Education › Re: My Teaching Experience As A Corper/pyschologist In A Public And Private School. by patani(m): 9:21am On Jan 05, 2021 |
Oyerinde16: make reading a culture... learn sir Improve on your writting skill...I wanted to read it but the way you wrote it made it more difficult to read...Just an honest feedback.... |
Islam › Re: Ruling On Muslims Congratulating One Another On The Occasion Of The Gregorian NY by patani(m): 12:59pm On Jan 04, 2021 |
Aegerine: Shut up there!
We don't embrace your madness in Islam. Muslims have no business with you. Maybe you should direct your frustrations to your brethren in the Pauline religion, atheist and others. That may not necessarily do away with the possibilities of few trolling muslims. But on a larger percentage, we don't have your time.
Go back to school for proper education to be able to differentiate between criticisms and insults. And if you can actually do, then you have lived up to the expectations of a Nigerian Christian hypocrites. You really adjudged what you re doing are as a criticism? You are an half baked whatever you are if you see it that way.
Lastly, my service is to Allah not to Muhammad. We don't worship a human being in Islam. That is the common trait between you and other idol worshippers Argument in futility....Keep being delusional...Idol worshipers ...hahahaha i laugh in swahili..Continue your intolerance in the name of Alah..who himself is an Idol no 1 in arabia ...I cease to argue with you... |
Islam › Re: Ruling On Muslims Congratulating One Another On The Occasion Of The Gregorian NY by patani(m): 12:39pm On Jan 04, 2021 |
Aegerine: Hypocrite mofo..
Who said you came to Islam because of miracle? Were you not the one who confessed to be juggling up and down aimlessly before finally settling for a human worshipping religion.
You started foaming up and down about your god miracles and still claiming that the god can defend himself. Why don't go isolate yourself on one of your mountain and call on him to come and wipe out Muslims and Islam since he is a type that can defend himself.
See how foolish you calling Muslims intorelant while you have clearly shown the pseudo tolerance that your religion preach.
You Nigerian christians are the world dumbest and most foolish and finest hypocrites you see? go to Chrstian topic on this forum and see critisicm...No one cares.. Simple analogy, go and check all the front page prophesy topic on NL home page that was shreded to thier root by even chrsitians themselves.any chritisim on Islam give you guys headache ......FYI...Christian God is not intrested in wiping out muslim...you guys are too insecure to understand that....I am sure you are seeing this ur argument with me a s service to you toddler sex encouraging god Alah...who turned the hearth of his sunbejct mohamend to snatch his adopted sons wife...keep deciving yourself |
Islam › Re: Ruling On Muslims Congratulating One Another On The Occasion Of The Gregorian NY by patani(m): 12:15pm On Jan 04, 2021 |
Aegerine: No wonder... You have been crisscrossing from one religion to another just like your politicians cross from APC to PDP and then back again to APC in order to steal your votes. It tells a lot about you though. I won't be be surprised if I later hear that you are no longer a human worshipper, but tree instead.
As for the miracles that you lay claimed to about Jesus, that is the truth anyway and we are aware. However, miracles were exclusive to Jesus alone. All prophets before and the one after him (Whom you so much hate all performed miracles).
What do you have to say about the splitting of the red sea by Moses, and the transformations of his staff to serpent?
Would you rather consider in any less significance the stay of Jonah in the belly of the Whale, in the depth of the sea under the darkness of the night? If you think it is no miracle, can any of your present day god of men whom you call men of god survive that?
Abraham came of a raging fire unscathed.
And many more.. Mind you, all these miracles were not their own doings, but a proof their God of the universe to confirm them as his Prophets to their respective nations
On the last Prophet, he performed many miracles as well. We don't dwell much on them as Muslims because our greatest miracle is the Qur'an. A book which has remained undistorted and shall ever be till the last day in which there is found no inconsistencies. Even with your all viles against Islam, you are still unsuccessful at tampering with the Qur'an. Can we say that about the many edited versions of your book. Well, we are 2021 edition very soon.
