₦airaland Forum

MrBrownJay1:
Then let wifey talk to hubby to have a sound will in place.

That is a good advice but we know most men will not take such advice in good faith and some would accuse their wives of wanting them to die soonest, living in denial about the fact that men are more likely to die before their wives.

RonKenoly:
The country is changing before our very eyes, and the leaders are not putting any policy in place to help our depressed youth. I wish I have the resources to start an NGO on it.

We don't take depression seriously in Nigeria.

If you can get a counselling/clinical psychologist to come talk to people in your church/area on pro bono, it would be a good starting point.

This ones will be poking EFCC for attention with their noise making, when they get arrested now they would want hashtag to trend on their behalf!

I see this 5, I see dysfunctional childhood.

Sigh...

MrBrownJay1:
Hurting how?! I don't see the father (aka owner of the said house) complaining, therefore why should anyone?!

That's the route that has led many widows and their children to be thrown out after the demise of the man.

Flye:
Lol, every country with their problem, here in Nigeria woman is our last problem.
Pls where is their embassy, I want to relocate ooo.

Just make sure you don't return to Nigeria with HIV from a country that has highest prevalence of HIV among adults aged 15 to 49 in the world.

valentineuwakwe:
Good one for the development of education in the country, but what about the first and second candidates?

Their own lawmakers should also offer them scholarships.

Fraudsters on the pulpit.

The drama before giving each of them N500k.

mankettle:
I am not Sir. I am aware if that fact and I have taken same into consideration. whether jointly or separately owned it makes no difference. she sues him for her share while the buyer will contend with her too. NO CRIME was committed.

I hope your view stands in a law court.

Amuocha:
But where is lalasticlala sef
Our route from Cameroon to Abia is made easier

Do our people still go to Cameroon to hustle? That was a 80s/90s runs!

The issue here is the Dad, as he seems to be getting his validation from spoon feeding his brother. He sees no inconvenience nor the wildfire that would erupt when he is no more.....the brother is hanging around with no motivation to be independent as he is eyeing what his brother owns.

The wife should make sure, what the family owns in the urban area also has her name and daughters names on it.

Some men just do not see anything wrong in placing their wives and children at the mercy of their extended family members when they are no more despite the raw deal they are certainly going to get and how we get to see it happen often.

Knew of a similar situation, happened in the early 2000s where the man had 3 daughters and had his younger sister who had separated from her husband come live with his family with her children, the man taking full responsibility for them and this made his other siblings see his house as their family house , his wife and daughters relegated to the background.

When he died, his siblings took over and sold the house. The wife and daughters left with nothing, their saving grace was that the wife's family didn't abandon them. They are all now living with their mother in the Netherlands, 2 of the daughters are now married to Dutch husbands while their father's family have been disturbing them to bring their husbands to the village to pay their bride price, a village they last visited when their father died. They boldly told their paternal uncles that they will never come down for any traditional wedding nor are they going to even get a chicken from them.

"Their arrest came following the petition of a neighbour, who had a suspicion over their lifestyle as they had no known source of income ... Commendable.

I know with the internet one do not need to step out of his/her house everyday to earn an income but let it be verifiable and legitimate.

Best for her.

JustCare:
Is Pericoma the father

Yes.

Who would have thought such a woman married Pericoma, a traditionalist!

ITGTRAVELS:
Does this mean anyone who needs to reapply will have to do for an interview?

Sadly, YES.

Yawa don gas!

Sad.

emperorblog21:
bros how far nah

hows kenya.


i need ur help o dis country don tirr me.


c
am a blogger and a dropshipper can u give me a break down of how someone can stay in kemya lehitly for like 3-4 years.


cost of house rent
and also how someone can start a better business there. u can give me hint on business thag move fine.


because am thinking ig i can go therr i will just face my online business


blogging, dropshipping buh it might be hard.

and people will suspect o

For you to stay that length of time, it is safer to come in as a student and so you get to become a legal resident.

Nice one.

Evangkatsoulis:
if an ordinary nairalander tries to view profile of a deactivated account, one sees nothing but "this account has been deactivated".

Yes, moderators view more features even view hidden posts.

Inspiring.

Evangkatsoulis:
So moderators can view profiles of deactivated accounts?

As in?

mankettle:
sincerely sir, it is NOT a criminal offense to dispose of ones property. even the police are aware that was why he was charged under 249 breach of public peace and not 419, or 390(9) which is fraud or stealing

Why are you ignoring the fact that it is jointly owned, not solely owned?

See as dem quote Nairaland.

My home constituency.

mankettle:
travesty of Justice. he has the perogative to render his family homeless. it is HIS family. morever some offences are not criminal, some are civil. if I decide to vacate the house, sell it and marry another wife. I have committed no crime maybe I have offended u civilly

It is criminal to solely sell off a jointly owned asset without consent, irrespective of relationship with joint owner. That rogue is certainly coughing out his wife's share and very free to go remarry.

Yawns.......

mankettle:
tough luck

That is why he has been arrested as he has no right to render his family homeless. That marriage is already over, the woman and her family will be focused on getting her share of the proceeds from the sale.

Continuous self development makes one feel immune to ageism.