₦airaland Forum

My personal opinion has always been that people who bring their marital issues online are emotionally"downtrodden".... serious minded people won't have time for people like you, so you won't even get their advice. Teenagers will give you all the advice you need....so go ahead and quit the marriage since that's what you want to hear.

delkuf:
Good Nairaland I don't normally do this, bringing my family issue here but this issue is pissing me off.

Here is the story. I got married last year, and I thought I have known her enough that was why I married her. But to my surprise I started discovering that she is too stiff. She is too hard. When she says she is not doing something, that is it, she won't do it.

Sometimes if am broke, and I ask for Small amount of money, most time I want to use that money to get means for bigger money, she won't give.

She gives me time for sex. Presently am down with fever and the only thing she has ever asked me is how is your body. No what will you take or something. Am starting to think of quitting the marriage. The only issue is that she is pregnant and this is my first child.

Those set of people hardly have any personal sense of direction and achievement..... everything is easy for them.

iamdrduru:
people like you would always complain. if govt build, you would complain, if they don't, you would also complain. infact pleasing Nigerians is impossible

I don't know what you deem to be rude in what I just said. You telling me that you stay in Enugu makes no sense to me. So i am saying that your defense doesn't hold water sir.

explosiveskull:
you needn't be rude to me too sir.
thank you sir.

Sorry about this. I also suggest that when he shows signs of improvement that you consider changing his environment as earlier suggested. It would go a long way in alienating him from his regular and known source of drug supply.

star4ever:
Most of his friends that started this lifestyle with him later abandoned drug abuse. All of them are now married and have education, families and means of livelihood.

As you recommended, we may need to change to another Psychiatric hospital. Please can you recommend any?

He is right about what? You staying in the governor's village is inconsequential

explosiveskull:
but he is right na, I stay in enugu.

Yes sir. Let me see what your dad achieved in the last 20years

Rawtruth1:
So this is all Ugwuanyi achieved for over five years?

Pained fellow

4ckz:
Celebrating nonsense.
When would he finish the world class state secretariate Sullivan started?

Last time I came to Enugu it was yet to be completed, something that was almost done before Sullivan left office.

Look at what you want us to celebrate, looking like a secondary school.

Once again nonsense!

She is a typical Afonja filled with hate for Igbos....her own hate just came out of her inner being...she was almost being suffocated to death for lurking what she felt inside of her. So she will learn her lessons for it. Even Tinubu may have some hatred for Igbos but he won't ever say it... that's self control. She could as well go commit suicide

NwekeUG:
https://igberetvnews.com/1351704/rant-hq-facebook-group-owner-suzan-ade-coker-fire-loses-followers-insulting-igbos-photos/

These are all lies.....this country never worked even before independence and would probably never work. So shove it.

sarrki:
Nigeria hostess in 1973, Nigeria leaders are among the best in the world. They have turned Nigeria airways to a super intercontinental carrier with 1500 destination across the globe, generating 150 billion naira yearly and providing jobs to 10,000 Nigerians, Kenya and Ethiopia, South Africa and the United Arab Emirates have indicated interest in learning the magic industrious Nigerians, now the towering pride of the black world.

One day this useless government will tell us who the "Presidency" is/are.

You are going around quoting everyone that they didn't read the article.....you are the one that didn't read the article...all you have in your head is what you watched on television. Go back to that article and re-read the last paragraph. They have picked over a thousand persons from five countries to test the efficacy and dosage and you here trotlin like a ogbuawa byke. These countries won't be US, China, or even the UK. Get yourself acquainted with world politics and stop feeling fly for nothing.

gretblue:
Unfortunately you only read the headline

There is more to this corona virus than we know. Its not natural, there are some elements of human control, China has a lot of answers to give the world. No government will confront China just yet until they have received enough "safe" ventilators and masks. Otherwise, China will supply your country health kits smeared with the most deadly form of Covid 50 ....if you manage to survive it you will keep your mouth shut forever.

Just make sure you don't die on top this topic

ThatFairGuy:
Watch as our brother's from the East calls her name's now, this is when they'll know she is this, she's that. But they can believe any of her stories against FG. Hypocrites
Observing

Modified:
See them above and below me, can you now see our brother's from the far East are chameleon


Modified again: check those pictures
Our brothers from the East are so much hypocritical in nature, so kemi is no more a reliable source for news in just how many hours after Kyari's death?

It's written all over you that you need medical attention....

NextD18:
99.696% of people in Aba are not normal.