Few of the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) given miracles if you must know include, splitting of the moon, His journey to heaven, movement of trees at his command, Many prophesies which later came to pass, His spat into a dry well causing it to overflow with water, many healing sessions of ailing people by touch of his hands and many more too numerous to mention.
So Mr man,miracle is not a thing of your god alone.
Lastly, see your hypocrisy at best. You quoted Qur'an 43 verse 61 in a seemingly attempt at using that content to validate Christianity. Of course, we have been reliably informed about the second coming of Jesus, his mission and everything surrounding it by Allah and his Prophet. We don't need any pastor or Christian fanatic to feed us.
I am only surprised at your subsuming hypocrisy and perfected cunniness which is a hallmark of your invented religion about your inability to Proceed to Verses 62, 63, and 64 of the same chapter which obviously nailed the coffin of your Christianity
Abi how can you believe in chapter 61 and disbelief in 62, 63 & 64. Does your common sense support that forgery? I dare you to quote those three verses here for all the world to see Why are you like this?? Where in my post did I mention I was crossing to Islam cos of miracle..?..I wanted the truth about God of Universe and i saw that Islam is a straight route to Hell and I turned back FYI Secondly, I will not validate Christianity using your Quran, its a bunch of lie compilation full of violence that was never denounced....Yes, bible also contain violence, but the covenant of the cross established a new regime that require no violence...We believe Moses was a prophet and no body denounced him..even David was a prophet, Elijah, Elisha etc...so get your fact right And why do you guys too violent when they criticizing your religion? This is because you are protecting a lie...The truth does not need to be defended...Christianity has been under criticism for ages and still standing today...woh...continue fighting for your Alah who can not fight for himself......I wnt answer you again |
Family › Re: FCMB MD, Adam Nuru In Sex Scandal - Business Live by patani(op): 9:17am On Jan 03, 2021 |
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Family › Re: FCMB MD, Adam Nuru In Sex Scandal - Business Live by patani(op): 4:34pm On Jan 02, 2021 |
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Islam › Re: Ruling On Muslims Congratulating One Another On The Occasion Of The Gregorian NY by patani(m): 9:42pm On Jan 01, 2021 |
kutashi: You're are praying I should be confused like you! Jumping around! Moving from Best to worst! Aosubillahi! Alhamdulillahi that you quoted that part of Qur'an about Issa (A. S) the son of Mariam, but if I quoted another part now that says those who die not as Muslim will enter hell fire, will you agree? You won't based on your confused antecedent!
You agreed with what suit you while you called other part lies! That's why I'm a Muslim! I the light to your darkness, the right as opposed to your wrong turn! I believed Issa is a prophet and he is son of Mariam!
Are you aware you lied before you were permitted to comment in this Islamic section? Are you a liar or you're following religious of lies?
This your act alone call for a deep thinking about your personality! About who you were! About who you are! About who you want to be and what to be remembered for! Just like it is permitted to lie to promote the cause of Islam..or yu are not aware f that too.? Anyways like I said go n read n familiarize ur self with Quran.. U will understand better |
Islam › Re: Ruling On Muslims Congratulating One Another On The Occasion Of The Gregorian NY by patani(m): 8:47pm On Jan 01, 2021 |
[quote author=kutashi post=97624275][/quote]hahahahaha...ure a potential terrorist bro...U travel around the world? welldone... I wont say anything less ur small brain think im braging.. and humility is what Chris preached
Just so you know, Mohamed is in hell, he denied Christ as a savior which he initially accepted. He even told you in the Quran that Jesus is coming back second time to judge the world...Only for him to change and start inciting violence against everyone
And (Jesus) shall be a Sign (for the coming of) the Hour (of Judgment): therefore have no doubt about the (Hour), but follow ye Me: this is a Straight Way. Q43:61
...religion intolerance is his nature...And he is the purest of all human and you should follow him by emulating everything he did, including marrying a girl at 6y and sleeping with her at 8/9yrs, sponsor or participate in jihad wich is fighting the course of alah...
