DiskJokeyManic:
I no fit carry woman wey no love my family come house...... I dey mad?😐😐😐😐😐 De ones wey dey love deir husband/fiance family get 2 heads?

Rubbish😐

Make your family self love your wife too oo

Juliearth:
Can a family love their son and not extend same to the wife?

Good question

minakom:
My own reason is to make money. Every other thing I hear people say is for their children, safety, healthcare. Who tell una sey dem no dey die abroad or them no dey kill people. Nowhere on earth is safe ooo.
Please share your opinions

Who tell you say them no dey make money for Nigeria?

Chibuzoripob:
Somebody/the owners of this farm will struggle day/night,pay labourers to work for him.Only for some bastards to go steal & destroy his farm.What stopped him from working? His excuse isn't tenable..They should flog him,cook four of the plantain for him then,he should work in the farm for 6 months with paltry pay

Hmmm! On top wetin? Na wa for you ooo

Microwhy:

True talk..
Your In-laws are not your friend....... hmmmmm!
Never knew it was a saying, just playing around with the thought in my head.
No matter how good or nice you tend to be, it always end-up terrible expecially towards any of the in-laws living with you guys.

Marrying the only son doesn't guarantee enjoyment

Rokiat:
Lemme spell it in capital letters


NARCISSISTIC MOTHER


Mother daughter jealousy is a real thing. Some mothers are jealous of their daughters and never want better for them.

Especially if your marriage is flourishing and your husband is loving on you and hers wasn’t like that she’s gonna hate you. You have to be smart and know how to handle such toxic mothers nothing you do will ever be good enough because she only love herself. You have to move accordingly and set boundaries to protect your mental health else you will mirror her and do to
Your own kid the same she’s doing to You.




You have to start unlearning some of the toxic things she taught you and how she raised you so you can do better with your own kids else the circle will
continue because narcissists parents breed narcissists kids.

Also you are now an adult and have to
Set boundaries with your mother quite frankly don’t give a F about her feelings and don’t be scare about telling her your mind. You have to set boundaries with her. If she’s this toxic cut her off, be kind and respectful to her but keep a distance from her.

Thanks for sharing 🙏
This was helpful

rickleye:
2 weeks
There might be other candidates to interview. After which HR summarizes the candidates and discusses with MD. They will then prepare an acceptance letter with benefits to get it approved.
After which you will be called to either say we would like a second interview or welcome aboard.
Ideally, when I am asked how soon can I start - My response is always, I would like to give my present company professional curtesy of 1 week to find a replacement.

What if you tell them that you will like to give your present one month, will they still call you?

atobs4real:
You carry your opportunity come online. Go ahead b4 your village People follow u.

No mind am

checkmatez:
too stressful, this mail is for the second stage, if successful then you go for a 4 or 5 days training (classes and exams immediately after) all through the 4/5 days bootcamp..starts by 8 and closes by 5..
After that those involved will still be screened again...
Abeg na long story

Good things doesn't come easily, there are sacrifices to pay.

checkmatez:
too stressful, this mail is for the second stage, if successful then you go for a 4 or 5 days training (classes and exams immediately after) all through the 4/5 days bootcamp..starts by 8 and closes by 5..
After that those involved will still be screened again...
Abeg na long story

Good things doesn't come easily, there are sacrifices to pay.

Edipet:
I applied for graduate management trainee and took the online test. Please who has worked for this company before or have an idea about them.

A friend of mine works with them, he also introduced our company to them and now we are one of their vendors.

Edipet:
are you currently with them. Am just considering if it worth traveling to lagos from akwa ibom just for the test

Please it's worth traveling to Lagos.
We are one of their vendors.

[quote author=Odewaleadesoye post=117858131][/quote] Whatsapp is back

gaetano:


https://fox8.com/news/snake-bites-2-year-old-kid-bites-back-killing-it/

"she had been playing with the snake" Are you rearing a snakes?

Nonexisting:
It's one of my fears of having a child. I can't forgive God and myself if I mistakenly born female pikin. Na to use her do money ritual straight and wait for a real pikin-boy child.

There's power in our tongue

Nonexisting:
It's one of my fears of having a child. I can't forgive God and myself if I mistakenly born female pikin. Na to use her do money ritual straight and wait for a real pikin-boy child.

There's power in our tongue �

DKM123:
The problem with not raising up a boychild properly is that they will show you pepper physically when they come of age. They will sell your house and steal your properties, beat and even KILL you.

That's why raising a boy child requires serious effort. I can't say you did poorly just because you are a single mother afterall those armed robbers and ritualist usually have fathers and I have seen boys who choose not to follow "wicked trends" cos they pity thier SINGLE MOTHERS who suffered to raise them.

In any case, what your boys need is TALK, TALK, TALK. They are too old to be beaten by the way. How can you raise your hands on a 17year old boy? All the beating you have been doing obviously didn't work. Infact, from the age of 12, you shouldn't be flogging them. You should be doing more of talking and advicing on a daily basis. Use every story you come across to advice and teach.

Don't take them to the village. Pretend to have HBP and pretend to be bed ridden for two weeks. Don't bring a dime so they understand real hunger. Send them to go get food on credit from the shops on the street. Let them understand shame. Insist that they caused you to be that way and be crying all the time. Work on thier conscience but not in a quarrelsome way. Sting thier heart and let them know they need you and should change if they don't want to lose you.
Let's see if they will change.