You seriously don't get the point....you derailed. There is nothing quite different from what FFk posted to what the woman said. If you hope to see that happen in Africa...sorry in advance you ain't seeing shit. People like you enjoy to hallucinate on bad news about Africa.

wirinet:
And FFK and you are the voltron of Africa? Africa has about 52 countries, but it's FFK and you that is taking it so personal, why? She did not mention Nigeria not to talk of your tribe or family name. Why the personal insults on Bill and Melinda Gates? Nigerians always want to be famous for the wrong reasons.

Very dumb government

He is the poor

shogz89:
how much have you given to the poor?

State the address of this location in Enugu ...... Hate filled soul

enehvictor:
Look at these pictures very well.

It's an Isolation Centre in Enugu,earmarked to quarantine Coronavirus patients.

It's provided by one of the most incompetent governors in the history of your country, Governor Ifeanyi Ugwuanyi ,they also call him Gburugburu.

When it comes to incompetence, he's in a head and neck competition with Mbuhari.

This is a "Mortuary" in the name of an Isolation Centre.

This is a "Cemetery" in the name of an Isolation Centre

This is a sorry sight and stomach churning!

Do you still remember��?

When the Fulani herdsmen slaughtered scores of innocent people in Nimbo,in Ùzó Úwani L.G.A of the State,he did nothing,but only went to Abuja to cry before Mbuhari

There is no government here,take the precautionary measures by yourself and families.

What we have is a voodoo government.

I rest my case!

Cry cry baby. We know you lots.... full of envy .. anything to discredit the governor

What happens to the status quo where persons prefer hiring senior advocates to photocopying their waec cert??

The airport staff disgust me alot with their begging.....after scanning my bags and intestine you turn around to request money for lunch....

bamangar:
What Made A White Man Married To Nigerian Lady Vow Never To Visit Nigeria Again

A twitter user @ozorcchristian narrated an incident of a (couple) Nigerian woman married to a white man who visited Nigeria on holiday, the encounter that caused the man to vow never to visit Nigeria again.



https://mobile.twitter.com/ozorcchristian/status/1235892876791418880

Big boys movie....... No too much stress when you have made it and you want to have some fun in any area or profession of your interest. No pressure to "hammer"

Why are your politicians running to US to acquire citizenship for themselves and their children.

Rossinnki:
Approximately 17,000 Americans are shot dead annually in the USA by fellow Americans.

This is direct from the FBI:

''In 2018, the estimated number of murders in the nation was 16,214. This was a 6.2 percent decrease from the 2017 estimate, a 14.5 percent increase from the 2014 figure, and a 5.3 percent increase from the number in 2009.''

https://ucr.fbi.gov/crime-in-the-u.s/2018/crime-in-the-u.s.-2018/topic-pages/murder


When we say that you Nigerian youths are the dumbest, most uninformed, ignorant, self-loathing group of people on earth, you wonder why.

Nigeria is far safer than the USA, but the way you imbeci.les go online rubbishing Nigeria daily, and making out that she is the most dangerous and worst place on earth, talking every day about ''insecurity'' because you stupidly think everywhere outside Nigeria is paradise on earth. Is that not how you guys end up in slavery in Libya?

Today the whole world is scared of visiting Nigeria because of you people.

People think they will be killed by Boko Haram or 'Fulani herdsmen' the minute they step foot in Nigeria, courtesy of you SCUMBAGS that go around smearing this country.

Mumu people. Keep hating your country, you hear? Shebi Trump has banned you. Tomorrow may others follow suit. So that finally you will start to focus on investing in your own society, instead of hating it.

Americans suffer 10 times more ''insecurity'' than Nigerians, but how often do you see Americans blaming Trump, or condemning their nation online as a ''shiithole'', or ''zoo'', or ''failed state'', and all these hateful adjectives you imbecil.es use to describe Nigeria?

Idiots drowning in inferiority complex and self hate..

Oh and guess what. You think that US murder rate is high?

Wait till you see the annual death rate from drug ovedose:

''More than 70,200 Americans died from drug overdoses in 2017, including illicit drugs and prescription opioids—a 2-fold increase in a decade''

https://www.drugabuse.gov/related-topics/trends-statistics/overdose-death-rates

Those deaths could be ended tomorrow if the US govt was not run by corrupt people benefitting hugely from the drug trade. Those drugs pass through US borders! Bribery and corruption by US officials and senior politicians allows this to fester unchecked.

Is any of this comparable to the few hundred people killed by herdsmen and BH per year? Nope.

But foreigners believe Nigeria is 100 times more dangerous than the USA because of what NIGERIANS post about their own country online daily.

USELESS SET OF PEOPLE. YOU'RE YOUR OWN WORST ENEMIES.

If they want to recall Igbo lawmakers it would be based on FG not purchasing Innoson cars? That's silly. How about recalling lawmakers based on insecurity and marginalization? How many Innoson cars did Anambra State buy for official use??