For the cross you are talking about, without the death and resurrection of chrsit...Chrsitianity will only be like islam(And yes, he was killed like a comon thief, you know why? He himself bore our pain like common man and that's the spiritual aspect you failed to understand as Islamist ..without cross, Christianity lacks power and will be a bunch of cultist gathering...Islam is cult and it lacks spiritual aspect. Just like Mohamed could not do a single miracle when he was alive...Jesus, raised the dead, he healed the sick, and preached love and there is a spirit aspect of him which is the holy spirit...I pray your eyes open one day dude....
FYI...I was once a Christian, converted to Muslim and I am back to what makes sense...I pray u realise one day) |
Islam › Re: Ruling On Muslims Congratulating One Another On The Occasion Of The Gregorian NY by patani(m): 7:04pm On Jan 01, 2021 |
kutashi: Oh My Lord of all Universe! I can't believe there are still some animal on internet!
And you had shown your Christian tendencies! An hypocrite bigot with a sticky perpetual stinking confused and directionless brain!
A fool of the century! Simple issue, you turn it to religious focus! What happened to your life? Who did you this?
You are lost and sick! I don't need to ask and let me give you your dose!
You a confused religion and I don't expect you to be alright! You're asking me to read Quran but I can't ask you to read Bible because I don't know which version you are using, KJV, ESV, Old Testament, New Testament.... I can't twenty! I repeat twenty like that! And you never sleep and wake up and have deep thinking about how you have been wasting your life and your time dancing and singing and reading from 'Paul quotes' you called Bible. A person that didn't follow your Jesus in his lifetime now compile a book you called Bible! What a mess! Dotnt be emotional... Answer me like someone who understand the demon he is worshiping |
Islam › Re: Ruling On Muslims Congratulating One Another On The Occasion Of The Gregorian NY by patani(m): 5:01pm On Jan 01, 2021 |
kutashi: Even your great grandfather came from cave and that's not a news! You can know better than Allah (GOD) himself!
Islam is govern and guided by rules on everything! I repeat, everything! Even to shit! It's not like any other religion that you will wake up and say, let's add this because things are changing (that's 10 commandment started increasing and decreasing)
What ever thing you do or use in Islam must be within the fold of Islam. Lots of examples on that around you!
Introduction of Sharia in Northern states is the reason for insecurity. Get your fact accurately! Insecurity in the north is purely as a result of POLITICs and bad governance! Boko Haram was used to settle political score and it snow balled into complete chaos! In fact, summary execution of their leader was solely carried for cover up and mouth sealing!
The same thing happened in Zamfara! Bandit was used to settle political score and later gone beyond control! Despite the hype shit in the southern media, I drove alone to Zamfara and got around 11:30pm.
Those kids you see around is as a result of money they are making and some are not even in Nigeria. Do you know they speak Hausa in C.A.R. and many West African countries. I got to know and saw this in Kano at Refugee office You av started showing your Islamic tendencies... Stop being overzealous n violent (imole, a religion that turns u hard. As described by yorubas).. That's why u kill n maim at the slightest oppotunity in Northern Nigeria, turned a beatiful country of Afghanistan into shambles by Islamic laws through AL qedas before American finished the job for u.. The only people that understand ur violent language are the Hindus of India... They gave it to you back in you own language.. Thesame approached used by Christians in Kaduna which has worked perfectly before u guys adopted banditry... The only language u understand is violence as preached by your 8year old pussy lover Mohamed.. Who convulsed n foamed from his mouth time to time n even spoke that he didn't know, Wat the angels would do to him when he dies, either throw him into hell fire... Just go back n read ur quoran before talking... Do research emotions can't win war on the internet... It can only work on the street of kano |
Islam › Re: Ruling On Muslims Congratulating One Another On The Occasion Of The Gregorian NY by patani(m): 4:52pm On Jan 01, 2021 |
Sheriman: You say what said based on your ignorance and unestablished fact Same response I get from all of you. Ranting with emotions... A guy came back backing up his response with scriptures I'm still busy with new year celebrations n sleep to read n respond... U too go read ur Quran n stop being emotional... Few of u read quoram to understand at all... If u do understand quoran u will understand ure paying with fire.. N uve been handed a dangerous religion by ur parents |
Family › Re: Help!!! My Dad Still Smoking Weed In His Old Age!!! by patani(m): 4:48pm On Jan 01, 2021 |
Emperormartin: Compliments of the season to all nairalanders...
