu all in the name of love!

Keep living with him until you are six feet under the ground!

@ maray,
Is that you in your profile? Nice!

I do not believe your story in any way.

Personally I cannot stand loud guys. It irritates me deeply, and I never fail to show my expressions to whomever concerned. Even a fool when he holds his mouth at times is counted as a wise man.

IyaKadijat:
Polygamy is non-existent. It was a term coined to grant men as many sexual partners as humanly possible while letting the woman remain stagnant with one man for the rest of her life.

I'm cool with polygamy-if I get to have more than one husband too! Hubba, hubba!  

This lady is mad hilarious. What it do you? Which guy would tolerate sharing you with another man as his wife huh? For women? Some women like it that way.

Sadly to say this, in the present generation we live in, it is fast becoming a myth. So true, but so sad.

Within my inner circle of male friends, yes we do talk and approve of one another's girlfriend or wife. If she truly wants to relate to me, she has to be ''acceptable'' to my friends as well.

This is the height of insanity. A reality show to give a girl 5million naira, a ring, and become his Bleep mate for one year? And the stupid thing is that, some useless girls will still run for it.

Episode 19 is out? I am off to watch it now!

6)If everyone at CTU listened to Jack Bauer, it wouldn't be 24, it would be 12.

That above was so funny to me. I have been watching 24 for a while now. And I am truly scared, this might just be the end for Jack Bauer. He is suffering from dementia and seriously affecting his concentration to finding Tony. One twist to the story could be that coming from Chloe O'Brian. As Tony may use all details he has on her such as her family (husband and child) to inhibit Chloe from helping Jack to finding him.

I patiently watch as the story keeps on evolving though.

I am as well wondering where she is also. I miss her truly throughly.

This is a matter of relativity. It has worked for some in times past, while it has not worked for others. That said, these cases should not be used as a scare tactics for ladies. Although some ladies can be arrogant and condescending when it comes to guys asking them out. Whether it boosts their self esteem/ego I simply cannot phantom.

Personally for me any lady who feels she wants to delay beyond necessary, I simply move on. No point in giving undue attention when I still intend to shower her all my attention. If she feels I am worth the wait for no genuine reason, I move on.

I think a wake-up call that should be messaged out from these kind of stories for either sex is that; what you have to do, do it quick. Time indeed waits for no one! And time is no respecter of persons in anyway.

What the bloody hell?

I hate this 'modify button'! It should be removed please!

Your decision is already made. Nothing else to say.

Sometimes I do not know what a woman wants. As sometimes too, a woman does not know what I want. We are all complex beings.

Before my itchy fingers type any form of diatribe to your circumstance, let me forcefully say, I AM OUT OF THIS THREAD. Obviously, you are a recusant being who foolishly wants to self destruct. All the best.

Good day.

eina:
theres definitely nothing wrong with a relationship of 10 years age gap. thats simply your own thought.

Your own thought! I am not ready to entertain it. Try again another time.

This is the problem with you. Your loving her is based on feelings. It is not based on a principle of 'surety'. Which however is still wrong, based on the fact that she is now married and so are you too.

If every woman out there who is emotionally unstable calls you up 50 times a day, are you willing to give them all your emotions? Are you ready to 'feel' that you are in love with them all? From the way you have presented this case, it seems to me that when it comes to emotions, you are a weakling, and you do not know how to make a stand as a man, furthermore, you do not know when and how to decipher what is wrong and right.

Don't you get it? You and this emotionally distressed lady have nothing in common again! Let her respect her marriage and you respect yours!

You are not ready to accept the blame in this wrong relationship, but you are more than willing to sit in this wrong relationship. You truly are a wicked man, and you do not love her at all! If you love her, you would let her go!

Is she the first and only woman you have ever helped and you fell in love with? What makes this particular woman so special that you fell in love with her?

Are you saying you are married? Did she not know you were married in the first place?

You are a wicked man because you played on her emotions. You led her on, while you were married and she was not, you know she is now married, but still consented to keep the relationship on! Over what? Simply because you ''helped'' her some months back.

Let her go, and dude you move on too. She is not yours and you are not hers. Move on with your life man!

You are without any doubts, a wicked man. You reason with your emotions rather than with your head. A relationship with a minimum of 10 years difference in age is a NO-NO for me. Not to even dabble into the fact she is now married. You are thriving on the fact she was once emotionally unstable and you were there for her. . . . . and since then you feel the relationship should blossom. Who is owning who here? She does not owe you any emotional feelings and best you let her go.

She is married and she has moved on. At your age, I do expect you do be married rather than toy on the emotions of a woman who is now married (no matter the circumstances leading to her marriage).

Some women are utterly foolish as well. Marriage into two months and she does not like the dude. And you do not respect the sanctity of marriage. What a senseless generation we are in.

@ Poster,

Your having to die slowly is a voluntary one. The situation is still redeemable only by you. No amount of help crying can save you, except you save yourself. Stop entertaining this guy and fix your emotions elsewhere.

No point in typing words upon words when you are in possession of the truth needed in respect to your case.

From the right to the left: Ugly, Uglier, Ugliest (Obj).

End of!

@ Poster,

Sorry your good heart and intentions are playing hard on you in respect to your situation. I took the pains to read your verbiage, and my advice would be that, you get NG to speak with UC. If possible arrange a meeting with the two girls while you are there and let NG herself explain the matter to UC.

On the alternative, a close family member discussion could also help out in resolving this dispute. If UC is suggesting it, you could also work around it and see how it goes.

Cheers.