I support you on this. When better hungry beat them no be person go tell them to reset their brain

princeemmma:
Looking at the picture I remember our marching in song back then

H.I.P for the Hip for the Hi po po

Add yours

We H A P P Y HAPPY

GloriousGbola:


because life without responsibilities is different
also couples can end up growing in different directions

raising children, paying bills, general living - your job - all these get in the way

when you were dating the most you may have had on your neck is small job pressure

also, once you get married - there will be friction - family members, money, habits, etc

and people change in ways the SO may not like.

there are so many women i know who have become much much more religious than they were when they were younger.
imagine if you marry someone like poco and she becomes mummy GO in her older years

some guys hit money and the dog they chained breaks loose. i have also seen that one happen

romance get k leg when you have pikin. esp in naija. we dont do the babysitter thing where you get some secondary school aged girl to watch the kids while you go out on a date

in short, life happens

Words of wisdom

StilmaVsBorn2w:

Why would I carry it to the village..?
It's already in the morgue, for her people arrival, it's their daughter.
Have done my most vital parts borrowing money to save her now am in debts, if you want me to marry her corpse because am scared. My brother your wrong.

You are very wicked person with the way you respond. Somebody's daughter died and you feel no remorse about the families state nau but running your mouth like tap water � there

GreatAdvice:
This is an unfortunate situation. But let's not forget that the girl stole her madam's money and used it to buy buns. I feel sorry for the girl for receiving such excessive maltreatment but i'm also happy because I know she will never do such again. Her madam may have changed the trajectory of this young girl, maybe she could've turned out to be a hardened criminal in the future but after such beating she will never commit any crime again. I will advise the the Police to forgive the madam because she's pregnant and the embarrassment she will face from all the press this story is receiving is more than enough punishment.

Oga na 100 she take o

OKOATA:
The kind of pain they feel isn't even a psychological pain o, there's this body pain I just can't explain, the pain stays in their joint, chest, it's like they will start feeling the pains all over like someone beat them with sticks, Its like a torment or some kind of tortue. Taofeek would cry every night before he went to bed, he would fall sick for days, there was no day he was ever ok. Funniest thing he was so intelligent, he would curse and curse his parents. He died while writing jamb. It was so sad. One of my bros friend too would borrow us PS1 CDs then, I aksed my bro he said he just died of sickle cell, I normally go cross my dog with a friend across the street, didn't know he was SS until he died. In a summary SS usually die at the end so what's the point in keeping the baby since the probability he's still gonna die. Why let him pass through the torture and pain .

Hmm! Anybody can die at the end not only SS

Easyincome24:
This book right here made our childhood days awesome.

Teachers then ensured we commit it to memory even if one couldn't pronounce or identify each word for word.

As I try to reminisce about this book. I could aptly see how our culture was portrayed in the book usually a one in a million for primary three pupils.

Our education standard was still something to reckon with back then.

Try to read between the lines, you will understand that a family is a unit that is very important in a community.

If a home fails to bring up their children uprightly, it's sure that the society will be wrecked.

Try to revisit all these books used way back in the 80's and 90's you will understand why values should be taught from homes before expecting teachers and government to emulate same.

My love for this book and the characters knows no bounds.

Share your experience Nairalanders.

Agbo live in the town of Lagoon

emmanuelbrown26:

When it comes to DV, women are simply d cause, that's d fact. I would hv narrated stories upon stories but I won't go their bcs this is not why we are here.
Yes I know some stupid men in boys skin that can't reason at all.
Yes I know some men that are not worthy to be called men at all.
Yes I know some idiotic men in boys skin that are not suppose to associate with human beings.
But domestic violence are being caused by women and d earlier women start knowing that they are d cause d better for them

how are DV being caused by women

oluwaseyi0:
Another evidence that prayers don't work ... at all

No matter how you wish it to work it simply doesn't work

it is of the Lord mercy that we are not consumed.. Hmmmmm

Newsmic:
Woman Poisons Her Two Children To Death, Stabs Herself After Separation From Husband (Photo)



https://www.instagram.com/p/CaxWm7St3xO/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Snapping together as a family does not determine a happy home. Please, don't be carried away

Arlington:
Hello everyone,

I wanted to start this for women who are still waiting for a child, who have tried for a long time, have suffered miscarriages, still births  and  are trying to find alternative ways of having a child.

In our culture it is really difficult to talk about this as people are ashamed or don't know who to trust  and are just generally confused. I have suffered 2 miscarriages and i am still on this journey i believe that i will  be a mother some day.

We believe in Nigeria after 2 years  and no child you have major issues especially from your village but i know that is not always true.

So please come in let us support one another we can pray together, share ideas  seek advice and get advice  and travel this road together dont suffer in silence don't cry alone anymore let us help each other, until the day we carry our bundle of joy.
(My own bundle of joy was born December 2010 nothing is impossible with God)

Good evening everyone, I appreciate the information i have gotten so far. Please help a sister, can one use bromocripton and vitamin b6 at the time

Emmanuel909090:



Nah, far from that.
Are you saying ladies should not genuinely fall in love with rich guys?

I had cars all through my days in school, but I never knew anything like yahoo.

Even looking at the boy that killed her, you can never assume that little boy will know anything called ritual.

Even though I understand where you are coming from, that doesn't warrant killing them in this painful manner.

" that doesn't warrant killing them in this painful manner." What other way should they kill them?

fluffybaby:


And you think those girls who hustle for money can't still be used by their husbands for rituals? I like how we place bandage on festering wounds instead of treating the wound.

This is not to be compared to yahoo +

Piptocoin:


As long as money is easy bait for girls we have not seen the end of this menace. What would a little girl like that be doing with a guy when she has her studies and future to give all her attention? The truth, however, is there is more to this story and whatever we think or say is mere speculation.

Not just "What would a little girl like that be doing with a guy" but in an hotel.

anthonyuncle:
so she's older and still has eyes on his money?

what is all that age for?

Don't forget that we are talking about his wife and not girl friend/side chick.

suffering:
Do it first let us find out.

Must you make comment