Please I noticed a disturbing scenario playing in my house as I came back for xmas... My 67yr old dad use to smoke weed (Igbo) in our sitting room.
When we were younger, he use to smoke outside and occasionally smokes around the house especially late in the night or in the wee hours.
As a matter of fact I'm 30yrs and I have another younger brother who's 27yrs then my sister who's the youngest. But Non of us smoke weed or have toed in his line... My mother has tried in that aspect not to raise us like that!!!
I brought this issue here because I need help on how to make my aging dad DESIST from that lifestyle... It breaks my heart seeing him popping smoke like that and it's degrading when we have visitors in the house... And secondly I'm wary of his health!!!
Pls help a Brother!!! Does he disturb anyone after smoking it? Leave the old man... Weed has its medicinal benefits when used with good nutrition... Far better than tobacco |
Islam › Re: Ruling On Muslims Congratulating One Another On The Occasion Of The Gregorian NY by patani(m): 4:45pm On Jan 01, 2021 |
Sheriman: You're a mad dog that is barking unnecessarily!! All what you said are absolutely rubbish Stop being violent, this is internet space... Disprove wat I said stop being emotional |
Islam › Re: Ruling On Muslims Congratulating One Another On The Occasion Of The Gregorian NY by patani(m): 3:06pm On Jan 01, 2021 |
Drwinz: That's exactly the foolish comments I said you all have in your brains. Read and nourish your brain with pure knowledge of one's religion not carrying contaminated infos. Are they no men in the East and West marrying underage. How can you focus on one religion because you're not part of that religion.
Besides the rate of crime against humanity these days cut across all regions in Nigeria and all over the world but you people just hate your forefathers thinking it is Islam you hate and choose to attribute every bad things to Islam and give yourself credit for every good happening.
I don't have your time coz u typed what you don't know anything about Disprove all I have said with Quran n dont ignore... Leave humanity, we are talking about religion |
Family › Re: FCMB MD, Adam Nuru In Sex Scandal - Business Live by patani(op): 12:45pm On Jan 01, 2021 |
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Family › Re: FCMB MD, Adam Nuru In Sex Scandal - Business Live by patani(op): 12:11pm On Jan 01, 2021 |
Fiscus105: Pain you to ur bone marrow, you want us to know u finally relocated to outside after being completely frustrated back home
Remember my advice to think more than how u think now, if you plan to bring something back home, cos u re too daft After being frustrated? Hhahaah... I laugh in swahaili..I won't talk less your small brain will fail to understand... You can continue abusing your power sleeping with cleaners n powerless people while defending thesame... N Come on nairaland to caste buhari n PDP not knowing ure worse... Ogbeni ja danu � |
Family › Re: FCMB MD, Adam Nuru In Sex Scandal - Business Live by patani(op): 11:57am On Jan 01, 2021 |
Fiscus105: Oga professor problem abounds everywhere, even whre you are doing menial job in foreign land. Your foolishness did not allow you to think outside box, I mentioned popular example for you, yet u still adamant to correction, I pray you won't come as you went If you continue reason like subhuman. Provided........... Go n sit down... Ure displaying your stupidity on public forum n resort to calling professor.. Open mouth wah like person wey get brain problem when corrected... Is that not subhuman attitude? You apparently have reasoning problem that's why u came here to defend animalistic behavior... Dindinrin.. Stop mentioning me before t*hunder fire ur pattetic animalitic* sorry a*ss |