Saintbossman:
TENSION OVER RECALL OF ALL IGBO FEDERAL LAWMAKERS OVER INNOSON MOTORS FAILED DEAL WITH REPS, AS IGBO STAKEHOLDERS MEET IN LAGOS.

There is tension over the threat to recall all Igbo Federal Lawmakers both at the upper and lower chambers if they fail to reconsider buying their utility vehicles from Innoson motors.

The tension became more tensed as the body Igbo National Stakeholders' Assembly (INSA) which issued the threat announced an emergency meeting. The apex Igbo Political group has slated the meeting to hold this weekend in Lagos.

In a press statement made available to newsmen, the President General of the group Chief John Uche said that the recall of the lawmakers and 2023 Presidency would top the agenda of the meeting.
The statement reads;

"All Igbo National Stakeholders' Assembly (INSA) chapters Worldwide are hereby directed to attend an emergency meeting of INSA which will hold on Friday 28th of February 2020 in Lagos. Letters of invitation have been sent to those outside Nigeria. We expect all continents to be represented not minding this short notice.

It is high time we hold those we sent to Abuja to represent us responsible for the underdevelopment of our land. We shall also discuss other urgent national issues including 2023 Presidency as all eyes are now on Igbo to produce the next President of Nigeria after President Buhari's tenure."

We wish also to authenticate through this release the mails sent to all our First Class Kings, Community Leaders, Youths and Women groups, Political groups and Civil Societies informing them of the second and concluding part of the meeting which would in Umuahia in March 2020.

Signed
Chief John Uche
President General Igbo National Stakeholders' Assembly (INSA) Worldwide.

You are the definition of a failure......
Failed people always look for the next person to blame. If you weren't married you would have blamed your mother. Get yourself back up and see beyond your current challenges. Your wife isn't responsible for your misfortunes. Shit do happen and you have to take it headlong.

Handsomejok:
Before marrying my wife, my business was moving well. I had an appliances big shop with full of things. I made a lots of money monthly and was able to pay all my bills and take care of my single mother and siblings without fail.

Bbut since we got married, just two months and 5 days after our marriage, my shop caught fire. I have lost almost everything only managed to save some few things, had to pay for all the damages to my landlord (the shop owner ) I’m still owning him money and I’m now renting a small shop but things are not working.

I have so much debts to pay to so many people including my previous shop landlord, can’t afford a 3 square meals, can’t afford to pay house rent, can’t afford to pay my shop rent and we have moved to my parents house.

My wife is pregnant and due in April, we haven’t bought anything for the baby. I wish never met her in my life cos she has completely destroyed my life and I have nothing left. She is evil. Haven’t confronted her cos of her condition, don’t want to add more stress to her and am waiting for her to put to bed then I will confront her and chase her away. I will keep the baby with me so she can go with her child she had before we met. I just hate her so much and I want nothing to do with her anymore.

Please what do you suggest I do?

I think the best thing anybody can wish this country now is division. With the current state of things nothing will ever get better from the side of government.

News like this should be seen as foreign news for people from the East.

You are everywhere like a disoriented rabid dog spewing trash that can only come from the Waste side . You people are well known all over Nigeria.

they would rather blame others for the foolishness of their forebears, all they have been taught on radio Biafra is to shout Yoruba,like we sent azikwe and his herds of imbeciles on a suicide mission.
they were shouting and bleating gej2015 after the elections they started shouting Biafra.

Still better than Keke. I hate to see Keke in the cities. Enugu State government should ban Keke inside the main city. They litter everywhere

Rip

Igbo man born of Afonja parents .....don't let anyone deceive you that you are an Igbo man. Tuah

Rossippi:
Bro, I am an Igbo man.

Again: WHO IS THAT PERSON IN THE VIDEO? THAT IS ALL WE ARE ASKING.

HAS HE NOT GOT A NAME?

Kai.... You people are a disgrace.

Shamelessly displaying your imbecility online.

You are just disgracing Igbos. Tufia unu.

Outsiders who didn't participate in the elections were able to spot what a fraud the judgment was.

Meanwhile, some fellows here are so myopic and self centered that all they care about is"win"....

APC never got one thing I mean one single thing right. Criminals everywhere.

I personally view APC supporters to be people with the lowest form of brain activity and intelligence......

Technology will take over all forms of advertisement in the nearby future.

There are smart TVs enabled with cameras. While you watch television programs, your TV watches your eye and other bodily movements as you get excited or otherwise.

These data will be fed into tech apps that will automatically suggest similar programs or dresses etc that got you excited.....all these items will be marketed to you.

Then companies would pay heavily to have access to these data (people's likes and dislikes) and eventually, it would give companies idea of where they have more potential clients.

Adverts will then been channelled specifically to the right audiences.