Standstrong: I'm being seriously abuse at my current place of work by my boss.
I work in a hotel, one day in, one day out.
I started working there October last year, and I received the October salary ending of November after so much deductions that took almost 40% of what supposed to the salary. I received November salary middle of December (same thing) and since then, no payment again. We are in February and I have needs for the money.
Just in case he had forgotten, I earlier on reminded him of December salary and he didn't say a thing.
Due to my exposure in the hotel, over time, I'm experiencing some negative changes on my health.
At the close of work, I have no where else to sleep than to prepare a place at the open bar and that is where I sleep.
Cool air and mosquitoes deal with me to no small measure. As a result, I have been sick of constant malaria/typhoid and apparently, cold.
The cold part is evident at the constant chest pain and difficulty in breathing I have and sometimes I'm almost down completely due to it. I can't even carry myself to do what I'm supposed to do due to serious chest pains.
With all the symptoms of bad health, I need to visit hospital for care. So last week, knowing he was about to travel, I went to remind him of my salary so I can visit hospital. Since I know he's someone with anger issue, first, I pleaded he shouldn't be mad at me for approaching him concerning the matter. So he pretended to be calm but the moment I mentioned my salary, he went mad and emptied the whole glass of beer he was drinking on me, not minding the white shirt I was putting on.
Not just doing that, he stood up violently as though he wanted to slap me (have done that before) and that was when I shifted away from the place, with my whole body in mess.
The following day, he travelled. I thought he was going to pay me (even pay off) before traveling but he didn't.
With all the abuse and more going on in the place, I want to stop the work even though I have nothing else at hand now.
Some people are saying I should stop the work forthwith and "treat his f"up", but I don't understand what that means and I'm not ready for anything violence or will lead to someone else.
I just want to get my 2 months+ salary immediately so I can go to the hospital and check my health. I know how I am feeling inside me and life is only one. He can keep his job with abuse.
Na poverty and unemployment cause am.
How much is even the salary? Upon all the suffering in the place?
Please what is the best thing for me to do now?
Note: "treating his fk'up" is no option at all.
I will advice you quit the job. Leave him If he doesn't pay you your two months salary, There is a good job waiting for you soon. God has a way of dealing with such dubious and wicked people like your boss. He will regret his action soon.
Pussykills: I have come to the conclusion that I'm addicted to prostitutes. It started in 2010 when I first slept with a hooker. Its 13yrs now and I still patronise prostitutes. I slept with 155 of them, 55 were without protection.
The problem right now is that I don't have that much feelings for the new girl I'm dating. Since she's been in my life I have been able to stop but I noticed my soul still longs to experience that feeling of getting high and banging a hoxx.
In fact, I'm thinking if ending this relationship should be my next line of action.
This is not the first time, my past relationships ended because the feelings weren't there.
What would you suggest? Does sleeping with many partners make one loose the feeling of love? I don't get it, I can't even love, it's not just there.
Bros ur deliverance no b here ooo, u have to discipline urself first before anything else. Remember there is a way that seems right to a man but the end there of leads to death. Pls don't allow lust to overshadow the wonderful potential in u
[quote author=ahnie post=119678238]Point of correction,it's fuelling station,not filling station. Not fuelling station bro. It is either filling station or fuel station
Offpointng: Wizkid saying he's now an International material and would no longer be doing show in Nigeria again is rather shameful and a foolish thought.
Ion know why We Africans gotta make Inferiority Complex take a big toll on us. This is the same Nigeria and street that blow you and made you who you are. How many times have artist like Dababy, Lamar, Beyonce, Nicky feel very big for Performing anywhere in Africa??
If we had a Serious Government in 9ja, I expect a sanction on Wizkid with his songs banned on radio stations and Club houses.
You misquoted him, what he meant was no more payment for shows in Lagos. That means all his shows are free in Lagos, fans In Lagos need not to pay to see him for shows.
974 stadium named after Qatar international dialling code and 974 shipping containers were used for the construction of the stadium. The stadium was designed by Fenwick Iribarren
peteregwu: JUST IN: THE DAY 1 INSTANT TOUCH OF GOD AT " GOD HAS SWORN TO BLESS YOU", WARRI 2022.
Saturday 19th September 2022.
Interesting! The servant of God, Pastor Lazarus Muoka instructed the disabled to do whatever he instructs them to do, he confronted all ailments by the reason of the stripes given to Jesus Christ at the cross of cavalry and decreed strength and power to the weak. He cursed paralysis, ordered the cripple to walk, cancelled blindness and gave a blasting knockout to deaf and dumb declaring victory, deliverance and freedom to all who are oppressed by the enemy.