Family › Re: FCMB MD, Adam Nuru In Sex Scandal - Business Live by patani(op): 11:42am On Jan 01, 2021 |
Fiscus105: If you say so, I insist your reason is highly myopic, sleeping married women is in every industry, go to civil service, go to university, go to military and paramiltary, go to film industry and end it in church /mosque
Go and do comprehensive findings before you reply me You know my problem with you?.. You dont read to understand... Maybe you got half education as BSc (Nigerian problem again) .. I was busy talking about Nigerian society being pervert you changed it to industry, specific discussion... I cited nigerian bank industry as a tipical example you are deviating from point... I cease to answer you.. It's obvious you are one of those practicing such shameful thing... #Asinwin |
Family › Re: FCMB MD, Adam Nuru In Sex Scandal - Business Live by patani(op): 11:27am On Jan 01, 2021 |
Fiscus105: Is only in Nigeria that men disturb married women? I think you are the one who his intellect Is myopic
Have you heard about Ryan giggs, a Welsh man who bedded his own younger brother wife for several years?
Woman married or single will be disturbed by men, irrespective of country, tribe or religion, her upbringing will tell her accept or reject Wats the percentage? Av you worked in a Nigerian bank to understand wat I'm saying? The way you are defending this shows you are one of them... Sick cun*t.. |
Family › Re: FCMB MD, Adam Nuru In Sex Scandal - Business Live by patani(op): 11:12am On Jan 01, 2021 |
NOETHNICITY: It is fooools like you who end up like thomos here. I know a lot of people living abroad whose wives Bleep around. Just yesterday another close friend was expressing regret taking his wife to the UK as both of them are already on the verge of separation It's not a Nigerian thing bro Because ur wife is nolonger telling you everything about her social life while you are away doesn't mean nothing is happening
Be wise man Can you see thesame Nigerian attitude in you?... Quoting me without abuse is too hard for you... It shows aw intellectually myopic you are.... N if u av comprehensive ability you will realize I didnt say people don't cheat abroad... I only said it takes people in marriage to decide they want to do it... Not someone presurizing a married person... I see pervert men in Lagos traffic winking at married women with bold ring on thier finger in traffic...Nigerians hardly accepts there is something wrong with us as a society. Even allow ur wife to mingle with Nigerians abroad they do thesame thing... I leave u to reason n come back with more intelligent statement |
Islam › Re: Ruling On Muslims Congratulating One Another On The Occasion Of The Gregorian NY by patani(m): 10:01am On Jan 01, 2021 |
Drwinz: Why I hate Christians is the fact that they talk foolishly and senselessly when it comes to religious education.
All that comes to their mind from their Bible into their heads whenever they are ask to explain contextually about religion is insult.
Foolish people didn't know that Muslim must not use the Gregorian calendar for as much as he/she knows how to correlate with the Islamic calendar.
You should ask yourself how they know the day of Ramadan, Eid adha and fitr. Same way he can monitor his birthday, day to collect salary and the rest through Islamic calendar.
You people should learn more about religion not shouting whenever your pastor says miracle is coming.
