987uhgr:
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tuscani:
Nigga, you are wrong too, it is almost impossible to find any, you have to take one and mould her to your taste. These women are very tricky and stubborn these days, expecially when you want to be nice

Sorry bro, you CANNOT mould any. Except you want to take her from the cradle (pre-school or early childhood). Once they are adults, their characters have been formed and you can do NOTHING to change them. Forcing them to change will compel them to fight back at you and that is often the reason for many of these marital wahalas around. It's like forcing a round peg into a square hole or trying to remould cement after it has solidified.

Lloydfolarin:
Sissy men getting married these days

You ll see all these single-mum raised mumu saying women should be treated like their lives depend on these women. This is what you get when you are stupidly and mumuly raised...

There are millions of ladies out there, if one is disrespecting you, push her out with alacrity and get the one that ll cherish the ground you walk.

Women don't add anything to your life and bank account but decrease your Account balance. So what is her purpose in your life? To bear children and companion i guess. However, the companion you seek is causing you more pains and agony.

Since you already have two children with such devilish woman, take the children for DNA either forcefully or beatingly. Once you r sure of their paternity, take the next action.

Every woman has element of madness in her but it takes a strong man to chase the madness away unless you r one of the luckiest dude who find a wonderful lady. And that one lady in 200 ladies.

The moment you portray yourself as mumu, you ll forever remain mumu in the marriage. Make it clear to any lady that if she mess up, you don't give a fuckkk.

Did I just read 1 in 200. Bros, you are behind time. You need updated knowledge! The statistics have changed. It's currently 1 in 2000 for our generation!

coolcatty:



Things like this happens to slow calm people.... This kind of problem will see men like us and pass us by.... The wahala will avoid insane gra gra people like us and go to trouble sane calm guys..... It's sad.

For the woman to disobey court summons twice shows the kind of person she is... She like trouble pass food.

The man should just take a walk... Abandon the kids too and go and start afresh... The woman is not worth all the stress.... His kids will look for his in future... His major concern now is to get his sanity back.

Bless you my broda. You've said it all. Many of them are NOT just worth the stress.

cybriz82:
i love bbw even duh i be lepa...problem b say d heat wey dey base under those pawpaw..no b here..truth b told many of them too lazy for bed..

you've said it all.

And when they snore, you'll think someone left a noisy power generator on overnight. very loud noisy snore. sweat & body odor no be here o!

greatmarshall:
okay could it be the same psychological reason his p*nis is shrinking?

Lol! you guys are very funny.

FYI, the pen!le shaft doesn't shrink. However, shaft increase in size might stop after a certain age (just like your bones stop elongating after a certain age). In his case, he's prolly adding more weight with age. Weight gain (which doesn't necessarily translate to considerable or equivalent increase in shaft size) will apparently appear like shrinking p!nis.

Op, hope you are not obese, you don't have belly fat (if you do, try loose some through sit-up exercises). Reduce fatty foods which can build up cholesterol - cause high BP - & reduce blood flow to pinile vessels - csn erectile dysfunction. take fruits, plenty water, vegetables, cut down on stress

sorry bro.

But I really think you guys haven't lost enough yet to BET9js or whatever they call themselves. If you have lost so much...I mean EXTREMELY EXTREMELY much, and suffered severe hardship consequent upon your extreme losses, you wouldn't need all these interventions to quit. You'll flee when next you see a betting logo.

OP, I can assure you, it's purely psychological. You are prolly always in a rush. take your time, exercise a lot more. If symptoms persist, reply my PM.
N.B: I'm a medic & don't subscribe to herbs as efficacy of most of them is yet proven.

Bambela:
Your advice is evil and against morality. this is family and there is no roof without leakage. Though you sound strong, I know you can not take such decision in your family. Such seed in family is too bad because it will affects generations upon generations. refrain from such advice.

You obviously haven't been following the OP's posts. He has tried every peaceful means to reconcile issues with this sister of his to no avail. there is a saying that those who make peaceful change impossible, make violent change inevitable. If you are pushed to the wall as a man, you cannot drill a hole through the wall. You just have to fight back.

OP should man up and face her. After which they can reconcile amicably if she agrees. If she still continues, then so be it. Wetin man go do na.

greatmarshall:
The babes wey you dey see physical you no talk to them Na for nairaland you wan come find wife... Bros, try get sense

Never under-estimate the power of social media. he has just expressed himself. It might just work for him. Let the guy be. Oya, babes over to you all that are seeking. call the number.

Dude, I recollect this story and I'm shocked you are still at daggers drawn with this troublesome sister of yours.

My advise: NEVER succumb to oppression! else you'll kill the man in you.

She ought to call you, NOT the other way round. I'm just wondering, if you call first, what exactly will be your line of discourse? " I called to plead with you to kindly apologize to me" or Please beg me na? I Don't get it. Is there no man in you at all.