Astoundingly, his utterances birthed these:
1. A man, 40 years born deaf and dumb healed. 2. A man, 35 years born deaf and dumb healed. 3. A girl, 10 years born deaf and dumb healed. 4. A woman, 10 years stroke healed. 5. A woman, 20 years deaf and dumb healed. 6. A man, 3 years of partial stroke healed. 7. A woman, 5 years stroke healed. 8. A man, 4 years stroke healed. 9. A man, 7 years stroke healed. 10. A woman, 1 years stroke healed. 11. A woman, 3 weeks stroke healed. 12. A woman, 1 year stroke healed. 13. A man, 15 years stroke healed. 14. A man, 6 years kidney dieses healed. 15. A woman,1 month stroke healed. 16. A man, 3 years stroke healed. 17. A man, 6 months broken bone joined together. 18. A man, 1 month stroke healed. 19. A woman, 2 years paralysis unable to stand healed. 20. A man, 15 years hearing with one hear healed. 21. A woman, 4 months heart pain, swollen leg, swollen stomach healed. 22. A woman, 6 years paralysis healed. 23. A girl, 9 years born deaf and dumb healed. 24. A man, 6 months bone dislocation joined together. 25. A man, 5 months paralysis healed. 26. A man, 6 years paralysis healed. 27. A man, 11 months stroke healed. 28. A man, 15 years chronic waste pain healed. 29. A woman, 2 years leg pain healed. 30. A woman, 5 years paralysis healed. 31. A man, 1 year 6months stroke healed. 32. A woman, 2 years arthritis high blood pressure and Rheumatism healed. 33. A man, 7 years Rheumatism healed. 34. A woman, 3 years paralysis healed. 35. A man, 1 year broken waste healed. 36. A man, 3 years stroke healed.healinggg woman, 1 year and 7 months rheumatic pain healed. 38. A woman with 5 years of liver problems healed. 39. A man, 30 years deaf and dumb healed. 40. 2 girls, 16 and 18 years born deaf and dumb from the same mother healed. 41. A woman, 40 years can’t work chronic rheumatism healed. 42. A man,18 months broken leg healed.
Death every where. SARS should be reformed, so many miscreants are in SARS, the IG needs to look into this to stop the incessant killings and brutalities ravaging the country by SARS
johnjoshuaj: It all started last year September 28, when I made out with my ex, it was unprotected, prior to that she had already told me she's treating an infection but i nor still hear word i went ahead to run it raw
So after some time early this year when i went back to school, I started noticing some changes/symptoms, It was itching me and some itches maybe pus on the tip of my d*ck and before the tip. This prompted me to contact one of my course mates of which I explained everything to him, he requested I should go for urine and RVS test of which I did and the result came back sero negative for the RVS while the urine came back Yielded moderate growth of staphylococcus.
Then the nurse prescribed the treatment of which I came back the following day to start taking the treatment, the nurse gave me two 2nd generation antibiotics and I was injected for five days.. so after taking all these I was now perfectly fine and okay.. But again two months later I started noticing the same symptoms again, and it's been close to two months now I have been managing it like that because there's no way I could go back to the nurse because I'm very far away from school, because of the shutdown of schools.
Please Nairalanders I need your help on what to do, I'm not feeling okay with the stuff, its worrying me so badly and I can't stay a minutes without it itching me and I'm now feeling depressed over it now, please I really need your help please, thank you
Bros why u dey gbensh ur ex babe raw na see how raw done turn war to u, go hospital for better treatment
goodman41: I met her when she came for her IT at my place of work. One day I collected her number but I didn't call her till she finished her IT and went back to school.
One day I called to inform her that I will like us to go into a relationship which she accepted. I told her that l'm not looking for a girlfriend but a wife. I asked her if she has a boyfriend but she said yes but she will never marry the guy because there are some things she will consider in terms of marriage.
I called her to visit me but she was doing promise and fail. I told her that I'm not inviting her for sex that sex is nothing for me. She said okay, that I should send transport money, I tried using my phone to transfer 2k for her but it was not going, so I told her that it was not going she said I should go and use ATM but I told her that I don't have that time that she should borrow from her roommate and come or she should forget about coming until when I will be able to use my phone to do the transfer. So that evening she called that she will come the next day being Sunday that she borrowed money from her roommate.
When she came on Sunday I put movie for her and kept my self busy with my laptop, she started feeling sleepy which I told her to go and sleep on the bed which she went, after I was through with my laptop I asked her if I can join her she said yes, I now joined her in the bed before we knew it we started kissing and romancing each other and we had sex.
After the sex she said that but you told me you don't like sex I told her I like sex but I don't take it serious. She said okay I understand. I now took her out spent like 3k, the following morning I gave her 4k for her transport and she was happy.
After one week she called that I should send her airtime I told her that am not sending she said okay without being angry, when she visited for the second time she asked why did I refuse to send her card I told her that I don't like sending card to people she said okay. So am seeing her as people, i told her don't worry any time I feel like I will send to her, but she said if i send it that she will send it back to me.
I asked her about her boyfriend she said that she has ended the friendship but my mind is telling she is lying, she cleaned my house and cooked for me before going back to school that she doesn't want me to be eating outside, she asked me to give her money to do hair which I gave her 3k for both her transport and the hair, she said the money is small but she Will add her own so she collected it without any issue.
Am not the type that use to call every day but she asked me to be calling her every day to make our relationship grow stronger, she was telling me the other day that she will visit me one day without telling me to see if I have another girl.
Please is this girl really serious with this relationship or she just wants to use me?
Now that you have tasted her honey pot, d decision is best known to you if she is serious or unserious. If she hasn't given it to you, i know by now u will b d one calling her frequently. Bros do d right thing
TheExecutioner: Pastors should only give to Christians in need. Followers of the begging religion should be ignored.
Maintain Social and Spiritual Distance from the religion of animals which has held Leah Sharibu captive and dehumanised her.
this message is for you Ephesians 1 vs 16 -17
16 do not cease to give thanks for you, making mention of you in my prayers: 17 that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of glory, may give to you the spirit of wisdom and revelation in the knowledge of Him,
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