Useless fellas How are you sure people abusing your religion here are christians....But to be honest, some things call for explanation in Islam... You hate chrsitians cos they abuse your religion, but you guys kill anyone at a simple mention of Mohamed ...You kill those who even convert from being a muslim...You are permitted to beat your women...You encourage people to blow themselves up in the name of Allah...You are commanded to marry a 8year old girl(Emulating Mohammed)...Thesame Mohamed commanded his men to rape women after a war...Thesame mohamed had issue with convulsion and being possesed by evil spirits (according to quoran) and could not heal himself...Thesame Mohamed even said he doesnt know if he will go to hell or heaven and you still follow him.....All these in your Quran and i can give you the verses if you want.... I am sure you will come back to me with curses and abuse cos that's what your religion teaches and encoraged but you say you hate christians for it...You will even make attempt to shoot me if you know where i stay...But trust me you cant do any of these... |
Christianity Etc › Re: Do Muslims Truly Understand Islam Or Read Quran by patani(op): 9:05am On Jan 01, 2021 |
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Family › Re: FCMB MD, Adam Nuru In Sex Scandal - Business Live by patani(op): 8:08am On Jan 01, 2021 |
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Family › Re: FCMB MD, Adam Nuru In Sex Scandal - Business Live by patani(op): 9:24pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
bukatyne: Who has the primary responsibility of respecting a marriage?
An outsider who has no stake or the couple who built it from scratch?
Are you alleging there is no adultery in other countries? There are adulterous people abroad but it usually takes the person comitting the adultery going all out to do it... Not some boss knowing they are married n still making pass at them or making thier promotion depend on sleeping with them... Like u said it's ur responsibility to prevent adultery in ur marriage.... However, other people put additional pressure on married people in Nigeria... I can't count aw many times idiots wink at married women while driving in traffic |
Family › Re: FCMB MD, Adam Nuru In Sex Scandal - Business Live by patani(op): 9:15pm On Dec 31, 2020*. Modified: 1:28pm On Jan 01, 2021 |
bukatyne: I know how things are done in Nigerian banks.
My question: what is the MD's new offence? We know he had an affair with Mrs. Thomas which birthed two kids.
Did he kill Mr. Thomas? Was he the one who took vows of faithfulness with the deceased?
The MD is the side dude in the case and I do not blame the side chics/dudes. Do you belive in respecting people's marriage? |
Family › Re: FCMB MD, Adam Nuru In Sex Scandal - Business Live by patani(op): 9:06pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
Lalasticla Mynd4.. Move this to the front page to gather the signing |
Family › Re: FCMB MD, Adam Nuru In Sex Scandal - Business Live by patani(op): 9:03pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
bukatyne: While Mr. Thomas's exit is very sad, I fail to see why FCMB's MD should be dragged.
Was he the one who gave late Mr. Thomas the impression that the kids are his?
P.S.: the kids really look like the MD You honestly don't know how things are done in Nigerian banks... That's why you are saying this |
Family › FCMB MD, Adam Nuru In Sex Scandal - Business Live by patani(op): 8:50pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
There are strong indications that controversial banker and Managing Director of First City Monument Bank (FCMB), Adam Nuru, will soon be swimming in the pool of sex scandal rocking the internet.
This is because, Business Live gathered a group identified as JUSTICE FOR TUNDE THOMAS has launched a petition on change.org calling on the Central Bank of Nigeria (CBN) to sanction the banker over what they described as indecent behaviour.
Recall, the bank’s chief was accused of laundering N573 million for Ibrahim Magu, suspended chairman of the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission (EFCC). An allegation the FCMB later denied, stressing that the transaction was done in error.
As the sex story was narrated, it was alleged that the banker was responsible for Tunde Thomas’ marriage breakdown that eventually led to Tunde’s death few days back.
The story as posted on the website read: “Tunde Thomas died recently like about a week or two from depression. Apparently, kids from his marriage to Moyo Thomas belongs to wife’s boss (Adam Nuru, the current MD of FCMB). Moyo Thomas left Tunde to go to America with the kids, she told him kids were not his when she got to America. He (Tunde) was later down with stroke but recovered.
Apparently, Tunde met someone else he was going to remarry but apparently didn’t recover from the first Marriage issues. Tunde was just made director for the MFB he works for. Got back from work last week and had a cardiac arrest 2 days before introduction to pregnant new girlfriend.