If at all you have any reason to call, an sms will do giving her a STRONG ULTIMATUM to release the certificate she is confiscating on/before (state deadline) else you'll involve the police. Some of the women we have around us nowadays, if you don't sternly handle their insolence, you'll have yourself to blame. The moment they see you as a sissy, they'll have no regard or respect for you and turn you into a vegetable.

Let your wife take up the issue of seized certificate with her and give her ALL the support you can - except if she wants us to believe that she doesn't need her certificates anymore. If possible, visit a police station, tender your grievance with evidences (since all effort to resolve it amicably through the family way has been thwarted). I remember you took pictures, present them as evidences. You may not lock her up (just based on family values/sentiments - but I think she deserves to be locked up if you ask me, even if it's just for a day or 2). You really need to drill some fear into this sister of yours.

I appreciate every gentle man, but sometimes people take gentility for cowardice. I'll always advise is that, for such people who take quietness for weakness, teach them a lesson that for every coin, there are two sides - you can be a gentle man and at the same time, blow hot when the need arises - Not until this point is proven, they will not restrain their craze when they meet you o!

you are all deceiving yourselves. does this thing work?

OP, PM me

muller101:
we know the chief cause of divorce is
marriage. People should stop getting married.

I absolutely agree with you. It's a scam.

cappinjerry:
My brother my simple advice for you is Quit! speaking from experience, you will never be happy. Same thing happened to me, i went ahead to marry now after two years she is gone, the family took her properties forcefully and the baby we had they have stopped me from seeing him. Don't listen to anyone telling u that you are married already.

Bros, can we chat ?

FortuneTeller:


Since he hasn't responded, I'm sure he did his "white" wedding today.

wishing him best of luck. Our "modern day" ladies are on rampage. Young men shouldn't be in a hurry at all. Sometimes I even begin to wonder if having baby mamas aren't better.

OP, Pls call me now...I have an experience to share with you.

This is an emergency;

081-4977-7036

hayjayman:



Aanu mi se e....

He'll be the one to delete it when you start with your wahala

MISSOPTIMIST:
Eloquent.. intelligent.. trimmed, tall and dark.. you have my attention.. I pray my future husband meets most of these oh..

Nice idea. How about those of us not on Watzapp?

bedspread:
Rev. ITS NOT BY FORCE NA....
THE MAN SAY E NO DO AGAIN.....
LET HIM BE NA!!

na wa for some people o! I just don't understand. Na by force?

location?

no issues?

creative imaginations

Lescalier:


This guy, u r very lucky!!!!

I say u r lucky because u still have a chance to live peacefully on earth.

A bad marriage is like living in hell on earth.

Assuming I wake up from dream now, and it's the day of my wedding, people are in church sitting down, reception venue set, i'll happily dress up casually, go to the church and beg everyone not to be disappointed.

You still have a week to think if u can cope.

As for what you told ur cousin, I'm guessing you should ve said it either to your wife or to your cousin infront of your wife. But that doesn't give her the audacity to speak to you in that manner.

Women these days have lost it. They are morally bankrupt.

extremely extremely fortunate. It's a sign. I feel you bro. Same here

periphetes:


Clouded post I have ever read, please tell me are you married at all?
If you are not then, you can hardly understand the travails of marriage and what is needed for both parties to be loving, caring and supportive to each other during trying times either in marriage or courtship.

When a man is facing temporary challenges, he needs encouragement, love and support from his partner. Not nagging coupled with insults from the woman, for a man to run away from home because of his wife, it means she's a terrorist who can kill a man fast with high blood pressure haba.

Sometimes I marvel at how ladies are totally over dependent on a man either during courtship or marriage. Now a married woman has the effrontery to tell her husband she will leave the marriage because of her demands are not been met.

#laughing#Please let her go, Menn don't ever beg a woman if she wants to leave you because your hustling to meet up her needs. Worst of all begging her family members or friends is outrightly moronic, where are they when you tried providing for your family. Don't ever lose your dignity as a man to them.

Advice ': Man if your hands are clean and you did nothing to upset your wife despite your hustle. Then forget about her keep providing for your kid, if she allows it fine and if not let her be. You will always be the father of the child till eternity, don't live a miserable life because of a bad woman who has your child and wants to enslave with it.

Lastly Never beg a woman, I repeat NEVER BEG a woman to stay or love you, if she decides to leave, let her Go! Else you will regret it.

Only matured well mannered and loving woman should be treated as a priceless Queen.

As if I dictated while you typed. You just said my mind!

I understand you bro. Just like my own case, growing up with limited resource. What I'll advise you do is: to keep her as a close friend - as close as possible and thread with caution. Don't deny yourself of everything, living an ascetic lifestyle simply because you want to wait till you have everything. Sometimes, it doesn't work that way. if she's really entrepreneurial as you described her, she'll support you and you'll both skate through. The worst is tangling with a lazy b.itch.

a lot more feminine...E come be like say I dey envy the guy sha

You work for every penny that you earn