This is a case of gross misconduct based on ethical grounds and an unjustifiable economic oppression by the elites (Adam Nuru) against the less privileged in the society. The MD has been doing everything possible to sweep this case under the carpet. We implore the Central Bank of Nigeria as the apex regulator and the board of FCMB to investigate this for the integrity of the bank and Nigerian banking industry. This is a case too many , while I agree that this is not the full story , the minimum will be an investigation into this unethical conduct by the current MD of FCMB Bank Adam Nuru” https://www.change.org/p/godwin-emefiele-compel-the-cbn-board-of-fcmb-to-dismiss-adam-nuru-on-ethical-grounds-marriage-scandal Source: https://businesslive.ng/2020/12/31/controversial-fcmb-md-adam-nuru-in-sex-scandal/amp/
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Politics › Re: El-Rufai Demolishes Asher Hotel In Kaduna Over Proposed Sex Party by patani(m): 6:55pm On Dec 31, 2020 |
Arrewa: Elrufai Mai Rusau!!
Northern Nigeria is not ripe for open immorality!!
Why would teenagers be organizing sex parties??
If you want to bang.... We have alot of brothels in Kaduna.
Not that things don't happen here... Even here in kano things do happen on a coded level.
If you are into sex... You'll get coded brothels to quench your taste.
If you are into beer we still gat coded places for that.
We don't openly endorse immorality...
We are doing all these to contain social vices...
We are doing these for the morality of our society.
Time will come when things would be done open.
But for now... We say no!!
It requires alot of human development to allow humans into open sexual desires.
We are still dealing with our populations and our Almajiri issues gotten from these same sex freaks!
Right now we are more concern with development... Both in human and infrastructural development.
God bless Arewa!! Hypocrisy of the highest level... Humans are dying left right and center... Education is only accessible by few citizens in the north... All u guys are bothered about is sex... Sometimes I wonder Wats running tru u islamsts minds |
Politics › Re: FG May Exceed ₦7.89 Trillion 2021 Revenue Target As Oil Prices Soars by patani(m): 7:29am On Dec 31, 2020 |
phransix2: We hear all these news daily. How FG is cashing out, Nigerian Economy top in Africa, Nigerian Stock Exchange number 1 in the world, Best Performing Stock Market and so on... The problem is translate all these to benefit the common man... Hunger in the land is rising by the day yet we claim our economy is doing well? Someone explain all these to me Biko GDP is a scam introduced by IMF n d likes to keep the poor in the shadow... America has so many poor people but thier GDP is portrayed a s the biggest in the world... The truth is, human index in Nigeria is the poorest in Africa among anglophone countries... |
Romance › Re: Kemi Olunloyo: I Have Never Been Married At 56 Because I Won't Submit To A Man by patani(m): 12:37pm On Dec 30, 2020 |
Lightangel65: I am proud of her, I don't know why people rush into a bondage called marriage if you need kids get Belle or have a baby mama and flex your life. Marriage would stop me from chasing all my peverted dreams  Keep deceiving yourself until you end up a lonely 70 year old man |
Family › Re: Must I Fall In Love Before I Marry? by patani(m): 7:39pm On Dec 29, 2020 |
Aileexa1: I dont believe in love before marriage because we humans tend to have a flawed perception about love. Let me just say physical attraction. That's is what I will call the love we claim to feel. Now, it is a matter of decision. A decision you might not be able to do. If you are not physically attracted to a woman strongly before you get married to her (as you are in this case), you would have to make the decision to love her. Yes, I said make the decision to love her. Love here is a conscious effort. To love her is to accept her despite her flaws and trying to make her a better person. And it is quite hard to do this for someone you aren't attracted to. On the other hand, what if its when you get into the marriage that you see someone who you have great attraction for?? Humans like sweeter things and love as it is isn't always sweet but attraction is. Why? Because love stays when all things fall but attractions falls when problem stays.
Ask yourself this question. Why do you want to get married? Do you want to fulfil a societal obligation or because you want to start a family or because you want to build love in it's purest form.
May God help you. May God increase your wisdom... Few women know this |